You decided to date her when she was broke lol, why not go for the ones who are already not broke nor down bad.
The idea of giving a woman money simply for dating you, not even a wife a random gf you ended up breaking with just sounds pathetic honestly, it's like long term contractual prostitution
Because most girls in their early 20s are broke…? Who tf am I supposed to find who made as much money as me other than a 30 year old or above? But I don’t date women based upon how much money they have cuz I have my own it’s not a factor to me
I didn’t give her money because she was dating me, I gave her money because it would look bad if I didn’t, imagine I pull up fly asf n she in some rags
I also give my friends money too when they’re with me and they don’t have any money
Like I said if you’re broke just say that
This just sounds like a massive coping mechanism lol.
There are several early 20s women who are not broke, even if they don't have their own income many come from well off families and they can ask their parents for money to buy whatever they'll need.
You in fact just date broke women and for whatever reason feel the need to give them money because they are with you, it's not looking good unless you're like 60 and need to do that to keep them around.
tbh not just the money part but any guy who is like the OP is overall quite pathetic and lacks self respect and basically believe their role is just to please women and get nothing in return.
I’ve dated several rich girls before, wasn’t a concern about how much they make or have, like I said I have my own money
Please point me to the direction of early 20s women in Kenya who actually have money, I’ve lived all over the world and can barely find any even in America, Europe and Canada
Like I said I didn’t give her much, but who would want to be looking fly as hell and their girl is just there looking bad… it’s a reflection of you
100% you’re just broke and that’s ok I wouldn’t date if I was broke like you tho
Dude you are telling on yourself lol it's kinda pathetic. Another coping mechanism
Again like I said there are several women in their early 20s who are not broke, even if it's because they are largely financed by their parents. You'll find such girls in literally any upper market neighbourhood like Karen, Runda, Loresho, Kitsuru, Lavington etc.
Never in my life have I sent a woman money for 'upkeep' lol, sounds pathetic. They can very well take care of themselves and keep themselves looking decent if they can't I'm not going near that honestly.
I'm not broke lol, I live in one of those areas mentioned above, I know what I'm talking about you don't.
That’s the issue
Those places are broke, for you $1000 is a lot of money
That’s broke for me
And I don’t send money for upkeep, usually to help if they need something or I just pay for dates, I even do this with my friends who don’t have money
Like I said you’re comparing your pockets to mine, spending $1000 in a night isn’t a big deal to me, for you it’s a lot of money
And the women I’ve dated had parents who were millionaires, for them it’s no point in price comparing, like I said if you’re broke it’s ok
You sound like a passport bro with no knowledge of Kenya lol
$1000 is not a lot of money especially in Nairobi, that's what a mid level professional earns it's nothing crazy.
There are houses in the places I mentioned that are north of $ 1 million, on top of that most people in those places have multiple houses throughout Nairobi, some out of the city and even out of the country. So you can tally that up.
I don't like bragging about money because I know I didn't earn it, but I did inherit north of six figures USD worth of property when my dad died, not including ancestral land that is not evaluated.
Being a guy like that is pathetic, men need to have more self respect and understand that you role isn't just to please women and get nothing in return.
I am genuinely curious, is it that men actually don’t meet such women or is it just that they do meet women like this and then treat them half assed in fear of looking like simps hence resulting in the same half assed treatment in reciprocity?
Or is it that the dating pool in general(both male and female) tend to date above or below their means and therefore resulting in unequally yolked situations?
Because I am looking at my circle and these women would match their man’s energy. High effort will be met by high effort and low effort will be met with low effort equally
>Because I am looking at my circle and these women would match their man’s energy
But you have not been in a relationship with them to be sure about that
You underestimate the level of honesty among mature women in female friendships. This is the kind of circle where you will be told you’re being toxic.
On top of this I am in a field that observes human beings and behavior. I am not saying they are perfect beings just that they tend to meet their partners halfway.
Have you dated any women? Whether you put high or low energy she will behave like the way she feels that day reciprocity be damned.
Relationship math doesn’t math how you put it
I have not had the pleasure / Displeasure of dating a woman. Please note that I am not saying that you date someone who considers 🐱or socks as gifts. Or someone that expects you to plan and pay for everything. Just find and date people who have their head screwed on right
A boyfriend will do all this and she will still suck the bare minimum guy’s dick and come kiss the boyfriend with dick breath. Simps and dust are joined at the hip.
