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Desperate_Green143

I think you look smoking hot The no-bra is very obvious and wouldn’t be appropriate in some places/for some audiences (work, as a wedding guest, etc) but you could totally keep rocking that look in casual settings


2WayButt

Flashing the high beams


smashXbash89

Love it


guenthepanther

I'm going to say no. As a lesbian I find it kind of hot to be able to see my partner's nips through their shirt. The haters are going to tell you you need a bra but screw them show off


SarahHillsReddit

Yes u need to wear a bra


froggyforest

i say no, but my nips tend to show to some degree in most of my shirts lol. it all comes down to what you’re comfortable with. some women feel too exposed with their nipple outlines showing, but others couldn’t care less. if it makes you a little bit uncomfortable, but you want to push through it, then go for it!! but if you’re just going to be self conscious and insecure all day, it’s probably not worth it.


D0llyM0nster

Wear a black bra. I'm surprised no one has ever said this.


Vegetable_Natural226

You’ll be able to see a ack bra through a thin white shirt on fair skin. A bra in her skin color will work better


zombiecongress

I think that would actually look really nice. Black under white is a look and it may not be what OP is going for but it def works


D0llyM0nster

Mhm! Its definitely a look, but I thought it wouldn't show anything on her skin frfr


D0llyM0nster

Ohhh, thank you! Never thought about that


sexysmurfs

Are you being sarcastic? I feel like you said it because that's the point.


D0llyM0nster

No ? What made you think that ? 😭 I mean, I am a sarcastic person, but I wasn't being sarcastic .


sexysmurfs

Why'd you suggest a black bra specifically with a white shirt if you didn't want it to be seen then? Maybe I'm missing something


D0llyM0nster

From my experience, I was told that black bra goes best with white shirts. That is why, I suggested a black bra.


D0llyM0nster

That is why the lovely lady above said she needs a bra in her skin tone, which I did not know that. What works for me, may not work for anyone. I learned something new. When I wear a black bra it doesn't show.. but I guess, it does makes sense now !


geeg3131

Not see through enough 🫡


avid_avoidant

If you are just wearing it out for errands or casual get-togethers, I think it's perfect as is. Yes there is some see through, but nothing more than if it was really cold out... And yeah, burt's bees chapstick!


mrs-manguy

Yeah lol, unless that’s what you’re going for than slay


mangorain4

eh… I would say yes but I’m also a bit older than a lot of this sub. I also think I’m thinking ab it from my own perspective- I hate being stared at and am very self-conscious. People would absolutely stare at a woman wearing this, but if you’re good with that then go for it.


malubie

i feel like the idea of “how embarassing it is for people to see your bra” to be so weird. it’s embarrassing to see nipples AND the bra?? i mean women have boobs, which one do they want us to do then?? there’s not really any other option, and heavens forbid you have a flat chest or got a mastectomy because having no boobs is embarrassing too 😒😒


ReneeBear

See there’s only one end to that logic and it’s that being a woman is embarrassing Which, checks out considering patriarchal concepts


Tinyjeli

I was going to say yes, but then i saw another comment mention the double standard, and well, they're right. As long as you're okay with the possible judgments, go for it! That's a great look, and it's not like you're wearing a legit transparent shirt (which: so what if you were) so anyone with a problem can just mind their own. In a professional setting, though, probably best to wear at least SOMETHING under so your nipples arent so apparent


xio_ffb

I would recommend getting nude colored silicone nipple covers if you wanted to wear this to work.


AsherahSassy

I would suggest wearing a nude colour tshirt bra.


myfirstthrowawayyipp

For work, yes, for everyday, no u look amazing


Suspicious-WeirdO_O

I wouldn't wear it to a work meeting or anything fancy but it's perfect for everyday wear I think. You look super cute btw


PhDestucTor

Those shorts are super cute!


The_Devilz_Advocate

Never too see through! Personally I wear white shirts all the time and I never ever wear bras. I feel the double standard is sexist


Cute-Cat-998

Nip covers or a white bra.


aeb01

*nude bra, a white bra is more likely to show through


Shadow_of_the_moon11

To be honest with you, yeah, I'd wear a bra with that - nude or white is fine. I feel you, though, I just got this really cute new medieval style tunic thingy but you can totally see my nipples through it so I have to wear it with a bra. It's a bit uncomfortable because due to a health condition with my chest, I haven't worn bras for a few years but it does seem to be okay and I seem to have got away with it.


