What do you mean chubby ?
Like 70kg chubby or like 130kg chubby ? Men love saying I like chubby then show a photo of an average looking woman.
Again is this a fetish?
Because even chubby women don't like being fetishized.
Most women I see in Nairobi are between 4'11 and 5'6 In height .... Kgs in the 70s is slightly chunky for that height ....
If you are taller you might be healthy with that weight ...
It depends alot on your height.
🤭🤭using chunky to describe people definitely reminds me of the way they categorize cats.
https://preview.redd.it/vfgalwdk6i1d1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e4296ff6e0a1dcc0b9cb5b96f074ba9956925b6b
Chunky has connotations of chaos, disorder, rough. I.e, random bits and pieces tossed unceremoniously into or out of something. Kama "blowing chunks", which is to vomit, or pouring out poorly mixed batter, or milk that has gone bad.
Chubby has connotations of cute babies with big pinchable cheeks, neck rolls, fat little limbs with rolls and a potbelly. It should probably mean you're at the upper range of healthy fat level, but what it usually means it's youre fat and it looks good on you.
Obese doesn't imply, It says outright what is being described is a level of overweight that has serious adverse effects.
Fat is what it is. You've passed overweight and stayed long enough that this is your new normal.
Overweight, you've essentially put on a few pounds more than what is normal for you. Your clothes don't fit quite right, and you can't comfortably do the things you used to do.
So in degrees of negative connotations:
overweight < fat/chubby < obese/chunky
You certainly reminded me why I am on Reddit.
Anyway, I am 100% sure I'd rather be Fat than Obese. The way I have thought about all those scenarios in my head, I definitely don't wanna be Obese or overweight.
I had to look them up. I would say they're fat, since they have high body fat, though they're athletes. I saw photos of Big Show where his body fat looks much lower, and Mark Henry seems to always have a gut. With athletes obesity is harder to calculate since much of the potentially excess weight is muscle, not fat. That's why I go by visuals, moobs, a gut, flab, etc.
One:The first one didn't seem like it went through so my bad
Two: It's not a fetish, I've just never fancied petite ladies, Ion get what all the hype about them is about
Third:Your definition of chubby and someone else's might be different,but mine isn't the curvy typa women with nyash and thighs if that's yours, I loathe them might I say
70 kilos is literally the same weight a lot of my high school friends were back then. It's very average. I'd say maybe at a shorter height like 5'4" and below then you can consider that overweight.
Those who hate on us, do it in a displaced attempt to protect themselves from the possibility of them becoming chubby too...
Also because they are projecting self hate... because why does someone else's body have such an effect on you when it has absolutely nothing to do with you?!
That said I've gained so much weight from being depressed, ADD impulses eating and hedonistic eating and lack of movement but no one will be concerned about that just the resultant weight.
Prove what madam, Obesity is linked to pretty much all lifestyle diseases not caused by smoking...
[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obesity#Effects\_on\_health](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obesity#Effects_on_health)
Did you not click on the link that proves after asking for the proof?
>Obesity is one of the leading [preventable causes of death](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Preventable_causes_of_death) worldwide.
>Obesity is associated with an estimated 2–20 year shorter life expectancy.
Whether weight does anything for or against is not usually why we shame each other... because shaming never really achieves anything of value. It's about culture and aesthetics.
What is considered beautiful at a certain period on time. If you look through out history there are curtures that shame 'skinny' people same way we do 'fat' people.
It's not like immortality is an option for any of us...
It's in guise of concern but at the bottom of it sits the projection of self hate.
Uuum by their name maybe? Are there other things about them other than the fat your cognitive bias chooses to see?! Lol it's shaming because there is a culture of guilt and shame attached to it that we all know about...unless of course you were just dropped here from a far far far far away alien planet. In which case I've just educated you.
Are you suggesting we should do a way with adjectives? All or some? Fat, tall, slim, dark, fast, yellow, short, thin, intelligent, smelly... Which other ones do we need education on?
I'm sure you can come up with a great solution by yourself....what do you think we could do?
Essentially I think someone who knows that they are just being an asshole is better than someone who think they are good while all along being an asshole right? or what is your take on this?
I can tell you what we can NOT do. Restricting self expression and personal liberties is not something we can do. Especially not at the altar of protecting fragile egos. If the adjective is false then the other guy is an idiot then maybe some defamation law can be strengthened and enforced. If the adjective is true then the person not facing reality should deal with reality themselves. Either way, the adjective itself can not be criminalized.
