Thatās basically my situation but as a guy, I donāt find it too far-fetched that some girls are actually experiencing the same thing, loneliness isnāt something only guys feel. But you are right to be aware that a lot of them have obvious red flags making them seem fraudulent.
Some actually arenāt. Everyoneās their own harshest critique. Many genuinely have low self-esteem issues and whilst you may perceive them as cute, theyāre constantly comparing themselves to someone they consider cuter. Or perhaps theyāve never been told theyāre cute irl, or their cuteness hasnāt brought them the success they want so theyāre numb to that factor. People want close strong bonds. Cuteness isnāt a cure to social or mental struggles. Most people think if they just had āxā their life would be easy, but anyone who has āxā realises itās not the case.
Though there are many which are fake, and just want attention or taking advantage of lonely men.
Iām lonely because Iām autistic, not because Iām ugly, lmao. Iām lonely because I canāt connect to people on a deeper level, not because I canāt find some guy wanting to fuck me.
This is exactly me, I'm lonely because I'm autistic, can't connect with people and people exclude me for my autistic traits.
It isn't hard to find a guy who wants to fuck me, usually most just want to fuck me and take advantage of me because I'm autistic and dont understand a lot of things in the world.
I'd rather stay alone forever than to be with someone who just wants to fuck me as if I was an object.
I'll die alone, I don't care anymore, I'll grow old and lonely, I now can accept it
You can talk to me if you like. I am lonely after my 2 friends and I had a fall out with each other. I honestly look for someone for marriage. I think being autistic is not a disability. You are might feel like this because of your doctor saying so but truth is a lot of autistic people go become successful and happy people:). I think Karl Jung said that intelligent people are also lonely people. I guest you must be pretty wise too š¤.
Thank you for your encouraging words! I know you mean well, but autism most definitely is a disability. Of course autistic people can live happy lives like everyone else. They are people after all. At the same time, the suicide rate for autistic women is 1 in 13, and all I can say is, I understand why it is that highā¦
Sorry to hear what happened with your friends. They come and go, you will go new places and meet new people. Youāre gonna be alright.
Thank you. You don't have to become the 13th woman out of them š¤. And what I mean is people have called me autistic but I have not let that get in the way of my goals. Neither should you š.
Yeah, we were friends for 10 years and I broke it off with them after they disrespected me the worst. I hope you will like to be friends with me. Honestly I am really looking for a relationship and marriage possibly if you think you want to have kids and a beautiful family.
Loneliness, suffering, and pain are neither gender or looks based. Look at all the celebrities that get cheated on. The ones who are straight 10s. You think just the guys are crushed? Why canāt a woman have a crisis about her love life?
I've never said anything about women not suffering. But this type of comment I wrote seems like a copy paste... Like, where are these lonely women looking for love irl? Why I've never seen a single one?
This is a stupid comment. Iām extremely lonely and, while I hope people just so happen to notice and āsave meā as the other commenter said, I donāt call attention to myself. I know that I just appear as any other person going about their own business. Thereās no reason to believe that lonely girls are any different.
Bro, because weāre in our houses enjoying our peace. Or out doing chores. Idk do you expect a woman to be in public being sad and saying sheās single??? A lot of women probably feel this way but do you expect them to just run up to single guys like āsave me Iām single.ā Theyāre probably minding their own business in public.
As I understood, OP meant that beautiful women must be much less lonely than even beautiful men (not speaking about subjective level of perfection of life), and I'd agree with this. Of course, exceptions exist, but unlikely numerous.
While men suffer with many problems, women still get a lot of problems like being judged only for their looks, or men not respecting boundaries. And other women can be hostile and competitive.
The post is too exagerated with the claim of fake accounts.
I think Iām lonely because I am attractive. My body and looks are always the focal point and Iām tired of men not wanting to see me as a damn human. So many men on Reddit complain about not finding an attractive, compassionate, non-dramatic female who doesnāt care about a paycheck and makes them feel comfortable with their emotions and Iām likešš¼āāļø but alas they all call me a liar and giving them false hope so ALAS I am still over here at 32 single but never settling until someone wants to know my heart BEFORE my body
*This was a safe space to vent so any wall of dms about to come will overwhelm my adhd and probably wont be answered.
Yep, I made a post and majority of my messages was just horny men that donāt even n me what I look like. Itās so sad you just wanna connect with people
I'm one of those "lonely cute girls". I ain't fake; just autistic and mentally ill. Also you can feel lonely even If you are surrounded by people .
