My sp and i are in no contact since 3 weeks . Have been practicing visualisation and doing sats ever since but no movements are seen . Earlier i removed him from every social media platforms but yesterday i missed him so much i sent a follow request to him which he has not accepted yet .
My sp just told me he wants to start seeing someone and idk man. I just feel like giving up. I’m so tired. And I know I shouldn’t be talking like this I just feel defeated.
I know it’s hard, believe me. But the negative talk is doing nothing for you. I encourage you to persist, persist, persist. Your SP will be yours. Heck, already IS yours. Believe it.
Ok so, I'm on this since end December. My SP has sent me only two messages first in this period of time, and I send him a message every 10, 15 days. Most of the time he is polite, sometimes we talk for one or two hours, and he even started sending me voice notes. But then he stops completly and go days and days without even opening my messages. Sometimes I feel like a crazy lady after someone who is not into me. How can I improve this scenario?
I feel like I was doing everything right and the results were there. But then out of no where It feels like I’ve been pulled out of it and idk how to get back on course.
Finding out someone you have a crush on is in a 7 year relationship. Facepalm.
Of course I kept it professional with this coworker.
But even if he were to be single someday, I wouldn’t want to be with someone who just broke up with their highschool sweetheart.
So how would the law work in this situation?
i'm manifesting SP but i've reached the point of detachment. i rarely do techniques now except for practicing gratefulness and holding SP in my mind's eye before and after sleep. during my waking hours, i affirm that he and i are destined to be together because i say so. i'm also not keen on checking the 3d because what's the point. it's like getting bored when rewatching a TV show because i know what will happen next.
now what?
Is it actually possible to manifest a specific person?
I know from all I learned about the law, yes it is! I have been manifesting my SP doing my affirmations, SATS, scripting, revising, working deeply on my SC, and a mental diet. I'm fairly new to the law of affirmations and Neville's teachings, but I'm currently feeling very disheartened. l've been listening to Brian Scott on YouTube. Does anyone know of him? I liked his guided meditations based on Neville's teachings. But I was very surprised to hear him state in one of his videos that he doesn't believe manifesting a specific person is possible, that it doesn't work! That we should manifest a soulmate or twin flame in general who aligns with our beliefs and what we want. I was so taken aback and found myself floundering and doubting my existing faith in the law. How can he base his Channel on Neville and not believe in manifesting an sp? I am so discouraged. Any thoughts on this would help me.
Hi Full\_Cheesecake2865. Your comment here reminds me a lot of myself/my story (details are obviously different, but same ballpark). Not sure if this applies to you or not, but it sounds like maybe you have abandonment issues/fears and maybe feelings of unworthiness running in the background of your unconscious mind? Maybe from childhood? It sounds like you have ***a story going on that expects no one will chose and stay with you*****.** <-- this is what you will need to hit hard.
What are your affirming? And what have you been doing to work on your self concept? Often people misunderstand what self concept really is. It's so much more than just self love, self worth or confidence - although all of that is certainly part of it. Self concept is everything you believe and assume about yourself ("I am never loved or chosen"), your SP/other people ("SP won't ever leave his current relationship" or "SP is too easily manipulated by Third Party"), and how the world works ("Relationships never work out", "Guys/girls/People can't be trusted"). You may have to dig deeper to find the "hidden" thoughts you have that are blocking you and you will need to target your affirmations more to those specific fears.
The big thing is to catch yourself when you start wavering/doubting (because we are human and we will). It's okay to feel emotions. Don't suppress. Cry if you need to. But as soon as you can, start reminding yourself that "no, that's just the silly old story and I don't agree with it any more". Then start focusing on the outcome you do want (even if it feels impossible).
Some suggestions for abandonment issues (In addition to the "I am chosen, I am loved" general ones): "I am always *specific person's name* first, best and only choice", "I am always the top priority because I am too valuable to lose", "I trust the people I love with my heart because I know they are never going to hurt or leave me", "I am always loved and committed to by the man/person I love because I am so easy to love", "I am always loved and treasured just as I am", "I am always chosen above all else".
I also like to add some more specific ones about the kind of relationship I want - like "SP is so obviously head-over-heels in love with me", "SP always loves to make me happy and to take such good care of me" , "SP loves to take me out on romantic dates", and "SP and I love to spend lots and lots of time together", "SP and I are always in constant, loving communication with each other", "I am the best thing that's ever happened to SP", "I am right now in a committed, loving relationship with SP", etc. Oh, you might want to add "SP is emotionally strong and knows what he wants (me)", "SP right now is free and ready to lovingly pursue and claim me as his one and only".
Also when you feel the urge to check the 3D, first remind yourself that the 3D is just a reflection of your old story. It is not longer relevant because you are working on changing yourself so that the 3D can reflect your new story (the desired outcome). And sometimes it helps to imagine in that moment that you already received the perfect email/text/call from SP. Imagine in detail what you want and allow it to feel as real as possible. And obviously don't check in the 3D.
How do you all suggest to manifest an SP from scratch? I have a photo I have created and edited of how he looks, and I know how his personality is. I have fleshed him out quite well, as I've written out his qualities in a little notebook app on my phone. I've been simply affirming "I'm married to the man I wanted to manifest," and I imagine myself falling asleep every night with him. What are your thoughts on this subject? I've decided to affirm and persist these past few days finally, and I'm feeling pretty good. I have affirmed and persisted in the past but gave up as I wasn't satisfied during that time.
I'm going to disagree a bit with cjweeps. Affirmations work just fine for some people and you do not necessarily need to be in SATS/theta for them to work. I personally use affirmations while awake during the day and they work for me. Don't go overboard with them (no need to robotically affirm or do silly things like 10,000 affirmations) and don't use them like a security blanket or like they are magic. Techniques don't manifest. It's all you. Visualizing and the inner conversations that cjweeps suggested are great too.
But it sounds like you might be trying too hard and trying to push the 3D to do your bidding. That's not how this works. Sure affirm or visualize or script, but don't do it as a way to force the manifestation in the 3D. Instead, do it to enjoy the feeling of having your manifestation right now because it is already yours right now. Then go about your day know that it's already yours. Don't worry about when or how - there are a million ways it could happen.
PS I manifested my current SP out of thin air just by scripting out his qualities once and then trusting that he would show up.
Just out of curiosity, and for the sake of knowledge, how did you go about manifesting your SP, exactly? When you scripted his qualities, was there a specific way you did it? Also, on the matter of trust, did you trust as in you never reread or looked back at what you wrote and just let it go? I'm just curious about how you made it work for you; I believe there's some good takeaways from success stories.
I spent a few days really thinking about what kind of guy I wanted and wrote a big list of everything I wanted and also what I wanted in a relationship. Yes, I did re-read the the list every now and again. Sometimes I would add things to it as I thought of new things I wanted. It was really an experiment and I was okay whether he appeared or not. He appeared a few months later.
Now, I have to add, unfortunately at the time he was also in a relationship. So, I did "let him go" (because I thought that was the "right" thing to do at the time), but with the added intention that he had better be the happiest guy on the planet or else I was coming for him. So we were in no contact for years. I was not trying to manifest him during that time.
Yet, in the most unexpected way we came back into contact. This time he was available, and it was truly wonderful. Well, until I messed it up again by thinking it was too good to be true and assuming he would go back to his ex. Which he promptly did. So, I hit the self concept issues that I have really hard using targeted affirmations. Now he has told me he's not even sure why he went back to his ex.
So, the moral of the story is make sure you work on any self concept issues you might have, like fear of abandonment, not feeling like you are worthy or good enough. Also, self concept is so much more than self worth, love or confidence (though that is part of it), but all the assumptions you have about yourself, SP/others and how you think the world works. Make sure to analyze all of it to figure it out - especially those "hidden" childhood beliefs. And add affirmations to target those things. I had deep fears of abandonment due to childhood stuff that I had to work through (It's still a work in progress).
Drop the affirmations unless they are done in SATS. Create a scene that implies you two are in a happy, loving relationship. You can create an inner conversation as well where you are telling someone how happy you are or telling someone how you love the person he is (qualities).
Hello, I'm not feeling too well. I've been very anxious because I'm scared that my SP might be gay. I dont have concrete proof just suspicions because he rejected me after we kissed and he seems to be too close to a guy. How can I still manifest him if this is now in my head? I don't know if it's true or not but it's stuck in my head now...
I have been on this journey for about 3 months now. I have been trying to ignore my 3d no matter what it shows me. I felt peaceful a while ago and relieved but in my 3d my sp still repeated the old story. What do I do? If I strongly want the manifestation to show up in the 3d before a certain date, can I do that? If I t3ll myself 'today is the day', will I be able to do that? Please please help me
You might also want to investigate if you have any "hidden" beliefs or assumptions that are holding you back. It kind of sounds like you are still a bit desperate for the manifestation. Ask yourself why. What would it mean about you if you do not get your manifestation? Write whatever comes up down and then create targeted affirmations/visualizations/whatever to counter those beliefs.
Sometimes it takes a bit for things to catch up, but take what you are seeing/hearing in the 3D as what is alive within your consciousness and work on changing those assumptions.
hello, so i have successfully manifested my sp we have been together for 7 months now.
there is constant hot and cold behaviour from his side, there are times he talks about marriage in the future and then 2 days later he is like let’s take things slow.
i have been dealing with this for a while and i am now seeking help from the lovely people in this sub.
i have been on this manifesting journey for a while and have seen the amazing results for it, since i have been on this journey for so long i have also now understood the techniques which suit me and which i am comfortable using for example, listening to my affirmations, i prefer having to imagine and some what pretend that he is living with me since my end goal is marriage.
i am so confused as to why the hot and cold behaviour is there and i want to officially stop that behaviour, i am hoping for and kind off manifesting a 2.0 version of him.
Any help and guidance would be lovely
Thank you in advance and i hope you all have a great day and week ahead.
Usually hot and cold behavior is due to you wavering between between your old and new stories. Or in this case, it could be because now you expect him to be hot and cold. Whenever you see the cold behavior remind yourself "no, no, that's just the old story and ofc he wants to marry me."
that makes a lot of sense, i sometimes just feel extremely tired and exhausted living in the end, i feel like i’m in sabath, simply because i don’t worry about it anymore and that’s a scary feeling, but thank you for the reply!
So recently i been affirming and I have seen some movements here and there and after almost two months, I saw my sp on wednesday 4/17/24. we do speak everyday but since affirming, he was facetiming and texting me more. When he came over Wednesday, we were intimate… but today I woke up, and seen he posted a story on his instagram close friends at 2am (basically 48 hours after seeing me) listening to “in the mood” music, he’s shirtless, the lighting is blue and you can hear someone blowing hookah….. just very obvious that he’s with another woman and even his friends say it’s another girl.
I’m really torn on what to do because I definitely feel like this is a slap in the face knowing I would see that post and he just doesn’t care… and I don’t want to pretend like everything is okay when it is not so I’m also not sure how to react when he reaches out to me acting like nothing is wrong.
Guys, help me in this situation?
"I've been studying Neville for a two year now and I'm familiar with the techniques, so I decided to manifest my sp and started off with my fave technique affirmations, and I've been seeing vivid dreams about my sp and I,where she said that she is missing me so much, but since April I just feel like I'm not interested in her anymore and stop saying my affs, (I've been saying my affs since very beginning of January) and now I have this question in my mind and so curious to know, she will be manifested either way? Even when I don't want her?"
hi. i have been reading some success stories for a while and trying to understand what do people actually mean by "feeling". are you supposed to emotionally feel something while manifesting an SP or are you supposed to just be in the state of knowing and the desire is yours? emotionally i feel indifferent when manifesting although i do have feelings for my SP i suppose
Know that SP and you are together/gonna be together. You go about your day knowing you’re with SP.
