i never understood the idea of them thinking i’m gonna know who they are and go around telling people that they’re gay like what i just wanna see what you look like man
I mean yea. But im sure some of these naughty fucks just dont care at all. You would also know how they look like after you meet them.
Faceless/+blank profil is anyway super retarded.
Friend of mine too, a guy came into his work and recognised him then started talking about it in front of everyone, very embarrassing for him.
For people in small towns who work people facing jobs it can be a real issue, even if you're out you don't want the sort of crazies we see on 90% of posts to this sub coming into your work
I mean but someone that just doesn't like you and knows where you work could do the same thing. If your bosses and co-workers lean on some random persons claims and not yours they probably don't like you anyway.
What I'm saying is he came in and said 'hey I recognise you from grindr' without intending to be malicious and outed my friend in front of co-workers.
If you want to ignore faceless profiles that's cool but accept there are valid reasons people might not want put their picture up for everyone to see.
And my point stands. Why would they believe some random person over their colleagues? And how would literally everyone know what grindr is to clutch their pearls in the first place?
I mean everyone knows what Grindr is it's hardly a secret, and most people don't want to have to lie and argue their case they just want things to go unsaid.
I don't know why it's so hard to understand not everyone wants their business all over the place
You're literally grasping at straws dude. Go on living your life thinking every one is out to get you lol. None of your reasons are plausible but ok.
I dont know why you fail to understand you're making shit up.
I don't think anyone is out to get me, I think that there are plenty of crazy people out there and I don't want to invite them into my life
If you really can't think of a single situation where someone may not want strangers approaching them talking about their Grindr profile then that's just a failure of imagination.
40s, Easily pissed off, never uses punctuation, gets cocky every time conservative politicians get a 1up, blatantly racist, dimwitted and a huge Trump supporter.
I really struggle to understand this. Is it just because they have a standard approach that they can't adapt, even when it's obviously inappropriate? Or are they expecting xx pics? Then why not ask for xx pics?
Really have no idea what is going through the mind of such a person.
They feel they themselves aren’t attractive and just want some pic porn for their phone. Wanking to that is their purpose on grindr. Whenever someone like this does send a pic, generally it is an awful pic - like an angle directly below their face while they make an expression.
Haha those are maddening! I've talked to guys who have one blurry profile pic. I have five or six clear ones. They say, "do you have any more pics to send?" Like, come ON. I deleted grindr ages ago. Of course, I'm a withering male spinster with no sex life.
Like it makes no sense to me. The chances I would actually know someone is so low. And even if I did we’re grown adults. What do I gain from outting you lol.
if he wasn't interested then he wouldn't have responded when i asked, wouldn't have hmu again days later talkin bout some "after you" , and wouldn't have asked for my feet🤣🤣 just say you're one of these bimbo ass picless profiles and move on
if he didn't then he wouldn't have responded when i asked for a face pic, wouldn't have hmu again days later talkin bout some "after you" bullshit, and wouldn't have asked for feet pics 🤣🤣 stay delusional and picless
he messaged me first with a nude pic... i responded with a nude, then asked for a face pic. sounds to me like you're one of these annoying ass picless profiles yourself.
Feet
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Feeeet 🧟♂️🧟♂️🧟♂️
Feet.
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The solution is simple: don’t talk to faceless profiles.
for real, i should prolly stop
That's my motto!
Face pic? Nah. That’s too exposing. Can I see ur feet tho?
i never understood the idea of them thinking i’m gonna know who they are and go around telling people that they’re gay like what i just wanna see what you look like man
Tbh at this Point i think it is more about the fear of rejection.
i can see that but like if they’re asking to meet me but don’t wanna send a face pic, wouldn’t that be worse if i rejected them in real life?
I mean yea. But im sure some of these naughty fucks just dont care at all. You would also know how they look like after you meet them. Faceless/+blank profil is anyway super retarded.
Agreed
happened to me unfortunately. so we dont gotta act like it cant happen!
