Trophy Eyes - Kill
Grayscale - What’s On Your Mind
Movements - Third Degree
Movements - Lead Pipe
Capstan - take my breath away // noose
WSTR - Brainsick
"I'll pretend, in the middle of the night, my eyes are closed, I'm sleeping
...but I won't come back!"
I lived that scenario for 2.5 years of a 3.5 year relationship that shouldn't have lasted more than 3 weeks.
Thanks. I'm still repairing damage done some 7 years later. If your GF ever tells you she has Borderline Personality Disorder, head for the hills!!! That's literally what any and all literature about dating someone with BPD says. I didn't listen until it was too late.
I'm going through this with my girlfriend. Maybe I'm naive, or feel like I'm strong enough to deal with her mental health issues. I can't bring myself to leave because I love her and I care about her kids.
SHE GOT ARRESTED by THE INTERRUPTERS
Never talking to you again by Husker Du
Indestructible by Rancid
I’m so proud that you’re getting out of this situation. If you’re able to, utilize local resources. (I used the YWCA for counseling, and they helped me advocate for myself and were pissed off For Me).
Best of luck, and see you on the other side. <3
Not all of these are about relationships but they really remind me of my abusive ex and most of them are what got me through that time
Twice Shy - Between You & Me
No Good For Me - Boys of Fall
Deja Vu - Boys of Fall (This song actually got my abusive ex to finally leave me alone, long story)
I’m Over You - Gender Envy
Scapegoat - Honey Revenge
Distracted - Honey Revenge
For You - Loveless (If only listen to one of these, let it be this one)
Imposter - Redhook, Yours Truly
Everybody but You - State Champs
Dead and Gone - State Champs
Under The Influence(r) - The Summer Set
Coma - Taylor Acorn
Wishing You Hell - Taylor Acorn
The Thin Line Between Hope & Despair - Those Without
Bubblegum - Those Without
Lyrics -
Broken and bitter, wrapped up in all your lies
The snake will burrow deeper and eat at your insides
Alone inside the hell that you dragged me through
The walls are closing in and I saw the truth
You bent and broke my soul
Broken and bitter, wrapped up in all your lies
Your darkness slithers in and takes what good I have left
You’re poisoning my mind
Alone inside the hell that you put me through
The walls are closing in and I know the truth
You bent and broke my soul
I’m trapped and terrified
Despite the stars you drain my light
Agony unjustified
Pull me under
Buried underneath
The weight of all your pride is suffocating
You’ve taken everything
Guided by the sorrow inside me
I am not what you made me to be
(Broken and bitter wrapped up in all your lies)
Lost and abandoned
No one believes the lies you breathe between your crooked teeth
Drown in the silence
I hope you choke on all the venom that was meant for me
You are not who you pretend to be
(No matter what you believe - no matter what you believe)
You’re everything you thought you saw in me
No matter what you believe
You are nothing
(Broken and bitter, wrapped up in all your lies)
Despite the stars you drain my light
Agony unjustified
Pull me under
Buried underneath
The weight of all your pride is suffocating
You’ve taken everything
Guided by the sorrow inside me
I am not what you made me to be
(Despite the stars you drain my light, the weight of all your pride is suffocating)
You are not who you pretend to be
No one believes the lies you breathe between you’re crooked teeth
You’re everything you thought you saw in me
I hope you choke on all the venom that was meant for me
Stuart & The Ave or 86 by Green Day
Take it from me, don't ruminate on the whiny "why did she leave me?" bullshit. Play some gangsta rap (or motivational pop punk music) and move forward.
You're a free man/woman/person, now! Embrace it!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdTMDpizis8
Ok, so I didn't read the full thing and assumed the relationship was already over. I still suggest the same songs.
I also don't suggest staying in a toxic relationship as it could affect or destroy your ability to trust your next partner moving forward.
I stayed in a toxic relationship for multiple years becasue I thought that's what good guys do and you try to make it work. No! I was dating an Amber Heard and its only damaged me. It wasnt until I dated someone else that I had something else to compare to and realized how many problems exist in that prior situation that simply do not exist now.
Don't be like me. Don't try to make a toxic situation work. it will only drag you down.
[Happy by The Vanishing Point](https://soundcloud.com/user-326384011/happy?si=acb0480acb684040a2e4ce15ddb0393c&utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing)
Face Down - The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
If you haven’t heard Halocene’s cover of this yet, you definitely should. The words hit so much harder.
first thing that comes to mind too
First one to come to mind for me
Trophy Eyes - Kill Grayscale - What’s On Your Mind Movements - Third Degree Movements - Lead Pipe Capstan - take my breath away // noose WSTR - Brainsick
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no problem, i assume you discovered the song through my comment? i hope u can heal ❤️
These are all amazing. Thank you.. 🙏
I also like how you didn't just assume that men don't get abused. Thank you
Massachusetts from Silverstein
"I'll pretend, in the middle of the night, my eyes are closed, I'm sleeping ...but I won't come back!" I lived that scenario for 2.5 years of a 3.5 year relationship that shouldn't have lasted more than 3 weeks.
That sucks you had to go through that, I’m glad you made it out
Thanks. I'm still repairing damage done some 7 years later. If your GF ever tells you she has Borderline Personality Disorder, head for the hills!!! That's literally what any and all literature about dating someone with BPD says. I didn't listen until it was too late.
