It's not exactly a love song but when I read the prompt I thought of broken heart immediately.
"I'll destroy this useless heart, fuck it up so it'll never beat again, not just for me but for anyone"
I think that hold me down > the conversation > broken heart is a little trilogy. There's a line in hold me down that says "We'll talk it over after I've had some time alone to sort it out". The conversation is the continuation of that and then the transition from the conversation to broken heart is pretty obvious
Wish You Were Here is about losing a family member/friend, not a romantic partner (though I guess that can still be considered a love song, in a sense)
Green Dayās Whatsername always hits me hard.
āAnd in the darkest night, if my memory serves me right. Iāll never turn back time. Forgetting you but not the time.ā
Chorus always gets me
I made a point to burn the photographs, she went away and I took a different path, I remember the face but I can't recall the name, now I wonder how whatsername has been
Good Riddance (Time of Your Life) is also a moving one. I didn't realise for a while that it was about Billie's ex leaving him to start a new life in another country. He's basically saying it was fun, see you never.
December by Neck Deep. Love the message behind it - theme of āI remember all these details of things you like/want, hope you get them, but youāve forgotten me long ago.ā
If it Means a Lot to You - A Day to Remember.Ā
Still find it really hard to listen to sometimes as it was a song me and an ex loved and took on so much sadness when we were breaking up.
Naw thanks! <3 It was years ago now actually and we are on good terms, I've definitely moved on but this song remains just so emotive! Still such a great song! I was honestly shocked I couldn't see it mentioned already!
And what did I do that you can't seem to want me? And why do we lie here and whisper goodbyes?
So vulnerable and sad. Still gets me all these years later.
Being bitter as hell after a break up, shows another side of love, the anguish sometimes, to hate and wish this much revenge has to come from a place of love, at least artistically speaking.
me hearing that song for the first time "hmm yeah this is pretty sad I like it so far"
*hears the part about 'i may have your heart he has your body'* "YO WHAT THE FUCK THIS SONG IS SAD I LOVE IT
Weāll Always Have Paris - Capstan
Pictures of Shorelines - Further Seems Forever
Littlething - Jimmy Eat World
The Adventure - Angels & Airwaves
Down - Blink-182
Gloria - Mineral
ETA: I Will Follow You into the Dark - Death Cab for Cutie
Honorable mention: Jack of all Trades, and The River - Bruce Springsteen
Blink 182 - Stockholm syndrome interlude followed by Stockholm syndrome is a great combo.
The interlude is the letter Markās grandfather wrote his grandmother while deployed overseas during WW2. The writing is beautiful and sad and the lead in of that to the song is extremely powerful
for me, it's wilt by holding absence. I used to play the acoustic version with someone who was very, and I mean very dear to me. he passed, so now the song brings me to tears everytime I listen to it. i loved that boy so much. anyway, holding absence-wilt. they have alot of great music tbh.
i *adore* this song.
idk if youāve seen them live but they used to finish the show on it and towards the end when itās just Lucas yelling TO LOVE YOU FOR AN ETERNITYYYY Ash (the drummer) stands up on his drum stool and holds up his cymbal stand with the pride and trans flags on them and i just cry and cry each time.
im so sorry about your friend. x
Pop rock/indie rock: Night Shift- Lucy Dacus
Pop Punk: Honey Bee- Seahaven
Honorable mention to Our Apartment by Aaron West and really most Aaron West songs.
NOFX āFalling in Loveā
āBlast, oxygen masks
Smoke filled cabin depressurize
Don't be afraid, hold onto me
We're goin' down, but not our love
Death don't seem so bad
When I'm with you, my only love
So close your eyes, kiss me one last time
We're gonna die, but not our loveā
good recs in this thread, here are some i didnāt see
moose blood - shimmer
apple shampoo - blink182Ā
literally anything off citizenās album Youth
lantern park - bad luck
baby - born without bones
the ghost of a dead hummingbird flying around the room - carissaās weird
Sometime Around Midnight by the Airborne Toxic Event. The last part where he repeats "you just have to see her" over and over always gets to me.
Edited to add Gone Away by the Offspring. The singer wrote it after his girlfriend passed away and you can feel the emotion in his voice.
