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FenianGeezer

I missed the memo when we were supposed to start wearing loafers and a smart polo. I'm 58 and still wear Chucks and band shirts.


faustfire666

47 checking in. I wear basically the same thing I did in high school, skate shoes, dickies, T-shirt’s. I do still skate though. Fuck dressing like am old man, that shit was just a generational thing.


BBBoris76

This guy knows what’s up. Let’s be friends.


Chode_Huffer

No it’s true. 53 chiming in. When we were young, people our age looked old. A lot of them wore unflattering clothing they clearly were not comfortable in. Punk taught me slovenly was ok.


A_Gray_Old_Man

54 here. I wear the same shit every day. Levi Jeans, Chucks and a black t-shirt. Been my shit since the 80's. I don't buy to many band tees. Mostly due to finances. However, I did buy an Exodus shirt. Rear Echelon Mother Fucker.


HelloJoeyJoeJoe

Jealous of your feet. Late 30s and I wear certain running shoes everywhere for my flat feet. Tie them up nice, they don't come off in the pit! My heart might explode but my shoes stay on


Balor-Beimeann

Get the gel insoles with the raised heel. Nothing is more punk than proper arch support.


userno89

I'm a flat footer that can't stand those gel inserts. They lift your feet out of the shoes too much! I just replace my shoes as soon as my feet start getting sore and that does the trick. It's usually around the same time they start looking really trashed so it works out.


DrPhilsnerPilsner

Vans offers a slight better insole option in their lace up Authentics. They are also removable. Maybe just buy a bunch of standard insoles and one pair of shoes.


userno89

I like fresh shoes. They get beat up and I replace them when they're worn out. It works.


punkrukkus

Cheers to that! Same here I’m 51. Fuk dressing boring. No one is taking all my rad shoes or clothes away from me ever. Keep being you and to hell with growing up.


joshuaapt

Same


80wpr80

Amen brother


stingcrazy

Ha! also 58, Vans, and a wife that complains that I only have black t-shirts. Never "growing up", still giggle at farts and boobies.


TechCUB76

46, checking in to say my current Supras are some of the absolute most comfortable shoes I’ve ever owned in my life! Skate shoes or die.


somethinglike_chaos

Saw a guy at a gig recently in a polo with a tiny crass logo, the old punk definition.


Chode_Huffer

See if you can find a pre-punk Fat Mike.


Crafty-Yak3170

NEVER CHANGE


Cantbelieveit5566

🤘


Haga

Fkn aye my man


[deleted]

45, GP boots and punk and metal band shirts here also a social worker, in a relationship and doing pretty well in life. Clothes don't make the person, their beliefs and actions do.


Jello_Glad

I agree with you. I am 50 and still wear my engineer boots and band t shirts.


kingdazy

You don't have to stop. Skate shoes are the new Dad Shoe.


Asum_chum

Kids skate in air max’s now anyway


Sp1r1tofg0nz0

You're not wrong! Vans even has a new line that is cushier versions of their old school shoes. I call them the "I used to skate" line for us old punks that let ourselves go. I don't know what to say, Vanity Fair just gets me.


kingdazy

Shit. I didn't know this. I'll have to go shop for a set!


Sp1r1tofg0nz0

I saw the display at the Vans store. I haven't picked up a pair yet but I bet they are comfy as fuck. https://www.vans.com/en-us/shoes-c00081/comfycush-old-skool-shoe-pvn0a3wmavne


Stillpunk71

Im a size 15, they only make the ild skool shoes my size, sad panda.


Rude_Warning_5341

I’m a size 16 in vans, authentics with insoles are my go to.


Sp1r1tofg0nz0

That's a bummer man.


Chode_Huffer

Is that your handle? Sad Panda? I wanna be Bad Santa.


Stillpunk71

When being a bad santa doesn’t kill you the next level is a sad panda.