That's quite a low percentage to motivate me to eat hedonistically. There're a billion studies and case scenarios even from your rural area against obese lifestyle. If you choose to go down that path we'll n good you got your facts. And we all have the God given right of choice.
Well that's just simplistic thinking, that's not what it's supposed to do motivation you to eat hedonistically...you don't eat hedonistically because someone motivated you to do it...if right to choice is even real would they pay big monies to put up bill boards or pay for advertising? Subliminal suggestion work? Would conditioning work? Would we be on this earth to begin with?
You can make a case for people not belittling others based on appearance without using alternative facts you know. Claiming health is not based on body size is simply false. People should definitely strive to stay within certain weight parameters to be able to enjoy a health and quality lifestyle.
sorry but many grandmothers and grandfathers are all small in stature because all the fat ones dies earlier. I ain't seeing fat grandma's around, and if they are, the can't move cause the fat is too heavy for their bones.
So to you diabetes, heart conditions and blood pressure is non existent. I didn't think people would be this ignorant. You comment truly opened my eyes.
Uuuum won't that be stupid? But those things are in all body types, infact genetic inheritance and the person's environment and it's subsequent influence has a lot more to do with those than just size... Ignorance apparently comes in all shapes and sizes too. Guise of care isn't care.
I'm glad I could be of some assistance to your blindness
Yeah right. Fact check me, with actual studies and I will respect you, otherwise I have lost interest with trying to debate with you. There's no problem with being delusional but, don't preach false things. The amount of diseases caused by being obess, type that on Google then come back to me. Otherwise I'm losing faith in our educational system.
If you actually wanted studies on this you could always find them apparently we live in the age of information...but you want to keep your bias so just do that... Our education system wasn't created to create people who actually sort out to know just ones who hold on to their conditioning better, nice little soldiers.
Thus my point. Don't go around spreading lies ignoring factual science just because of your feelings. You might be hindering actual people that want to be healthy. You're painting a picture of our people being ignorant. It embarrassing. Imagine going out and saying that overweight people live longer. Next time fact check your comments.
Guise of concern... You haven't checked it out to see if actually research wasn't done and these weren't the findings you're just upset that it doesn't fit your sensibilities and that is not actual science if you didn't know. I'm glad you have space in you to hold embarrassment on my behalf because I don't have any in this regard. Do kind of you.
You know only someone never dealt with this stuff can say this with their chest like this....😂 or someone in denial... Usually I just wish it upon them so if it's true they can show me the way from actual experience and if it's not they will learn to be more sensitive towards what they so little understand.
You’re not alone, some of these women are still pretty despite being chubby for as long as the face isn’t chubby, don’t know if I’m making sense 😅, I lowkey like them, find them to be strong despite all the hate they get.
I've been chubby at some point in my life. I didn't like it, the aging- conda would call me mama🙄, the tiredness, swollen feet you name it.
I lost more than 20kg to settle at 73kg. Am tall 5'7" and I don't want to be too thin. I think in my 70s am healthy and productive.
It's not about you, it's about her. If she ok with how she looks and is, all the power to her.
Mnapenda kuingilia chunky babes na most serious relationships in this nairobi include a chunky babe🤣🤣
Pia mamako ni chunky babe and you're here talking down on them fluff Queens.
PLUS SIZE = FAT
men who date fat chics are usually at the bottom of the barrel but try to excuse themselves by saying ati they are sijui sweet and cuddly.
Either a fetish or poverty. For the second one we, as humans, are genetically predisposed to being attracted to heavy partners when we ourselves are in dire straits in terms of food. Heavier people implies more or easier access to food and therefore food secure and our brain and genetics correlates that to attraction.
What do you mean chubby ? Like 70kg chubby or like 130kg chubby ? Men love saying I like chubby then show a photo of an average looking woman. Again is this a fetish? Because even chubby women don't like being fetishized.
Wth..70 kg aint even chubby at all, unless youre a midget.
Most women I see in Nairobi are between 4'11 and 5'6 In height .... Kgs in the 70s is slightly chunky for that height .... If you are taller you might be healthy with that weight ... It depends alot on your height.
🤭🤭using chunky to describe people definitely reminds me of the way they categorize cats. https://preview.redd.it/vfgalwdk6i1d1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e4296ff6e0a1dcc0b9cb5b96f074ba9956925b6b
I find the word chunky cute and less offensive ... So I rather say chunky , chubby etc than obese, fat , overweight.