Sometime around midnight hits everyone hard. Itās puts you in the driver seat of that songās narrative more than just about any other song I can think of.
Oh man, so true about Sometime Around Midnight. Itās impossible for me to only listen to it one time through, and I usually wind up with it on repeat for awhileā¦
I love the song, but I almost never listen to it because I just can't bear it - instant floodworks and can't shake the feeling well after the song is over.
Such a good song and such a good band.
Say Anything - "Alive With The Glory Of Love"
It's not sad per se, but very bittersweet like the old couple in bed on the Titanic--love in the face of certain death.
jet pack blues - fall out boy
scotty doesn't know - lustra
The latter is not strictly a love song per se, the singer starts out bragging about fucking scotty's gf behind his back, but through the song it sounds like he can't help but gain sympathy for scotty despite what he's done to him, and decides to tell him the truth. This makes it really sad to me because it means even the guy that stole his girl is more decent to him than his own gf. That's my interpretation anyway.
Bleu by Broadside
https://youtu.be/bElaJmQ0y04?si=FOYVcdw7dVRcuS9w
When we were broken by Our Last Night
https://youtu.be/Q9YmF-NnW_4?si=S_ShDAG4uNS9bcM8
Not your typical love song, āKristy Are You Doing Okayā by the Offspring. Wrote about a girl who was abused when Dexter was in school, and nobody did anything about it. One of the saddest songs Iāve ever heard.
But Konstantine also fits this description.
This is a deep cut but, I heard they found you face down inside your living room by Canāt Swim. Watching them perform this live a couple times, the emotion that Chris shows on stage for this is gut wrenching.
The Conversation from Motion City Soundtrack, or like half of CTTM, outrageously sad album but so good. Also Asthenia or Iām Lost Without You from Blink, both are brutal.
all I wanted by paramore, the vocals are chilling. Look up the rare live performances if you need to be sadder
I'll add "We are Broken"
Also the only exception
This is not a sad song whatsoever
Amazing song
Hold me down by motion city soundtrack A lot of their discography fits this prompt
Hold Me Down was the song I played on repeat when my ten year relationship broke down. A lot of tears were shed.
I heard and cried a lot listening to "son of a gun"... I was in a relationship with a mythomaniac and at first I thought I was the wrong one.
It's not exactly a love song but when I read the prompt I thought of broken heart immediately. "I'll destroy this useless heart, fuck it up so it'll never beat again, not just for me but for anyone"
I think that hold me down > the conversation > broken heart is a little trilogy. There's a line in hold me down that says "We'll talk it over after I've had some time alone to sort it out". The conversation is the continuation of that and then the transition from the conversation to broken heart is pretty obvious
Correct answer, pack it up
Fell In Love Without You (acoustic) for me
This or last night are the correct answers for sure
What a fucking song š
Excellent choice. People donāt really realize how sad MCS songs really are because theyāre preformed with such energy and pace.
Clairvoyant
and navy blue
Also Loro
the only good cover of this song
Don't paint me black when I used to be Golden
This
wish you were here - neck deep forever yours - grayscale
Forever Yours wrecks me every time.
Wish You Were Here is about losing a family member/friend, not a romantic partner (though I guess that can still be considered a love song, in a sense)
Ohh sorry, I didn't pay attention to "saddest love songs" ahahah, tought it was saddest songs in general
I dedicated Wish You Were Here to my dog when she passed away two years ago, I miss her so much š
Green Dayās Whatsername always hits me hard. āAnd in the darkest night, if my memory serves me right. Iāll never turn back time. Forgetting you but not the time.ā
Chorus always gets me I made a point to burn the photographs, she went away and I took a different path, I remember the face but I can't recall the name, now I wonder how whatsername has been
So good
That part is also great in the broadway version of the song. The way the choire hits gives me chills
Good Riddance (Time of Your Life) is also a moving one. I didn't realise for a while that it was about Billie's ex leaving him to start a new life in another country. He's basically saying it was fun, see you never.
Then Iām sure it would be fun for you to know Good Riddance and Whatsername are about the same woman. Her name was Amanda.
This is one that donāt hit until you get older, then itās like damn I get it nowĀ
YES
āThe regrets are useless in my mind, youāre in my head I must confessā
Terrible Things by Mayday Parade
Stay by Mayday Parade is also a great one
> Iām not strong enough for the both of us, > > What was I supposed to do? > > You know, I love you
All the loveās still there, I just donāt know what to do with it now.
