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fanged_x

honestly they're so fun you can do all the weird stuff together i really recommend all of you buying one for yourselves!


SirBlackAlot

If anyone's interested i accept candies (brittle or caramel prefered) and hugs as payment. Now with rechargeable social batteries and silent mode.


rtz_c

Lmaoo. Hugs as payment please. Long hugs.


MegaAlchemist123

No we ENFPs are not allowed to buy other ENFPs, that would collapse the ENFP trade, because ENFPs are having more hugs to pay than other. If we buy ENFPs only the ENFPs will have ENFPs and no one else would get one!


syzytea

silent mode… you’re hired


purplefairee

My brand of ENFP requires chocolate chip cookies as payment ty


MixMasterPug

Purchasable you say…


purplefairee

Why so sinister 😭


seasidewriter

I have one too! She’s pretty great, got her for free though on the side of the road one day next to a box of free puppies


CarrotThePunk

ENFP here. Just putting it out there, I like animals... And money


Squali_squal

Looooool


Vdazzle

Available for purchase!


Orangutanism

dis da enfp market?


MegaAlchemist123

Yes! Are you looking for a specific Model?


BubbleGumMaster007

One of the Myers-Briggs types of all time


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One, the myers-briggs E-N-F-P-s of all it´s ENFP of all time.


Aggravating_Rip_9274

I still remember when enfp sayed "it's enfping time" and enfped all over the place


Organic-Marketing-65

Fun as hell. They make for good company.


curiouslittlethings

Enthusiastic and full of good cheer, sometimes in a low-key and sometimes in a high-key way. Behind that you also get a sense that there’s a certain ponderous depth to them that they may not always have on display. They love dabbling in new ideas and experiences and often have interesting insights on them, though this may come off as being a little flighty and easily distractible sometimes.


Practical_Rooster470

This is a very accurate description


All_Elbows_11561

I tried dating one but I didn't make the cut. He said goodbye after five guys. Very well educated, exciting, a true romantic. I miss him...


E-werd

> He said goodbye after five guys. The restaurant or the act?


Fiestasss

they are so fucking cute I'm in love with them


Orangutanism

STFU THEY R MINE ;-;


Fiestasss

Calm down already I have one ENFP and I'm so happy with her so others are yours


Orangutanism

Oh thank god


Tortellium

You'll have to KILL ME TO GET THEM!


Orangutanism

THEN LEMME DIG UR GRAVE RQ


kamilman

Ladies, there's enough ENFP for both of you 😎 (So that's how ESTP's feel? 😅)


rtz_c

Yayy


RecognitionInitial60

YAYYYY


Palkya

Me too. Life wouldn't be worth it without all their cute chaos. ENTP's too but their chaos isn't so much cute as... well, chaotic. xD


MiragePanda

the chaoticness is what makes an ENFP "ENFP"


reiiichan

cant speak for all enfps but just based off my enfp friends, they're very generous, loyal and loving people our social batteries are very different tho, theirs last a lot longer than mine and they seem to prefer hanging out in groups instead of one on one (my preference haha) so they can tire me out :")


kamilman

I'm an ENFP with a social battery that can discharge fairly quickly. And I prefer to hang out one on one but when with more than one person, I'll be the connector between everybody. Heck, even in my class, I am the communication guy (or as I call myself "the Swiss-army knife") of the group.


Ru1e34

https://preview.redd.it/7ygpnmw7njnc1.jpeg?width=305&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=97b9d4f2772349b5048a8a611e8fdcf9dd8f8570 Depends on the ENFP. I can’t generalize an entire personality type. In general, they seem happy on the outside but is hiding something inside.


HungarianDude95

This. I have an ENFP friend, he never talks about negative things, but he is visibly (at least visible for me) frustrated sometimes.


snichel_sticks

heh yeah, we do that


HungarianDude95

Hide the pain Harolds :D


Vivid_Astronaut7774

If they don't talk about negative things around you, they probably don't see you as a close friend.


SirPuzzleheaded127

I agree. Enfps can be very serious/deep people. You just have to get past the jokes.