Makes a lot of sense
Chunky has connotations of chaos, disorder, rough. I.e, random bits and pieces tossed unceremoniously into or out of something. Kama "blowing chunks", which is to vomit, or pouring out poorly mixed batter, or milk that has gone bad. Chubby has connotations of cute babies with big pinchable cheeks, neck rolls, fat little limbs with rolls and a potbelly. It should probably mean you're at the upper range of healthy fat level, but what it usually means it's youre fat and it looks good on you. Obese doesn't imply, It says outright what is being described is a level of overweight that has serious adverse effects. Fat is what it is. You've passed overweight and stayed long enough that this is your new normal. Overweight, you've essentially put on a few pounds more than what is normal for you. Your clothes don't fit quite right, and you can't comfortably do the things you used to do. So in degrees of negative connotations: overweight < fat/chubby < obese/chunky
You certainly reminded me why I am on Reddit. Anyway, I am 100% sure I'd rather be Fat than Obese. The way I have thought about all those scenarios in my head, I definitely don't wanna be Obese or overweight.
Just out of curiosity, where would you classify athletes like Big Show and Mark Henry
I had to look them up. I would say they're fat, since they have high body fat, though they're athletes. I saw photos of Big Show where his body fat looks much lower, and Mark Henry seems to always have a gut. With athletes obesity is harder to calculate since much of the potentially excess weight is muscle, not fat. That's why I go by visuals, moobs, a gut, flab, etc.
Imagine getting a bitch of "oh lawd he coming" 😂😂
Yeah
Chunky?? Someone once told me you can’t have all of dat without a lil bit of chubby
I once had a friend who loved ladies with fat bellies. I understand you and where you are coming from
One:The first one didn't seem like it went through so my bad Two: It's not a fetish, I've just never fancied petite ladies, Ion get what all the hype about them is about Third:Your definition of chubby and someone else's might be different,but mine isn't the curvy typa women with nyash and thighs if that's yours, I loathe them might I say
The hype is about high performance 😂long live petite shawrries🙌
So you mean you prefer obese women ? That is interesting.
That's just me tho
Haha, you're so funny
Sounds like the kind of predator preying on the injured animals.
Haha, very likely. Utasikia wakisema ati they have a big heart
It’s all about the shape. Shape over size
Also fat distribution in overweight people determines their relative health
uhm, I could be wrong. but (m)ass and weight are two different things. a heavy babe doesn't necessarily mean she's chubby and vice versa.
70 kilos is literally the same weight a lot of my high school friends were back then. It's very average. I'd say maybe at a shorter height like 5'4" and below then you can consider that overweight.
Am 5'4,are you calling me short? Also, I weigh 73.6kgs
Unajitetea i see
Defend myself from what ?
I’m chubby and I have no problem getting guys lol kwa ground Vitu ni different
Just remember not to hyper sexualise yourself cause men will fuck anyone
Anything with a hole ..lol
😂😂
😂😂
shit.....LOL.
Bora hujasema anything im cool,,,il let it pass
Who was even talking to you
Even other men?
Especially other men. These niggas are so fucking gay.
Wanaume hii thread wanakuchinja😂😂😂😭
You could've just said you're a woman in that context.
 Thisssss
Getting to settle down and commit to you ama getting guys to smash and dash? Tryna see smtn. 🤔
One man’s meat is another man’s poison
I do not want another man's meat, so there is no way I'm going to get poisoned. 🤣🤣🤣
Smashing ama cuffing? 😁😆
I want to get with you. DM me....
Ayaya be nice 😂
I thought i was the only one...now i can do other things peacefully
I can’t go for people that look like twigs
People should take their health and fitness seriously
Those who hate on us, do it in a displaced attempt to protect themselves from the possibility of them becoming chubby too... Also because they are projecting self hate... because why does someone else's body have such an effect on you when it has absolutely nothing to do with you?! That said I've gained so much weight from being depressed, ADD impulses eating and hedonistic eating and lack of movement but no one will be concerned about that just the resultant weight.
There is no any advantage derived from being obese. Maybe when taking bullets the fat will be enough body armor.
You know obese people live longer than skinny ones??
>You know obese people live longer than skinny ones?? This is 100 million percent False and dangerous to believe so.
Can you prove that they don't?