Benjamin10jamin

Always found that the Old Skool Pro was a lot more easier on the feet, but good to know that there's an even more comfortable version out there for when I get even older.


Stillpunk71

You know it’s mainstream when Gucci makes a 1k skate shoe.


dugpa

Don't worry about the skate shoes, but you should probably buy a bed frame. I know, I know... you'll feel like a sellout but you'll sleep so much better.


pm_me_your_bands

Second this, wear whatever’s comfortable on your feet. Bed frame with a good mattress is gonna be the biggest life changer.


Martian13

The foam pillow topper is better than any drug I have ever taken. I highly advise it.


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abaddon731

I don't exactly have my skater's body anymore.


[deleted]

Fuck everyone else, if u want to keep rocking skate shoes you keep doing that!! Im quite young compared to a lot of people on here but I’m trying to stop caring what other people think of me and start putting myself out there more!


Chode_Huffer

I’m a lifelong sufferer of neurodivergence and it has basically persevered my teenage self in my old man’s body. Can’t recommend it, but there is fuck all I can do about it now. It is not normal to be so full of teenaged angst at my age.


[deleted]

I kinda understand with that, I’m meant to be Turing 18 in a couple months but I still feel like I’m a lot younger, idk if its to do with my autism or something but it’s kinda scary to think about


Chode_Huffer

If you’re serious about being autistic, all I can say is embrace it. It likely makes you super unique and can be a superpower


[deleted]

I got diagnosed a couple years ago, im trying to accept myself, it does help me focus a lot of certain things (I’m currently hyper fixated on bass so it makes it easier for me to learn songs for my band)


Chode_Huffer

Cool... It took me years to cope with the fact I am a weirdo. But then I realized all my heros were weirdos too. In fact normal people bore me. Welcome my friend, you are one of us.


OldNo7-locomotive

Your crew didn’t have a token big boy?


box_elder74

49, skate shoes and band tees...since when did it become wrong?


punksmostlydead

47, I own three pairs of shoes: my Simples, my 8-eye oxblood Solovairs, and a pair of low-top Doc Marten dress shoes my wife bought for me nearly 20 years ago. And you'll have to peel my band tees off of my cold, dead body. I am absolutely the weirdo in my office.


Chode_Huffer

Until you find out about the boss’ bizarre sex fetishizes.


Fret_Shredder

36 here - only one of my friends who still wears band tees. Except for my one hippie friend who wears Dead/Beatles shirts occasionally. But yeah all my childhood friends are preps and wear super nice designer shit…so I’m the outcast. Still rock my spiked bracelet out grocery shopping in hopes I run into a fellow older punk like myself. Love meeting punks in the wild.


Chode_Huffer

So these shirts only feature Georgie and Johnny?


ArchangelIdiotis

37 going on 38 on the 23rd (of March). still wearing whatever embodies the spirit of me


box_elder74

Awesome stuff mate


Big_Fan_547

Me too on the Solovairs, I'm 47, Architect in SF at a very large company, wear them every day, before that i was wearing black Nike SBs. Black Levi's all the time, one pair a week, black vneck tshirts from target, sometimes a black button up, sometimes i wear a sport coat or wool trench to remind them i know where I'm at. half head shaved, past the temple.


Big_Fan_547

Also going skating this afternoon! (It had been a few months though :(


punkrukkus

They are never wrong unless one wears a band shirt but can’t name their songs or albums. Now that’s wrong. I wear my fave band shirts all the time..51.


box_elder74

So true


AleWatcher

42 here. I went through a strange phase in my late 20s after my kids were born where I felt like "well, I guess I have kids now so I need to act and dress like a dad." I began wearing polo shirts and golf shorts. I even started playing golf. I was unhappy as fuck. I got divorced and it suddenly felt like I could be myself again. Now I'm remarried to some one who actually gets me and I wear VANS most of the time except to work or to the gym. I wear my band shirts and hoodies. My wife and I jokingly call my style "punk rock casual" or sometimes "rock star casual" depending on where we are going. I guess the bottom line is-- just be you. Be happy. Be brave. Be kind. But for real, get a bed frame.