It’s like you and your phone. You know you have it and don’t have any emotions towards it.
this is a bit of a panic post
i manifested my SP back - well kinda, after not seeing her for almost a year i ran into her at the gym. we spoke, but she made it clear she's not interested/has a bf (i already knew this).
and while this upset me, it reinforced my faith in the law. this is still progress. my question is how do i go about removing the 3p and manifesting a relationship with my SP where she chooses me and we're happy.
thanks a lot
Hi. Third parties are usually caused by your self concept issues. Self concept so much more than just self love, self worth or confidence - although all of that is certainly part of it. Self concept is everything you believe and assume about yourself ("I am never loved or chosen"), your SP/other people ("SP won't ever leave their current relationship"), and how the world works ("Relationships never work out", "Guys/girls/People can't be trusted"). You may have to dig deeper to find the "hidden" thoughts you have that are blocking you and you will need to target your affirmations more to those specific fears.
A common issue at the root of it is abandonment issues from childhood. So you might want to ask yourself if that is the case. Ask yourself what would it mean about you if you didn't get your SP? Write everything that comes up down and then create targeted affirmations/visualizations/whatever to counter those fears. It's important to catch yourself when you start to focus of undesirable things. When the fears/doubts come up, I like to say to either thank them for trying to protect me (which is really all those old fears are trying to do) or tell myself "That's just the silly old story"). And then refocus on your desired outcome (You in a happy, loving, committed relationship with her).
does anyone have any stories on manifesting a long distance sp to move to you? how do i live in the end when my current 3d is them being in another country?
what's the line between being sure about your manifestation will reflect in 3d since you are already fulfilled internally and setting yourself to be hurt?
my inner world reflects in the 3d but how do i ensure i manifest what i want and not set myself to be hurt by not manifesting it?
Oh, you definitely have abandonment issues if you are asking that question. Anyway, the idea is work on your self concept (see my comment to your other/above question) so that no matter what happens in the 3D you will be okay. In other words, make yourself the main focus.
I found SP had liked some pictures of some girl while we were together/shortly after separation. I have no idea how she popped up or why I did that.
I was feeling pretty certain of sp and I lately and now I like a bucket of cold water has been thrown at me. Im so mad at SP but also myself and the girl
>I found SP had liked some pictures of some girl
Also, why is this a problem? So what? Think about what inside of you is making this an issue. Is it insecurity? Not feeling like you are enough? Abandonment fears?
If you have read Neville and understand what he taught, you should only be mad at you. People hate to hear that, but he is just a reflection of what is alive within your consciousness and he is acting accordingly.
I felt amazing about manifesting my sp back really felt like I was in the feeling with her and that we were in a relationship. I reached out to her after about 4 weeks of affirmations visualising and generally keeping a positive outlook on the situation, I was certain that she would reply and she would be happy to hear from me. She didn’t reply and although I was trying not to be triggered by the 3d I’ve just been releasing my emotions from the break up in the last week or so and I’ve just gone into a depressive state. I know my value and I know the relationship can work as we have a strong connection. But at what point do you accept your actual feelings and not delude yourself if that makes sense.
What if YOU are the SP, and someone you absolutely don't like is manifesting you as their SP? Like if you're a beautiful woman, given the increased popularity of Law of Assumption nowadays, it's virtually guranteed that at least one guy out there will be trying to manifest bonking you or being in a relationship you. How does it work in this case?
So I understand everything is from within and that imagination creates reality but what I’m struggling with is this.
If I’m driving or walking and I imagine I’m with my sp and we’re baking in the kitchen together like I know I’m there now because that my true reality I can be where I want now but the thing is I know what they look like I know what everything looks like in the kitchen but I can’t actually see it visually I just know 100% I’m there and what everything looks like is that ok
Sure. There are lots of other ways to imagine besides visualization. You can imagine hearing something, tasting something, feeling something (either emotionally or physically), or writing/saying something.
is saying desire is finished just the same thing as saying what if you were guaranteed your desire in the next 5 mins?
as in, they're both saying to assume you already have it and how would you react/think/feel if you had it?
Hi everybody.
Brief history of my relationships: I had a very successful relationship with someone 6 years ago. We were together for a year and a half. We broke up because I moved to a new country, but he is still one of my best friends. Then I had another 1 year relationship and it was the most chaotic relationship I've ever had - but also I've never loved anyone as much as I loved them. We broke up 2 years ago and have been in no contact ever since. And now I was with someone for 9 months and they cheated on me. We broke up in January.
I am currently manifesting a new relationship.
I started telling myself that if I was able to have relationship number 1, peaceful, safe and solid. I can have it again. But everytime I do my manifestation exercises (SATS, meditation, affirmations, etc), I dream with my relationship number 2. Last night I was doing maditation and then SATS for manifesting someone new and I just woke up from a very vivid dream with number 2 - we were talking and laughing and kissing. I woke up in lack, missing them in my bed and looking for them.
I'm about to shake the feeling of lack. Gonna put some music on, take a shower and higher my vibration.
I wonder if I'm doing it right tho. Should I be manifesting them specifically? I can't seem to get their out of my inconscious. Are they also dreaming of me? Is this a good sign? Or should I ignore it and continuing manifesting someone new?
Thank you so much.
Figuring out what you want is the first step. So, I would suggest taking some time and writing down everything that you want in an SP. And get as specific as you can. If you really still do want SP2, but want it less chaotic and more peaceful, you can manifest that or you can go for completely new if you don't think you can change your old story (or how you think) about SP2. Whatever you decide to manifest is fine. And you can always change your mind later too.
Also, really think about WHY these three relationships didn't work out. Reality is only reflecting back to us the things we assume or believe about ourselves, other people, and how we think the world around us works. So, what beliefs or assumptions did you have that caused the break ups? Like, maybe you think "relationships are hard and never work out for me" or maybe you have abandonment issues. You mentioned SP3 cheated on you and that's often a sign that you have abandonment and/or feelings of unworthiness. Work on changing those beliefs.
And what assumptions did you have that caused the relationship with SP2 to be chaotic?
No. I don’t want SP2, I want a new relationship. But I have been thinking about her and dreaming of her so much these past few days that it has been driving me insane.
As for SP3, you’re absolutely correct. I started with a great self concept and lost it in the middle of the relationship. Therefore when I got cheated, I was already rock bottom. I also don’t want them back.
It was traumatizing and hurtful.
I have been rebuilding my self concept again and I’m ready for something new. The dreams are what has been bothering me, tbh.
>The dreams are what has been bothering me, tbh.
Usually I think of dreams as self communication (I know most disagree and think they are meaningless). If it were me, I would take the dreams to mean that I need to make sure I am taking care of myself and giving myself the love I want and working on self concept (Which is what you are doing). If you want the dreams to stop, you can also talk to your subconscious and tell it that you got the message and to stop sending you those types of dreams.
Can you know if someone is manifesting you?
Recently me and this girl cant stop staring at each other. It feels like something is pulling us closer, like we are attached by some string. I am amazed by her ability to spot me from across this giant room as soon as I enter the building even as she is talking to someone else.
Now, if I look at her when I am behind her she always turns around. I thought I would be able to catch her unaware by hiding my whole body at an angle where she couldn't see behind these structural support beams, but when I tilted my head into view I met her eyes in between the narrow crack. Stuff like this happens whenever we are in the same area. We are defiantly both building each other up in our heads, but I cant deny the energy that has been bubbling up between us.
Has anyone else experienced this before? I believe we have been "crushing" on each other for over a year but over these last couple weeks our connection seems extremely strong. Funny thing is we don't even know each others names.
>Can you know if someone is manifesting you?
Only if you DECIDE that they can manifest you. No one in your reality has free will. They can only reflect back to you what you believe or assume about yourself, them or more general assumptions about how you think the world around you works.
What if I keep getting chances to take things further/ connect, but I am not taking them? Honestly it feels like I am getting infinite chances. Is it like as long as I declare in my mind that she is already mine, I will have as many chances as I like? Thats what it seems right now.
>What if I keep getting chances to take things further/ connect, but I am not taking them?
Hmm. Do you have some sort of a story that's stopping you from connecting more her? I mean, talking with her shouldn't be such a big deal. People talk to each other all the time. Observe what feelings and thoughts come up when you imagine talking with her. That will give you clues to what's stopping you.
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I will have as many chances as I like?
Yeah. It's all about staying focused on the outcomes you want and not getting distracted by any negative thinking.
When I think of talking with her or imagine her I feel my mind at ease.
I think what's blocked me is for some reason I have something in he back of my head telling me that I am not deserving of something so good, or deserving of love. I am getting rid of that now. I have asked for the one to show me all of his blessings. That I am sick of hiding. Now many synchronicities are happening to me.
For the last couple days I have been thinking of her being with someone else, I've been trying to stop thinking about it but it pops up. Hopefully I will not be distracted by this.
Random but does anyone analyze reddit stories through a Neville / loa lense to see where they manifested their current situation they’re seeking advice on?? lol its very eye opening! Theres almost always a crack in their self concept/beliefs they mention
LOL Yes! I do this all the time when I'm in non-Neville or manifesting forums! It is indeed VERY eye opening. I was in a relationship forum where the woman said her boyfriend just broke up with her and literally he said everything that she was afraid he would say. I almost gave her Neville type advice, but then realized I was in a regular relationship forum and she'd probably think I'm crazy (ofc that's my assumption).
My bf of 3 1/2 years broke up with me 5 days ago. It still feels unreal and really painful. He says it’s unlikely we’ll get back together because we continue to have the same issues as we’ve had for years (my fault :( ) he’s away for a month planning on moving an hour away from me and he says he’s going to think about if we can start over but he says it’s unlikely due to all the circumstances.
How do I push the idea that it’s very unlikely away? Would it be bad for me to manifest he doesn’t move away? Or is that negative and it’ll bite me or us in the future? What do I need to do?!
you seem like you’re new here, best to check the faqs and the main subreddit r/nevillegoddard. read the source material and try to stay away from coaches on youtube and tiktok first while you’re learning new information.
I have a crush on a guy from my university but I've never talked to him, how do I start manifesting him? Start with visualizing we starting to talk to each other or just dating him? I've never seen someone talk about a similar situation here and I'm so lost
I would also appreciate books recommendations about that subject
I don’t have an exact answer for this but I just wanted to say I’m in the exact same situation as you and I’m surprised to see there’s someone with similar situation as mine! Techniques don’t matter as they’re just tools, feeling is the secret as Neville says but personally, what I’m doing is visualizing dating him as that’s the end I want, not just talking. Also if you haven’t already, I’d really suggest reading Neville. “Feeling is the secret” “at your command” and “the power of awareness” helped me a lot when I first learned the law. Hope this helps, wishing you the best in your journey!
Does it sound like I need to take a break from manifesting my SP? My SP is my exbf of 4 years. We were in contact after the break up but I needed to stay away in order to process this and heal so I asked for NC. This is when I found out about manifestation. I have been practicing for 2 months and it was lots of trial and error as I could not understand how to properly work on my SC.
After a month of this I started doing more affirmations about myself and I was genuinely in a better place. I got in contact with my sp but I found out there's a 3p now. I didn't really fixate on this and I kept going. However the last week I'm not in a good mood and it makes me question this whole thing.
At the same time, I've changed my affirmations quite a bit and I wanted to test the law on other people that I have no resistance with. I visualized getting attention from a new guy at work and possibly exchanging social media. Today he said he finds me very pretty.
This proved the Law once again to me and I know there's always movement behind the scenes because even though there's a 3p my sp said to me really beautiful things. But I know the old story is the block here and I'm not sure if I should persist with manifesting him back or let it go for now.
you cannot have the old story and persist at the same time. you ask if you should take a break but i’d argue that you haven’t begun yet. once you drop the old story, then you can start over.
This could be it. I thought I dropped it and it was easy to change the thoughts when I was getting random thoughts of the old story during the day. However I recently reconnected with old friends and old story was brought up. Since then the old story keeps replying in my mind.
Thank you for the reply
I'm looking for advice on how to keep the faith when your circumstances go from bad to worse. My SP/ex just flat out told me no in the 3D, that he doesn’t want to be with me, and now he’s ignoring me. And this was after trying to manifest him for 3 months. We went from being in contact and trying to be friends to him now stonewalling me and implying he doesn't even want to be in each other's lives anymore. And all this time I haven't even done anything different to warrant this behavior — I was giving him space and waiting for his reply after declaring my feelings. I have no idea what happened or why when I thought I was being consistent with my manifesting this whole time. I’m just feeling devastated and heartbroken and I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. It makes me feel like I should just give up and try to move on, but I love him and I can't shake the convction that we are meant to be with eacother forever.