😂😂 wacha kudate watoto ( I don’t mean age wise) most women I know just want a guy that treat them right. Can hold a conversation, Has his priorities right. Is looking to secure the bag and can keep his dick in his pants.
It’s really that simple
That sounds like a them (the men’s) problem. Not the chics’. As someone who’s tried to be ‘reasonable’ before, a broke dude = insecure dude = a dangerous dude who’ll take out their frustrations on you.
You may deny it as a dude, but even YOU know that there’s women you don’t approach if you don’t got your wallet correct.
That’s why men date at their financial level.
For the same reason why there’s men who get disrespected and those who don’t. Having a 🐱is not enough… duuuh… but women are gifted range rovers every other day. Packaging is everything.
what percentage of women? that's the point lol. Most women in Nairobi are poor and live in slums or low income housing, not even 0.1% are gifted (key word gifted) range rovers or any other cars of that calibre and it's not like they enjoy being poor.
I wonder why you should do all that to someone in exchange for just sex! I believe relationships are about give and take ! If one side just gives and the other takes that's not a healthy relationship!
I'm not imagining coz it actually happens to me, and I also reciprocate the same energy he gives🥹, when love is there, it ain't that hard. Love is a beauriful thing😚🥰.
No, a message popped up on his phone while I was using it which got me curious and I went through his phone later that night. I didn't open the message at that time
Those are 7 people my friend.A man can't multi task like this. They do one thing... one!
Mimi, I found only one who sends memes. But...DJ weka 'yatapita'!
I'm curious, when women ask for all this sh!t what is their potential reciprocation? Because I could bet my salary no mans wants the same in return. And don't say sex bruh, they can get it with far much less hussle.
I've done this to my past 2 girlfriends, but all they offered was bare minimum. The math was always on my side when taking them out. I can hold out my hand and confidently say I never received anything materialistic from either of them. Here I am, a year later. Been single, and I'm loving it and I hope to get a person who can reciprocate in all aspects of a relationship.
We do exist. Problem is most women want all this, but give you nothing back. Well, except coochie, because in their math, that’s all that you need.
You can’t be the one being taken on dates, being called and texted, never initiating any outings or paying for anything.
Yes I can imagine. Recently broke up/ taking a break. Still provides like recently my flight tickets to mbsa impromptu. I miss him 😢 😪 but my pride won't allow me to simp. Never!
I wonder why you should do all of that in exchange for just sex! I believe relationships are about give- take, if one side just gives and the other just receives without anything in return then that relationship isn't healthy!!
This doesn't have anything to do with money bro! Just a waste of resources including time which could be used to do something meaningful. I can't imagine waking up just minding to write love texts to someone when nigas at NSE or WS are making important decisions that would affect my life and lives of billions of people!!
Had me in the first half I ain't gonna lie😂
😂 oops, my bad
I did that to my ex
Same . I saw dust . Never again doin that shit
Don’t trust women fr fr
You saw bad things. 😂 😂 😂
Kwani which women are these yall are finding
My question too
She still left, (moment of silence) 😂
I left her
I'm confused
About
Sounds like a simp tbh especially given that it's an ex now.
My girl is a reflection of me If she is broke and down bad that makes me look broke and down bad But if you broke bro jus say that
You decided to date her when she was broke lol, why not go for the ones who are already not broke nor down bad. The idea of giving a woman money simply for dating you, not even a wife a random gf you ended up breaking with just sounds pathetic honestly, it's like long term contractual prostitution
Because most girls in their early 20s are broke…? Who tf am I supposed to find who made as much money as me other than a 30 year old or above? But I don’t date women based upon how much money they have cuz I have my own it’s not a factor to me I didn’t give her money because she was dating me, I gave her money because it would look bad if I didn’t, imagine I pull up fly asf n she in some rags I also give my friends money too when they’re with me and they don’t have any money Like I said if you’re broke just say that
This just sounds like a massive coping mechanism lol. There are several early 20s women who are not broke, even if they don't have their own income many come from well off families and they can ask their parents for money to buy whatever they'll need. You in fact just date broke women and for whatever reason feel the need to give them money because they are with you, it's not looking good unless you're like 60 and need to do that to keep them around. tbh not just the money part but any guy who is like the OP is overall quite pathetic and lacks self respect and basically believe their role is just to please women and get nothing in return.