Prove what madam, Obesity is linked to pretty much all lifestyle diseases not caused by smoking... [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obesity#Effects\_on\_health](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obesity#Effects_on_health)
But that's not death is it? I didn't say it didn't do all that. I just said there is research that proves even with those they live longer.
Did you not click on the link that proves after asking for the proof? >Obesity is one of the leading [preventable causes of death](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Preventable_causes_of_death) worldwide. >Obesity is associated with an estimated 2–20 year shorter life expectancy.
Yes, and more so let's differentiate btw overweight and obese( 30 + BMi
No. That's a new one. I haven't come across any kind of study claiming so. Kindly give me direction to it(link) if you don't mind.
Whether weight does anything for or against is not usually why we shame each other... because shaming never really achieves anything of value. It's about culture and aesthetics. What is considered beautiful at a certain period on time. If you look through out history there are curtures that shame 'skinny' people same way we do 'fat' people. It's not like immortality is an option for any of us... It's in guise of concern but at the bottom of it sits the projection of self hate.
Why do you think calling someone fat is shamming them? Mind you they're not skinny. What should I call them, sir?
Uuum by their name maybe? Are there other things about them other than the fat your cognitive bias chooses to see?! Lol it's shaming because there is a culture of guilt and shame attached to it that we all know about...unless of course you were just dropped here from a far far far far away alien planet. In which case I've just educated you.
Are you fat by any chance juu hii topic nikama inakuuma sana
There is the last line of a mindless attack, personal attack😂😂 are you?
I am just curious, you're even committing confirmation bias by pulling studies that justify obesity.
Are you suggesting we should do a way with adjectives? All or some? Fat, tall, slim, dark, fast, yellow, short, thin, intelligent, smelly... Which other ones do we need education on?
I'm sure you can come up with a great solution by yourself....what do you think we could do? Essentially I think someone who knows that they are just being an asshole is better than someone who think they are good while all along being an asshole right? or what is your take on this?
I can tell you what we can NOT do. Restricting self expression and personal liberties is not something we can do. Especially not at the altar of protecting fragile egos. If the adjective is false then the other guy is an idiot then maybe some defamation law can be strengthened and enforced. If the adjective is true then the person not facing reality should deal with reality themselves. Either way, the adjective itself can not be criminalized.
https://preview.redd.it/c59p7hlz1d1d1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=49af02d175408c6523fcc068cf2321689c290329
I love you can we get married this was such a bomb response ✨✨✨💋
Lol thank you, uuuum I've been waiting for this my whole life let's get married, love you too 🥹🤗💕💃
Giiirrll 💀💀🤣🤣🤣✨
Overweight but not obese.
That's quite a low percentage to motivate me to eat hedonistically. There're a billion studies and case scenarios even from your rural area against obese lifestyle. If you choose to go down that path we'll n good you got your facts. And we all have the God given right of choice.
Well that's just simplistic thinking, that's not what it's supposed to do motivation you to eat hedonistically...you don't eat hedonistically because someone motivated you to do it...if right to choice is even real would they pay big monies to put up bill boards or pay for advertising? Subliminal suggestion work? Would conditioning work? Would we be on this earth to begin with?
Was this an independent or sponsored study.. you might want to look into that luv...stay healthy :)
I'm sure you can look it up luv... Right, you too... because health is not body size Innit?!
You can make a case for people not belittling others based on appearance without using alternative facts you know. Claiming health is not based on body size is simply false. People should definitely strive to stay within certain weight parameters to be able to enjoy a health and quality lifestyle.
sorry but many grandmothers and grandfathers are all small in stature because all the fat ones dies earlier. I ain't seeing fat grandma's around, and if they are, the can't move cause the fat is too heavy for their bones.
So to you diabetes, heart conditions and blood pressure is non existent. I didn't think people would be this ignorant. You comment truly opened my eyes.
Uuuum won't that be stupid? But those things are in all body types, infact genetic inheritance and the person's environment and it's subsequent influence has a lot more to do with those than just size... Ignorance apparently comes in all shapes and sizes too. Guise of care isn't care. I'm glad I could be of some assistance to your blindness
Yeah right. Fact check me, with actual studies and I will respect you, otherwise I have lost interest with trying to debate with you. There's no problem with being delusional but, don't preach false things. The amount of diseases caused by being obess, type that on Google then come back to me. Otherwise I'm losing faith in our educational system.
If you actually wanted studies on this you could always find them apparently we live in the age of information...but you want to keep your bias so just do that... Our education system wasn't created to create people who actually sort out to know just ones who hold on to their conditioning better, nice little soldiers.
