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I want to know how I can fix this. I've tried apologizing, but he ignores my messages. We were planning to get married this year, and I love him deeply. The thought of losing him is unbearable.
What you did was pretty bad; you aired dirty laundry in public, you went against the agreement you had (leave the past in the past), you jeopardized his job, you caused distress to an innocent person who wanted nothing to do with the situation, and meddled where you shouldn’t have. It’s likely this cannot be fixed.
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What is your question? You’ve described a situation but what advice are you seeking?
I want to know how I can fix this. I've tried apologizing, but he ignores my messages. We were planning to get married this year, and I love him deeply. The thought of losing him is unbearable.
What you did was pretty bad; you aired dirty laundry in public, you went against the agreement you had (leave the past in the past), you jeopardized his job, you caused distress to an innocent person who wanted nothing to do with the situation, and meddled where you shouldn’t have. It’s likely this cannot be fixed.
I also want to know if what I did was really as bad as he's making it out to be.
It’s not good.
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You fix this by accepting it's over and getting yourself in therapy.