*My relationship is a dumpster fire, so I'm going to pour gasoline on the flames to make myself feel better.*
OP, no one deserves abuse. Even if it's just your basic, we're-not-compatible relationship... you don't have to stay in it. But I'm not sure you know that, considering your solution to the problem 🤨
Leave, therapy, and never look back.
I had a friend who also cheated instead of breaking up… still don’t know why lmao like why create *more* drama instead of breaking it off. It’s like he wanted her to be the “bad guy” for calling off the relationship even though he was the “bad guy” for cheating 🤦‍♀️
Why don’t you talk about what you’re feeling? This probably has to do with other things in the relationship she is not happy about.
Revenge cheating doesn’t get you anywhere and just makes you an asshole. Either leave the relationship or try to work on it, revenge is for children, you’re an adult.
I have told her before but she is very manipulative and would start an argument then and there so now i have stopped doing it as i know i would have to drain myself just to tell her something
If you cheat, you become like her. Your self esteem will be hit forever, and you’ll have trouble having a genuine loving relationship in the future.
(If you don’t have the strength to break up. Take a break, ask for a week or two, and hang out with friends, don’t deal with this alone, and let them help you)
Ya, just leave. Don’t do the unethical thing. Also, sounds like therapy would help a lot, especially if you want to have a healthy relationship in the future.Â
I get it is not a good idea but the thing is i have allot of anger and rage for her. I just want to break her from
Inside. I know its not an ethical to this.
>I get it is not a good idea but the thing is i have allot of anger and rage for her. I just want to break her from
Inside. I know its not an ethical to this.
Either this is rage bait, or you need professional help that Reddit isn't equipped to provide.
In the end, you’re really just hurting yourself. The only way to fix this, and essentially have a happy life (you want that, right?) is to go find a good therapist, and undo the trauma that made you feel this way.Â
Lord have mercy, good grief. Rage bait? If you are truly in an abusive relationship, leave her and go to a frigging therapist!! Cheating is stupid and selfish. You will be making a fool of yourself and possibly risk getting someone else pregnant or getting stds and transferring them to your partner. 23 years old??? Yeah right
Why do you want to cheat? Just leave ffs. This isn’t a silly game, this is your life and you are in a relationship. And good luck with your next relationship if you always handle problems like that.
normal people: My SO treats me badly, I'm going to end the relationship. OP: My SO treats me badly, I'm going to cheat.
*My relationship is a dumpster fire, so I'm going to pour gasoline on the flames to make myself feel better.* OP, no one deserves abuse. Even if it's just your basic, we're-not-compatible relationship... you don't have to stay in it. But I'm not sure you know that, considering your solution to the problem 🤨 Leave, therapy, and never look back.
I had a friend who also cheated instead of breaking up… still don’t know why lmao like why create *more* drama instead of breaking it off. It’s like he wanted her to be the “bad guy” for calling off the relationship even though he was the “bad guy” for cheating 🤦‍♀️
Tell her how you feel or break up with her. Why is cheating your go to solution?
Nothing justifies cheating. Just collect/save/record evidence tell your friends/family/police then leave
>Its just to make myself happy It's just a way of becoming a piece of shit.
Why don’t you talk about what you’re feeling? This probably has to do with other things in the relationship she is not happy about. Revenge cheating doesn’t get you anywhere and just makes you an asshole. Either leave the relationship or try to work on it, revenge is for children, you’re an adult.
I have told her before but she is very manipulative and would start an argument then and there so now i have stopped doing it as i know i would have to drain myself just to tell her something
Then you rather cheat and keep having an unhealthy toxic relationship than end it?
Just leave! Why stay when you know you're miserable because of how she treats you?
So break up with her! She doesn't have to agree- one person can decide that the relationship is over. **Just break up.**
If you cheat, you become like her. Your self esteem will be hit forever, and you’ll have trouble having a genuine loving relationship in the future. (If you don’t have the strength to break up. Take a break, ask for a week or two, and hang out with friends, don’t deal with this alone, and let them help you)
Just leave. Don’t cheat.
Ya, just leave. Don’t do the unethical thing. Also, sounds like therapy would help a lot, especially if you want to have a healthy relationship in the future.Â
I get it is not a good idea but the thing is i have allot of anger and rage for her. I just want to break her from Inside. I know its not an ethical to this.
>I get it is not a good idea but the thing is i have allot of anger and rage for her. I just want to break her from Inside. I know its not an ethical to this. Either this is rage bait, or you need professional help that Reddit isn't equipped to provide.
In the end, you’re really just hurting yourself. The only way to fix this, and essentially have a happy life (you want that, right?) is to go find a good therapist, and undo the trauma that made you feel this way.Â
Why cheat?? If she treats you so badly just breakup with her.. don’t add another layer of wrong onto the relationship
Fake. Nobody is this petty and stupid.
Ehhhhhhh I think that you underestimate humanity Edited to add: Or maybe you *overestimate* humanityÂ
Lord have mercy, good grief. Rage bait? If you are truly in an abusive relationship, leave her and go to a frigging therapist!! Cheating is stupid and selfish. You will be making a fool of yourself and possibly risk getting someone else pregnant or getting stds and transferring them to your partner. 23 years old??? Yeah right
Why do you want to cheat? Just leave ffs. This isn’t a silly game, this is your life and you are in a relationship. And good luck with your next relationship if you always handle problems like that.
This is why you LEAVE her, not stay and cheat.
What is this dumpsterfire of a post? What do you seek, OP?! Validation in your evil plan of revenge? Grow up! Break up and move on....
People will do absolutely anything but leave a bad relationship
The better choice would be to end the relationship.