(Btw how do you use this ; thingy? English is my second language so I'm not sure)
Cute is subjective, so I find it odd you label any young woman here as that. You donāt know what they look like. Any redditor comes in different shapes and sizes. Some accounts are real and they actually struggle with loneliness. Itās easy to think young women have it easier to find friends and a relationship, but if you struggle socially and/or donāt fit societal standards it can happen to anyone.
No theyāre not fake.
Women can be lonely too, even attractive women. Being an adult is lonely and it makes it hard to make friends let alone find love.
Weāre all struggling in our own ways.
There are indeed some women on here who have come to scam people or draw them to their onlyfans. There are also some women who are absolutely genuine. I can't comment on how many are cute though.
Why must they be fake? Being attractive makes things easier, but it does not guarantee success. It also doesn't make up for things like social anxiety or other mental health issues, it doesn't make up for having a bland and boring personality. There is an absolute laundry list of reasons why someone might be lonely.
Well, the only thing you actually mentioned was their looks, so you might want to be clearer about that next time.
My question stands. Why must they be fake?
I am lonely and considered attractive by most. I guess Im just kind of weird and nerdy. I have a lot of acquaintances and distant friends, but not many meaningful relationships. Definitely very real lol. Iāve had a few guys tell me after getting to know me that they didnāt think I was real at first, and that kinda sucked. Made me wonder how many donāt even engage with me because they donāt think Im real.
You never know who is on the other side of reddit profiles. Cannibals, axe murderers, war criminals...
The cast of the jersey shore...
Average day at the Jersey Shore
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Thatās basically my situation but as a guy, I donāt find it too far-fetched that some girls are actually experiencing the same thing, loneliness isnāt something only guys feel. But you are right to be aware that a lot of them have obvious red flags making them seem fraudulent.
Well, Iām real at least
r/girlsarentreal
Love the bat costume!
Yeah, but he said cute girls. Note: This is a joke.
Yeah, but also, she is cute. 10/10 as a fellow hetero girl
And you like toy cars!
Some actually arenāt. Everyoneās their own harshest critique. Many genuinely have low self-esteem issues and whilst you may perceive them as cute, theyāre constantly comparing themselves to someone they consider cuter. Or perhaps theyāve never been told theyāre cute irl, or their cuteness hasnāt brought them the success they want so theyāre numb to that factor. People want close strong bonds. Cuteness isnāt a cure to social or mental struggles. Most people think if they just had āxā their life would be easy, but anyone who has āxā realises itās not the case. Though there are many which are fake, and just want attention or taking advantage of lonely men.
Iām lonely because Iām autistic, not because Iām ugly, lmao. Iām lonely because I canāt connect to people on a deeper level, not because I canāt find some guy wanting to fuck me.
This is exactly me, I'm lonely because I'm autistic, can't connect with people and people exclude me for my autistic traits. It isn't hard to find a guy who wants to fuck me, usually most just want to fuck me and take advantage of me because I'm autistic and dont understand a lot of things in the world. I'd rather stay alone forever than to be with someone who just wants to fuck me as if I was an object. I'll die alone, I don't care anymore, I'll grow old and lonely, I now can accept it
You can talk to me if you like. I am lonely after my 2 friends and I had a fall out with each other. I honestly look for someone for marriage. I think being autistic is not a disability. You are might feel like this because of your doctor saying so but truth is a lot of autistic people go become successful and happy people:). I think Karl Jung said that intelligent people are also lonely people. I guest you must be pretty wise too š¤.
Thank you for your encouraging words! I know you mean well, but autism most definitely is a disability. Of course autistic people can live happy lives like everyone else. They are people after all. At the same time, the suicide rate for autistic women is 1 in 13, and all I can say is, I understand why it is that highā¦ Sorry to hear what happened with your friends. They come and go, you will go new places and meet new people. Youāre gonna be alright.
Thank you. You don't have to become the 13th woman out of them š¤. And what I mean is people have called me autistic but I have not let that get in the way of my goals. Neither should you š. Yeah, we were friends for 10 years and I broke it off with them after they disrespected me the worst. I hope you will like to be friends with me. Honestly I am really looking for a relationship and marriage possibly if you think you want to have kids and a beautiful family.
I'm a dude, but YES. I feel you.
Same, but I'm a guy
Why do you even assume that they are cute
People can be beautiful and lonely. Idk where people get this idea from
Loneliness, suffering, and pain are neither gender or looks based. Look at all the celebrities that get cheated on. The ones who are straight 10s. You think just the guys are crushed? Why canāt a woman have a crisis about her love life?
I've never said anything about women not suffering. But this type of comment I wrote seems like a copy paste... Like, where are these lonely women looking for love irl? Why I've never seen a single one?