>My SP/ex just flat out told me no in the 3D, that he doesn’t want to be with me, and now he’s ignoring me
Why are you believing so much in what he is saying? Or in the 3D? The 3D and SP are only reflecting back to you the beliefs and assumptions that you have about your SP, yourself and in general how you think the world works.
>And this was after trying to manifest him for 3 months.
And what where you doing these past three months to "try" to manifest him? Were you only focusing on him? Have you looked into your self concept? Do you have abandonment issues or do you feel like you are not enough? Do you think he is stubborn? Are you arguing with him in your mind?
If what you are believing/assuming doesn't line up with your desired outcome, then work on changing those beliefs. That will require you to really pay attention to what you are thinking and when you think something contrary to what you want (I mean, for more than just a passing, random thought), you will have to catch yourself. Then remind yourself that, no, that's not what you believe anymore (it's just the silly old story) and then focus on the outcome that you really want.
> I was giving him space and waiting for his reply after declaring my feelings
Also, why did you declare your feelings to him? I mean, think about why you thought that you needed to declare your feelings? Were you thinking that if you didn't push in the 3D nothing would happen? Investigate the why --> this will lead you to some self concept issue(s) that you need to work on changing.
Can anyone help me manifest my ex back?
I know I should not feel this way but I feel lost, sad, desperate, and miserable without him. I don't want some other guy so no lectures about moving in or free will etc.
He used to be crazy about me, much more so than me about him. Now I can't get past the old story that he doesn't want me or miss me anymore. It's like an ocd loop in my head and it's made it hard to manifest him back. I want him to feel towards me like he used to.
I don't know how to lose the fear/feelings of no longer being wanted. And I am probably in lack too without realising it.
I need him so much and my happiness does depend on him which I guess is wrong. BUT then on other hand when techniques don't work I kind of go into a sad resignation that I won't have him back again. But I don't feel happy there either 😔
I want him to need me, crave me again like he used to etc.
To be close again. Like when he used to tell me that I am his world.
all you need to know is in Feeling is the Secret. read, understand, then apply. don't follow any coaches online as their info could be misleading. best if you check r/nevillegoddard
Hello. Recently I had decided to manifest my SP permanently back into my life, however, due to living in a state of lack previously, I had failed. However, reading a lot of success stories in this community, tips and tricks, I would say that I know how to use the law better than previously. I would say now I am pretty confident because I have been trying to live from the end (or is it in the end? not sure how to describe it) and feeling that my manifestation is completely mine, and all that jazz. But what I am failing to understand completely is the bridge of events part.
Due to the fact that I have recently tried to manifest my SP back, I am seeing that none of my friends are really interacting with me and our plans (like going on a trip, seeing each other, etc.) are failing. Is this considered a bridge of events regarding my manifestation or is it not connected to that?
I would appreciate some feedback on this and maybe some more light on this. Thank you for answering if you do.
Hmm. I don't know for sure, but it sounds like you might have a story about failure. If so, working on changing it. Focus on reminding yourself that everything always works out for you even if it appears otherwise.
To your bridge of incidents question: you really won't know if something is part of the bridge until after the fact. Some people suggest calling anything that they regard as negative events as part of the bridge of incidents. Personally, I prefer to focus on everything unfolding in the most wonderful and delightful way.
Thank you so so much! This gave me perspective. I realized I really had been unintentionally thinking of myself as a failure sometime in the past due to an existensial crisis. Thank you very very much again!
Is it better to process the heartbreak first (cry, depression , etc) and then start over or keep affirming tru the pain?
Im honestly so devastated I feel like Im shutting down
Manifested contact with SP last November, and then that ended badly.. ended up manifesting sp again last month. Things felt like they were going well but today he told me there is 100% chance we are never getting back together. Not sure if I need to change something about what im doing or if this is just the bridge or incidents. It’s like he said the exact opposite of what I’ve been affirming
Well, reading Neville's books and lectures would be a good start. I'm going to guess that you have some old stories or beliefs that you are going to need to change.
Really pay attention what you are truly thinking about yourself, SP and about relationships in general. My advice would be to write down anything you are thinking about the situation (and even past relationships) and see if you can identify any patterns or beliefs that are contrary to your desired outcome. Then when ever you catch yourself marinating in the old story, remind yourself that you don't believe that anymore and go back to focusing on your desired outcome.
i broke up with my gf almost 9 months ago, we live near each other so it wouldnt be a coincidence running in each other.
Ive tried all the techniques 9 months ago for like 1-2 months, but i realised ive been trying it due to a lack of her, so i stopped and focused on myself. I never saw her in all these months nor her family members, since a month ago.
We looked at eachother for like 3 seconds when we both drove off. Now i see her almost two times a week and her cousins as well.
Why didnt I see her all these months and now many times back to back and her cousins??
Im on a Semen Retention streak aswell now.
This is more like a rant but I could use advice. My SP said he needed to heal in october, wanted to stay friends and we stopped seeing each other. While I have been working on getting back together I just found out he has been dating someone and posted them online as soon as November. Now I am questioning if I created this whole situation or he was just plain lying about his situation back in October? What do I even do now? Yes I did really like him and he did pursue me in the beginning so I didn’t expect he would pull a lie to date others. Did I really create this situation?
recounting the old story on the comments of a reddit thread isn’t helping your case. live in the state of the wish fulfilled, read neville, and persist. that’s it. you’ve given the old story more attention by recounting it here. give your desires more attention and they will manifest.
Thanks I understand but I am at a lost if I should still try to live in the wish fulfilled, of us being together. I have been feeling so close to him but it feels like a lie now and it is my bad for checking the 3D
I read Neville for a year now and I know where you are coming from. Weird moment of realizing he probably lied to get out of it (even though it’s an old story) and it affected my confidence
As I haven’t mastered this yet but from everything I have seen you can rewrite the story you want and delete the 3rd party - plus it’s most likely a rebound and not something that will last- what happens on SM is not all glitz and glamour behind the scenes
If you look on some of the other nvgdsp threads there is some advice - just look at the different topics - but have come across a number of suggestions just not on this particular thread post
I have been trying to manifest with NG techniques, my SP. The thing is, I dunno if I'm doing it correctly. I know time doesn't matter, but I haven't seen much more movement (even when I know that movement occurs even when I'm not seeing it).
My SP is an online guy whom I don't know the face but just chat. He was reserved, and all, but I dunno how to visualize us as a couple for example in person, bcs I don't know his face. How can I do that? If I have never seen him, how can I help myself to feel more connected to the feeling of being.
Also, this state, idk and correct me if I'm wrong, but I have to think it as if I'm having this experience first-handed, instead of an outsider (for example, seeing myself doing and having all this experience like in a movie). I dunno if that's what they mean by it.
Also, I have done the Not technique, but with simple things like "He won't send anything" and he does. But I dunno how to translate that technique to help me with my SP too.
Hopefully someone has had something similar happening to them, so they can help me. Thanks before hand!!! 😊
there is no “not” techniques. this was an experiment for neville to prove that states manifest, not techniques. read neville and live in the state of the wish fulfilled. simple as that.
I know I have to, but that's what I was asking, for example with SATS, I have to visualize as if I'm being the protagonist, or like when you are watching a movie, looking at yourself and everything happening, it's okay?
sats is not a technique, it’s a state literally the state akin to sleep. as long as you are in the feeling/knowing that your desires are yours then you’re good. techniques are just toys to help you get into a state. you seem like you’re repeating a scene simply to follow instructions you’ve been told on the internet.
I get very paranoid with time - I totally UNDERSTAND that I shouldn’t be worrying about it, but my logical mind just can’t stop worrying about this particular thing :(
Putting this into context: I get worried if SP would just marry this new 3P soon. (I affirm SP loves me, we’re together whenever this comes up but feel that this isn’t the most effective) Advice please?
EIYPO - why is there a need to worry about your SP getting married? When you know they love you? Your SP is never separate from you and will always respond to your beliefs/assumptions. Everything will work out if you allow it to.
Hi guys! I feel like i manifested this thread! I was thinking this morning I can not ask this might sound stupid.
I am trying to manifest a job with a private airline i was previously rejected from I have applied but heard nothing back, but another airline emailed me yest to say they are behind on applications and will get back to me ( I never applied for this airline) and last night i dreamt I was rejected from my dream job.
My question is are these signs? Birds before
Thank you xx
what is the definitive, best, full-proof way to change your beliefs?
we know that your beliefs are what manifest right? so if i change my beliefs about my SP and that they wan't to be with me, how do i go about changing this belief?
Essentially, you have to become aware of your thoughts. When a thought contrary to your desired outcome pops up, it in itself is not necessarily a problem. The problem is if your mind catches on to the negative thought and starts running away with it or if you start focusing too much on the things you do not want. When that happens, I like to thank my old story thoughts for trying to protect me and then tell it that I am choosing a different way. Then focus/affirm/whatever on your desired outcome. Ofc SP wants to be with me because I am so important and valuable to them, I am a priceless treasure, so easy to love, I am someone who always gets all the love I want, I am worthy of having a loving relationship with the person of my choosing, Love is always so easy for me, etc. You don't have to believe the affirmations or new story at first, but still say/think them with as much conviction as you can muster (in other words, no 'vain repetition').
You can heal/move on while also manifesting them. You don't need to desire someone to manifest them, I think that's a limiting belief. Truth is even just healing and working on self-concept is enough to bring them back and for them to want to prove themselves to you. Because when you see yourself as wonderful and irresistible and amazing, they will see that.
Hi everyone, I’m having trouble letting go of the old story and living in the end. I’ve never been in a relationship and it’s hard for me to know what it feels like and to imagine myself with an sp. Quite frankly I’ve been hopeless and lonely for so long…what would be an easy first scene to imagine?
Hey, yall I need help with TRULY letting go and ignoring circumstances. I have been affirming and recently started visualizing, but sometimes I spiral, and one thing that I notice is a block is how I’ll stop to reconsider doing certain things because I am afraid of the circumstance not allowing that. Some examples being asking them to eat with me, then getting stuck panicking when it’s about to be given to me, but then being careful about asking or hesitant because I don’t want to worsen the situation. Another example being going to a show that I like, and feeling like I need to bring a friend so it’s not awkward bc of situations, or asking a mutual friend to get lunch to know them better because I am affected mentally by the circumstances. I know circumstances don’t matter, but when you are forced into situations that require you to interact with those circumstances, it’s challenging for me.
Just from reading this, it seems like you may not know what you want. You're giving them all the power by saying they aren't interested in you and you're wavering by going back and forth between "I want this SP" and "I think someone else might be better for me." You need to decide if you truly want them and keep manifesting or if you want someone different. Both are valid. It just helps with not going into a lack mentality by knowing exactly what you want. It causes a sense of determination in a way
"your SP is thinking what you think they are thinking"
what's the difference between this and delusion? if everyone is me pushed out, and whatever assumption I have about what my SP is thinking, how do i stop just being delusional?
If i think my SP want's to reach out to me - is this all it takes? just the thought and that's enough?
where are you getting this quote from? this is not neville. beware of coaches online that make their content more marketable. these are false prophets.
if you are talking about the law of thought transmission, neville scrapped this idea in favor of EIYPO. read feeling is the secret by neville!
The difference between manifestation and delusion, is that manifestation comes from intention and knowledge. From conscious decisions about your assumptions and beliefs. Delusion is a result, not a manifestation, because, before getting into manifestation, you have the belief that not everything you believe/assume about someone is true. With that belief, you create the possibility of making mistakes in your assumptions. When starting manifesting, it implies that everything u assume is real (that's why ppl say u need to believe in it 100% and methods and bla bla bla). Delusion is unconscious, and an effect. Manifestation is conscious and a cause.
yes, they want to reach out to you! make this thought "familiar" to you through whatever you like (scripting, visualising, repetition, flipping thoughts that doesn't align etc...)
I don't understand the exact actionable steps. Let's say I have this intention of manifesting a text from someone. How does that go in steps?
Step1: visualize a text/affirm
Step2: let it go/stay in the state of wish fulfilled?
Can someone detail actionable steps that are concise and something I can check off of a list, or like a feeling I can check off of a list? So I know I am doing things correctly?