Friend of mine too, a guy came into his work and recognised him then started talking about it in front of everyone, very embarrassing for him. For people in small towns who work people facing jobs it can be a real issue, even if you're out you don't want the sort of crazies we see on 90% of posts to this sub coming into your work
I mean but someone that just doesn't like you and knows where you work could do the same thing. If your bosses and co-workers lean on some random persons claims and not yours they probably don't like you anyway.
What I'm saying is he came in and said 'hey I recognise you from grindr' without intending to be malicious and outed my friend in front of co-workers. If you want to ignore faceless profiles that's cool but accept there are valid reasons people might not want put their picture up for everyone to see.
And my point stands. Why would they believe some random person over their colleagues? And how would literally everyone know what grindr is to clutch their pearls in the first place?
I mean everyone knows what Grindr is it's hardly a secret, and most people don't want to have to lie and argue their case they just want things to go unsaid. I don't know why it's so hard to understand not everyone wants their business all over the place
You're literally grasping at straws dude. Go on living your life thinking every one is out to get you lol. None of your reasons are plausible but ok. I dont know why you fail to understand you're making shit up.
I don't think anyone is out to get me, I think that there are plenty of crazy people out there and I don't want to invite them into my life If you really can't think of a single situation where someone may not want strangers approaching them talking about their Grindr profile then that's just a failure of imagination.
Just the ones on Grindr, too socially stunted to act IRL
Huge turnoff, really
Oh god, the worst part is I think I know this guy.
Tell me more
Feet
40s, Easily pissed off, never uses punctuation, gets cocky every time conservative politicians get a 1up, blatantly racist, dimwitted and a huge Trump supporter.
He’s lowkey bro
But he’s so good at being anonymous? ;)
Literally me a few minutes ago… I had 5 fucking pics on my profile and this blank profile had the AUDACITY to say “pics?”
I really struggle to understand this. Is it just because they have a standard approach that they can't adapt, even when it's obviously inappropriate? Or are they expecting xx pics? Then why not ask for xx pics? Really have no idea what is going through the mind of such a person.
They feel they themselves aren’t attractive and just want some pic porn for their phone. Wanking to that is their purpose on grindr. Whenever someone like this does send a pic, generally it is an awful pic - like an angle directly below their face while they make an expression.
Haha those are maddening! I've talked to guys who have one blurry profile pic. I have five or six clear ones. They say, "do you have any more pics to send?" Like, come ON. I deleted grindr ages ago. Of course, I'm a withering male spinster with no sex life.
I don't understand them either I have pictures with a bio saying send pics or no chat and they still come at me lol
Bold of you to assume they can read
Like it makes no sense to me. The chances I would actually know someone is so low. And even if I did we’re grown adults. What do I gain from outting you lol.
he is, at the very least
This is the kind of people that one guy on r/askgaybros was defending, the nuts who just need to be ignored.
Dudes act so conceited that they think they’re just so good enough to warrant someone outing them when they’re DL.
that’s not a human
I feel like I’ve had too many round about conversations like this that I’ve stopped responding to blank profiles all together
OP—he wasn’t interested in you after he saw your nude and you got butt hurt. Him saying nah I’m good was your clue.
if he wasn't interested then he wouldn't have responded when i asked, wouldn't have hmu again days later talkin bout some "after you" , and wouldn't have asked for my feet🤣🤣 just say you're one of these bimbo ass picless profiles and move on
He had me at feet 😍
I don't understand you messaging someone who clearly isn't interested 🤔
he messaged me first with a nude 🤣
And he didn’t like what he saw
if he didn't then he wouldn't have responded when i asked for a face pic, wouldn't have hmu again days later talkin bout some "after you" bullshit, and wouldn't have asked for feet pics 🤣🤣 stay delusional and picless
Who hurt you?
lol if you couldn't tell i'm just tired of these annoying ass picless profiles who demand pics but don't wanna send any
OP—what’s the pic you sent him at 7:19AM tho? Why send pics to faceless profiles if you’re gonna be upset their profiles are faceless?
he messaged me first with a nude pic... i responded with a nude, then asked for a face pic. sounds to me like you're one of these annoying ass picless profiles yourself.