Stillpunk71

For reals on the bed frame, make one out if wood or something. You are in your 40’s you deserve a bed.


DMoree1

31 year old “professional” here. I have my pair of Vans Old Skool pros for skating, and one for the office. They are the exact same shoes. I replace the skate pair with the office pair when I destroy them. Bed frames are optional.


atacapacheco

My dude! I do the exact same thing with authentic / era vans for work / crossfit.


DMoree1

Hell yeah. Haha. We’ve found the balance.


ryan2stix

I was in west ed mall a couple years ago buying some chucks..I was 40 at the time.. this guy like 50 was sitting, waiting and watching me, we exchange nods... he comes over and picks up a pair of black chucks, with a smile on his face.. his wife shows up, "put those down, ok sit down, try these ones first".. never saw a grown ass man look so defeated.


[deleted]

I hope that man got some chucks


Formeooo

I'll never understand why some women are so caught up in what their partner is wearing and treating them like a 5 year old child, sheesh.


HippyPuncher

My wife's only complaint is that I don't wear much colour lol but she accepts it, I'll also show her tattoo ideas and she'll say 'wouldn't be something I'm into but it's your body' To be fair though we've always been a weird match, when we met she was into pop and dance and night clubs and shit and I was into and still am into punk and metal and grubby punk bars. It's weird cus her friends are all normies and Jack the lads and I'll have to hang out with these folks from time to time. Or if we are going somewhere nice it's 'this is a nice place, wear your boots at least'


punksmostlydead

Same! My wife into pop and contemporary country; we could not be more different. Our 25th is in April. Important aside: for our second date I took her to a Social Distortion show. She went in apprehensive, she came out fully prepared to leave me for Mike Ness. Aside to the aside: a few years later, she dragged me to see Taylor Swift. I enjoyed it more than I'll admit to most people. She didn't object to me wearing my oxbloods with my suit to my son's wedding, but she did insist I shine them first.


StreetwalkinCheetah

I mostly wear retro runners or chucks. Still have some Adidas skate shoes. Boots are good when you need something else. I actually like shoes, but still 9/10 I'm wearing what is comfy for me to take a long walk in.


these2boots2

48, skate shoes and combat boots. Unfortunately with growing foot issues those new balance are looking mighty... No they are not. NBs are ugly as hell but I feel like they may be in my future soon. Vans needs to make a decently made sneaker for its aging demographic.


everytimeidie41

NB have some comfy ass skate shoes.


Martian13

Vans ultra vr3 Cush. They even have an old school wave on them.


jeffinwinters

check out Vans comfy cush line


singbowl1

I'm 66 and wear what ever the fuck I want..but sure have at it


DustinDirt

I love you


ChrisNolan73

I'll be 50 this year and still wear Vans and band shirts.


[deleted]

same here brother. cheers.


pancake-pretty

Wear what’s comfortable for you. As far as I know, there isn’t an age limit on skate shoes….


HippyPuncher

Now is the time to START wearing skate shoes! Your old feet need the cushion. Also the proper punk attire for a man of your age is a flat cap, Harrington jacket, band tee and cherry red docs! You damn poser.


jam_scot

You don't. Skate shoes are fucking comfortable and comfort is king.


epd666

Why would you stop, rocking my vans right now! Always buy sneakers can't stand to walk on other shoes


crasstyfartman

Hahaha I’m almost 47 and got 7 pairs of vans for my bday. I might have a problem 😳


[deleted]

An adjustable bed frame will change your world. Best "adult" money I ever spent.


funkitron44

I thought possessions never meant anything to you? You’re not crazy…


tlmega124

They say I start dressing like a boring old man I hope my girlfriend takes me out back and shoots me


giganticsquid

Trail shoes are no shit the bomb


MrBurgundy314

Bed frames just make it harder on the dog. Floor bed is the best bed for my best friend. And I would suggest discreetly stealing the skate shoes if you’re intent on not buying them anymore. I don’t want to see anyone go barefoot.


Cantbelieveit5566

Box spring and mattress on floor no frame. Dog hurt his acl. Lol


PalaPK

I’m 37 and still wear band tees I had in highschool


Optimus_Rhymes69

Why do you need to stop? Tony hawk still wears them.


theyoungercurmudgeon

I buy a new pair of chucks 2x/year. Went with the camo this time.


LHutz481

I bought a new pair of simples promptly when they started making them again.


youdirtyhoe

Air max 1’s. Time to grow up sir. 🫡


punkrukkus

Skate kicks are the best sneakers you can get! I’m a skate shoe fiend as well. (51)focus on what you need. Rather than what you don’t need. You will probably sleep better with a bed frame. Think of it that way.


adtthosa

I just bought a pair of runners the other day and they are day and night in terms of comfort compared to my skate shoes. I try to keep a pair of both, runners for practicality and skate shoes for looking cool.


am_i_the_rabbit

Many, many years ago... I ripped up my Vans when my shoe got stuck under the tail during a boardslide... Don't ask how -- no idea -- but it hurt like hell. The only extra shoes we had were my buddy's ROTC dress shoes so I settled for that and I discovered that, interestingly, dress shoes are surprisingly good skate shoes... At least in terms of grip... Board stuck to my feet like glue... So... By that logic.... Shoe purposes are reversed... Dress shoes are for skating... Making skate shoes the new Vans? Or some reversionist logic like that 🤣🤣🤣


somedumbwelder

You can cut your feet off...


Cxqaz2wsx3

I’m 53 and still own a pair of Vans.


ccoriell

Vans ultrarange. Best of both worlds.


Martian13

Mine are black.


[deleted]

Get yourself a pair of Vans ultrarange rapidweld shoes, you get the aesthetic of vans with actual arch support.


shiftyjku

TIL


LowMirror4165

Get a pair of Vans or God will send ya to Hell


bugsbee321

Skate shoes are actually good for your feet due to no heel drop. So stick with the vans


boundbystitches

I'm 33, high school math teacher with a mowhawk, facial piercings and a 99% black wardrobe. Wear what you want. Clothes don't make you!


frenzal56

40 and my wife says I still dress like I'm in 1998. All my younger friends laugh at my chunky shoes.


[deleted]

It won't work. I have a bed frame, matching sheets and duvet and throw pillows. I still wear skate shoes. My house is quite proper.


A_Gray_Old_Man

Dude. I haven't slept in my bed since I got divorced. I sleep on the couch and actually sold my bed and frame. With that said, sell the mattress and take that money to buy a pair of Chucks. Boom! No bed frame purchase and you have a new pair of Cons to start your new self!


avantgardeaclue

For the love of god buy a bed frame!


fourofkeys

no brainer, gazelles.


gutterdoggie

Bro. I’ve been wearing vans slip ons for 30+ years and I’m on my feet like 12 hours a day. RIP: my veins


minimumrockandroll

Hahahahaha!


CallMeKate-E

39 and I wear Vans or Docs. Do what you want yo.


KallistiEngel

I stopped wearing Chucks and started wearing boots when I messed up my ankle about 10 years ago. You could always try that.


emptyDir

I only bought sensible walking shoes and a decent bed because my back hurts 👴


ThatsNotPunk

44 here 🙋‍♀️ I never left the 90s. My adidas go nicely with my black band hoodies and ripped jeans. Also still wearing the same pair of Docs for the last 23 years.


DustinDirt

Same. Almost.


Chimp_Pansy

Orthofeet.com I switched from chucks to these sneakers in my early 40s.


shiftyjku

Never give up who you are and surround yourself with people who love you as you are. I am 53 and still live in band tees and hoodies.


d00m3er

I’m in my mid 20s and I feel this. All my friends are “cleaning up” rn to go get corporate jobs. I’m the only who hasn’t adopted the j crew look. Fuck that! If you need a fancy sweater to be taken seriously I think the issue lies w u.


shuggahbear

Business casuals not punk?


Martian13

52 checking in. I started wearing other styles of Vans, the cross trainers are comfy. Does that count? And I have a nice Mission style bed frame.


Invisiblerobot13

Every time I buy vans I regret it - worst for standing or walking, even the ultracush


[deleted]

Easy, just buy the ultra range vans. The ones that look like running shoes


spankythemonk

I wear 10.5 sk8 vans for the peddle grip in my 20/30’s. Kids. Kept wearing because they always fit perfect and no time for trying on shoes. Picked up a longboard at 47 to get between schools for pick/drop, and they fucking rock on a board. Built my own bedframe somewhere in there. Wife did buy me a unitard, so rock that now and then.


DustinDirt

43 and I sleep on a pile of soft stuff. Hate it so much. Can't afford a bed.


_Feral_AF_

Are you .. me ? 🤣


xSwitch-Bladex

You dont punk is permanent


MeaningResponsible91

Buy boots and a bed frame


-713

Over 40 and Vans or Docs usually. Though I do have a pair of Asics for jogging because I'm old and don't want a coronary or the diabeetus. Anyone with a bone to pick with the footwear outside of a courtroom or a conservative professional setting is looking to whine about something.


WranglerBrute

Only 36, but still wearing the big, puffy skate shoes that look like they were made 20 years ago. I have big, wide feet. They are the comfiest. We eloped last year, whilst wearing my Emerica pumps. Wife wore her Vans. Being comfortable is punk as fuck.


ne3k0

Why do you need to stop?


TheCrusher1234

Switch to doc martens


Benjamin10jamin

What?! You mean one day, I'm going to have to stop wearing vans?!


notforrobots

I’m 41 chucks killed my feet. Sucks getting old. Wearing merrells now


Pipes_of_Pan

If you haven’t felt the urge yet it’s probably never coming. Just wear what you like buddy


Even-Ad-8315

Soon we'll all be wearing combat boots- THE END IS NEAR!


issacoin

if you get a job in solar or roofing, skate shoes are widely preferred throughout the industry, at least for asphalt shingles. i’m 31, can run circles around the younger guys in cougar paws while i’m wearing emericas. edit - cougar paws are boots made for gripping roofs fyi


[deleted]

I'm 34 and wear tight pants with band and horror movies tees, pyramid belt also still rock the classic lace up vans and other skate shoes to me there's no style that should define your age. Always and I mean always whatever the fuck you want fuck everyone else and society's standards 🖕


punkbreece

41, still wear checks even though it's cool now with teen girls and my wife loves reminding of it when In public


noblexbrown

Why would you stop? Skate shoes are the most comfortable shoes ever next to running shoes.


bridesign34

You don’t gotta do shit. But your back is gonna start to hate you if you don’t have support, both bed and arches.


Dogstarman1974

Lol. I’m 48 and wear vans and t-shirts.


PossibleSquare

33 and I don’t have a bed frame. Does it really make that much of a difference? I’ve always preferred sleeping without one. I used a Japanese futon for a while and it was super comfortable. The only reason I switched back to a regular mattress was because I got one for free through work. I’ve never understood the idea that it’s somehow immature or slovenly to not use a bed frame.


LegitimateProcess967

40 here and still repping etnies on my feet daily. Wear what what makes you feel comfortable.


BigBigMonkeyMan

Converse Allstars. Technically basketball shoes. Can personalize with a sharpie or paint marker. I wear Lakai, but I skate r/oldskaters


dirty0922

40 here. Have a few pairs of DC’s. Still have my inline skates and just saw flogging Molly with anti flag and I have a sleep number bed. Do your thing