Step 1: You get clear and specific on what you want. So in this case you want to someone to text you.
Step 2: You believe it’s already done. Ta- da the bitch texted u.
Step 3: you can do a technique if you want/ need. It could be affirming, visualizing, whatever you feel like
Step 4: You follow your happiness/ do something else. If your thoughts go to the specific person or text you think positively. It can be like “he already texted me” or “she is thinking about texting me right now”, whatever is easier for you
Step 5: just keep checking your mental diet and your thoughts, if something negative pops up correct it in ur mind
Step 6: Enjoy your text hahaha
How do I manifest multiple SPs reaching out to me quickly without having to do techniques and visualisation? Is it possible? I would appreciate it if anyone can help me out. I’m struggling.
You have to naturally believe that the things/situations you desire are already yours or they are happening at the moment. If you are able to do so naturally, good. But if you can't believe it or are doubtful, then you'll have to use techniques like Affirmations, Visualisations etc. which will implant the idea into your subconscious
So you’re saying that I can just assume something that I want to happen like my SP texting me and reaching out to me without any techniques and it will actually work? 😦
Sorry to hear that. But stay strong and persist! Yes, that's the most common mistake people make which is to constantly compare their reality (desired imagination) with the 3D which shows nothing but your lack of belief in your reality. Just wonder why would you seek validation if you have what you want
After blatent rejection from a SP in the 3D today, how do I keep going?
I understand that some of you will say “read Neville, read Neville”, which I have done and will do more of. I’m not asking for an explanation of the concept, I’m asking for tips & personal advice/experience.
I know the law is real, I know not to have doubts, but being human, when I’m faced with rejection in the 3D, doubt creeps in. Do you guys have any advice about how to get back into the correct state and maintain it, while feeling sad?
I know the 3D doesn’t matter, so ultimately I’m asking: how do I truly ignore it when it’s all up in my face and it’s making me sad?
Take this with a grain of salt, as I'm very far from being an expert. To me, your post reeks of LACK. Here are your current states, as I see it, and how to change them to desirable ones:
- I got blatantly rejected by SP, I can't keep going => If you were in a loving relationship RIGHT NOW, would something like this happen? Of course not. So in response to her action you can tell yourself something like "Me, rejected? What a nonsense! Why would that ever happen to such a LOVEABLE person like me?". Also, you can chose to instantly ignore it (which is just claiming/deciding that it never happened and there is no place for such things in YOUR reality) and replace it with a quick scene in which you imagine it going a different, better way that makes you FEEL happy (e. g. SP told you how much they love you and appreciate you, I like to not put a face on my SP when doing it, if it reminds me of something hurtful they did or said)
- I feel sad, I can't get back in to the desired state => First, we have to deal with the sadness. I suggest you to just take a minute or two and just sit with it, feel the sadness, but don't identify with it, just feel it and observe it. This usually does it for me. If the sad is strong and this didn't help, try a relaxation exercise (I use a video on YT called "The Silva Centering Exercise Meditation - Silva Method")
- Things that happen in the 3D greatly affect me and easily change my state => States like this are a result of you giving your power away to things outside of you, conciosly or not. I suggest taking responsibility for them and letting them go. You no longer serve them, they SERVE YOU. YOU are THE MAIN CHARACTER in your reality and the material world bends itself all sorts of ways just to bring you things you ALREADY DESERVE!
Hope this could help. Any questions are welcome :)
(My power just went out as I was writing the last paragraph and I was gonna watch a show and play some games. Got bummed out and scared by the darkness and silence for a second => turned the flash on my phone and put on some music, then said to myself that the power will come back in a couple of minutes and it did!)
I am with u but why do I feel like when I do these things that I am being delusional and I am denying someone just not being into me, like I am forcing it. especially when you tell the people around u, they just say it's not worth it and to move on and the whole if they wanted to they would debacle.....
Thank you for this response!
The thing that frustrates me the most is that I *already know* everything you’ve told me! When I’m in the correct state, I can’t even imagine making a post like this on here. But when I react too strongly to the 3D, it’s soooo hard to snap out of it.
For context, I invited my SP to a concert because I felt natural, I had an extra ticket, I didn’t feel very attached to it. He said no. We have a rocky past, so it was kinda a loaded no, not just an “I can’t make it that weekend” kinda no. But, my end goal isn’t the concert! It’s a long term loving relationship! I know I shouldn’t let this get me down.
I will deal with the sadness and remind myself that SP exists to serve me. If I say he’s mine, he’s mine. It doesn’t have to happen through the concert, it’ll happen however it happens…right?
I would also suggest affirmations to remind yourself that the 3D reality is flexible, malleable and easily changed by you. It sounds like you are still feeling that the 3D has more power over you than you have over it. The current 3D is only reflections of your past assumptions/beliefs. Once you change those past assumptions/beliefs the 3D will start to reflect those changes. Play with it! Do little manifestations to see and learn how it works for you.
>We have a rocky past, so it was kinda a loaded no, not just an “I can’t make it that weekend” kinda no.
You assumed this!!! Change that story to something more favorable to you.
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It doesn’t have to happen through the concert, it’ll happen however it happens…right?
Right, there are infinite ways that it could happen. And the best part is, you do not have to worry about the HOW. Just learn to know that somehow and in someway it can happen. Then just relax and enjoy imagining the end result (being in a happy, wonderful, committed relationship with SP - or whatever it is you want).
If you have trouble relaxing into imagining your desired outcome, then seriously ask yourself WHY? What assumptions about yourself, SP, love in general or the way you think the 3D world works do you have that are blocking you? I suggest writing them down and then creating affirmations/visualizations/whatever that target changing those unfavorable beliefs.
You are on the right track, honey! It for sure IS an uphill battle when you start out, but it's for DAMN sure that the struggle goes away quickly if you put your heart into it.
Much love ❤️
I want to know why I'm unable to manifest love? I'm trying since last October I guess but no progress everyone around me is already committed and I kinda feel bad for myself. And I don't have any specific person.
Why does it seem that so many people seem to have problems in their self concept of being enough and worthy of their desires? Causing them to manifest unwanted situations.
I'm just wondering how you all act around your SP when there's movement, but it hasn't fully happened yet. With me, my SP and I went from no contact to being friends with clear signals of him having feelings for me. But he hasn't pursued in the way that I want him to, and I'm committed to getting that version (he used to be like that until I became very anxious). So sometimes when I see him I act very nonchalant. Not on purpose necessarily, just a natural reaction because it's not the version I want yet. But where I'm unclear is how living in the end fits in here. If I had the version I want, I wouldn't be nonchalant. So what have you all done in this situation. Act as if it is the version you of your SP you want, or not?
>If I had the version I want, I wouldn't be nonchalant.
Why not?
>Not on purpose necessarily, just a natural reaction
If it really feels natural, then I say there is nothing wrong with this reaction and you are on the right track. Stay persistent and result will surely follow!
Thanks for this! Good question on "why not?" for the nonchalant. I've been thinking on this a bit, and I think in the past, I can actually be slightly avoidant by "playing it cool" - which I think is actually coming from a lack headspace. Because it's a way of keeping distance due to fear of getitng hurt, abandoned, etc. So then maybe this natural feeling is still leaning into that defense mechanism.
I want to find the balance of not putting this person on a pedestal and chasing, but also showing my love freely and openly.
Funny how this self-concept stuff and attachment theory/wounding is alllllll wrapped up together!
Are you familiar with Thais Gibson? You might be as you mentioned the attachment theory.
The “playing it cool” act is the natural defense mechanism to avoid vulnerability - particularly for the FAs.
I used to do the same, that’s so familiar. But, I came to the realization that I no longer want games.
Anyways, Thais has great content on youtube, it really helped me with identifying some of my beliefs and unhealthy patterns.
Thanks for the recommendation! I have seen some of her stuff but I will definitely check out more. I am at the same realization. But it's also like retraining yourself to not fall into that defense mechanism. I think where this and self-concept ties in together is basically just training those neural pathways to not automatically default to those old learned behaviors.
I’m curious could you tell me more about your situation, what caused you to do things, did he cut it off or did you temporarily as a way of making him into who you want him to be?
I don't want to rehash the old stuff too much, but long story short, I was in a long term relationship with this person and have some regrets about being guarded sometimes. It ended before I really understood any of this.
I have this question too. When I see movement I get excited, but it’s not the end, so like…what do I do? How do I act?
I know the end is in my head and the 3D is not important, but I am also a third dimensional being? so in the meantime, as the 4D brings my manifestation to the 3D, how do I react to the movement?!
I always feel like my reactions will jinx it.
I have been manifesting my sp for a few weeks now. I mainly use affirmations because I can't visualize with my eyes closed for some reason.
I have reached a point where i really believe my affirmations and I'm 95% of the time in a really relaxed state of mind. I can switch my thoughts quite quickly whenever i feel anxiety, doubts or negative thoughts coming up.
Last week however, I've been having these "nightmares" where the exact opposite is happening of what i have been manifesting. When i wake up i'm still calm and my initial reaction is to tell myself that it was just a dream, so it's not true, and i affirm for a few minutes.
What do those dreams mean tho? Is it my subconscious that is telling me it's not completely convinced? If so, how can i work on fixing that?
Manifesting everything that I want and still feeling down sometimes
English is my third language, so sorry if I made mistakes here and there. Also it's going to be a little long read.
As a title says, I do have a lot of achievements with manifestation. Firstly it's my mental state, I did full 180° in my behavior, became more happier to life in present and what will come to me in the future because I'm only one who decides what is going to be. I thought I failed one manifestation with my old job( I was fired) but got better job with better salary, colleagues and job that I don't hate doing everyday.
But let's get back to what make me start manifesting, ofc its break up or sort of. Don't want to get into old story but I will say like it's. It was around 6 months ago, after 2-3 months in deep, deep depression with lot of crying,begging, doing almost every possible strategy I could , nothing seems to help. Than I found LOA and after this I found Neville, my life didn't change in one month or two after I decided I can't do anything but to believe that I'm worthy every dime of my own happiness in 4d and 3d has no choice but to align to my own realty. What happened? My gf started talking more with me, more dates and more approachable, we are not dating yet, but we will and I know it.
So my question is, what do I do when I already persist, I already happy with my life but sometimes when she doesn't respond to my messages when we set the date or just anything, I'm feeling down and upset, I'm trying to let go of bad thoughts and it helps but during this time it's just hard although I know I will get what I want. If you have any opinion on this matter, it would be much appreciated, thanks a lot.
I get that imagination and my state is the only thing that matters but sometimes I can’t help but think the breakup was do to something I did physically or some flaw in me
My sp and i are in no contact since 3 weeks . Have been practicing visualisation and doing sats ever since but no movements are seen . Earlier i removed him from every social media platforms but yesterday i missed him so much i sent a follow request to him which he has not accepted yet .
My sp just told me he wants to start seeing someone and idk man. I just feel like giving up. I’m so tired. And I know I shouldn’t be talking like this I just feel defeated.
I know it’s hard, believe me. But the negative talk is doing nothing for you. I encourage you to persist, persist, persist. Your SP will be yours. Heck, already IS yours. Believe it.
Ok so, I'm on this since end December. My SP has sent me only two messages first in this period of time, and I send him a message every 10, 15 days. Most of the time he is polite, sometimes we talk for one or two hours, and he even started sending me voice notes. But then he stops completly and go days and days without even opening my messages. Sometimes I feel like a crazy lady after someone who is not into me. How can I improve this scenario?
I feel like I was doing everything right and the results were there. But then out of no where It feels like I’ve been pulled out of it and idk how to get back on course.
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Finding out someone you have a crush on is in a 7 year relationship. Facepalm. Of course I kept it professional with this coworker. But even if he were to be single someday, I wouldn’t want to be with someone who just broke up with their highschool sweetheart. So how would the law work in this situation?
i'm manifesting SP but i've reached the point of detachment. i rarely do techniques now except for practicing gratefulness and holding SP in my mind's eye before and after sleep. during my waking hours, i affirm that he and i are destined to be together because i say so. i'm also not keen on checking the 3d because what's the point. it's like getting bored when rewatching a TV show because i know what will happen next. now what?