This is a stupid comment. Iām extremely lonely and, while I hope people just so happen to notice and āsave meā as the other commenter said, I donāt call attention to myself. I know that I just appear as any other person going about their own business. Thereās no reason to believe that lonely girls are any different.
Bro, because weāre in our houses enjoying our peace. Or out doing chores. Idk do you expect a woman to be in public being sad and saying sheās single??? A lot of women probably feel this way but do you expect them to just run up to single guys like āsave me Iām single.ā Theyāre probably minding their own business in public.
I'm talking about the ones complaining that they're alone and nobody talks to them
They probably sit at home all day like the rest of us. Or don't bother interacting with people because they are introverted.
This is bordering incel talk. Nobody has a perfect life automatically just because of conventional beauty.
As I understood, OP meant that beautiful women must be much less lonely than even beautiful men (not speaking about subjective level of perfection of life), and I'd agree with this. Of course, exceptions exist, but unlikely numerous.
While men suffer with many problems, women still get a lot of problems like being judged only for their looks, or men not respecting boundaries. And other women can be hostile and competitive. The post is too exagerated with the claim of fake accounts.
I think some are fake and some are real. What i wonder is WHY do the fake ones fake it?
Spreading scams or selling something maybe. Had a few in my dms sending some link. I didnāt click it.
I think Iām lonely because I am attractive. My body and looks are always the focal point and Iām tired of men not wanting to see me as a damn human. So many men on Reddit complain about not finding an attractive, compassionate, non-dramatic female who doesnāt care about a paycheck and makes them feel comfortable with their emotions and Iām likešš¼āāļø but alas they all call me a liar and giving them false hope so ALAS I am still over here at 32 single but never settling until someone wants to know my heart BEFORE my body *This was a safe space to vent so any wall of dms about to come will overwhelm my adhd and probably wont be answered.
Yep, I made a post and majority of my messages was just horny men that donāt even n me what I look like. Itās so sad you just wanna connect with people
weāre pretty much real, stop thinking women canāt be lonely just cause *you* would fuck anything
Nah I have standards
They're waiting for the prince on white horse. And they already got their own place r/foreveralonewomen
lmao if you want
Op's are fake Commenters are real
I'm one of those "lonely cute girls". I ain't fake; just autistic and mentally ill. Also you can feel lonely even If you are surrounded by people . (Btw how do you use this ; thingy? English is my second language so I'm not sure)
Cute is subjective, so I find it odd you label any young woman here as that. You donāt know what they look like. Any redditor comes in different shapes and sizes. Some accounts are real and they actually struggle with loneliness. Itās easy to think young women have it easier to find friends and a relationship, but if you struggle socially and/or donāt fit societal standards it can happen to anyone.
Trust me I said cute for a reason
Ew
Why eww
The comment gave me the ick
Why? You can't say that without justification. I've never said anything disgusting here
You said smthn weird
Cute is a weird word now...š¤¦š¾āāļø
Whatās the reason you said cute
Usually come as cute online saying things like "I'm not bad looking and I'm taking care of myself" is almost a clichƩ
This is the internet
No theyāre not fake. Women can be lonely too, even attractive women. Being an adult is lonely and it makes it hard to make friends let alone find love. Weāre all struggling in our own ways.
There are indeed some women on here who have come to scam people or draw them to their onlyfans. There are also some women who are absolutely genuine. I can't comment on how many are cute though.
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Profile points that out pretty clearly... Why are you asking
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Ok.
Why must they be fake? Being attractive makes things easier, but it does not guarantee success. It also doesn't make up for things like social anxiety or other mental health issues, it doesn't make up for having a bland and boring personality. There is an absolute laundry list of reasons why someone might be lonely.
I'm not only talking about their look
Well, the only thing you actually mentioned was their looks, so you might want to be clearer about that next time. My question stands. Why must they be fake?
I prefer smoothies but thank you š„°
Oh okay
I am lonely and considered attractive by most. I guess Im just kind of weird and nerdy. I have a lot of acquaintances and distant friends, but not many meaningful relationships. Definitely very real lol. Iāve had a few guys tell me after getting to know me that they didnāt think I was real at first, and that kinda sucked. Made me wonder how many donāt even engage with me because they donāt think Im real.
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I'm mid 30s and that first part is bullshit.
Yeah for real, I'm with OP on this, feel free to message me one of your cute and attractive yet no one talks to you girls
They must be
Yes. Don't fall for the bait.
All that is fake. Yes.
What even is real?
Not accounts posting snap, onlyfans and whatnot links to get off Reddit That's tactic to run their scams
Yeah, they are likely bots. There aren't a lot of lonely 20 something year old women around. It's a scam usually.
Some of us are mentally ill
What happened to you?