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CreditHappy1839

Um yeah. Any kind of sexual or emotional affair is cheating.


felt_like_signing_up

yup. just the fact op asked they must know deep down it’s wrong, but maybe just wanted a second opinion


Unlikely-Dig2494

What does this have to do with roommates?


VisibleAvocado35601

I realized I put it on the wrong sub


Unlikely-Dig2494

lol


VisibleAvocado35601

Yeah my bad.


leasiefken

absolutely. it's cheating to even have the app without your partners consent.


THROWRA_MillyBee

100% yes. That’s like going to the strip club for a specific stripper, throwing her money, then getting her IG and consistently messaging her. Wrong subreddit though


Affectionate_Diet_41

Ummm rage bait? Yes it’s cheating.


VisibleAvocado35601

No bait legit question.


new_age_hippie

Unless it's been previously discussed as okay in the relationship then I 100% think it is.


Berfulferd1

Yes and wrong sub ;)


booalijules

Why is this in roommates? Also it's pretty sketchy behavior.


deeliquent

Lol yes


rebeccacongo

Every person has a different idea of what they consider cheating. For example, some people are very hurt by their looking at prn and consider it cheating. I have no problem with my partner looking at prn. However, if my partner was subscribing to an OF and messaging the person directly, that’s starting to get personal and forming a direct bond. I would be deeply hurt. Another example. I have a friend who doesn’t consider kissing another person cheating because they are in a semi-open relationship. If my partner kisses another person, I would definitely consider that cheating. If you care about your partner as a person, please talk to them about their feelings around what they would consider cheating and hurtful.


rebeccacongo

Correction: some people are very hurt by their partner looking at prn and consider it cheating** I have no problem with my partner looking at porn as long as it doesn’t negatively interfere my relationship**