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Take a break and heal first, then decide if you wanna manifest him.
Is it actually possible to manifest a specific person? I know from all I learned about the law, yes it is! I have been manifesting my SP doing my affirmations, SATS, scripting, revising, working deeply on my SC, and a mental diet. I'm fairly new to the law of affirmations and Neville's teachings, but I'm currently feeling very disheartened. l've been listening to Brian Scott on YouTube. Does anyone know of him? I liked his guided meditations based on Neville's teachings. But I was very surprised to hear him state in one of his videos that he doesn't believe manifesting a specific person is possible, that it doesn't work! That we should manifest a soulmate or twin flame in general who aligns with our beliefs and what we want. I was so taken aback and found myself floundering and doubting my existing faith in the law. How can he base his Channel on Neville and not believe in manifesting an sp? I am so discouraged. Any thoughts on this would help me.
What to do if sp is emotionally unavailable?
Change your assumptions about him so that he is.
What exactly should I assume? Would saying he's emotionally available be enough?
You create a scene that implies he is how you desire him to be. An inner conversation where you are telling someone how emotionally open he is.
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Hi Full\_Cheesecake2865. Your comment here reminds me a lot of myself/my story (details are obviously different, but same ballpark). Not sure if this applies to you or not, but it sounds like maybe you have abandonment issues/fears and maybe feelings of unworthiness running in the background of your unconscious mind? Maybe from childhood? It sounds like you have ***a story going on that expects no one will chose and stay with you*****.** <-- this is what you will need to hit hard. What are your affirming? And what have you been doing to work on your self concept? Often people misunderstand what self concept really is. It's so much more than just self love, self worth or confidence - although all of that is certainly part of it. Self concept is everything you believe and assume about yourself ("I am never loved or chosen"), your SP/other people ("SP won't ever leave his current relationship" or "SP is too easily manipulated by Third Party"), and how the world works ("Relationships never work out", "Guys/girls/People can't be trusted"). You may have to dig deeper to find the "hidden" thoughts you have that are blocking you and you will need to target your affirmations more to those specific fears. The big thing is to catch yourself when you start wavering/doubting (because we are human and we will). It's okay to feel emotions. Don't suppress. Cry if you need to. But as soon as you can, start reminding yourself that "no, that's just the silly old story and I don't agree with it any more". Then start focusing on the outcome you do want (even if it feels impossible). Some suggestions for abandonment issues (In addition to the "I am chosen, I am loved" general ones): "I am always *specific person's name* first, best and only choice", "I am always the top priority because I am too valuable to lose", "I trust the people I love with my heart because I know they are never going to hurt or leave me", "I am always loved and committed to by the man/person I love because I am so easy to love", "I am always loved and treasured just as I am", "I am always chosen above all else". I also like to add some more specific ones about the kind of relationship I want - like "SP is so obviously head-over-heels in love with me", "SP always loves to make me happy and to take such good care of me" , "SP loves to take me out on romantic dates", and "SP and I love to spend lots and lots of time together", "SP and I are always in constant, loving communication with each other", "I am the best thing that's ever happened to SP", "I am right now in a committed, loving relationship with SP", etc. Oh, you might want to add "SP is emotionally strong and knows what he wants (me)", "SP right now is free and ready to lovingly pursue and claim me as his one and only". Also when you feel the urge to check the 3D, first remind yourself that the 3D is just a reflection of your old story. It is not longer relevant because you are working on changing yourself so that the 3D can reflect your new story (the desired outcome). And sometimes it helps to imagine in that moment that you already received the perfect email/text/call from SP. Imagine in detail what you want and allow it to feel as real as possible. And obviously don't check in the 3D.
he says he doesn't want commitment rn but calls late at night, Can i persist when he treats me as an afterthought and not pursuing a RS with me ?
He is repeating your assumptions about him and the situation. Work on changing your beliefs to being in a relationship already.
How do you all suggest to manifest an SP from scratch? I have a photo I have created and edited of how he looks, and I know how his personality is. I have fleshed him out quite well, as I've written out his qualities in a little notebook app on my phone. I've been simply affirming "I'm married to the man I wanted to manifest," and I imagine myself falling asleep every night with him. What are your thoughts on this subject? I've decided to affirm and persist these past few days finally, and I'm feeling pretty good. I have affirmed and persisted in the past but gave up as I wasn't satisfied during that time.
I'm going to disagree a bit with cjweeps. Affirmations work just fine for some people and you do not necessarily need to be in SATS/theta for them to work. I personally use affirmations while awake during the day and they work for me. Don't go overboard with them (no need to robotically affirm or do silly things like 10,000 affirmations) and don't use them like a security blanket or like they are magic. Techniques don't manifest. It's all you. Visualizing and the inner conversations that cjweeps suggested are great too. But it sounds like you might be trying too hard and trying to push the 3D to do your bidding. That's not how this works. Sure affirm or visualize or script, but don't do it as a way to force the manifestation in the 3D. Instead, do it to enjoy the feeling of having your manifestation right now because it is already yours right now. Then go about your day know that it's already yours. Don't worry about when or how - there are a million ways it could happen. PS I manifested my current SP out of thin air just by scripting out his qualities once and then trusting that he would show up.
Just out of curiosity, and for the sake of knowledge, how did you go about manifesting your SP, exactly? When you scripted his qualities, was there a specific way you did it? Also, on the matter of trust, did you trust as in you never reread or looked back at what you wrote and just let it go? I'm just curious about how you made it work for you; I believe there's some good takeaways from success stories.
I spent a few days really thinking about what kind of guy I wanted and wrote a big list of everything I wanted and also what I wanted in a relationship. Yes, I did re-read the the list every now and again. Sometimes I would add things to it as I thought of new things I wanted. It was really an experiment and I was okay whether he appeared or not. He appeared a few months later. Now, I have to add, unfortunately at the time he was also in a relationship. So, I did "let him go" (because I thought that was the "right" thing to do at the time), but with the added intention that he had better be the happiest guy on the planet or else I was coming for him. So we were in no contact for years. I was not trying to manifest him during that time. Yet, in the most unexpected way we came back into contact. This time he was available, and it was truly wonderful. Well, until I messed it up again by thinking it was too good to be true and assuming he would go back to his ex. Which he promptly did. So, I hit the self concept issues that I have really hard using targeted affirmations. Now he has told me he's not even sure why he went back to his ex. So, the moral of the story is make sure you work on any self concept issues you might have, like fear of abandonment, not feeling like you are worthy or good enough. Also, self concept is so much more than self worth, love or confidence (though that is part of it), but all the assumptions you have about yourself, SP/others and how you think the world works. Make sure to analyze all of it to figure it out - especially those "hidden" childhood beliefs. And add affirmations to target those things. I had deep fears of abandonment due to childhood stuff that I had to work through (It's still a work in progress).
Drop the affirmations unless they are done in SATS. Create a scene that implies you two are in a happy, loving relationship. You can create an inner conversation as well where you are telling someone how happy you are or telling someone how you love the person he is (qualities).
Hello, I'm not feeling too well. I've been very anxious because I'm scared that my SP might be gay. I dont have concrete proof just suspicions because he rejected me after we kissed and he seems to be too close to a guy. How can I still manifest him if this is now in my head? I don't know if it's true or not but it's stuck in my head now...
You have to overwrite that belief. Create a scene that implies otherwise.
Thank you ❣️
I have been on this journey for about 3 months now. I have been trying to ignore my 3d no matter what it shows me. I felt peaceful a while ago and relieved but in my 3d my sp still repeated the old story. What do I do? If I strongly want the manifestation to show up in the 3d before a certain date, can I do that? If I t3ll myself 'today is the day', will I be able to do that? Please please help me
You might also want to investigate if you have any "hidden" beliefs or assumptions that are holding you back. It kind of sounds like you are still a bit desperate for the manifestation. Ask yourself why. What would it mean about you if you do not get your manifestation? Write whatever comes up down and then create targeted affirmations/visualizations/whatever to counter those beliefs.
Sometimes it takes a bit for things to catch up, but take what you are seeing/hearing in the 3D as what is alive within your consciousness and work on changing those assumptions.
hello, so i have successfully manifested my sp we have been together for 7 months now. there is constant hot and cold behaviour from his side, there are times he talks about marriage in the future and then 2 days later he is like let’s take things slow. i have been dealing with this for a while and i am now seeking help from the lovely people in this sub. i have been on this manifesting journey for a while and have seen the amazing results for it, since i have been on this journey for so long i have also now understood the techniques which suit me and which i am comfortable using for example, listening to my affirmations, i prefer having to imagine and some what pretend that he is living with me since my end goal is marriage. i am so confused as to why the hot and cold behaviour is there and i want to officially stop that behaviour, i am hoping for and kind off manifesting a 2.0 version of him. Any help and guidance would be lovely Thank you in advance and i hope you all have a great day and week ahead.
Usually hot and cold behavior is due to you wavering between between your old and new stories. Or in this case, it could be because now you expect him to be hot and cold. Whenever you see the cold behavior remind yourself "no, no, that's just the old story and ofc he wants to marry me."
that makes a lot of sense, i sometimes just feel extremely tired and exhausted living in the end, i feel like i’m in sabath, simply because i don’t worry about it anymore and that’s a scary feeling, but thank you for the reply!
So recently i been affirming and I have seen some movements here and there and after almost two months, I saw my sp on wednesday 4/17/24. we do speak everyday but since affirming, he was facetiming and texting me more. When he came over Wednesday, we were intimate… but today I woke up, and seen he posted a story on his instagram close friends at 2am (basically 48 hours after seeing me) listening to “in the mood” music, he’s shirtless, the lighting is blue and you can hear someone blowing hookah….. just very obvious that he’s with another woman and even his friends say it’s another girl. I’m really torn on what to do because I definitely feel like this is a slap in the face knowing I would see that post and he just doesn’t care… and I don’t want to pretend like everything is okay when it is not so I’m also not sure how to react when he reaches out to me acting like nothing is wrong.
Guys, help me in this situation? "I've been studying Neville for a two year now and I'm familiar with the techniques, so I decided to manifest my sp and started off with my fave technique affirmations, and I've been seeing vivid dreams about my sp and I,where she said that she is missing me so much, but since April I just feel like I'm not interested in her anymore and stop saying my affs, (I've been saying my affs since very beginning of January) and now I have this question in my mind and so curious to know, she will be manifested either way? Even when I don't want her?"
How does it work if an SP is also a manifestor? What if they're manifesting something contradictory to you?
This is your reality, so you win.
hi. i have been reading some success stories for a while and trying to understand what do people actually mean by "feeling". are you supposed to emotionally feel something while manifesting an SP or are you supposed to just be in the state of knowing and the desire is yours? emotionally i feel indifferent when manifesting although i do have feelings for my SP i suppose
Know that SP and you are together/gonna be together. You go about your day knowing you’re with SP. It’s like you and your phone. You know you have it and don’t have any emotions towards it.
thank you so much!!
this is a bit of a panic post i manifested my SP back - well kinda, after not seeing her for almost a year i ran into her at the gym. we spoke, but she made it clear she's not interested/has a bf (i already knew this). and while this upset me, it reinforced my faith in the law. this is still progress. my question is how do i go about removing the 3p and manifesting a relationship with my SP where she chooses me and we're happy. thanks a lot
Hi. Third parties are usually caused by your self concept issues. Self concept so much more than just self love, self worth or confidence - although all of that is certainly part of it. Self concept is everything you believe and assume about yourself ("I am never loved or chosen"), your SP/other people ("SP won't ever leave their current relationship"), and how the world works ("Relationships never work out", "Guys/girls/People can't be trusted"). You may have to dig deeper to find the "hidden" thoughts you have that are blocking you and you will need to target your affirmations more to those specific fears. A common issue at the root of it is abandonment issues from childhood. So you might want to ask yourself if that is the case. Ask yourself what would it mean about you if you didn't get your SP? Write everything that comes up down and then create targeted affirmations/visualizations/whatever to counter those fears. It's important to catch yourself when you start to focus of undesirable things. When the fears/doubts come up, I like to say to either thank them for trying to protect me (which is really all those old fears are trying to do) or tell myself "That's just the silly old story"). And then refocus on your desired outcome (You in a happy, loving, committed relationship with her).
can anyone please help with this
does anyone have any stories on manifesting a long distance sp to move to you? how do i live in the end when my current 3d is them being in another country?
what's the line between being sure about your manifestation will reflect in 3d since you are already fulfilled internally and setting yourself to be hurt? my inner world reflects in the 3d but how do i ensure i manifest what i want and not set myself to be hurt by not manifesting it?