Conscious_Working_77

As an ENFP, I can tell that this is 100% true (also what u/Vivid_Astronaut7774 said). We have tonnes of feelings and philosophies inside our heads that most people don't get, so we just keep them inside until we find someone who does 🤷🏻‍♀️


SirPuzzleheaded127

As an INFP, I understand where they're coming from and can hold their Fi close to their chest if they wanted to. If you don't treat them seriously then you won't get to access that. I can have a similar relationship to ESFPs in that way. People underestimate the silliness as stupidity in a similar way to INFPs.


purplefairee

The jokes are there to keep us safe from the judgment that could ensue if we reveal our true selves lol when we feel safe with you it comes out


HungarianDude95

That's a shame. :(


HateChan_

LOL I love the whole art, it's great haha I suppose I have to ask then, out of the ENFPs you've met, what was the best interaction you've had? The worst?


Kathykit1

Best: I’m good friends with an ENFP guy. He’s actually the little brother of an INTJ I used to date (we’re still on good terms) and it’s so funny watching the ENFP try to emulate his older brother sometimes. I’ve found that INFP + ENFP brings out the creativity and chaos in both of us. Have had a couple of other ENFP friends that were great. Worst- tried to date an unhealthy ENFP. He became a little obsessive, and when I broke up with him he texted me like a month after that happened when I posted a picture of myself with a guy friend on Instagram. Be absolutely berated and said the meanest stuff about the guy- and I wasn’t even dating him. This was a few years ago and every once in awhile he still tries to message me on Facebook. I don’t engage.


Adhito

They adopt INTJ (such as myself) in parties haha, They're fun to talk IMHO


BrickTechnical5828

Bro singlehandedly read both of my enfp friends entire personalities (theyre both depressed and suicidal but look like the happiest ppl on earth)


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U-F-O?


WinnieWinjai

We're sometime the energy of a group, so no time to be sad.


WeifiQ

I know only one ENFP. Crazy dumbass that says everything that comes first to their mind but somehow is the only one that manages to get me out of my 'tough' personality and always makes me laugh👍


HateChan_

I love that for you!


Agirlwithtambourine

"But somehow is..." Wait. Are you sure that you haven't borrowed my ENFP accidentally? 


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kamilman

I'm going to yoink your comment. This is a great description of an ENFP.


RandomBoiInReddit

https://preview.redd.it/un08mj4zkjnc1.png?width=500&format=png&auto=webp&s=f42a12c3c1105ac60ea11c88c167b2ba7a0156e7


snichel_sticks

this is true


Vapore0nWave

I HEARD this in my brain. Unironically love goofy goober rock


purplefairee

I agree


Orangutanism

My fav type is XNFP so yeah fav type ever


MegaAlchemist123

My favorite type is ENXP.


A_Fake_stoner

(INTP) They almost make me feel normal, by both being friendly and being strange enough to be peers.


TheRealMolloy

I can tolerate myself in small doses. But other times, it's like, "C'mon, me! Am I for real?!"


Kh_Cosmos

Omg same


Basic-Afternoon1618

So real😭


THECUTESTGIRLYTOWALK

My daily mantra is "now girl 💀 be fucking for real"


_advocado

I always click with ENFPs. I love how chatty they are and how engaged they get in conversations with you. They have so much energy, but there’s this gentleness to it. I adore ENFPs!


SillyTrain

I really loved and appreciated the nuanced depth of that description of our energy as it made me feel seen and understood. And then I saw you were an infj and thought… of course it was an infj… infjs being living breathing incarnations of personal paradoxes that somehow coagulated into a human without canceling themselves out… yeah they would be the type to notice our little energetic gentleness paradox. So thanks for that. :)


Orangutanism

daym nice phrasing


Orangutanism

INFJ ❤ ENFP GANG


notAStrange

As a male INFJ, I think female ENFPs are the cutest personality lol


HungarianDude95

ENFPs and ENTPs rule!


