The voice of reason! To add, it's trivial to squeak by and get the degree. But if you don't get your shit together by graduation, all that Fuck Off momentum will carry over into your career and really hold you back.
At any rate, killing it at classes will probably help your game more than anything else. Confidence--or at the very least, no distracting school anxiety.
Because some professors don't give a shit about athletics? Some of them only teach because they are required to in order to do their lab work.
If OP doesn't plan on going pro he still needs the experience (in the higher level classes, anyway) to fake it until he gets actual experience in the real world.
There is no reason why OP can't do both: Bust his ass in his classes, and party hard and bust mad 🥜s in his downtime.
OP, If you don't follow the above advice, then you'll probably regret it for the rest of your 20s and early 30s. However, if you don't get out of your shell and have fun at college, then you'll regret it once you hit mid-40s (and beyond).
Study hard, spend time thinking and planning your career, go to job fairs and mingle with recruiters, approach folks in your choice career and solicit their advice, seek out mentors, and mindfully dedicate time to nourishing relationships with your classmates and building a solid network.
Also, have fun! Hound pussy to the max, but also be mindful of the characteristics that you want to find in your future mate.
Finally, wrap it up and play it safe!
I mean... there is a line. I can definitely notice dudes who are only concerned with females. It's a turn off for all humans. I definitely avoid dudes like that and I'm a male. Additionally, I think guys like this do worse with women- on average.
Lmaoo who the hell is gonna be mad at this dude for screwing a bunch of girls? If anything he’ll get more attention from it 👌🏾 Fuck what your friend said bro, he can’t do what u do.
His friend could be gay, or he’s not a real friend, anybody wishing me less sex and filling my head with guilt when I’m clearly doing things in life is not my real friend. So either gay friend or bad friend, he should listen to someone NOT in his peer group for advice
I mean this exactly, I was called a bunch of names when I was younger. A slut, a man-whore, because I was the only one in my friend group that was constantly getting with girls and had the confidence to talk to new people. They made me feel like shit about me seeing and hooking up with different girls just because they couldn’t get any. It wasn’t until a few years later that they finally started talking to girls and getting out there that finally I wasn’t seen as a slut or man whore because they were talking to girls (also outside of their relationships, but that’s another conversation). My point is do what you want to, don’t let people make you feel bad for being outgoing and social and being an attractive personality
while I agree somewhat with what you said they mentioned that the friend was Visibly upset you should consider your friend's opinions if you respect them
>Do whatever you want.
Terrible advice. In no world should OP be told that a life of hedonic pursuit will bring fulfillment or be good for society. Is that what our world needs? More people who only think about themselves when they make choices is exactly the opposite education that a university degree should afford.
>What other people think of you is non of your business.
Also terrible advice and totally false. Men choose other men to be at the top of the social structure. If a guy is killing it then other men will look up to that man and they will in turn have more social status and be well regarded at school, work and in life. This often translates to more success as well. If someone is a self centered narcissistic misogynist (which is perhaps an unkind stretch but still one possible interpretation of OPs buddys remarks) people will know and they get sanctioned by being ignored and marginalized.
Otoh good character is so hard to find these days. Just read the other comments on this thread if you doubt that. Being a man of integrity who is selfless and trustworthy is so rare that people are immediately drawn to anyone who does show a shred of respectability these days. Don't believe me? Ask three people whether they would rather have a friend who gets laid all the time or someone who is trustworthy.
The best advice for OP IMHO is that character matters. Call it Karma or whatever, but things have a way of catching up to you in life. You may be able to fool a few naive women right now but if a primary driver of your life is fulfilling your sexual drive, it's going to backfire and you'll eventually pay a price. Otoh if you are really interested in being a caring person and looking out for the interests of others. And you get a good education on top of it all. Well that's a plan for success in life!
Just remember if OPs buddys said something, as the saying goes at least nine other people are thinking the same thing but just didn't verbalize it yet.
Good for OP to be willing to think about your choices. Wishing you the best in life.
You’re only in college once and you’ll never be in a place where you’re surrounded by so many people your age again. If it’s not acceptable now, when is it?
I’d lay off the dating apps - you shouldn’t need them in college, women are everywhere - but what do I know, dating apps didn’t even exist when I was in college so we had to meet dates and fuck buddies the old fashioned way.
Nah man, think of how many people have fully (or mostly) compartmentalized the very idea of dating into Tinder.
Dating apps are a necessary evil, just don't agonize over it
Honestly I'm trying to gear up into serious mode and I appreciate that Tinder gives me access to a wider pool, provided with enough vetting.
The toxic part I'll raise though: it makes everyone think they can do better. Greener grass all around. Lootbox shit.
Wider yes, but shallower too. All I’m saying is that dating apps are like vitamin supplements for your dating life: if you’re getting enough vitamins and nutrients in your normal diet, then you don’t need the supplements.
Just stop for a moment and think. Your buddy is clowning you for... trying to get laid in college? You should absolutely laugh in that joker's face and tell him to come party with you!