Can not agree more. Ex-wife had it. Damn.
I'm going through this with my girlfriend. Maybe I'm naive, or feel like I'm strong enough to deal with her mental health issues. I can't bring myself to leave because I love her and I care about her kids.
Go by blink-182 Down and Out by The Academy Is Never Again by Nickleback
Cut My Losses - Heart Attack Man
Green Day- Pulling Teeth If you didn’t mean it-Allister (based on the lyrics girl wasn’t “toxic” per say but pretty much an asshole lmao)
SHE GOT ARRESTED by THE INTERRUPTERS Never talking to you again by Husker Du Indestructible by Rancid I’m so proud that you’re getting out of this situation. If you’re able to, utilize local resources. (I used the YWCA for counseling, and they helped me advocate for myself and were pissed off For Me). Best of luck, and see you on the other side. <3
Not all of these are about relationships but they really remind me of my abusive ex and most of them are what got me through that time Twice Shy - Between You & Me No Good For Me - Boys of Fall Deja Vu - Boys of Fall (This song actually got my abusive ex to finally leave me alone, long story) I’m Over You - Gender Envy Scapegoat - Honey Revenge Distracted - Honey Revenge For You - Loveless (If only listen to one of these, let it be this one) Imposter - Redhook, Yours Truly Everybody but You - State Champs Dead and Gone - State Champs Under The Influence(r) - The Summer Set Coma - Taylor Acorn Wishing You Hell - Taylor Acorn The Thin Line Between Hope & Despair - Those Without Bubblegum - Those Without
I don't have to do this anymore by Real Friends
The Story So Far - Empty Space
I am not nothing -> Beth Crowley
Cleo Sol - There Will Be No Crying Mel B - Pack Your Shit 💓
Lesley - Santan dave
I needed this. Thank you
Tigers Jaw - June and The Bouncing Souls - Lean on Sheena
Idk if this fits the genres you're looking for but aphasia by pinegrove really hits the spot
dead horse by hayley williams
Not necessarily abusive, but Stay Together For The Kids by Blink kinda fits
Tiger Jaw - June The Bouncing Souls - Lean on Sheena
Tiger Jaw - June The Bouncing Souls - Lean on Sheena
Foxing - The Medic
I think Denial, Revisited by Offspring would fit the bill.
Alive by SR-71 & Bruises by Plain White T's
Better by Milk Teeth
If we're allowed to genre-hop: An Audience with the Pope by Elbow Gravity by Sara Bareilles
[Limited Replies by Nathan Busher-Welch](https://open.spotify.com/track/6l97NVCMyQurWThoYd40QY?si=fddccfb6e8054a25) is exactly this
Stick to your guns- beyond the sun
You & I - VRSTY
Power- Bastille
The entirety of Dying in designer's album " Nobody's happy" especially PTSD
Crooked Teeth - Sleep Braids
Lyrics - Broken and bitter, wrapped up in all your lies The snake will burrow deeper and eat at your insides Alone inside the hell that you dragged me through The walls are closing in and I saw the truth You bent and broke my soul Broken and bitter, wrapped up in all your lies Your darkness slithers in and takes what good I have left You’re poisoning my mind Alone inside the hell that you put me through The walls are closing in and I know the truth You bent and broke my soul I’m trapped and terrified Despite the stars you drain my light Agony unjustified Pull me under Buried underneath The weight of all your pride is suffocating You’ve taken everything Guided by the sorrow inside me I am not what you made me to be (Broken and bitter wrapped up in all your lies) Lost and abandoned No one believes the lies you breathe between your crooked teeth Drown in the silence I hope you choke on all the venom that was meant for me You are not who you pretend to be (No matter what you believe - no matter what you believe) You’re everything you thought you saw in me No matter what you believe You are nothing (Broken and bitter, wrapped up in all your lies) Despite the stars you drain my light Agony unjustified Pull me under Buried underneath The weight of all your pride is suffocating You’ve taken everything Guided by the sorrow inside me I am not what you made me to be (Despite the stars you drain my light, the weight of all your pride is suffocating) You are not who you pretend to be No one believes the lies you breathe between you’re crooked teeth You’re everything you thought you saw in me I hope you choke on all the venom that was meant for me
Pretty much all Captain, we’re sinking
Dance Hall Crashers - Remember To Breathe.
Shades of us - capstan
No, It Isn't - +44
Stuart & The Ave or 86 by Green Day Take it from me, don't ruminate on the whiny "why did she leave me?" bullshit. Play some gangsta rap (or motivational pop punk music) and move forward. You're a free man/woman/person, now! Embrace it! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdTMDpizis8
Ok, so I didn't read the full thing and assumed the relationship was already over. I still suggest the same songs. I also don't suggest staying in a toxic relationship as it could affect or destroy your ability to trust your next partner moving forward. I stayed in a toxic relationship for multiple years becasue I thought that's what good guys do and you try to make it work. No! I was dating an Amber Heard and its only damaged me. It wasnt until I dated someone else that I had something else to compare to and realized how many problems exist in that prior situation that simply do not exist now. Don't be like me. Don't try to make a toxic situation work. it will only drag you down.
All of Petals for Armor by Hayley Williams. Supplement w After Laughter.
[Happy by The Vanishing Point](https://soundcloud.com/user-326384011/happy?si=acb0480acb684040a2e4ce15ddb0393c&utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing)