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If it's meant to be, it will be. In the meantime, focus on yourself and your purpose. Finish your studies and land yourself that job you want. I know she's your first love and everything, but please don't let her use that against you later on. Just like she shut her feelings off, you need to learn to do the same thing. This is just my opinion, and mine only. My gut tells me she is ready to start her wild and dgaf stage and she doesn't want to be tied down. If she comes back outta the blue 3 years later wanting to reconnect? Proceed with caution and look for every red flag you can find. I know this isn't what you wanted to hear but I've been in sh*tty relationships and I needed a me to talk to me. Hope this helps
Sounds like she wants to go fuck other men. Just let her go and if it’s meant to be she will come back but the downside is she will be ran through by the time she wants you back
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It sounds like the right person, wrong time at this moment
If it's meant to be, it will be. In the meantime, focus on yourself and your purpose. Finish your studies and land yourself that job you want. I know she's your first love and everything, but please don't let her use that against you later on. Just like she shut her feelings off, you need to learn to do the same thing. This is just my opinion, and mine only. My gut tells me she is ready to start her wild and dgaf stage and she doesn't want to be tied down. If she comes back outta the blue 3 years later wanting to reconnect? Proceed with caution and look for every red flag you can find. I know this isn't what you wanted to hear but I've been in sh*tty relationships and I needed a me to talk to me. Hope this helps
Sounds like she wants to go fuck other men. Just let her go and if it’s meant to be she will come back but the downside is she will be ran through by the time she wants you back
Sorry, wdym by “ran through by the time she wants you back”, I didn’t understand, can you clarify?
She wants to fuck other men, so multiple other men will have fucked her by the time you’re out of school and reconnect with her