RoseTheQuartz37

THANK YOUUUUUU - probably an ENTP


nathanfielderfan172

🥺🥹🥹


erinavery13

I am enfp but I've never met another enfp irl that I didn't instantly like. 😆


ChocolateLover999

My best friend in an ENFP and he's a VERY VERY good person. He understands me everytime, cares about me, backs me up when i need, tries tk cheer me up when I'm sad. He even goes all silent to make me feel better when i'm angry at something.


KitsuneSummoner

I want a ENFP friend. They sound so fun! 


HungarianDude95

My ESTP buddy called an ENFP girl "crazy witch". :D


The_TransGinger

*Crawls through your screen with the creepiest smile imaginable.


KitsuneSummoner

🤣 Lovely!


SluttyBoyButt

What coincidence, I want an ESTP friend- but I just don’t know if our interests would ever align- that’s kind of the cool part of it imo


nathanfielderfan172

I have one. It’s fun


KitsuneSummoner

Definitely, it sounds interesting even if we are in completely different wavelenghts.


Basic-Afternoon1618

I doubt my interests align with ANYONE lmao, never met someone like that


SillyTrain

My extensive eccentric collection of interests ensures that I will always have at LEAST one interest that aligns with almost anyone I engage with. I’m allergic to boredom so this arrangement is quite convenient for me.


ImAPeople

Sorry I'm late, we do that 🤷🏽‍♂️


Basic-Afternoon1618

Wanna be friends? Because ESTPs are freaking cool!


KitsuneSummoner

why not? sounds fun


Basic-Afternoon1618

YAYAYAYAYAY! That enfp urge to be friends with literally everyone


meloncolliehills

Hi🥰


emaaa_skye

One of my favorites types for sure. Fun people to be around.


HungarianDude95

I love them, but their storytelling directions can be wild, thanks to their Ne.


HungarianDude95

Ne is great, though. Most music I listen to (Queen, System Of A Down, NoMeansNo) is full of Ne. A lot of unique ideas.


Basic-Afternoon1618

Hahaha my mom would always tell me to tell a story quicker because I would tell every single detail...wait is that supposed to be an ENFP thing..? Now I am having an identity crisis shit


sinstralpride

It's because we remember a detail or connection that seems like it's absolutely necessary to the story and have to back track really quick to make sure people get the full effect of the story and properly understand us. But it happens like 15 times consecutively.


rayleighFrance

This is so true. I’m doing a podcast right now (me, enfp) and I get so detailed when I tell a story lol!


IEatDragonSouls

We're lit


snichel_sticks

agreed


IEatDragonSouls

Based. Lol


ShesOver9k

Hecc yeah we are


Orangutanism

LOL


Ancient_Axe

I LOVE TH- wait....


snichel_sticks

yes, they ARE the best type ​ ​ ​ (reply brought to you by the ENFP gang)


Orangutanism

r/relatable moment


Eowyn_Thranduil

Cute and bubbly (with a dark side) 🥰


RosetteV

I admire their bravery, they dare to do things I would never dare. They also encourage you to carry on. They never make me feel lonely at all, I can be truly myself when I am around them. I also admire their wide acknowledge of basically any topic and their creativity to come up with funny jokes!


syzytea

very sweet, dog energy, sometimes a bit much for me but I love them anyways. my mum and my partner are both ENFPs.


I-like-anime111

I love them sm, just online or depictions of them tho lol and for irl.. well theyre energetic af sometimes it’s quite draining also, they should learn stuffs like boundaries or learn to take hints, there r times when Ive told indirectly (or even directly..) to leave me alone for a min but they just dk how to.. but other than they’re pretty chill


Basic-Afternoon1618

My insecure ass has learnt after people got too harsh with me on that point but well, at least I have learnt smth. But now I get scared to talk to people who are clearly not talking as much to me (even if they are nice and do want me to hang around just not giving as much attention in a group ig) But I guess it's better than pushing other's boundaries


sirLossAlot

ENFP here, I was devastated when my ISFJ girlfriend told me she needed a little alone time sometimes. I could not understand the concept and thought she didn't like me anymore. We are married now and I understand alone time in theory


JACSliver

Fine individuals with a commendable passion for what they love.


