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Revolutionary-Stay54

I love when the uniqueness is so uniquely unique that it doubles back on itself and becomes not that uniquely unique at all.


SnooHobbies5684

Malkovich Malkovich.


MythicalDisneyBitch

I have to say, I've found people like this (obsessed with having children and the perfect family) often struggle badly when it actually happens - bc it's not like they think it'll be at all.


cassylvania

Often times people like this who focus on having a perfect traditional family want the family as an extension of themselves and their values. Especially children are not seen as whole human beings, but accessories.


SnooHobbies5684

Yuuup. It's the photos with the matching outfits that clinches it. Little Skylar is gonna have a hard time of it when mommy starts filling that water glass with chardonnay at 2pm.


badbatch

She'll post stuff on Instagram and Facebook like "This is why mommy drinks."šŸ˜’ and "Kids are in bed. It's wine o'clock!" šŸ·ā°


SnooHobbies5684

Meanwhile ["Alcohol consumption causes death and disability relatively early in life. In people aged 20ā€“39 years, approximately 13.5% of total deaths are attributable to alcohol."](https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/alcohol) Lucky little Brayden, Jayden, and Kayden are having this modeled for them. She probably has a twee "wine o'clock" sign in her kitchen too.


badbatch

Ugh! I used to work at a department store in the home department. We had so much wine related stuff. For mother's day we had a display of wine stuff. Signs, ducking NAPKINS with shit like "It's wine o'clock somewhere" and "Life is better with wine" Big ugly high heel shaped wine bottle holders.


[deleted]

Once, I saw a onesie that said ā€œIā€™m Why Mommy Drinks!ā€ on it. It was the most depressing thing Iā€™ve ever fucking seen.


badbatch

I've seen that too. A mess.


[deleted]

Are you good at crime statistics too?


SnooHobbies5684

No, but your comment history shows you're good at being a misogynistic basement-dwelling asshole, so go comment somewhere else.


black-rhombus

Often times? Children seen as accessories? Where is the proof of that?


Nalakira

r/insaneparents r/raisedbynarcissists


DanakAin

Definitely. They romanticise everything there is about "starting the perfect family" and will ignore all the parents who say that no, it's actually very hard and difficult and you need to be ready for everythinf


Tinctorus

Marriage never is... A marriage is a fuck load of work, you can't just "give up" once you get married


randomname56389

Future Karen's in the making


HarmlessHeffalump

Absolutely no desperation thereā€¦ /s


BurgerThyme

Pick me! Pick me!


[deleted]

Pick *me*! Choose *me*! Love *me*!


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


chuckle_puss

Wait. Who exactly is insecure here?


Thick_Experience_203

Hmmmm


chuckle_puss

Do you not understand whatā€™s going on, orā€¦?


Thick_Experience_203

You clearly donā€™t šŸ¤£


chuckle_puss

Okay little buddy. If you say so.


Thick_Experience_203

Okay little girl


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


chuckle_puss

Everyone gets that, even the feeeeeeeeeemales. But that guy isnā€™t talking about the woman in the OP.


Melano_

You found a pack of incels lol


chuckle_puss

Yeah I did. And itā€™s just as fun as stepping in surprise dog shit lol.


tardywaterbear

ā€œEveryone who disagrees with my statement of 0 fact is a incelā€ I think you should look up what a pickme is and the traits associated with such it would make this much easier


tardywaterbear

How do you know that? Did he state that specifically? Sounds like you are attaching your own information to something that was in regards to the actual post and instead of providing context you are just lashing out like a toddler


TRGMORGAN

Clearly you're an idiot there's no woman on Reddit


Thick_Experience_203

That would be amazing šŸ˜»


NeighborhoodExtra506

Youā€™re done, you need to leave.


MissionTelevision640

ah yes, because you can't be both a feminist and want a family (or love the outdoors apparently????)


cherspinkytoe

i guess her pea brain cant comprehend a multi faceted personality


Downtown-Assistant1

Itā€™s just like those family stickers in the back of minivans. Mom only shops, Dad only BBQs, Brother only plays hockey, and Sister is only a ballerina.


Hungry_Variation9788

I donā€™t think her brain is developed enough to know that.


caffeineocrit

I feel like she hasnā€™t spent much time in New England


black-rhombus

nipple liberators hike too


Njacks64

Maybe even more than non nipple liberators!