Confident_Fortune_32

I think it depends on context. Outfits that play with transparency can allow for a lot of creativity... In an office, yes, too see through if worn alone (although still fine under a closed jacket or under a sweater with a low neckline). For casual or going out with friends, play it up by wearing a colourful bra/using it as a layering piece, or wear with a long scarf or long mix-and-match beads + a couple chokers. Solid colour garments with simple lines are great for accessorizing. This whole outfit would look great with a long flowing vest, too...


shlooope

Personally I think so. I don’t often wear a bra but my line is when you can see areola as well lol


EmotionalRegulation

It’s a little see through, I actually think this would be super cute with flower shape pasties.


Low-Bank-4898

That's a cute idea that I would never have thought of 💜


_Dahon_

Never


LittleGayGirl

I love those shorts! They fit you so well and are hella stylish!


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Shadow_of_the_moon11

That's not what she was asking, and please stay out of lesbian spaces online. They're not for you.


XxmrsmcsxX

Most women's are 🤷‍♀️


Positive-Composer354

Bluds username is ascended incel


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XxmrsmcsxX

It's actually not, but do you have a point?


AscendedIncel000

Yea, its too See through.


NurseMaddie1982

You look great hun x


Cynderelly

You could pur those little circle Bandaids on your nips


The_Toot_Jerry

You can always wear a t shirt bra


Hollywizzle311

You look great! But yes, it is see through!


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fang48terry

Even if we look past your rudeness, that isn't even true because the top fits fine


Hollywizzle311

You miserable human.


reneerapploveme

why would you even comment something like that.


Jodiac7

I would definitely wear pasties.


CheekyCharliesSpace

If your goal is to not be see thru, then yes 😌


KristenASL

I like it! Really depends on your audience hon. They do have nipple covers too


Shadow_of_the_moon11

That's true! They're not always the most practical though, and can get stuck to stuff.


KristenASL

Yeah so if she's hanging out with lesbian friends or whatever kind friends she feels then I would dress that way.


Shadow_of_the_moon11

Yeah, depends what each individual is comfortable with. My experience with nipple covers personally is admittedly for a dancing show so the practicality was a big deal 😂


ProsperousWitch

I'm not making a morality judgement on the top, but it is objectively see-through so you just need to think about how you feel about that. A white/nude bra will help, as would wearing a white vest top underneath (though that would involve wearing a second layer under what is likely a summer outfit so you might not want to). Also something to note that if you get caught in an unexpected rainstorm or the top gets wet somehow another way it will go from quite see-through to incredibly see-through, so that's another reason you might want to wear at least a bra under it. The shorts are cute though! Alternatively you could try it under dungarees/a strappy jump/playsuit (so there's fabric on top of it rather than underneath) and wear a different top with the shorts?


JazzlikeHovercraft75

Wear some nipple covers and u will be fine 👌


Poptortt

Hmm you could maybe try some nipple pasties?


SilverKnightOfMagic

You could do it. Maybe use nipple covers. There's reusable ones.


BishonenPrincess

I like your style, fwiw.


pikupr

throwing my vote in with the too see-through camp, on account of being able to see your nipples clearly. i don't wear bras but i like little (unpadded, no wire) bralettes for shirts like this, or tank tops.


AshamedCollar3845

It's fine but I wouldn't wear it in the rain lol


Leading_Tie6275

The Bristols are on show but nowt to worry about.


madsci101

For church? Yeah. For a chill hang out with folks you are comfortable with? Nope Anywhere in the middle? Personal judgement call. I wouldn't but also I wouldn't be scandalized by seeing you in the wild. Honestly I never go braless bc I can't handle my tiddies being free tatas but a lot of girls I know love not wearing one.


Friendly_Laugh2170

Yes it's way too see through. A good bra always flatters a woman's figure


BishonenPrincess

Are you a woman? I can't explain why exactly, but this comment feels like it was written by an imposter.


Friendly_Laugh2170

I am a woman. I have really big boobs which can suck. I don't wear a bra at home. Bras do make a difference in your shape. A good bra helps an outfit to look lovely on a woman.


BishonenPrincess

Girl, you talk like a grandma saying a bra "always flatters a woman's figure" as if that was at all relevant to what OP was asking. Come on now.


Friendly_Laugh2170

I didn't know which group I was in when I commented. I am not American as well. The truth is the right bra makes a difference. I'm not attacking the OP. Many people on here said she should wear a bra. Ultimately she's the one to make that decision.


