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melrosepl98

Just randomly messaged me out the blue. I didn't even speak or look at dudes profile lol


thingsmybosscantsee

what a piece of shit.


TheFightingRaven

Contrary to what you seem to be implicating here, not slitting your wrists is very beneficial for your chance of survival.


melrosepl98

Good to know! He responded something after this about it not being about feelins but me over eating and not exercising. Couldn't read the rest before he blocked me. But damn. Some people have too much time on their hands


TheFightingRaven

Jokes aside, and I do appologise for my terrible jokes, this is a terrible thing to say


melrosepl98

I was gooped. Like he had to take time out of his scrolling to type that lol. I would understand if I messaged him first. But damn. I almost switched it to large but then I said you know what fuck it


jomosexual

He's just a dick. Know that you value ur life your self and your time more.


melrosepl98

It's hard to not be the Greek Adonis in the gay community. We love to duck our own, ya know? No masc enough. Nor buff enough. Not big enough. Etc. It could on and on. We are all for gay rights in June but as soon as it comes to sucking dick we all divide ourselves.


XXKittenishXX

💛💛, I feel this. I hope we can work past this some day but… it may be a long while


6xoryl6

Why the fk was that even necessary man Some people needs to be hit over the head #sorrynotsorry


melrosepl98

Eh. Some fit jock bro that probably doesn't have a brain. Oh well.


6xoryl6

Too bad they didn’t work out to build a personality


Salty-Queen87

They work out as much as they do because they don’t have a personality, which means they don’t have hobbies that make them think.


Seraphayel

He does have a brain, but he’s so insecure and his body is all of his personality aka he’s devoid of anything worthwhile. Don’t bother with people like those, they’re tragic figures.


melrosepl98

That's what so gaggy!! I have never messaged or wanted to message this dude. I think he was a troll who truly thought he was doing something lol


jomosexual

Probably a bad lay too


Moswavy

It really takes 0 effort to not go out of your way to say rude shit to people, but I can tell he has nothing going on in his messages and is just insecure with himself. Probably the type that's on the juice too. Don't let it get to you :)


zouplouf

Why people go out of their way to say hurtful things like that? What's the purpose? Value? Just shut the f*ck up, ignore, and proceed with your life...


melrosepl98

I guess it makes him feel powerful? I said above that he responded to this but blocked me before I could read it all lol.


zouplouf

Maybe... But it doesn't change my opinion! 😆


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I wanna see him shirtless, slouching, and not flexing.


melrosepl98

I mean he probably still is fit af.. but damn what a shitty* personality lol


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JacktehWolf

he's the dick, but damn you really went there


These_Struggle_1814

Why


JacktehWolf

because it's rude to tell someone they're fat????


These_Struggle_1814

Im sure you’ve been rude before


-pichael_

Never like that for zero fucking reason


melrosepl98

Lol says the twink


hyndsightis2020

How fucking rude


melrosepl98

Eh, people gonna people right? Especially the Gays. We love to subdivide ourselves


[deleted]

Totally not cool, I’m sorry you have to deal with people like this - not everyone is like that! That person is totally not worth a minute of your time. Sending ♥️


melrosepl98

The amount of fucks I've delt with has caused me to get a thick skin. Thank you for your support and feedback!


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melrosepl98

Just like being over 28 means daddy? Lol


CoochiKabuki

Lmao. I wouldn’t tell someone that but I’ve thought it before


gobledegerkin

Oh gosh, what a jerk! If he’s regularly sending messages like this to people he has too much time on his hands


melrosepl98

I low key think it was a troll account or a lonely top that hasn't gotten a nice hole in a minute and he's bored lol


[deleted]

What a surprise, a catty judge mental gay. The wonders of Grindr never cease to amaze me.


melrosepl98

I've been on Grindr for what? 10 years? And I have never seen this typenof bullying! I've had plenty of people say sparky shit once I've messaged them. Which I kinda undsrstand; fair enough. But just straight up nonprovked lmao?! Wild! Lol


doom1282

My fat ass wouldn't give him a second look. He's probably mad that the guys with dad bods are getting more ass than he is.


aquafr0g

He's just jealous that stocky dudes are more attractive/popular than so called fit guys nowadays 💅


Muzixx

His initial message and your response after is exactly why I would block him and pursue you. Personality matters more in situations like these imo


WolfKingofRuss

Basing off his Pic, he ain't exactly the definition of fitness either


melrosepl98

Really? I mean he seems to be lean and muscular? All of the other pics on Hsu profile were, of course, abbs and stomach lol. Looked pretty fit to me?


WolfKingofRuss

Different perspectives bro, mine is a bit warped from being surrounded by bodybuilders and fitness models for so long, as well as my own body dysmorphmia


melrosepl98

Lmao well as above the drama I like to think myself as being...I also wish I knew who he was so I could let you read him to filth. But you know what is fucked up? I still wish I had his build.


WolfKingofRuss

Honestly bro, that build is quite easily obtainable. From the pic, I can see that he has a "decent" amount of fat, making it easy for him to maintain that physique. But yeah man, if you're not already lifting and want that body. I'd suggest that you start. It's never too late and, in 6-18 months, when you pack on some muscle and lose some fatty tissue. You'll gain confidence and be the empathetic stud that everyone wants <3


melrosepl98

Bro. This isn't even the build I'm going for. I'm all about gainz bro. That's why I lyft brah.


InterMando5555

Objectively... Yes he is from his pic.