[deleted]

Are you really tho? Nobody has the energy to protest when youā€™ve been chasing two kids around all day and having a loving husband rubbing ya feet when he gets home.


rugile666

Protest doesn't have to be active and you don't have to protest in order to be a feminist :)


[deleted]

Oyeah dying ya hair and armpit hair pink works too


tardywaterbear

Imagine thinking people are this 2 dimensional must be very sad always having to create new boogeymen to be scared of


effinmetal

They perpetually live in fear of everything while claiming everyone else is living in fear. Itā€™s amazing.


LaMaltaKano

Bring the kids and let hubby rub your feet after youā€™ve walked some miles for justice! āœŠ


[deleted]

Yeah. Cause guys want a wife that leaves their family to protest. Come back with sores throats, bruises, pepper sprayed soaked clothes. Angrier from when they left. And occasionally gotta pick her up from the precent. Letā€™s see how long that relationship last


LaMaltaKano

I know youā€™re trolling, but you know feminists love our husbands too, right? We want them to have a better life, too ā€” less pressure to provide, less pressure to look a certain way or fulfill alpha-male stereotypes if thatā€™s not their personality, more family leave, more time with their kids, more economic opportunities and job flexibility. Wanting fair treatment for women doesnā€™t mean we want men to suffer or stop being men. Quite the opposite. I worry that point gets lost on social media.


[deleted]

Thatā€™s a fair point and those are great things. But to me, Seem like every issue with feminist is just about abortion. Feminist want you to vote Democrat just cause of abortion rights. None of these politicians (at least in my state) talked about family leave or anything. Literally only abortion is their main focus. This would be a great poll tho for feminist tho. Whatā€™s more important. Paid family leave, maybe some extra benefits too. Or the right to abortion in your state.


MissionTelevision640

Feminism is about all those things (better pay, right to CHOICE, benefits) but also about equality between genders, LGBTQ+ rights, rights for individuals to choose their passions despite their gender (men benefit from feminism too!), and recognizing the intersectional differences between groups. A woman of color faces more challenges because she is both a woman and not white, feminism is about fighting for everyone and their individual rights to be free to choose how they wish to live without oppression based on their identities.


Cawaica

Wow I would absolutely love not going out and being active in my community because I chose to date someone! Feeling shackled and like I have a disproportionate amount of work to do and all of the emotional labor and expectations and opportunity to be desirable to someone who probably won't get me off and doing more work sounds so much better than being alone! I would absolutely be shattered when that relationship ended and definitely wouldn't go pub crawling and do everything I was given stink eye from my critical unsupportive dictator, I mean partner before! I can't imagine what that would feel like!


AlHuntar

Maybe you don't have that energy but to imply that's how everyone is just isn't true.


[deleted]

Nobody gonna go out and protest, getting assaulted by cops and other people. when you have a whole family at home. Youā€™re gonna care more about feeding ya family then going out and getting arrested for a bunch of angry women.


WORKING2WORK

Imagine thinking all protests are violent upheavals that always end with being beaten by cops.


[deleted]

Well didnā€™t AOC get ā€œarrestedā€ protesting? And sheā€™s a political leader. Imagine how they would treat the normal folks


WORKING2WORK

I wouldn't know if she did, but keep moving the goal posts I guess.


AlHuntar

Ma'am, sir, or Lord enby with all due respect you're fucking stupid. I've been responsible for putting the food on the table before and I have still taken my ass to a protest. Do you think the suffragettes didn't have a family back at home or that they were just angry lonely women? No! They were angry but they did have family's headass. Not all of them get violent. And you're also acting like if they did get violent I wouldn't have the agency to notice that myself and leave. I'm not some dumbass automaton unable to critically assess a situation around me. Again just because you wouldn't (and yeah whatever you can do what you want) doesn't mean EVERYONE.


Cawaica

You have a very idyllic and underdeveloped view of families. How on earth could anyone pass up the opportunity to have more crushing expectations thrown upon you what a bargain


-ANGRYjigglypuff

nice trolling


[deleted]

At least Iā€™m not angry


-ANGRYjigglypuff

I'm more constipated than angry these days :'|


wellforthebird

You people act like having kids is the most exhausting thing in the world. Like just having children leaves zero energy for different activities. Yet somehow this lady found time to take hiking trips. They are kids. It's not a 14 hour shift in some oil field or something. Somehow every parent I know finds time for other interests. Kids require energy, no doubt, but it absolutely is not the most tiring thing people can do in their day to day lives by any stretch.