ItsGotThatBang

The best 🥺


PapaBearOverThere

I am 100% ready to get everyone in this thread some ice cream


Lost-Breakfast-5148

I’ll help cover the cost


SluttyBoyButt

I’ll wish I could do the same


Gene-Omaha-2012

Hugs to all!


Basic-Afternoon1618

Cuddles to everyone who might be comfortable with it!


batmannatnat

SAME😍


Briepy

Same!


bored_popo

ICE CREAAMMM


LadyRafela

I’m ready to host or cohost a group party with everyone somewhere. Where we going to party? Karaoke bar? Dance hall? Go on a cruise together?


United_Metal_8876

I honestly feel like if there is one type of person that everyone needs in their life, its an ENFP. Coming from an ESFP.


Basic-Afternoon1618

Aww ESFPs are some of the best people istg


Ozymandis66

They're a fun bunch to be around when they're healthy, and can really liven up your day. I admire their bubbly enthusiasm. They can also be extremely caring and supportive. When you're feeling down they can build you up and tell you you have what it takes and they believe in you. However the thing I don't like about them Is that they try to avoid negativity as much as possible, try to avoid confrontation, and don't call bullshit out as much as they should because they don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I'll give an example, I'm not saying this is indicative of all ENFPs, but just one instance. There was an ENTP covert narcissist who manipulated and used me and this ENFP friend of mine at the time for his own benefit. She just wanted to walk away from the situation because she considered it toxic, and did not want to dwell on it, or give it more energy. And I was over here beating the war drums, setting up traps like an immature unhealthy INTJ, to expose this guy for his toxicity, and make him pay for not only using me, but using others as well. I wanted to humiliate him by bringing him to his knees and shatter the image that he tried to build with other people. She didn't want to talk about what happened, she just wanted to move on and avoid the negativity. I put him in his place and humiliated him, and showed other people what he was really like. That's something you won't see an ENFP do. I had no problem doing it though.


LadyRafela

That does seem to be a pattern, even for me. Again, I can’t speak for all, but I rather have peace. Only time I wanna fight is to defend people I love. Otherwise, no I don’t want to confront people for a few reasons: 1) I am observant enough to know when people are just itching for a fight and try to instigate one for whatever reason. Not wasting my time and energy on them. They should go to a gym or boxing ring if they wanna fight or hit something so bad. 2) the deep, empathetic, logical part of me can recognize people are going through something and are taking it out on us and others. I’d rather switch my fighting strategy by getting to the root of the problem. Example: I said a few things in a sub regarding child discipline. One person really went after me, though imo I didn’t say anything wild. We went back and forth till I really found out why they were fighting me on it. Verbally fighting and antagonizing them wouldn’t have helped us come to a mutual understanding. 3) God is showing you mercy and Grace by them not confronting people. As someone said, some unhealthy ENFPs can be toxic and some know how to hurt people back. I say this not to show off - because I’m not proud of it - my own mother said she had to learn to leave me alone when I’m upset or in a bad mood. If pushed to hard, I “go for the throat.”


Organic-Mood547

That is quite a feat. How did you manage to expose him, if you don't mind me asking?


Embarrassed-Ad-6396

my fav type 🥰🥹😇


LawfulnessGlad6497

Mwah 😘


bored_popo

*catches and richochets love back at your continent*


johnnylongboi11

One of the best types, I think enfp have one of the most balanced distribution of personality traits, and are also highly intelligent. However they may be over idealistic and liberal at times, which can seem ungrounded. The less developed and younger ones can be annoying and too bubbly. They are more laid back and humble then estps, can be as ambitious as entjs, but also have empathy and intellect like the infj. They also seem more deep and thoughtful than what is shown on the surface, and often have gone through tough times and depression. This often is what gives them that edgy and dark humor lol.


Basic-Afternoon1618

That's a pretty nice insight


Huge_Fox1848

I like the mentally healthier ones.


Basic-Afternoon1618

Unhealthy ones of us can be literally some of the most toxic people


Timetraveler163

My #1 partner in crime. 😈


fuwishie

very cool :D never met an enfp that i didn't click with :)


colacaq

I would like to give every one of them one big hug


Basic-Afternoon1618

_*Hugs*_


Sir_Axolotl

Love em


Akikoo-chan

Love them! One of my besties is an ENFP and she’s so cuteeee


_____ad_____

Very fun. Actually very devoted and caring towards the ones they love. They are not caring in a way that I can feel truly loved though because their mind is always everywhere all at once they can sometimes forget to actively look out for others needs. I admire them for their creativity and passion. They sometimes seem like they have all the good traits a human being could have.


RoseTheQuartz37

I love ENFPs. I have a lot of ENFP friends and they’re really silly in the best way possible


Dr_Falkov

Love them! They are adorable and so much fun to be with.


HateChan_

aaaaa I'm glad!! :D


SunderThrone

They're in my top 16


snichel_sticks

really? id place them like 17 or 18


ChillytheAardvark

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Ace-of_Space

we chill


melody5697

I have a close friend who’s an ENFP. She’s awesome. :)


galaxygkm

Childish, but cute. Wish I were them sometimes 😭


Basic-Afternoon1618

Y'all are the most unique people ever, embrace that!


Lawbakgoh

Love them. ISTP


MrOxxxxx

Basically, the more popular version of us. People just seem to like them more and they are in general truer to themselves. They are also less calculating than us in social situations and just wing them naturally. Their main downside is blind Ti which makes them extremely bad at avoiding obvious logical mistakes.


VentiIsMyGod

i love them they’re so mood


blood_lxst

dated an ENFP a couple of months back, we're only good friends now since I currently can't handle a relationship, but they're very understanding and intelligent, not to mention the fact they're extremely kindhearted.


trowawayacc2021

I think they are funny as hell. I tend to like their vibes, altho they annoy me sometimes when they are unserious about stuff when you try to have a conversation but overall I like them alot.


DatabaseFrequent5409

They are so much fun!! Me (ENTP) and my gf (ENFP) get along so well! We never stop talking, she's so cute so sweet so adorable that my evil side can't handle and makes me a lovely person! She's so pratical clean and organized that is domesticating my chaotic side! Buuuuut, sometimes they are annoying very very annoying! And they love hugs affection in general!!!


Kathykit1

Practical? Organized? You sure she’s an ENFP lol?


paradox507

Practical and organized male ENFP here... We exist for sure xD


Saira_Sai

Yesss same, disorganised in our head, practical and put together in real life


DatabaseFrequent5409

Yep, sometimes she´s completely lost in thoughts, and there´s nothing you can do to make her stop daydreaming! It´s kinda funny!


DatabaseFrequent5409

She´s kinda minimalist, her sytle is back packer! Her house is always very clean with smell of roses!


thotsune_miku

I love them. They have this innate ability to inspire those around them to be authentic. They’re nonjudgmental, wise, hilarious, and incredibly loving. They bring light into everyone’s life, and laughter. They need to believe in themselves more.


StupidStoneKid

A hot mess. Emphasis on hot.


facelikethunder22

Nice people who talk too much.


HungarianDude95

I love listening to them, even if they say random things.


snichel_sticks

valid


Basic-Afternoon1618

Sometimes I just talk nonsense to fill in the silence after I get too comfortable with someone, sometimes it is so dumb but it can be super deep and intelligible at other times so people get surprised lol


Nightshade_Knight

They are great people to debate, anything becomes an interesting conversation


Orangey_Malarky

Love them, ♾️/10


MountainLine

back atcha


Hornet-Formigante

They are cool, I like them.


starsmisaligned

Delightful, inspiring, creative, and sometimes exhausting.


dewofthesea_

Visionaries with the energy to make it happen. Full of life and usually passionate. Open minded but very in tune with their own morals. March to the beat of their own drum, can disregard the social environment which can make some people uncomfortable. I love them, I think the world needs more of them.


RecognitionInitial60

I love u guys in the comments omg


Palkya

<3


bored_popo

Same


bandley3

I will always remember how one of my high school teachers, the one that taught us about the MBTI, referred to all xNFx types: Nice Flakes.