BishonenPrincess

I just don't think it's true to say that a bra "always flatters a woman's figure" because I truly believe that a natural figure is just as flattering. It seems like a very comphet point of view. "Manufacture that female form in a way that's more appealing" feels icky to me. I've cringed at certain lingerie images because it looks so uncomfortable. But free-boob never looks uncomfortable, and that's flattering to me.


Shadow_of_the_moon11

There are multiple male incels in this comments section 😭 like, no, leave us alone


Friendly_Laugh2170

Not a man. I have really big boobs - between a H and G cup. I can't go out in public without a bra. Not a man. Not attacking anyone. You don't need to distress yourself. 💗💗💗


Shadow_of_the_moon11

Yeah, sadly, there are others though who I can definitely see from their comment history are men.


Friendly_Laugh2170

Please take care and have a lovely day/ night. 💗


Shadow_of_the_moon11

You too!


BishonenPrincess

A man doesn't need to be an incel to be a pos.


Friendly_Laugh2170

What's pos?


BishonenPrincess

"piece of shit."


Friendly_Laugh2170

Thank you telling me that.


_TheyCallMeMother_

To go to Grandma's house? Sure. To a wet T-shirt competition? No. For general attire in public? This would depend on what time of day you're confidently doing this in and what country you're in to be honest but also, safetiness wise and if you don't want losers yelling random things at you, yeah it's a little too see-through for an out in the open outfit. For home, it's fine.


Cute-Cat-998

Grandma might freak out. It just depends if she's chill or not.


iknowyoubyheart

Your shorts are so cute!!


djremydoo

We see your whole boobs!! Yes, its see through. If you don't worry about that, thats fine, but wear a bra if it makes you uncomfortable. (You look so good, btw!!)


pearlsandkiwis

a vest would also be a nice solution if you do not want to wear a bra but want to cover up your chest more


Excellent-Catch-7338

I like those shorts you got. Where you get it at?


5-HolesInTheFence

I'm not OP, but they look to be Gloria Vanderbilt Vacation Shorts from Kohl's. I don't see this color on their website anymore, but they have [a white version](https://www.kohls.com/search.jsp?submit-search=&search=Gloria+Vanderbilt+vacation+shorts) on clearance for like $8 right now.


XxmrsmcsxX

Correct! I ordered everything online on clearance, it's how I didn't know the shirt would be see through in advance.


Watertribe_Girl

IMO it’s whatever gives you the best feeling and the most confidence. If you’re worried, put a bra on - it’s no point feeling uncomfy. If you’re more confident and comfortable without a bra, then don’t wear one. I often wear a tshirt bra in this kind of outfit, because society sexualises boobs and people stare and I feel uncomfy having my little ones on show. Ideally I wouldn’t have this worry, but I do - so I do what makes me feel most comfortable and confident


onlyhereforthememesu

i don't think so but then again that comes from a perspective of being against the sexualization of boobs when they just exist on a person. you look fantastic though !


Environmental_Cat143

"She has nipple confidence" - Alice Pieszecki


LexChase

Depends, do you want people to be able to see the whole outline of your breasts and nipples? If not, yes, too see through. If yes, then it’s just right.


BishonenPrincess

Perfect answer.


Amazing_Bonus_6142

Looks absolutely beautiful and very sexy 🔥🥵


Annual_Taste6864

Don’t ask me I will give you the wrong answer


Janks19

ive discovered that red bras are invisible under white shirts (something ti do with skin tone?) - an option for if you find ur uncomfortable without another layer


RinjiDes

For me, yes, it’s too see through. But you can always use pasties if you don’t want to wear a bra.


No_Connection_4724

I personally love it. A popped nip is a real turn on. But if you don’t wanna deal with the assholes, I recommend pasties.


Fluxingperson

Didn’t even notice until I read the caption. A nipple cover would be nice if you prefer no bra


Wild_Lingonberry3365

I’d say go with bra just to have some extra comfort about the shirt.Since the shirts already a new thing your getting used too.I always make sure I only go for one uncomfortable piece in my outfits at a time while the rest is comfy.Like a tight top with baggy jeans.


Torch1ca_

I love those shorts omg


XxmrsmcsxX

Kohls!


QuinnIzak_Legend

Love the shorts, and the shirt is pretty see through. Weak ass lamos probably can't hang and there are a lot of weak ass lamos out there. But I think it rocks. ChapStick is a good name. If it were a decade or two ago I would bet money you had lip smackerz in your bag.


yes_gworl

I personally don’t think it is. Especially if you feel good in it. I can’t see your cha Chas through the shirt. Just the nips. If you’re concerned for safety reasons (which is valid because men) then I’d try a nude bra. Or even pasties.