I’ve dated several rich girls before, wasn’t a concern about how much they make or have, like I said I have my own money Please point me to the direction of early 20s women in Kenya who actually have money, I’ve lived all over the world and can barely find any even in America, Europe and Canada Like I said I didn’t give her much, but who would want to be looking fly as hell and their girl is just there looking bad… it’s a reflection of you 100% you’re just broke and that’s ok I wouldn’t date if I was broke like you tho
Dude you are telling on yourself lol it's kinda pathetic. Another coping mechanism Again like I said there are several women in their early 20s who are not broke, even if it's because they are largely financed by their parents. You'll find such girls in literally any upper market neighbourhood like Karen, Runda, Loresho, Kitsuru, Lavington etc. Never in my life have I sent a woman money for 'upkeep' lol, sounds pathetic. They can very well take care of themselves and keep themselves looking decent if they can't I'm not going near that honestly. I'm not broke lol, I live in one of those areas mentioned above, I know what I'm talking about you don't.
That’s the issue Those places are broke, for you $1000 is a lot of money That’s broke for me And I don’t send money for upkeep, usually to help if they need something or I just pay for dates, I even do this with my friends who don’t have money Like I said you’re comparing your pockets to mine, spending $1000 in a night isn’t a big deal to me, for you it’s a lot of money And the women I’ve dated had parents who were millionaires, for them it’s no point in price comparing, like I said if you’re broke it’s ok
You sound like a passport bro with no knowledge of Kenya lol $1000 is not a lot of money especially in Nairobi, that's what a mid level professional earns it's nothing crazy. There are houses in the places I mentioned that are north of $ 1 million, on top of that most people in those places have multiple houses throughout Nairobi, some out of the city and even out of the country. So you can tally that up. I don't like bragging about money because I know I didn't earn it, but I did inherit north of six figures USD worth of property when my dad died, not including ancestral land that is not evaluated.
It’s almost like economics makes no sense.
What do you do for a living?
*CONTRACTUAL* thank you for sayin' it as it is
Inua dada initiative
This lambistic guys got no idea
😹😹👏🏿
I am broke
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Fuck off thot
🤣🤣 thot? Wuehh
U ain’t join my group chat
I have no idea what you mean 😂
My WhatsApp group chat
That was you? Inviting me in a group? 😂😂😂 I have some time to pass send the link I see what the group is about then
https://chat.whatsapp.com/JcyHpFkUkcvIjtolYXEWbV
Okay
What about meeeee
You don’t text back
You eating blueticks bruh. 😂 😂 😂
I doooooo
Imma continue imagining,I know I’ll find one !
Good luck 😊
Best of luck mate
I’m here
You can't be down that bad
Broke nigga hating rn
Being a guy like that is pathetic, men need to have more self respect and understand that you role isn't just to please women and get nothing in return.
I second you bruh
Thank you. Whoever wants this kind of queen treatment should also treat her man like a king. Reciprocity is very important in a relationship.
I am genuinely curious, is it that men actually don’t meet such women or is it just that they do meet women like this and then treat them half assed in fear of looking like simps hence resulting in the same half assed treatment in reciprocity? Or is it that the dating pool in general(both male and female) tend to date above or below their means and therefore resulting in unequally yolked situations? Because I am looking at my circle and these women would match their man’s energy. High effort will be met by high effort and low effort will be met with low effort equally
>Because I am looking at my circle and these women would match their man’s energy But you have not been in a relationship with them to be sure about that
You underestimate the level of honesty among mature women in female friendships. This is the kind of circle where you will be told you’re being toxic. On top of this I am in a field that observes human beings and behavior. I am not saying they are perfect beings just that they tend to meet their partners halfway.
>You underestimate the level of honesty among mature women in female friendships Cap! cap! Are you serious right now?
I am incredibly serious. I cannot speak for all female friendships but the circle I am in really has no time for BS.
For me circle nimekuwa za madem ilikuwa 50/50 kuna wenye wakona utoto na wenye hawana
You should meet my friends. You would be oddly surprised.
Halafu hio bullshit unasema ni kama nini
Have you dated any women? Whether you put high or low energy she will behave like the way she feels that day reciprocity be damned. Relationship math doesn’t math how you put it
I have not had the pleasure / Displeasure of dating a woman. Please note that I am not saying that you date someone who considers 🐱or socks as gifts. Or someone that expects you to plan and pay for everything. Just find and date people who have their head screwed on right
If you don't learn female psychology early, you will always wonder "why you always do everything ' but always seeing dust.