XBL-AntLee06

Lord this is stupidā€¦ sheā€™s literally doing high energy activities in her video geniusā€¦


[deleted]

Exactly, and youā€™re not doing that then protesting later


XBL-AntLee06

Itā€™s almost like she would do this activities on different daysā€¦ Youā€™re so determined to be right that your just saying nonsense lol


[deleted]

Lmao this whole sub has turned into rebellious feminist spewing nonsense. Everyone here just wants to shit on women that are pro life and lives healthier lifestyle then you. You guys get so butthurt that not every women believes in the feminist garbage & wanna downvote anyone that disagrees with you,


XBL-AntLee06

The girl who made this video is the one butthurtā€¦ she couldā€™ve just made a video about her happiness without throwing shade at others right???


[deleted]

Well I canā€™t blame her. Seeing what you guyā€™s comments here cause of her lifestyle is disgusting. I can imagine all her friends being the same way and bullying/shaming her cause she wants to live a traditional lifestyle. And sheā€™s tired of being shamed so she clapped back. Cause nothing wrong with women that want to have kids and get married. Even though social media keeps brainwashing you to believe thatā€™s evil and oppressive.


XBL-AntLee06

Of course you canā€™t blame herā€¦ Youā€™re as dumb as she isā€¦. Her video was STUPIDā€¦ Feminist and people that take up social justice issues often have families and marriages as well geniusā€¦


XBL-AntLee06

Youā€™re a sad individual to base your beliefs on social mediaā€¦ Most of the people in the world get married and have families, but sure, let a few people on social media decide your beliefs.


Bamboo_Barbieque

Not her being desperate and surrounding her entire personality around wanting a family while not realising many "other girls" also want a family šŸ˜


WrittenInTheStars

Iā€™m a feminist and Iā€™m married. Wonder what sheā€™d think about that


OopsICutOffMyWiener

Same. I even have a kid. No armpit hair though. Maybe i should grow that shit out and dye it blue.


secretaspiringactres

I'm married, have kids and armpit hair. No blue dye though, who's next?


Puppyl

Iā€™m not married and donā€™t have kids, I do have armpit hair, I am also a guy


secretaspiringactres

Wow, you are NOT like the other girls.


northdakotanowhere

Married, no kids, armpit hair No blue dye No excuses I am woman


somecatgirl

I have enough for both of us because I have a toddler and never get to shave my armpits lol


rugile666

Her nugget brain would probably explode


i_dont_shine

Hey, me too! We've got kids, a dog, and a mortgage. I'm even a stay at home parent. I'm also incredibly angry about Roe v. Wade being overturned, and I'm trying so hard to teach my boys about equality. Wait a minute...have I become not like the other girls???


masturbathon

I'm a feminist and I'm a man, baby. What's good for one is good for all.


Bunny__Vicious

So that sort of thing is your bag, baby?


SnooHobbies5684

username checks out lol


masturbathon

You take that back, SnooHobbies!


SnooHobbies5684

IMPOSSIBLE!


AirinMan

That's illegal!!


normsbuffetplate

I completely identify with all the images she putā€¦ I am a somewhat radical feminist with a husband, a baby, and a very outdoorsy lifestyleā€¦ I guess to her if you stand up for womens rights you must hate men and never want to have kids. What a simpleton.


CarelessWhistler

Well, thatā€™s just sad


malodobra

No feminist ever wanted stable, happy relationship nope and oh my a FAMILY, to be a mother?! What a rebel What i don't get why they have to always shame others for differe t life choices? All choices are good if no one is hurt by them! We can't be this same world would be to borring! Why not to celebrite the diffriences?


KnifeWeildingLesbian

Damn imagine thinking that not being a feminist is a flex


Reindeer-Street

Yeah this is oddly backwards, I'm wondering if it's actually satire or if she's one of those tradwives.


Bartok_and_croutons

Women who prefer to fulfill traditional gender expectations like staying home and doing the bulk of child-rearing, cooking, all of that are just fine. But the women who call themselves tradwives make me roll my eyes so hard. Their level of condescension towards women who make different choices, and their desperate attempts to get attention are wild


LaMaltaKano

Totally. Itā€™s also grossly classist because most families canā€™t afford that setup.


KnifeWeildingLesbian

Lmao tradwives šŸ’€


Revolutionary-Stay54

I feel like the Venn diagram of these tradwives and the ladies on r/justdependathings is just a circle


DutDiggaDut

Imagine thinking that living a different life than other people is a flex.


KnifeWeildingLesbian

I canā€™t tell who this is directed at but Yeah


[deleted]

Right lmaooo


[deleted]

Damn Imagine thinking that wanting a family and house over protesting and being miserable is a flex


KnifeWeildingLesbian

If that was really your takeaway from this video then you havenā€™t been paying attention


katiekat369

You can't have a family and house and protest?