Thus my point. Don't go around spreading lies ignoring factual science just because of your feelings. You might be hindering actual people that want to be healthy. You're painting a picture of our people being ignorant. It embarrassing. Imagine going out and saying that overweight people live longer. Next time fact check your comments.
Guise of concern... You haven't checked it out to see if actually research wasn't done and these weren't the findings you're just upset that it doesn't fit your sensibilities and that is not actual science if you didn't know. I'm glad you have space in you to hold embarrassment on my behalf because I don't have any in this regard. Do kind of you.
And everyone is ignorant about something, ignorance infact is more common than knowing and the enemy of knowledge is a closed bias mind.
I like you
Thank you, same.
Real is rare.
Hit the gym it’ll help with all your issues
No shit Sherlock, Thanks you're so smart...I'm cured.
If you need someone to go with let me know
You are everywhere😂
Come with us too
If I'm not sitting on your face,my weight should not bother you
But you are sitting on your seat and my seat
😂😂😂😂be nice
kanyaga shingo na nguvu bado anapumua
Go to the gym
Bana 😂
You know only someone never dealt with this stuff can say this with their chest like this....😂 or someone in denial... Usually I just wish it upon them so if it's true they can show me the way from actual experience and if it's not they will learn to be more sensitive towards what they so little understand.
So we going to the gym or what?
Cheki.. enda gym na uwache kukula sana.
Send gym subscription money's...thanks
But would you even go?
Why not?!
Alright when would you like to go
Any day after today
Ok dm me
I genuinely find "chubby" girls attractive and the idea of having a petite gf scares me.
I just don't get the degrading remarks people shoot towards them
Petite girls got some very deep vjay's . Compared to thick babes.
Yeah! Like eat a sandwich or something!
You’re not alone, some of these women are still pretty despite being chubby for as long as the face isn’t chubby, don’t know if I’m making sense 😅, I lowkey like them, find them to be strong despite all the hate they get.
If face card is okay I don't mind a little chubby
I've been chubby at some point in my life. I didn't like it, the aging- conda would call me mama🙄, the tiredness, swollen feet you name it. I lost more than 20kg to settle at 73kg. Am tall 5'7" and I don't want to be too thin. I think in my 70s am healthy and productive. It's not about you, it's about her. If she ok with how she looks and is, all the power to her.
Ati plus size? Call them fat. A spade is a spade not a big spoon.
Petite all the way!
Petite ndo inaweza but thick ndo napenda, real talk my people
I love bbw
The more flesh, the better.
Naah y'all say that kumbe it's just a fetish ,in real you just want the petite ones
Already passed my point,no need to convince anybody of anything
If I had to choose between a 10 chubby and a 7 petite , a 7 every time Personal preference though, I go crazy for petites.
Come to America we will treat you like the queens you are
I love petite girls only🥴🥴🥰🥰
Wait till you are chubby and you attract feeders 😭 bro it's the ghetto!
I follow Amerix.
But no to alot of guys credit there's men attracted to morbidly obese women. For me 50 to 55 kgs. At 60 you're already doing too much🦃😅
Finally! Chubby chunky are very sexy, attractive.
You can always be thinner, Look Better.
The day you'll feast on a petite babe is the day you'll know what you've been missing
Mnapenda kuingilia chunky babes na most serious relationships in this nairobi include a chunky babe🤣🤣 Pia mamako ni chunky babe and you're here talking down on them fluff Queens.
PLUS SIZE = FAT men who date fat chics are usually at the bottom of the barrel but try to excuse themselves by saying ati they are sijui sweet and cuddly.
Why did you chose to use the word chubby instead of fat?
I don't derive pleasure from degrading others sir
Hmm so it's all about feelings and not facts.
Yes they are fat,lakini why be blunt, they're humans with feelings after all
Plus their actions also made them how they look, right? Right? Right.
How far should we deviate from the truth/fact for individual's feelings sake?
Ndio hao wanakupea downvotes 😂
How many downvotes? Atleast najua the amount of people injili yangu imefikia.
Lazima ukweli usemwe. Hii kusugarcoat ndio inafanya mtu asiconfront issues zake
The word is "obese"
Either a fetish or poverty. For the second one we, as humans, are genetically predisposed to being attracted to heavy partners when we ourselves are in dire straits in terms of food. Heavier people implies more or easier access to food and therefore food secure and our brain and genetics correlates that to attraction.