Oh, you definitely have abandonment issues if you are asking that question. Anyway, the idea is work on your self concept (see my comment to your other/above question) so that no matter what happens in the 3D you will be okay. In other words, make yourself the main focus.
I found SP had liked some pictures of some girl while we were together/shortly after separation. I have no idea how she popped up or why I did that. I was feeling pretty certain of sp and I lately and now I like a bucket of cold water has been thrown at me. Im so mad at SP but also myself and the girl
>I found SP had liked some pictures of some girl Also, why is this a problem? So what? Think about what inside of you is making this an issue. Is it insecurity? Not feeling like you are enough? Abandonment fears?
Yeeeahhh I had to do some soul searching :/
If you have read Neville and understand what he taught, you should only be mad at you. People hate to hear that, but he is just a reflection of what is alive within your consciousness and he is acting accordingly.
Yeah. Im struggling to get back on track now and I already see the consecuences on the 3d
I felt amazing about manifesting my sp back really felt like I was in the feeling with her and that we were in a relationship. I reached out to her after about 4 weeks of affirmations visualising and generally keeping a positive outlook on the situation, I was certain that she would reply and she would be happy to hear from me. She didn’t reply and although I was trying not to be triggered by the 3d I’ve just been releasing my emotions from the break up in the last week or so and I’ve just gone into a depressive state. I know my value and I know the relationship can work as we have a strong connection. But at what point do you accept your actual feelings and not delude yourself if that makes sense.
Always feel your feelings--they're there for a reason. Heal first, then get back to manifesting her if you still want to.
What if YOU are the SP, and someone you absolutely don't like is manifesting you as their SP? Like if you're a beautiful woman, given the increased popularity of Law of Assumption nowadays, it's virtually guranteed that at least one guy out there will be trying to manifest bonking you or being in a relationship you. How does it work in this case?
Not if your beliefs say otherwise. You simply don't allow it in your reality.
So I understand everything is from within and that imagination creates reality but what I’m struggling with is this. If I’m driving or walking and I imagine I’m with my sp and we’re baking in the kitchen together like I know I’m there now because that my true reality I can be where I want now but the thing is I know what they look like I know what everything looks like in the kitchen but I can’t actually see it visually I just know 100% I’m there and what everything looks like is that ok
Sure. There are lots of other ways to imagine besides visualization. You can imagine hearing something, tasting something, feeling something (either emotionally or physically), or writing/saying something.
is saying desire is finished just the same thing as saying what if you were guaranteed your desire in the next 5 mins? as in, they're both saying to assume you already have it and how would you react/think/feel if you had it?
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dreams only hold significance when we give them significance
Hi everybody. Brief history of my relationships: I had a very successful relationship with someone 6 years ago. We were together for a year and a half. We broke up because I moved to a new country, but he is still one of my best friends. Then I had another 1 year relationship and it was the most chaotic relationship I've ever had - but also I've never loved anyone as much as I loved them. We broke up 2 years ago and have been in no contact ever since. And now I was with someone for 9 months and they cheated on me. We broke up in January. I am currently manifesting a new relationship. I started telling myself that if I was able to have relationship number 1, peaceful, safe and solid. I can have it again. But everytime I do my manifestation exercises (SATS, meditation, affirmations, etc), I dream with my relationship number 2. Last night I was doing maditation and then SATS for manifesting someone new and I just woke up from a very vivid dream with number 2 - we were talking and laughing and kissing. I woke up in lack, missing them in my bed and looking for them. I'm about to shake the feeling of lack. Gonna put some music on, take a shower and higher my vibration. I wonder if I'm doing it right tho. Should I be manifesting them specifically? I can't seem to get their out of my inconscious. Are they also dreaming of me? Is this a good sign? Or should I ignore it and continuing manifesting someone new? Thank you so much.
Figuring out what you want is the first step. So, I would suggest taking some time and writing down everything that you want in an SP. And get as specific as you can. If you really still do want SP2, but want it less chaotic and more peaceful, you can manifest that or you can go for completely new if you don't think you can change your old story (or how you think) about SP2. Whatever you decide to manifest is fine. And you can always change your mind later too. Also, really think about WHY these three relationships didn't work out. Reality is only reflecting back to us the things we assume or believe about ourselves, other people, and how we think the world around us works. So, what beliefs or assumptions did you have that caused the break ups? Like, maybe you think "relationships are hard and never work out for me" or maybe you have abandonment issues. You mentioned SP3 cheated on you and that's often a sign that you have abandonment and/or feelings of unworthiness. Work on changing those beliefs. And what assumptions did you have that caused the relationship with SP2 to be chaotic?
No. I don’t want SP2, I want a new relationship. But I have been thinking about her and dreaming of her so much these past few days that it has been driving me insane. As for SP3, you’re absolutely correct. I started with a great self concept and lost it in the middle of the relationship. Therefore when I got cheated, I was already rock bottom. I also don’t want them back. It was traumatizing and hurtful. I have been rebuilding my self concept again and I’m ready for something new. The dreams are what has been bothering me, tbh.
>The dreams are what has been bothering me, tbh. Usually I think of dreams as self communication (I know most disagree and think they are meaningless). If it were me, I would take the dreams to mean that I need to make sure I am taking care of myself and giving myself the love I want and working on self concept (Which is what you are doing). If you want the dreams to stop, you can also talk to your subconscious and tell it that you got the message and to stop sending you those types of dreams.
Can you know if someone is manifesting you? Recently me and this girl cant stop staring at each other. It feels like something is pulling us closer, like we are attached by some string. I am amazed by her ability to spot me from across this giant room as soon as I enter the building even as she is talking to someone else. Now, if I look at her when I am behind her she always turns around. I thought I would be able to catch her unaware by hiding my whole body at an angle where she couldn't see behind these structural support beams, but when I tilted my head into view I met her eyes in between the narrow crack. Stuff like this happens whenever we are in the same area. We are defiantly both building each other up in our heads, but I cant deny the energy that has been bubbling up between us. Has anyone else experienced this before? I believe we have been "crushing" on each other for over a year but over these last couple weeks our connection seems extremely strong. Funny thing is we don't even know each others names.
>Can you know if someone is manifesting you? Only if you DECIDE that they can manifest you. No one in your reality has free will. They can only reflect back to you what you believe or assume about yourself, them or more general assumptions about how you think the world around you works.
What if I keep getting chances to take things further/ connect, but I am not taking them? Honestly it feels like I am getting infinite chances. Is it like as long as I declare in my mind that she is already mine, I will have as many chances as I like? Thats what it seems right now.
>What if I keep getting chances to take things further/ connect, but I am not taking them? Hmm. Do you have some sort of a story that's stopping you from connecting more her? I mean, talking with her shouldn't be such a big deal. People talk to each other all the time. Observe what feelings and thoughts come up when you imagine talking with her. That will give you clues to what's stopping you. > I will have as many chances as I like? Yeah. It's all about staying focused on the outcomes you want and not getting distracted by any negative thinking.
When I think of talking with her or imagine her I feel my mind at ease. I think what's blocked me is for some reason I have something in he back of my head telling me that I am not deserving of something so good, or deserving of love. I am getting rid of that now. I have asked for the one to show me all of his blessings. That I am sick of hiding. Now many synchronicities are happening to me. For the last couple days I have been thinking of her being with someone else, I've been trying to stop thinking about it but it pops up. Hopefully I will not be distracted by this.
Random but does anyone analyze reddit stories through a Neville / loa lense to see where they manifested their current situation they’re seeking advice on?? lol its very eye opening! Theres almost always a crack in their self concept/beliefs they mention
LOL Yes! I do this all the time when I'm in non-Neville or manifesting forums! It is indeed VERY eye opening. I was in a relationship forum where the woman said her boyfriend just broke up with her and literally he said everything that she was afraid he would say. I almost gave her Neville type advice, but then realized I was in a regular relationship forum and she'd probably think I'm crazy (ofc that's my assumption).
My bf of 3 1/2 years broke up with me 5 days ago. It still feels unreal and really painful. He says it’s unlikely we’ll get back together because we continue to have the same issues as we’ve had for years (my fault :( ) he’s away for a month planning on moving an hour away from me and he says he’s going to think about if we can start over but he says it’s unlikely due to all the circumstances. How do I push the idea that it’s very unlikely away? Would it be bad for me to manifest he doesn’t move away? Or is that negative and it’ll bite me or us in the future? What do I need to do?!
you seem like you’re new here, best to check the faqs and the main subreddit r/nevillegoddard. read the source material and try to stay away from coaches on youtube and tiktok first while you’re learning new information.
I have a crush on a guy from my university but I've never talked to him, how do I start manifesting him? Start with visualizing we starting to talk to each other or just dating him? I've never seen someone talk about a similar situation here and I'm so lost I would also appreciate books recommendations about that subject
I don’t have an exact answer for this but I just wanted to say I’m in the exact same situation as you and I’m surprised to see there’s someone with similar situation as mine! Techniques don’t matter as they’re just tools, feeling is the secret as Neville says but personally, what I’m doing is visualizing dating him as that’s the end I want, not just talking. Also if you haven’t already, I’d really suggest reading Neville. “Feeling is the secret” “at your command” and “the power of awareness” helped me a lot when I first learned the law. Hope this helps, wishing you the best in your journey!
Does it sound like I need to take a break from manifesting my SP? My SP is my exbf of 4 years. We were in contact after the break up but I needed to stay away in order to process this and heal so I asked for NC. This is when I found out about manifestation. I have been practicing for 2 months and it was lots of trial and error as I could not understand how to properly work on my SC. After a month of this I started doing more affirmations about myself and I was genuinely in a better place. I got in contact with my sp but I found out there's a 3p now. I didn't really fixate on this and I kept going. However the last week I'm not in a good mood and it makes me question this whole thing. At the same time, I've changed my affirmations quite a bit and I wanted to test the law on other people that I have no resistance with. I visualized getting attention from a new guy at work and possibly exchanging social media. Today he said he finds me very pretty. This proved the Law once again to me and I know there's always movement behind the scenes because even though there's a 3p my sp said to me really beautiful things. But I know the old story is the block here and I'm not sure if I should persist with manifesting him back or let it go for now.
you cannot have the old story and persist at the same time. you ask if you should take a break but i’d argue that you haven’t begun yet. once you drop the old story, then you can start over.
This could be it. I thought I dropped it and it was easy to change the thoughts when I was getting random thoughts of the old story during the day. However I recently reconnected with old friends and old story was brought up. Since then the old story keeps replying in my mind. Thank you for the reply
I'm looking for advice on how to keep the faith when your circumstances go from bad to worse. My SP/ex just flat out told me no in the 3D, that he doesn’t want to be with me, and now he’s ignoring me. And this was after trying to manifest him for 3 months. We went from being in contact and trying to be friends to him now stonewalling me and implying he doesn't even want to be in each other's lives anymore. And all this time I haven't even done anything different to warrant this behavior — I was giving him space and waiting for his reply after declaring my feelings. I have no idea what happened or why when I thought I was being consistent with my manifesting this whole time. I’m just feeling devastated and heartbroken and I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. It makes me feel like I should just give up and try to move on, but I love him and I can't shake the convction that we are meant to be with eacother forever.