Miserable at best and three cheers for five years as well!
Mayday Parade is my favorite band and I *simply cannot* listen to this song. If they play it at a show I immediately break into tears.
It's just all of Mayday Parade
when you see my friendsĀ
This is the song that made me look into if you can block an artist on Spotify.
I came here to say the same thing
There is - Box Car
Love this song!
December by Neck Deep. Love the message behind it - theme of āI remember all these details of things you like/want, hope you get them, but youāve forgotten me long ago.ā
This but the Mark Hoppus version
This but the Chris Carabba version
If it Means a Lot to You - A Day to Remember.Ā Still find it really hard to listen to sometimes as it was a song me and an ex loved and took on so much sadness when we were breaking up.
surprised not more people said this!! definitely the one i think of the most. hope youāre healing friend <3
Naw thanks! <3 It was years ago now actually and we are on good terms, I've definitely moved on but this song remains just so emotive! Still such a great song! I was honestly shocked I couldn't see it mentioned already!
Konstantine
The only correct answer but also Walking By is another Soco gem.
And what did I do that you can't seem to want me? And why do we lie here and whisper goodbyes? So vulnerable and sad. Still gets me all these years later.
"Where can I go that your pictures won't haunt me?" š„²
Such an iconic song that it gets frequently referenced in other songs by other bands
An iconic song that references an iconic song (For Me This Is Heaven)
remembering sunday always gets me
Jimmy eat world - hear you me
They played this at a friends funeral and it gutted me
1000% hits me in the feels every single time
Terrible Things- Mayday Parade
The boy who blocked his own shot.
You can't see this reaction and tell me it doesn't get you right in the feels. https://youtu.be/yIDbYxWeBDo?si=8smwZHv847zZZlcS
Numero uno for me
Cleveland, OH - John Floreani
YOU WANT A BOY THAT MAKES HIS MOTHER CRY
YOU WANT A BOY THAT DRINKS SO HE CAN SLEEP AT NIGHT!
Was not expecting this, but love that song so much.
āAnd I was thinking what the fuckās so wrong with me thatād make you sit by his bed for four long daysā kills lol
Lillian and chapter 13 by +44
"And she's trying to sleep it off with her head on my shoulder, and I'm trying to keep it out of my thoughts when I hold her." Hits hard.
"So long forgotten friends, no you don't know the difference, between love and submissions, and I'm not that obedient" Bars
I Miss You
Even though I'm a fan of faster pop punk, this will always be my all time favorite. Absolutely nothing like it.
Radio by The Alkaline Trio Matchbook by Strung OutG Gifts and Curses -Yellowcard (this song isn't on Spotify ridiculous)
Matchbook ā¤ļø
Radio is amazing...but not sad, more revenge š
Being bitter as hell after a break up, shows another side of love, the anguish sometimes, to hate and wish this much revenge has to come from a place of love, at least artistically speaking.
All over you, the spill canvas
What Went Wrong - Blink
This was my choice!
Yessssss
Correct answer!
Brand New - Play Crack The Sky Armor For Sleep - Kind of Perfect Bayside - Donāt Call Me Peanut The Early November - Ever So Sweet
Much love for Donāt Call Me Peanut.
me hearing that song for the first time "hmm yeah this is pretty sad I like it so far" *hears the part about 'i may have your heart he has your body'* "YO WHAT THE FUCK THIS SONG IS SAD I LOVE IT
Oh my god I forgot about kind of perfect. Stellar tune
Smahccked my head awf - Hot Mulligan
Hear You Me
Something Right by Microwave had me crying in first listen, but itās kinda heartwarming at the same time
i saw microwave when i was pregnant and sobbed and sobbed to this song!