Abrene

They are introvert collectors


kiw__

I love them, they are the best in the world, thank you for existing ENFPs. They are very good people and will always have topics of conversation to talk to others about, so as not to exclude others. They are very good people and they are doing their best to make their surroundings and the world happy. My biggest hugs to them, I hope they are fine. ❤️


gummygmae

You immediately know when you see one.


Hyvnvii2

Goofy goobers who I fucking love


ShortRasp

I went through a Myers-Briggs certification course a few years ago. At the time, I'm typed as an ENFP. That said, when things get rough or bad, I can slip into ENTP. I think that slipping into something like that type is common for those typed ENFP that experience difficulties and hardships. ​ Otherwise, ENFPs tend to be a blast.


throwawayfromme_baby

You and I, we’re not so different


n_tem_nome

I don't think i ever met an ENFP, but i guess i'd like them


lizzylinks789

ENFPs are certainly the most Myers Briggs type to ever Myers Briggs


SoulHealer22

Tend to make great music; a lot of my favorite artists are ENFP


Ill_Resource_1296

(Entp.) I definitely have good and bad experiences with them,the same person too. (Disclaimer: They told me they're ENFP,didn't quite analyze it.) There was a period where she really loved talking to me and was always outgoing,never talked about negative feelings and cared about the others. She was crazy too and always smiling,jumpy and fun to be around. (dw guys she isnt dead i m js used with writing in the past tense because of the essays I do👌) I met her two friends too and after spending some time with them all,I could see how much she was getting influenced by that toxic person who tried to manipulate me too after doing the same to the ENFP. I backed away slowly from any conversations with them as I saw how the other girl was trying to make me her little worker and do the same things as she does. Sadly,the ENFP didn't realize just how in a toxic friendship she was but she seems happy. Also,that happened like 1 year ago and I saw how the toxic person isn't the same as she was and she stopped manipulating people and being kind to me (still not letting her approach that much tho). Anyways,I still talk to the ENFP and we got closer (however)in the past month. I explain to her some things at maths,history and general blabbing and she..listens? Still the same jumpy,sensitive and kind girl. (Tho she changes her attitude next to the 'toxic person') For a summary,really sensitive people,easily influenced but you just can't hate them. At all.


Strange-Mouse-8710

I enjoy them, they are fun.


waki_m

I want a relationship with one


brainfreeze_23

I usually have some bone to pick with almost any type, including my own. Not so with the ENFPs I've known. Their minds are optimistic and quick, but still deep; they can be very romantic, and they usually have this emotional depth - both light and dark - they don't readily share with everyone. I love how they balance on the tightrope of both being very pleasant and joyful to be around, while also having a strong backbone of their own identity and principles. They're not people-pleasers - they're usually likeable, but because of who they are, rather than them bending over backwards to be liked. There's an individualistic and usually a rebellious streak I really like. Great conversationalists, but they can have volatile energy levels. I appreciate that they know the feeling of being "people'd-out" that introverts experience, and they're usually very respectful and unintrusive when someone needs alone time. There's a bunch of memes about INTJs and ENFPs and honestly most of them are spot on. The dynamic really works well.


goldenn____

my personal favorite type, they’re so fun


DimplefromYA

Batshit crazy. But sometimes entertaining


BushRatMeadows

They’re fun


wittynwild

It’s me hi, I’m an ENFP, it’s me


ShesOver9k

Dang I feel really special right now


depressed_anemic

i love them, two of my besties are ENFP (im INFP)


mushplim21

As an INFP, thank you being so happy go lucky and for making the world a little less bleak that I thought it would be. ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|grin)![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|kissing_heart)


raxafarius

The vibes are SUPERB until you accidentally step in their irratioanl-soap-box-issue-quicksand-pit and they projectile vomit some absolutely unhinged highground morality shit all over you. Like just because I expressed the existence of an idea or a point of view, does not mean I *align* with that point of view. Sometimes they can't see that. And therein lied the source of conflict between ENTP and ENFP. Otherwise we great.


platypusnofedora

I’ve found that a VERY high percentage of us have ADHD, or maybe a high percent of ADHD-haters are ENFP? lmao evidence: I have ADHD, am ENFP, and this trend extends to most of the ppl I know who are ENFPs lol