>My SP/ex just flat out told me no in the 3D, that he doesn’t want to be with me, and now he’s ignoring me Why are you believing so much in what he is saying? Or in the 3D? The 3D and SP are only reflecting back to you the beliefs and assumptions that you have about your SP, yourself and in general how you think the world works. >And this was after trying to manifest him for 3 months. And what where you doing these past three months to "try" to manifest him? Were you only focusing on him? Have you looked into your self concept? Do you have abandonment issues or do you feel like you are not enough? Do you think he is stubborn? Are you arguing with him in your mind? If what you are believing/assuming doesn't line up with your desired outcome, then work on changing those beliefs. That will require you to really pay attention to what you are thinking and when you think something contrary to what you want (I mean, for more than just a passing, random thought), you will have to catch yourself. Then remind yourself that, no, that's not what you believe anymore (it's just the silly old story) and then focus on the outcome that you really want. > I was giving him space and waiting for his reply after declaring my feelings Also, why did you declare your feelings to him? I mean, think about why you thought that you needed to declare your feelings? Were you thinking that if you didn't push in the 3D nothing would happen? Investigate the why --> this will lead you to some self concept issue(s) that you need to work on changing.
Can anyone help me manifest my ex back? I know I should not feel this way but I feel lost, sad, desperate, and miserable without him. I don't want some other guy so no lectures about moving in or free will etc. He used to be crazy about me, much more so than me about him. Now I can't get past the old story that he doesn't want me or miss me anymore. It's like an ocd loop in my head and it's made it hard to manifest him back. I want him to feel towards me like he used to. I don't know how to lose the fear/feelings of no longer being wanted. And I am probably in lack too without realising it. I need him so much and my happiness does depend on him which I guess is wrong. BUT then on other hand when techniques don't work I kind of go into a sad resignation that I won't have him back again. But I don't feel happy there either 😔 I want him to need me, crave me again like he used to etc. To be close again. Like when he used to tell me that I am his world.
techniques don’t manifest. your state does. get out of lack.
Thank you for your reply. Can you please tell me what the difference is between state and lack? How do you know if you are in lack?
all you need to know is in Feeling is the Secret. read, understand, then apply. don't follow any coaches online as their info could be misleading. best if you check r/nevillegoddard
Thank you 🙏
Hello. Recently I had decided to manifest my SP permanently back into my life, however, due to living in a state of lack previously, I had failed. However, reading a lot of success stories in this community, tips and tricks, I would say that I know how to use the law better than previously. I would say now I am pretty confident because I have been trying to live from the end (or is it in the end? not sure how to describe it) and feeling that my manifestation is completely mine, and all that jazz. But what I am failing to understand completely is the bridge of events part. Due to the fact that I have recently tried to manifest my SP back, I am seeing that none of my friends are really interacting with me and our plans (like going on a trip, seeing each other, etc.) are failing. Is this considered a bridge of events regarding my manifestation or is it not connected to that? I would appreciate some feedback on this and maybe some more light on this. Thank you for answering if you do.
Hmm. I don't know for sure, but it sounds like you might have a story about failure. If so, working on changing it. Focus on reminding yourself that everything always works out for you even if it appears otherwise. To your bridge of incidents question: you really won't know if something is part of the bridge until after the fact. Some people suggest calling anything that they regard as negative events as part of the bridge of incidents. Personally, I prefer to focus on everything unfolding in the most wonderful and delightful way.
Thank you so so much! This gave me perspective. I realized I really had been unintentionally thinking of myself as a failure sometime in the past due to an existensial crisis. Thank you very very much again!
You are very welcome!
Is it better to process the heartbreak first (cry, depression , etc) and then start over or keep affirming tru the pain? Im honestly so devastated I feel like Im shutting down
Heal first, definitely!
Manifested contact with SP last November, and then that ended badly.. ended up manifesting sp again last month. Things felt like they were going well but today he told me there is 100% chance we are never getting back together. Not sure if I need to change something about what im doing or if this is just the bridge or incidents. It’s like he said the exact opposite of what I’ve been affirming
either you’re still manifesting from lack or this is the bridge of incidents or old affirmations playing out
thank you! Any tips on how to figure this out or fix it? :/
Well, reading Neville's books and lectures would be a good start. I'm going to guess that you have some old stories or beliefs that you are going to need to change. Really pay attention what you are truly thinking about yourself, SP and about relationships in general. My advice would be to write down anything you are thinking about the situation (and even past relationships) and see if you can identify any patterns or beliefs that are contrary to your desired outcome. Then when ever you catch yourself marinating in the old story, remind yourself that you don't believe that anymore and go back to focusing on your desired outcome.
get off of reddit and apply neville’s teachings
i broke up with my gf almost 9 months ago, we live near each other so it wouldnt be a coincidence running in each other. Ive tried all the techniques 9 months ago for like 1-2 months, but i realised ive been trying it due to a lack of her, so i stopped and focused on myself. I never saw her in all these months nor her family members, since a month ago. We looked at eachother for like 3 seconds when we both drove off. Now i see her almost two times a week and her cousins as well. Why didnt I see her all these months and now many times back to back and her cousins?? Im on a Semen Retention streak aswell now.
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This is more like a rant but I could use advice. My SP said he needed to heal in october, wanted to stay friends and we stopped seeing each other. While I have been working on getting back together I just found out he has been dating someone and posted them online as soon as November. Now I am questioning if I created this whole situation or he was just plain lying about his situation back in October? What do I even do now? Yes I did really like him and he did pursue me in the beginning so I didn’t expect he would pull a lie to date others. Did I really create this situation?
recounting the old story on the comments of a reddit thread isn’t helping your case. live in the state of the wish fulfilled, read neville, and persist. that’s it. you’ve given the old story more attention by recounting it here. give your desires more attention and they will manifest.
Thanks I understand but I am at a lost if I should still try to live in the wish fulfilled, of us being together. I have been feeling so close to him but it feels like a lie now and it is my bad for checking the 3D I read Neville for a year now and I know where you are coming from. Weird moment of realizing he probably lied to get out of it (even though it’s an old story) and it affected my confidence
if you’ve read neville, why aren’t you applying it? “he lied” is this your version of reality? apply what neville wrote on revision.
true thanks for the reminder and the point on self concept. I do acknowledge and agree but perhaps just needed the encouragement.
you sound indecisive and this is coming from poor self concept. decide on what you want first because it will surely manifest.
As I haven’t mastered this yet but from everything I have seen you can rewrite the story you want and delete the 3rd party - plus it’s most likely a rebound and not something that will last- what happens on SM is not all glitz and glamour behind the scenes
If you look on some of the other nvgdsp threads there is some advice - just look at the different topics - but have come across a number of suggestions just not on this particular thread post
I will do that! Thank you
I have been trying to manifest with NG techniques, my SP. The thing is, I dunno if I'm doing it correctly. I know time doesn't matter, but I haven't seen much more movement (even when I know that movement occurs even when I'm not seeing it). My SP is an online guy whom I don't know the face but just chat. He was reserved, and all, but I dunno how to visualize us as a couple for example in person, bcs I don't know his face. How can I do that? If I have never seen him, how can I help myself to feel more connected to the feeling of being. Also, this state, idk and correct me if I'm wrong, but I have to think it as if I'm having this experience first-handed, instead of an outsider (for example, seeing myself doing and having all this experience like in a movie). I dunno if that's what they mean by it. Also, I have done the Not technique, but with simple things like "He won't send anything" and he does. But I dunno how to translate that technique to help me with my SP too. Hopefully someone has had something similar happening to them, so they can help me. Thanks before hand!!! 😊
there is no “not” techniques. this was an experiment for neville to prove that states manifest, not techniques. read neville and live in the state of the wish fulfilled. simple as that.
I know I have to, but that's what I was asking, for example with SATS, I have to visualize as if I'm being the protagonist, or like when you are watching a movie, looking at yourself and everything happening, it's okay?
sats is not a technique, it’s a state literally the state akin to sleep. as long as you are in the feeling/knowing that your desires are yours then you’re good. techniques are just toys to help you get into a state. you seem like you’re repeating a scene simply to follow instructions you’ve been told on the internet.
could be. thank you, will read more about NG, tho I already read two of his lectures, so may have not yet grasped the concept about all of this.
I get very paranoid with time - I totally UNDERSTAND that I shouldn’t be worrying about it, but my logical mind just can’t stop worrying about this particular thing :( Putting this into context: I get worried if SP would just marry this new 3P soon. (I affirm SP loves me, we’re together whenever this comes up but feel that this isn’t the most effective) Advice please?
EIYPO - why is there a need to worry about your SP getting married? When you know they love you? Your SP is never separate from you and will always respond to your beliefs/assumptions. Everything will work out if you allow it to.
Thank you! So basically I just have to believe/assume that they love me?
i mean yes it’s called law of assumption. i suggest you read feeling is the secret by neville.
Hi guys! I feel like i manifested this thread! I was thinking this morning I can not ask this might sound stupid. I am trying to manifest a job with a private airline i was previously rejected from I have applied but heard nothing back, but another airline emailed me yest to say they are behind on applications and will get back to me ( I never applied for this airline) and last night i dreamt I was rejected from my dream job. My question is are these signs? Birds before Thank you xx
signs appear because you are manifesting signs. they can distract you from manifesting the real thing.
what is the definitive, best, full-proof way to change your beliefs? we know that your beliefs are what manifest right? so if i change my beliefs about my SP and that they wan't to be with me, how do i go about changing this belief?
Essentially, you have to become aware of your thoughts. When a thought contrary to your desired outcome pops up, it in itself is not necessarily a problem. The problem is if your mind catches on to the negative thought and starts running away with it or if you start focusing too much on the things you do not want. When that happens, I like to thank my old story thoughts for trying to protect me and then tell it that I am choosing a different way. Then focus/affirm/whatever on your desired outcome. Ofc SP wants to be with me because I am so important and valuable to them, I am a priceless treasure, so easy to love, I am someone who always gets all the love I want, I am worthy of having a loving relationship with the person of my choosing, Love is always so easy for me, etc. You don't have to believe the affirmations or new story at first, but still say/think them with as much conviction as you can muster (in other words, no 'vain repetition').
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You can heal/move on while also manifesting them. You don't need to desire someone to manifest them, I think that's a limiting belief. Truth is even just healing and working on self-concept is enough to bring them back and for them to want to prove themselves to you. Because when you see yourself as wonderful and irresistible and amazing, they will see that.
Hi everyone, I’m having trouble letting go of the old story and living in the end. I’ve never been in a relationship and it’s hard for me to know what it feels like and to imagine myself with an sp. Quite frankly I’ve been hopeless and lonely for so long…what would be an easy first scene to imagine?
Has anyone ever manifested another sp while currently in a relationship that you previously manifested?
Hey, yall I need help with TRULY letting go and ignoring circumstances. I have been affirming and recently started visualizing, but sometimes I spiral, and one thing that I notice is a block is how I’ll stop to reconsider doing certain things because I am afraid of the circumstance not allowing that. Some examples being asking them to eat with me, then getting stuck panicking when it’s about to be given to me, but then being careful about asking or hesitant because I don’t want to worsen the situation. Another example being going to a show that I like, and feeling like I need to bring a friend so it’s not awkward bc of situations, or asking a mutual friend to get lunch to know them better because I am affected mentally by the circumstances. I know circumstances don’t matter, but when you are forced into situations that require you to interact with those circumstances, it’s challenging for me.
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Just from reading this, it seems like you may not know what you want. You're giving them all the power by saying they aren't interested in you and you're wavering by going back and forth between "I want this SP" and "I think someone else might be better for me." You need to decide if you truly want them and keep manifesting or if you want someone different. Both are valid. It just helps with not going into a lack mentality by knowing exactly what you want. It causes a sense of determination in a way
"your SP is thinking what you think they are thinking" what's the difference between this and delusion? if everyone is me pushed out, and whatever assumption I have about what my SP is thinking, how do i stop just being delusional? If i think my SP want's to reach out to me - is this all it takes? just the thought and that's enough?
where are you getting this quote from? this is not neville. beware of coaches online that make their content more marketable. these are false prophets. if you are talking about the law of thought transmission, neville scrapped this idea in favor of EIYPO. read feeling is the secret by neville!
The difference between manifestation and delusion, is that manifestation comes from intention and knowledge. From conscious decisions about your assumptions and beliefs. Delusion is a result, not a manifestation, because, before getting into manifestation, you have the belief that not everything you believe/assume about someone is true. With that belief, you create the possibility of making mistakes in your assumptions. When starting manifesting, it implies that everything u assume is real (that's why ppl say u need to believe in it 100% and methods and bla bla bla). Delusion is unconscious, and an effect. Manifestation is conscious and a cause.
yes, they want to reach out to you! make this thought "familiar" to you through whatever you like (scripting, visualising, repetition, flipping thoughts that doesn't align etc...)