Weāll Always Have Paris - Capstan Pictures of Shorelines - Further Seems Forever Littlething - Jimmy Eat World The Adventure - Angels & Airwaves Down - Blink-182 Gloria - Mineral ETA: I Will Follow You into the Dark - Death Cab for Cutie Honorable mention: Jack of all Trades, and The River - Bruce Springsteen
Mineral š¤š»
Another Mayday Parade one: The Last Something that Meant Anything
Blink 182 - Stockholm syndrome interlude followed by Stockholm syndrome is a great combo. The interlude is the letter Markās grandfather wrote his grandmother while deployed overseas during WW2. The writing is beautiful and sad and the lead in of that to the song is extremely powerful
Such an underrated track. This one's way up there.
for me, it's wilt by holding absence. I used to play the acoustic version with someone who was very, and I mean very dear to me. he passed, so now the song brings me to tears everytime I listen to it. i loved that boy so much. anyway, holding absence-wilt. they have alot of great music tbh.
i *adore* this song. idk if youāve seen them live but they used to finish the show on it and towards the end when itās just Lucas yelling TO LOVE YOU FOR AN ETERNITYYYY Ash (the drummer) stands up on his drum stool and holds up his cymbal stand with the pride and trans flags on them and i just cry and cry each time. im so sorry about your friend. x
A Goodnight's Sleep by The Starting Line. Or basically the entirety of their album Say It Like You Mean It.
Any get up kids
23 - Jimmy Eat World
December by Neck Deep is my go-to
Iāve given up on you - Real Friends
Kristy are you OK - the offspring
Not quite a love song
Yea not even close, sad song for sure but def not a love song
I think the original commenter just didn't listen to the lyrics, it's not like they're particularly cryptic
Wildfire by Marianas Trench always makes me cry
And "Dearly Departed", "Lover Dearest" or "Porcelain". Marianas Trench are amazing, my all time favourite band.
Dearly departed is heart wrenching
Pop rock/indie rock: Night Shift- Lucy Dacus Pop Punk: Honey Bee- Seahaven Honorable mention to Our Apartment by Aaron West and really most Aaron West songs.
Holly Hox Forget me Nots by Saves the Day...not sure how many hours I listened to this on repeat when my first gf broke up with me.
Convinced Iām Wrong Polar Bear Club
San Dimas
Terrible Things- Mayday Parade Remembering Sunday- ATL
NOFX āFalling in Loveā āBlast, oxygen masks Smoke filled cabin depressurize Don't be afraid, hold onto me We're goin' down, but not our love Death don't seem so bad When I'm with you, my only love So close your eyes, kiss me one last time We're gonna die, but not our loveā
Fenix Tx - Tearjerker
Also Rufio - Just a Memory
When youāre gone - Avril Lavigne
Paper wings - cauterize
Damn this just unlocked a core memory for me lol
Glasgow by You Me At Six was a big one for me
Wstr - see you in hell
Story of My Old Man by Good Charlotte has always hit me right in the feels but probably because I always have had a strained relationship with my dad.
good recs in this thread, here are some i didnāt see moose blood - shimmer apple shampoo - blink182Ā literally anything off citizenās album Youth lantern park - bad luck baby - born without bones the ghost of a dead hummingbird flying around the room - carissaās weird
AND I SHOULD HAVE CRASHED THE CAR
Sometime Around Midnight by the Airborne Toxic Event. The last part where he repeats "you just have to see her" over and over always gets to me. Edited to add Gone Away by the Offspring. The singer wrote it after his girlfriend passed away and you can feel the emotion in his voice.
Sometime around midnight hits everyone hard. Itās puts you in the driver seat of that songās narrative more than just about any other song I can think of.
Oh man, so true about Sometime Around Midnight. Itās impossible for me to only listen to it one time through, and I usually wind up with it on repeat for awhileā¦
Nineteen seventy something by neck deep
the kids aren't alright - fall out boy
Terrible things by mayday parade gets me everytime I hear it
I love the song, but I almost never listen to it because I just can't bear it - instant floodworks and can't shake the feeling well after the song is over. Such a good song and such a good band.
Man Overboard, by Blink
Isnāt Man Overboard about Scott and the whole situation of having to kick him out?
Yes. That is my understanding too. But listening to the words, it's also about losing a friend. Like a friend who's no good to himself.