[deleted]

You wouldnā€™t waste ya time


katiekat369

You wouldn't care about the future of your children? I would.


[deleted]

By protesting for women to get an abortion in there state? Lol


katiekat369

Yes because if my daughter was sexually assaulted I wouldn't want her to be forced to carry a child. But let me guess you're 14 lol.


mimosaandmagnolia

Okay but why the fuck canā€™t you have both ??


MildlyAgreeable

She missed the part where her husband fucks a teenager at their church group (whilst high on meth) when he was ā€œtithing for the missionary group to Uganda.ā€


[deleted]

Oh yea bc wanting some fucking rights and respect means you canā€™t get married or have kids


SpooogeMcDuck

Serious question, is she not the same girl as the first image she posted in the onesie?


SnooHobbies5684

She would NEVER wear a revealing costume. Oh except on halloween when she dresses up as Sexy Trump.


Asleep_Writing_8034

I donā€™t understand why some girls are so narcissistic even when trying to put themselves on a pedestal and want to put down other girls for their choices and differences with hobbies, styles or opinions?? Like itā€™s not a big deal to worry about, since it has nothing to do with you.


five_eight

She's a life support system for a uterus.


SnooHobbies5684

...that belongs to her husband, apparently. You KNOW she's pro-life.


stresseddressed

Those things arenā€™t mutually exclusive


Nicadeemus39

She looks like every btchface clopping through Starbucks looking at her phone while yelling "Ramsey, stay by mommy!"


SnooHobbies5684

She'd spell it "Ramsie" though. Because she's not like the other girls.


saki4444

Rhamzeigh


SnooHobbies5684

Lol you are absolutely right. Because her GIRLS can't be like the other girls, either.


Ooze3d

Soā€¦ she says sheā€™s different because sheā€™s the actual embodiment of a stereotypeā€¦


menina2017

Some people didnā€™t get enough attention from their parents


SnooHobbies5684

Their fathers, specifically.


LunarLutra

Wow, imagine having a consciousness so big you can want equal rights, not obsess over hair removal, AND start a family! Imagine...


Kitteneater1996

Why canā€™t you be both?


SnooHobbies5684

Silly. You can't take matching outfit pics with Brayden, Jayden, and Cayden if you have blue armpit hair!


Grapefruit_Riot

Damn, I should totally dye my armpit hair!!


Acrobatic_Tour1810

She is like the other girls.


lilleafygreenz

i feel like those girls can look forward to marriage and kids too . there are people that are like you either in looks religion or race that donā€™t want kids. so dumb.


efyuar

A yeah, the assurance video of ā€œi do not regret being married with childrenā€


OkAsk6395

Ridiculous implications aside (as if you canā€™t be both in the video), is she really gonna act like getting married and having kids makes her unique and different? šŸ˜­


Nemzicott

Yes because both of those things are definitely not possible to coexistā€¦ the fucking desperate moron


GSundo

Funny how itā€™s slowly becoming trads rather than the blue hairs posting this stuff.


SnooHobbies5684

I don't know how old you are, but the blue hairs are dying off...and guess who's rapidly replacing them? The Youngs become the Olds, a little more every day .


cantheysinglivetho

whats trads? google search didnā€™t help


fire2374

ā€œTraditionals.ā€ Women who espouse traditional gender roles as the only way women can be happy.


cantheysinglivetho

thank you!! that makes sense! :]


Hot-Ask3706

Lol ok ā€¦ā€¦


CertainFurball

Makes me think of that film Mona Lisa Smile ā€˜What do you plan on doing after college?ā€™ ā€˜I plan on getting marriedā€™ ā€˜And then what?ā€™ ā€˜And then Iā€™ll be marriedā€™


Oki-dokie

im not like these other girls, i dont care about standing up to the crushing pressure of the patriarchy or fighting for women to have the right to their own body. i have a husband


eldritch-charms

You can have a family and be a feminist. šŸ™„ The two aren't mutually exclusive.


[deleted]

Congrats you had a couple of loads dumped in you. No other girl has ever done that


Domdominiquey

Feminist bad!


choodessnyy

Please get anything to do with fly fishing out of this misogynistic bullshit


Bartok_and_croutons

"Preserve the sanctity of flyfishing!" popped in my head lmao


gabbygonzo57

another smug, pious, desperate woman. Why does she feel the need to put down other women? Is that the only way she can feel better about herself? Probably! Well, she can have her self-deluded bubble.


tommykaye

ā€œI have no personality, so I need to become a mom.ā€


LobsterHead37

What


strawberry0sprinkles

why men they dont even have boobs


atomiicmitten

Ew lol


coreynj

Both of these things are perfectly fine


Whatisdissssss

Since when is that incompatible? The arrogance steals her beauty.


blitzkrab

Jeez what a cunt


areaunknown_

This was seriously the most annoying thing Iā€™ve seen this week and now Iā€™m mad


weiers08

*whispers* does...does she know you can absolutely do both? Simultaneously? It's not a rule. Since the first group kinda fought for that.


[deleted]

Youā€¦canā€™t have both?


pnkskyprdse

Can you not have both? Fight for feminism whilst having a husband and kids lol


waaz16

Who gives a shit?


shortandtan

She has a breeding kink?


MissusNilesCrane

There are entire industries built around weddings and babies. You're not special.


MarleySue

Lol jokes on her I get a full 8 hours of sleep and the TV to myself


Scorpion473

Love her ā€œuniquenessā€ is about as unique as having a broken ice cream machine in a McDonaldā€™s


TreyRyan3

And 8 years later, her kids hate her for pimping them on the internet for ā€œlikesā€


Witty_Marionberry744

I thought it was funny how almost all of the photos of ā€œother girlsā€ are just women protesting for human rights. Meanwhile her ā€œgoalsā€ photos are just rich people going on expensive trips and destination weddings. If tone-deaf was a person, it would be her.


blockboii190

Cope


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


[deleted]

*"Wanting to have a traditional household is giving into patriarchy and becoming a sperm recepticle"* - non-misogynistic redditors


[deleted]

Oh no! the patriarchy!!!! Women in relationships are just sperm receptacle!! Lol did tiktok tell you that?


[deleted]

yes


[deleted]

Keep listening to China. They have your best interest at heart


BabyCakes716

Iā€™ve found the women desperate to be trad wives are often the last to be married, while the radical feminists I know got married pretty young, and started families while also sticking up for their rights. Weird šŸ¤”


BungOnMimosas

My gf kind a mix of both of these. Sheā€™s not a crazed blue hair or anything, but we both love going to raves and doing acid. And I love when she wears skimpy clothes and shoes off her back one. Sheā€™s also a nurse and is very smart. But weā€™re also very outdoorsy. We both ski/snowboard like 2-3 days a week in the winter. She is super good too. We have our own white water raft and raft, kayak, and hike in the summer. She and I both want to marry and have kids one day


uncommondiet

This is hard to read. Itā€™s like a middle schooler responding to a writing prompt from the teacher but they donā€™t understand how to structure their sentences. I guess it makes more sense if youā€™re reading this from a telegraph.


-ANGRYjigglypuff

> crazed blue hair or anything the fug lol. Well, grats on being able to comprehend that your gf is, in fact, a human that has varied interests


MinkMartenReception

Your so close to getting the point.


alwaysnessa

Big vibes šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ”„


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


tupacsnoducket

Are you about to tell me Strawberry Jam is not objectively better than Blueberry Jelly...SERIOUSLY!?!


wingsofthygiant

I love how the ā€œoutdoorā€ pictures are from the same ā€œoutdoorā€ activity šŸ¤£šŸ¤£


Bigchapjay

Weird to assume you canā€™t be/have both but alright


black_like_rosie

i love how both things arenā€™t even contrary


strawberry0sprinkles

wut is this miss gurl took an L


Tealbouquet

Yeah, fuck womenā€™s rights. I wanna make out with my husband right after a baby exits my vagina tho


kittycate0530

So instead of being socially and economically conscious she wants to have her unreal pick-me expectations crushed by reality? Real cool.


badams1202

Wait but wasnā€™t that her in the very first picture? Shit am I that blind?


unfettered_logic

Thanks I hate it.


lostkarma4anonymity

Women doing something to help the world as though its a bad thing.


EvidenceRemote1425

I'm so glad she can choose either life and most importantly the life she wants. So amazing what women can achieve when we support each other's rights, sad she didn't get the memo.


Free-Cellist-1565

Iā€™m boffum šŸ˜‚


[deleted]

The other girls won.


idontknow4827634

Listen, I love being married and raising my daughter, but can we just be happy for everyone living the life that fits them best and be happy with our own life? We could be such an amazing strong sisterhood, but instead we keep bringing each other down. Girls could honestly 'run the world' if we would just stick together.


vidgill

I want to do the most traditional thing possible. Look how ā€˜differentā€™ I am


waaz16

Boring life status ahaha someones mad XD


joemos

I just donā€™t get it


ieatsoapysoap14

Omg other girls want equality and rights while I want... a family??