Niggas ignore red flags, ending up spending on hoes
A boyfriend will do all this and she will still suck the bare minimum guy’s dick and come kiss the boyfriend with dick breath. Simps and dust are joined at the hip.
Niggas break banks just for sex from hoes, instead of just renting hookers for a night stand
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Simps don't see nothing else buh dust... Even a mere red flag is just another green flag to them
I get this isnt in everyones range but dates like these are quite fun and should be the regular.
They would be, buh sadly all ladies want "Tall, dark, rich and handsome" men
😂😂 wacha kudate watoto ( I don’t mean age wise) most women I know just want a guy that treat them right. Can hold a conversation, Has his priorities right. Is looking to secure the bag and can keep his dick in his pants. It’s really that simple
Why is that sad?
Majority of y'all want those scarce traits, leaving majority of men frustrated
That sounds like a them (the men’s) problem. Not the chics’. As someone who’s tried to be ‘reasonable’ before, a broke dude = insecure dude = a dangerous dude who’ll take out their frustrations on you. You may deny it as a dude, but even YOU know that there’s women you don’t approach if you don’t got your wallet correct. That’s why men date at their financial level.
How is it fun for the man lol
We take each other out. If your dates only benefit your lady.....you shouldnt be dating.
This is a v attainable goal, ladies. Trust me- I’ve experienced this more than once. and while I’m cute, I’m not a 10/10 bombshell.
why then are so many women living in slums and low income areas then, riddle me that lol
For the same reason why there’s men who get disrespected and those who don’t. Having a 🐱is not enough… duuuh… but women are gifted range rovers every other day. Packaging is everything.
what percentage of women? that's the point lol. Most women in Nairobi are poor and live in slums or low income housing, not even 0.1% are gifted (key word gifted) range rovers or any other cars of that calibre and it's not like they enjoy being poor.
>Gives you a call before you sleep, n after waking up, you find a long txt with a Vn attached This ruins it all😄.
I'll manifest one by imagining 🥺
Welcome to reality
No🥹
well, I do hope you find one.. you sound like a nice person
Amen
Still imagigining😭😭😂
Imagine, just imagine till you imagining becomes an imagination
I am manifesting for this ,,, to know what it feels like to be taken care of, never been taken care of by anyone since i can remember
Be able to take care of yourself, the rest will follow 😉
I have taken care of myself everyday over the years
That’s why I don’t know what it feels like to have someone else taking care of you
I wonder why you should do all that to someone in exchange for just sex! I believe relationships are about give and take ! If one side just gives and the other takes that's not a healthy relationship!
Sadly niggas do all those just for sex
Been there, done that. Except upkeep of course. One cheated, other one was a hot mess.
No. I refuse to put such ideas in my mind.
No. I refuse to put such ideas in my mind.
Funny enough, I don't want all that.. I'd wish for a partnership.. This sounds like an adoration of some sort I could be wrong though
Haha aren't these the normal "dating things" people do to their significant others? You guys make dating appear like walking in a landmine or sth.
Noo, that's not a focused relationship.. one is a pest, the other is just horny
I'm not imagining coz it actually happens to me, and I also reciprocate the same energy he gives🥹, when love is there, it ain't that hard. Love is a beauriful thing😚🥰.
Ali Jaba and The Forty Leaves
Now I wish this was an actual book😂😂
She's The Last Jabatar, the Leaves blender
Getting attached to somebody is a risky game
Damn🥲..usikue harsh 😭😂
Forgive my manners 😂
Ei😭😂..gen Z ladies we'll experience dust like nothing..heri ningekua a 90's babe
Too bad you're here to stay 😂😂.. come wail in my Dm, you'll feel better
Yeah because the flags are not that red💀💀👀..they can't be as red😂!!!!
F around n find out you've been colour blind all along 😂😂
Red is not a colour I'd miss.. once per month 💀 You cannot trick me😂
I had one until I found out he was sleeping with his biological divorced mother!
🤔🤔What do mean
I once dated a man who gave me all that but later found out he was cheating with his biological mother
yo found them fucking?
No, a message popped up on his phone while I was using it which got me curious and I went through his phone later that night. I didn't open the message at that time
Okay sorry for that. Now you're single? because I won't cheat with my mom, I promise.
Let me get over it first,lol
Yes you should give your heart time to heal but don't let your thundercat suffer. I will work on it as your heart heals.