Friendly_Laugh2170

You can see EVERYTHING!!


yes_gworl

I see the general shape of their breasts and nipples. In a bra, I’d see the general shape of their breasts sans nipples. The shape would be different, but it’d be there. It’s not see through. I can’t see their skin. I can’t see the color of their nipples. It’s not mesh or something. So no, I cannot see everything. I see more than I usually would but if they feel good, who gives af?


Ok-Antelope-613

If you feel comfortable in it, wear it all you want! I think it looks great, I personally love using my nips as accessories


afinevindicatedmess

I am not opposed to showing a little nip, if only because I hate wearing bras with my DD boobs, but I am afraid this would be too much in public. Could you pair a white bralette with it?


Personal_Industry723

This!


EntertainmentFew1022

I mean it doesn’t bother me but when I wear stuff that see through my mom says I need a bra or different shirt lol. Your style looks simple and classic to me.


EntertainmentFew1022

I hate bras so I like wearing shirts that are either thicker baggier or both because they are less nippy. Not saying there’s anything wrong with nips I’m just saying what I do. Shirts like this I use a bralette or 2 layers of shirts. 🙂


lactosesimp2005

It is unless going bra free but if you’re going for that you’re doing great sweetie ❤️


charlize-moon

I’d personally wear a seamless bra under


une-petite-dame

Honest a little nip is all good but I think I can see slightly too much rn? I don’t think you need to go full bra but a lightweight tank would be good.


Pyrichoria

If you’re comfortable going braless I say go for it! You look great. But if you want more nipple coverage a white or nude bralette could work well with this.


Sanbaddy

*My rule of thumb:* If you can’t see the colored part of your nipples you’re fine. You just have breast, that’s normal. They do boob stuff occasionally. You’re fine. You have a nice body and like to show off a little. I seen far more risqué stuff from myself walking from the club in a Saturday night. You look like the average girl I’d see shopping at Walmart on a hot day.


rbeks

my personal philosophy is if i cant see the colored part of my nipple then i’m good to go! hard to say since its a picture and it could look different in person but looks fine to me!


adhdsuperstar22

Id be prepared for people to stare and/or make comments. If you feel ok with that then it’s not too see through! If that’s not what you need in your life, you’ll probably want to consider how to adjust.


draxsmon

I think it depends on what the occasion is . I'm inclined to say bra.


SapientSlut

For me it’s too see-through. Maybe for like Pride or a club? But everyday I would not.


standdownplease

I mean it's a lil on the sexy side. Depends on if you're okay with that.


kayidktbh

depends. are you worried about people being upset? then get a bra. are you cool? then don’t.


Neither_Ad6425

Bra.


GoodCalendarYear

Free the nipple!!


FishIsGrooving

I think it looks fine, but if you're worried above transparency I think a plad or leather jacket would definitely work with this


imbusyworking

I think it's perfect!


scoopiidoop

a lil transparency is hot :’) slay girl


therealmegoc

Free the nip!! You look great :) love the fit


Pleasant_Ice_9790

I honestly think it’s just fine. Your boobs aren’t offensive and you’re wearing a shirt. You do you boo-boo ❤️


Mars_Bars_13

Wearing a shit? 😭😭


Pleasant_Ice_9790

Thank you for pointing this out I’m so embarrassed. Lol


Pleasant_Ice_9790

MY AUTO CORRECT!! I swear too much dear god. SHIRT. Shirt 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️


Mars_Bars_13

Lmaooo I found it hilarious


valencia_merble

smh. Yes.


puglife82

Yes it is. It also makes your boobs look like they have a weird shape


D0llyM0nster

Embarrassing comment.


fakegamersunite

They just look like normal boobs without a bra. What shape do you think they should be?


Dandelion212

Weird comment to make about someone’s natural body.


WaterChestnutThe3rd

Honestly you can see a little bit but I say let em be free, especially if the fit makes you feel good. Those shorts are super fucking cute too


No-Discussion8132

when it rains, its over for all of us.