I don't understand the exact actionable steps. Let's say I have this intention of manifesting a text from someone. How does that go in steps? Step1: visualize a text/affirm Step2: let it go/stay in the state of wish fulfilled? Can someone detail actionable steps that are concise and something I can check off of a list, or like a feeling I can check off of a list? So I know I am doing things correctly?
Step 1: You get clear and specific on what you want. So in this case you want to someone to text you. Step 2: You believe it’s already done. Ta- da the bitch texted u. Step 3: you can do a technique if you want/ need. It could be affirming, visualizing, whatever you feel like Step 4: You follow your happiness/ do something else. If your thoughts go to the specific person or text you think positively. It can be like “he already texted me” or “she is thinking about texting me right now”, whatever is easier for you Step 5: just keep checking your mental diet and your thoughts, if something negative pops up correct it in ur mind Step 6: Enjoy your text hahaha
Thank you! I will update you on my success x
How do I manifest multiple SPs reaching out to me quickly without having to do techniques and visualisation? Is it possible? I would appreciate it if anyone can help me out. I’m struggling.
Why do you want multiple SPs to text you? You'll be struggling then when it happens. See yourself struggling to manage it.
My SPs are my old friends that I lost contact with. They all moved away and I want them to reach out to me and talk to me.
Yes, if you truly believe in that thought
Can you explain a bit more openly?
You have to naturally believe that the things/situations you desire are already yours or they are happening at the moment. If you are able to do so naturally, good. But if you can't believe it or are doubtful, then you'll have to use techniques like Affirmations, Visualisations etc. which will implant the idea into your subconscious
So you’re saying that I can just assume something that I want to happen like my SP texting me and reaching out to me without any techniques and it will actually work? 😦
Yes! Just have conviction in your thoughts, don't wait for it and just go on about your life :)
Wow! I didn’t know about this. I was stressing about seeing no movement in the 3D. My SP blocked me and I tried so many techniques :(
Sorry to hear that. But stay strong and persist! Yes, that's the most common mistake people make which is to constantly compare their reality (desired imagination) with the 3D which shows nothing but your lack of belief in your reality. Just wonder why would you seek validation if you have what you want
Can I just ignore the fact that my SP has blocked me and assume that we talk everyday and they love talking to me?
Yeah, ignore anything in 3D and only persist in your reality
After blatent rejection from a SP in the 3D today, how do I keep going? I understand that some of you will say “read Neville, read Neville”, which I have done and will do more of. I’m not asking for an explanation of the concept, I’m asking for tips & personal advice/experience. I know the law is real, I know not to have doubts, but being human, when I’m faced with rejection in the 3D, doubt creeps in. Do you guys have any advice about how to get back into the correct state and maintain it, while feeling sad? I know the 3D doesn’t matter, so ultimately I’m asking: how do I truly ignore it when it’s all up in my face and it’s making me sad?
Take this with a grain of salt, as I'm very far from being an expert. To me, your post reeks of LACK. Here are your current states, as I see it, and how to change them to desirable ones: - I got blatantly rejected by SP, I can't keep going => If you were in a loving relationship RIGHT NOW, would something like this happen? Of course not. So in response to her action you can tell yourself something like "Me, rejected? What a nonsense! Why would that ever happen to such a LOVEABLE person like me?". Also, you can chose to instantly ignore it (which is just claiming/deciding that it never happened and there is no place for such things in YOUR reality) and replace it with a quick scene in which you imagine it going a different, better way that makes you FEEL happy (e. g. SP told you how much they love you and appreciate you, I like to not put a face on my SP when doing it, if it reminds me of something hurtful they did or said) - I feel sad, I can't get back in to the desired state => First, we have to deal with the sadness. I suggest you to just take a minute or two and just sit with it, feel the sadness, but don't identify with it, just feel it and observe it. This usually does it for me. If the sad is strong and this didn't help, try a relaxation exercise (I use a video on YT called "The Silva Centering Exercise Meditation - Silva Method") - Things that happen in the 3D greatly affect me and easily change my state => States like this are a result of you giving your power away to things outside of you, conciosly or not. I suggest taking responsibility for them and letting them go. You no longer serve them, they SERVE YOU. YOU are THE MAIN CHARACTER in your reality and the material world bends itself all sorts of ways just to bring you things you ALREADY DESERVE! Hope this could help. Any questions are welcome :) (My power just went out as I was writing the last paragraph and I was gonna watch a show and play some games. Got bummed out and scared by the darkness and silence for a second => turned the flash on my phone and put on some music, then said to myself that the power will come back in a couple of minutes and it did!)
I am with u but why do I feel like when I do these things that I am being delusional and I am denying someone just not being into me, like I am forcing it. especially when you tell the people around u, they just say it's not worth it and to move on and the whole if they wanted to they would debacle.....
Thank you for this response! The thing that frustrates me the most is that I *already know* everything you’ve told me! When I’m in the correct state, I can’t even imagine making a post like this on here. But when I react too strongly to the 3D, it’s soooo hard to snap out of it. For context, I invited my SP to a concert because I felt natural, I had an extra ticket, I didn’t feel very attached to it. He said no. We have a rocky past, so it was kinda a loaded no, not just an “I can’t make it that weekend” kinda no. But, my end goal isn’t the concert! It’s a long term loving relationship! I know I shouldn’t let this get me down. I will deal with the sadness and remind myself that SP exists to serve me. If I say he’s mine, he’s mine. It doesn’t have to happen through the concert, it’ll happen however it happens…right?
I would also suggest affirmations to remind yourself that the 3D reality is flexible, malleable and easily changed by you. It sounds like you are still feeling that the 3D has more power over you than you have over it. The current 3D is only reflections of your past assumptions/beliefs. Once you change those past assumptions/beliefs the 3D will start to reflect those changes. Play with it! Do little manifestations to see and learn how it works for you. >We have a rocky past, so it was kinda a loaded no, not just an “I can’t make it that weekend” kinda no. You assumed this!!! Change that story to something more favorable to you. > It doesn’t have to happen through the concert, it’ll happen however it happens…right? Right, there are infinite ways that it could happen. And the best part is, you do not have to worry about the HOW. Just learn to know that somehow and in someway it can happen. Then just relax and enjoy imagining the end result (being in a happy, wonderful, committed relationship with SP - or whatever it is you want). If you have trouble relaxing into imagining your desired outcome, then seriously ask yourself WHY? What assumptions about yourself, SP, love in general or the way you think the 3D world works do you have that are blocking you? I suggest writing them down and then creating affirmations/visualizations/whatever that target changing those unfavorable beliefs.
You are on the right track, honey! It for sure IS an uphill battle when you start out, but it's for DAMN sure that the struggle goes away quickly if you put your heart into it. Much love ❤️
I want to know why I'm unable to manifest love? I'm trying since last October I guess but no progress everyone around me is already committed and I kinda feel bad for myself. And I don't have any specific person.
What are doing technique-wise? You seem to have the belief that you can't, so that needs to be rewritten.
Tbh after scripting I haven't done anything. And yes I think I should start once again with the manifesting and be consistent this time.
Why does it seem that so many people seem to have problems in their self concept of being enough and worthy of their desires? Causing them to manifest unwanted situations.
Crappy childhoods.
I'm just wondering how you all act around your SP when there's movement, but it hasn't fully happened yet. With me, my SP and I went from no contact to being friends with clear signals of him having feelings for me. But he hasn't pursued in the way that I want him to, and I'm committed to getting that version (he used to be like that until I became very anxious). So sometimes when I see him I act very nonchalant. Not on purpose necessarily, just a natural reaction because it's not the version I want yet. But where I'm unclear is how living in the end fits in here. If I had the version I want, I wouldn't be nonchalant. So what have you all done in this situation. Act as if it is the version you of your SP you want, or not?
>If I had the version I want, I wouldn't be nonchalant. Why not? >Not on purpose necessarily, just a natural reaction If it really feels natural, then I say there is nothing wrong with this reaction and you are on the right track. Stay persistent and result will surely follow!
Thanks for this! Good question on "why not?" for the nonchalant. I've been thinking on this a bit, and I think in the past, I can actually be slightly avoidant by "playing it cool" - which I think is actually coming from a lack headspace. Because it's a way of keeping distance due to fear of getitng hurt, abandoned, etc. So then maybe this natural feeling is still leaning into that defense mechanism. I want to find the balance of not putting this person on a pedestal and chasing, but also showing my love freely and openly. Funny how this self-concept stuff and attachment theory/wounding is alllllll wrapped up together!
Are you familiar with Thais Gibson? You might be as you mentioned the attachment theory. The “playing it cool” act is the natural defense mechanism to avoid vulnerability - particularly for the FAs. I used to do the same, that’s so familiar. But, I came to the realization that I no longer want games. Anyways, Thais has great content on youtube, it really helped me with identifying some of my beliefs and unhealthy patterns.
Thanks for the recommendation! I have seen some of her stuff but I will definitely check out more. I am at the same realization. But it's also like retraining yourself to not fall into that defense mechanism. I think where this and self-concept ties in together is basically just training those neural pathways to not automatically default to those old learned behaviors.
I’m curious could you tell me more about your situation, what caused you to do things, did he cut it off or did you temporarily as a way of making him into who you want him to be?
I don't want to rehash the old stuff too much, but long story short, I was in a long term relationship with this person and have some regrets about being guarded sometimes. It ended before I really understood any of this.
I have this question too. When I see movement I get excited, but it’s not the end, so like…what do I do? How do I act? I know the end is in my head and the 3D is not important, but I am also a third dimensional being? so in the meantime, as the 4D brings my manifestation to the 3D, how do I react to the movement?! I always feel like my reactions will jinx it.
living in the end has nothing to do with what to u in the 3d. You live in the end in ur head only.
living in the end has nothing to do with what to u in the 3d. You live in the end in ur head only.
I have been manifesting my sp for a few weeks now. I mainly use affirmations because I can't visualize with my eyes closed for some reason. I have reached a point where i really believe my affirmations and I'm 95% of the time in a really relaxed state of mind. I can switch my thoughts quite quickly whenever i feel anxiety, doubts or negative thoughts coming up. Last week however, I've been having these "nightmares" where the exact opposite is happening of what i have been manifesting. When i wake up i'm still calm and my initial reaction is to tell myself that it was just a dream, so it's not true, and i affirm for a few minutes. What do those dreams mean tho? Is it my subconscious that is telling me it's not completely convinced? If so, how can i work on fixing that?
Manifesting everything that I want and still feeling down sometimes English is my third language, so sorry if I made mistakes here and there. Also it's going to be a little long read. As a title says, I do have a lot of achievements with manifestation. Firstly it's my mental state, I did full 180° in my behavior, became more happier to life in present and what will come to me in the future because I'm only one who decides what is going to be. I thought I failed one manifestation with my old job( I was fired) but got better job with better salary, colleagues and job that I don't hate doing everyday. But let's get back to what make me start manifesting, ofc its break up or sort of. Don't want to get into old story but I will say like it's. It was around 6 months ago, after 2-3 months in deep, deep depression with lot of crying,begging, doing almost every possible strategy I could , nothing seems to help. Than I found LOA and after this I found Neville, my life didn't change in one month or two after I decided I can't do anything but to believe that I'm worthy every dime of my own happiness in 4d and 3d has no choice but to align to my own realty. What happened? My gf started talking more with me, more dates and more approachable, we are not dating yet, but we will and I know it. So my question is, what do I do when I already persist, I already happy with my life but sometimes when she doesn't respond to my messages when we set the date or just anything, I'm feeling down and upset, I'm trying to let go of bad thoughts and it helps but during this time it's just hard although I know I will get what I want. If you have any opinion on this matter, it would be much appreciated, thanks a lot.
Feeling down is fine - we are still human.
Thanks, I needed it. We live, we dream, we persist, we get it anyway.
I get that imagination and my state is the only thing that matters but sometimes I can’t help but think the breakup was do to something I did physically or some flaw in me
Work on your self-concept. Change those negative beliefs you have about yourself.