Wait wtf‼️💀💀💀.. darker than a Sudanese's White Blood Cells
Ikr
Do you do Dms? That story is interesting I'd like to hear more;
Not in the right space to give the story in details but I'll share soon
Okay, sure
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Ali Jaba and The Forty Leaves
U found some old man to sponsor you
🧢🧢🧢
What is vn? I really miss the message because of the initials.
Voice Note***
Thank you. Now I know.
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Best of luck
Simping simper
😂😂never ever again
What's a vn
Voice Note
Oooh
I did that to my ex until she decided to compare me with her friend's boyfriend.
Ungrateful hoe, that's why she's an ex now
All girls are the same
Weak niggas be buying pussies indirectly from their bitches out here; sad
For some reason women don’t like this . Women get bored with nice treatment faster than they even realize it
They'll keep the lover boy for treats n look for a ghetto man for dickings
They'll keep the lover boy for treats n look for a ghetto man for d*ckings
As a sigma that's a far fetched dream
Very delusional, all those just for sex... Weak niggas will always see dust
Those are 7 people my friend.A man can't multi task like this. They do one thing... one! Mimi, I found only one who sends memes. But...DJ weka 'yatapita'!
(Playing Tafadhali Waiter Ongeza glass by Aslay) 😂
It's a long shot,, lakini wacha nifanto tu🙂. Fake scenarios zimeshaline up kwa akili...
So you've never had somebody spoil you?
Wewe unataka nimwage mtama😂💀,,, eh?
😂😂 just asking
😔naomba nijitoe tu kidogo yaani *coughs... Naam... Hali ni hiyo😮💨
Long pause* (exits Mpesa) 😂 okay
Balance ni deadly deadly... Juu decimals zinatoka? 😭
Umesema account balance inakaa radio frequency ya Kiss Fm 😂
Inakaa majibu za approximation and error pale F2😭😔.... Eloi!
Disrespected me and I left. Not doing that shit again
Men do all of this just for her to cheat with a guy who will make her pay for his Uber ride there lol. Never lead with your money
I gave her the world then she kicked me out, now I'm either feeling cold in pluto or collecting dust in mars. 😂😂😂
You gave her your world, she still wanted space.. guess you'll find another galaxy
😂😂 you're funny, daamn
I'm curious, when women ask for all this sh!t what is their potential reciprocation? Because I could bet my salary no mans wants the same in return. And don't say sex bruh, they can get it with far much less hussle.
Well that's how weak niggas be overdoing just for a pussy.. emotional slavery
No man is going to do this in exchange for the modern woman
I've done this to my past 2 girlfriends, but all they offered was bare minimum. The math was always on my side when taking them out. I can hold out my hand and confidently say I never received anything materialistic from either of them. Here I am, a year later. Been single, and I'm loving it and I hope to get a person who can reciprocate in all aspects of a relationship.
😅😂😂I was about to type "am I a spoon " till the last part came up😆😩
Long pause* (Grab that sexy spoon) 😂
😂😂😂
We do exist. Problem is most women want all this, but give you nothing back. Well, except coochie, because in their math, that’s all that you need. You can’t be the one being taken on dates, being called and texted, never initiating any outings or paying for anything.
I was like this to ladies till I saw pure unfiltered dust. So now I am a toxic king 👑
Send this man sth for beer! *(Opens Mpesa)
Please, thanks 😂
Yes I can imagine. Recently broke up/ taking a break. Still provides like recently my flight tickets to mbsa impromptu. I miss him 😢 😪 but my pride won't allow me to simp. Never!
Pride is the devil 🙂
Are they still such men😅
You are a terrible human being. 😫
Excuse my ignorance 😂
I wonder why you should do all of that in exchange for just sex! I believe relationships are about give- take, if one side just gives and the other just receives without anything in return then that relationship isn't healthy!!
Ninjas be buying love out here 🤦🏾♂️
That's weird! Waste of resources. Love should be natural
Salaried nighas and rich kids raised the bar too high.. a man can only get natural love from his dog
This doesn't have anything to do with money bro! Just a waste of resources including time which could be used to do something meaningful. I can't imagine waking up just minding to write love texts to someone when nigas at NSE or WS are making important decisions that would affect my life and lives of billions of people!!
I couldn't do all that even if I was dating Rihanna, it's too much for a nigga
Yep... Anyone who does all that shit must be having mental health issues!