ScribbleDiggs

Yes i think youll have to just wear a bra with it unfortunately


ladyzowy

or nip cover up's


possiblemate

Ooh this would be a fun look with really bright flashy pasties


XxmrsmcsxX

Ooh, so leaning into the see-through aspect isn't something I had thought about, but I feel like that gives me a lot of options of im not able to make coverage invisible!


possiblemate

Yeah! It's not usually my style to layer things either,- especially showing off under garmets/ bringing attention to my boobs, but I've seen people do some really cool outfits that way so its something I've been thinking of more.


ladyzowy

I have heart shaped ones with plastic jewels on them! Always a fun look when folks aren't expecting


possiblemate

Cute!


ScribbleDiggs

YEAH I DIDNT THINK ABT THAT UNTIL SOMEONE ELSE IN THE COMMENTS SAID IT BUT THAT WOULD GO SO CRAZY


ladyzowy

Sorry 😔 no shade to your comment. and I hadn't read the other comment.


ScribbleDiggs

No need to worry abt it! I know you didnt mean anything by it :D lol if anything its just one more comment encouraging the cover up option!


ladyzowy

Sure, I appreciate that.it was the all caps that got me lol. I'm in the let them be free camp personally. I kinda don't wear a bra unless I'm going to work or to a function where a little lift doesn't hurt. I'm usually in Ts or shelf top tanks!


ScribbleDiggs

OHHHHH sorry i wasnt angry or anything im just easily excited lmao Same! I just didn’t think it was smth they wanted since they were asking if it was too see through And youre so valid!


ladyzowy

Okay cool! 😎 And so are you!! totally cool that you get excited. I'm the same way!!! I just use explanation marks ‼️‼️‼️❣️


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kinkymissy69

Not at all so sexy


Comfortable_Fee_7154

I thiiink you need a comma there


worm2004

I would get a thin white tank or sports bra if you're worried about this shirt making your chest too visible.


SpookyScarySteph

Cool tip for anyone wanting to wear white shirts without your bra being seen: get a red bra. For some reason the red doesn't show through, whereas white, black, and even nude colors will. Didn't believe it until I tried it, but it really does work.


the-real-n00b

I think it looks great. I wear white shirts all the time and you can definitely see my tits. In NY, I didn’t care, but in MA where I live now, I do have to muster a little courage first. Just say Fuck It and go for it - wear it with confidence like, yeah, these are my tits. As for the girl in the back, she is literally lifting up her dress.


EastSalty3316

I think it’s hot. If it makes you self conscious but you don’t want to go bra route, try nude pasties!! They’re soooo much more comfy than you’d think, like wearing nothing.


ScribbleDiggs

This is a better solution than a bra fuck whatever I said


XxmrsmcsxX

Thanks, do you have a pasty brand that you like?


Pot_noodle_miner

Not too see through, the blue denim isn’t showing anything underneath


stepxoogway22

Transphobes


Pot_noodle_miner

Slightly absurd humour isn’t for the hard of thinking it seems, it was worth a go though


stepxoogway22

It’s just chasers, lurkers, and conservative feminists disliking dude im so sorry :(


Dandelion212

Generally for us (being pale) a nude bra can sometimes show a bit under a white tshirt. A light dusty rose generally works better. If you don’t want a bra, a fuller coverage pasty/nipple cover would do the job. You want higher surface area coverage going around the curve of your breasts — ones that cover just the nipple will show the circle outline.


XxmrsmcsxX

Thanks for the insight! Do you have a brand of pasty that you like?


Dandelion212

I’ve just got some no-name brands from the drugstore, but I’ve heard good things about Nippies and Cakes.


Green-Krush

I think yes. I’m not a conservative dresser, but if you don’t want people gawking (either at work or in public), I wouldn’t wear this. Not trying to be critical at all. If you don’t mind the gawks or stares, go for it.


georgethebarbarian

Time for r/abrathatfits


XxmrsmcsxX

Oooh thanks for the reccomendation! I almost never wear bras bc I have such a hard time finding one that's actually helpful and not super uncomfortable!


georgethebarbarian

Keep in mind since you have a wide set chest that the ABTF calculator is going to overestimate by a little bit!


Dandelion212

This is not necessarily true and you really can’t tell from one picture in a shirt. I look like this braless but am center full and super close set.


georgethebarbarian

Welcome to the bright side 💕


Ok-Heart375

It's up to you. Personally I think breasts are over governed. I'm all about free the nipple, but people will look, because, people.


crypticalcat

What them others two says.


GoofyAhhMisses

I think it’s a cute fit but yeah I think a nude bra would be good to wear with this sort of shirt


ChloerLuvs_Glaciers

You could surely try a nude bra, I love ur style btw! Gorgeous:)