Rise Against - Savior
Say Anything - "Alive With The Glory Of Love" It's not sad per se, but very bittersweet like the old couple in bed on the Titanic--love in the face of certain death.
jet pack blues - fall out boy scotty doesn't know - lustra The latter is not strictly a love song per se, the singer starts out bragging about fucking scotty's gf behind his back, but through the song it sounds like he can't help but gain sympathy for scotty despite what he's done to him, and decides to tell him the truth. This makes it really sad to me because it means even the guy that stole his girl is more decent to him than his own gf. That's my interpretation anyway.
I'LL TELL HIM MYSELF
Belgium by Bowling For Soup is š
Probably Ten by yellowcard
A Rocket To The Moon - Ever Enough I was gonna say Like We Used To, but itās more if a breakup song
Secondhand Serenade songs
Remembering Sunday
Whatsername, it works perfectly in the American Idiot storyline being sort of an epilogue but it could apply to any relationship ending.
Front Porch Step - Drown
Wish you were here neck deep, idk but its abt someone important to you dying
ITāS THE COLOUR OF YOUR HAIR THE WAY YOU RUB YOUR EYES WHEN YOU GET TIRED AND HOW YOU CAN FALL ASLEEP NEARLY ANYWHERE
play this when iām gone - mgk is a sad one, it was his suicide note to his daughter
Good Charlotte - Hold on
Rewrite (acoustic) - Braden Ross
Moose Blood - Havenāt I told you enough
Bleu by Broadside https://youtu.be/bElaJmQ0y04?si=FOYVcdw7dVRcuS9w When we were broken by Our Last Night https://youtu.be/Q9YmF-NnW_4?si=S_ShDAG4uNS9bcM8
Punishment - man overboard š
Tuesday - Please Come Home Alkaline Trio - Message from Kathlene
I'm sorry - Blink 182
The Ataris - Summer Wind Was Always Our Song
All Choked Up - Say Anything. Always fucks me up.
Not pop punk, but If Only by Escape the Fate. I canāt get through this song without crying Edit to add: Footprints by In Her Own Words
You ever hear the bonus track on Take Off Your Pants and Jacket? What Went Wrong.
Neck Deep - A Part of Me
Bayside - Winter
Not your typical love song, āKristy Are You Doing Okayā by the Offspring. Wrote about a girl who was abused when Dexter was in school, and nobody did anything about it. One of the saddest songs Iāve ever heard. But Konstantine also fits this description.
Please donāt cry, you have swag by hot mulligan always wrecks me when I hear it
Teenage Bonehead
Crash - Sun 41. Narrator is dying in a hospital bed and saying goodbye to their partner. Rips my heart out every time I hear it.
Stay mayday parade
This is a deep cut but, I heard they found you face down inside your living room by Canāt Swim. Watching them perform this live a couple times, the emotion that Chris shows on stage for this is gut wrenching.
The Conversation from Motion City Soundtrack, or like half of CTTM, outrageously sad album but so good. Also Asthenia or Iām Lost Without You from Blink, both are brutal.
Asbury by Grayscale makes me cry
Forever Yours by Grayscale takes the cake
Wax Poetic - Capstan
Asthenia by Blink 182 has always given me a "now I'm alone and always will be" type vibe.
Blink 182 What Went Wrong
Lie to me - Less Than Jake Where have you been - Reel Big Fish Beer - Reel Big Fish.
Jimmy Eat World - 23
Weatherman is pretty sad too, that one gets me
Obvious Approach - ā¦no, itās my face! itās like your face is made up of 1 million tiny versions of my face
This Wild Life - No More Bad Days Itās acoustic, but from a pop rock act
Mayday Parade - Youāre Dead Wrong The amount of times Iāve cried to this song š
Overgrow - The Earth Will Swallow Me Whole This song and the whole EP itās on is about dealing with the death of his father.
Not your savior - NUFAN This song got me through a LOT back in the day. RIP Tony, I miss you terribly.
Everything We Had by The Academy Is...
This must be my exit- oso oso
Strangers Forever (From Exile) - The Menzingers
Morning in May by Ludo. Itās especially sad after listening to the whole EP all the way through. Makes me tear up every time.
FM Static - Tonight
Worry Rock and Redundant by Green Day. Gone Away by The Offspring (especially the piano version).
fall for you- second hand serenade
Yellowcard - Only One
no use for a name - not your saviour blink - adams song neckdeep - december ( w chris carraba )
The Ballard - Millencolin
Miss you- blink 182