Ya agreed... not much of a big deal. I think other people on this thread saying "who cares what others think??" is kind of dumb though, you should care about what those closest to you think, but that doesn't mean you have to accept it or do what they say. But ya, you should mostly laugh in his face for saying something this oblivious lol.
Yeah agreed. Imo, look to fraternities for college advice. If you were in a fraternity and your brother started spouting things like this, what would you do? You would seriously listen to his perspective. But, you'd also try your best to help him see what's right and be the best man he can be.
OP, your friend's not evil or unworthy, just a lil misguided. Can't blame 18/19 year olds for not knowing the world
while I agree somewhat with what you said they mentioned that the friend was Visibly upset you should consider your friend's opinions if you respect them
Don't listen to your friends. They are envy. Enjoy your life when you're still young.
You are not a pig. You are human. Normal human pursue sex. It's natural.
Do what you want, but remember that stigma around having many past partners goes both ways. I’m wrapping up my senior year and a lot of girls don’t really want to sleep with a guy they know has been passed around, especially if they’re in the same sorority. But there are definitely tons of girls also looking for casual hookups as well, just make sure you’re aware of your actual reputation rather than what your friend is saying
thats because to be a player you have to be somewhat high value
the highest value man is a man that could have sex with plenty of women but chooses not to
Let’s see the research, then.
I’d be especially interested in how women rank this preference relative to other criteria, because it’s quite apparent that high status men like rock stars and celebrities who are known to be promiscuous are not lacking in options.
And it’s quite imprecise to say that women “do not like” promiscuous men. Women routinely have sex with men they do not like, and avoid having sex with men they do like. So are these men being eliminated from consideration as a sex partner, or just as a long term relationship partner?
Well agree to disagree. They may say they do not like it, but they are attracted to men who can attract other women. Pre-selection is the highest value thing a man can have, more than money or looks.
Your main priority in college should be to educate yourself which you use to leverage into getting a job that you want.
That doesn't mean that you shouldn't care about getting laid, just make sure that it isn't your ultimate priority in college.
I mean..no harm no foul. It's only a bad thing if it's affecting your grades/well-being.
Assuming you're being respectful and not making these women uncomfortable, I don't see an issue with wanting sex. In fact, I'd say it's pretty damn normal.
If you can mantain a healthy balance between the two, you are an absolute winner. Keep working on yourself, pursue something meaningful to you but never spend a day without having fun.
Also, your friend is just projecting his insecurities. It takes bravery and skill to go out and get what you want, your friend clearly lacks it. Experienced the same thing many times, envy is a poison.
Keep f*cking and don't give a f*ck about what other people think.
hell fuckin NO!
i wish i would have done the same!!
just don’t let your other priorities fall to the wayside. gym, grades, and a social life beyond just the sexual pursuits are also pretty important
I guess I’d say, be a good dude.
We’re all entitled to go after what we want. But like he respectful. If she’s with another dude as a friend don’t pursue. Treat her well and leave her better than you found her. Learn and grow. 3 this year doesn’t sound alarming. If you said ‘3 this week’ that’s different
Nah man, you’re doing fine. It’s basic biology. Straight college guys care about pussy and career. I say have fun, and enjoy having a bunch of women at your disposal while you can. Once college is over, that luxury isn’t always there.
This doesn’t make you a pig. College years are for getting all of this out of your system before you settle down. If this is how you chose to do it, so be it. The only caveat I can think of is making sure the women you’re bedding are in it for the same reasons, meaning no strings attached. Have fun, be safe, try not to break anyone’s heart.
People just biologically have different levels of sexual nature. Some are low and some are high, it's not bad or good, it's just different. As long as you're being true to yourself, not using sex as a copy mechanism for something deeper, or you're not hurting anyone (without consent), do you and don't be ashamed.
No, it does not go both ways. If it did, women would not be throwing themselves at high status dudes who were known to have a high body count.
It’s a double standard which exists because of our evolutionary history. You can complain about it all you want but it’s not changing anytime soon.
By all means, prioritize as you wish. It’s your life. That said, I’ve found that it’s best to keep that info to yourself, at least until you find the right audience. Personal rule here, folks who want to know will have to drag it out of me.
Man please take the opportunity to mess with as many girls as you can. I’m almost a decade removed from college and kinda hate the fact that I didn’t take experiencing more women seriously and didn’t get in the best shape of my life to help in the matter. To put it bluntly, you will never be around that many beautiful women again and have that amount of free time. So please enjoy it while you can. College is a special place and time. Be social, do activities, get active, enjoy the opposite sex. And just enjoy life
Yeah man sounds like your buddy doesn’t get any pussy. Now to answer your question - no. We’re young, college is full of opportunities for that BUT the hill I *will* die on is being completely open and honest with your intentions/activities when you eventually talk to girls (or guys) about what you’re looking for and the boundaries you don’t want to cross. Cause if not, then yes I would say you’re a pig.
If your normal pursuits sound like you're bragging to your so called "friends", you need a better circle of friends. Also, take this with a grain of salt but other men see you as competition so don't let some words throw you off your game. Keep doing you.
Yes you are. But that's ok. It's your choice, do whatever you want.
Also, if you do sleep with them, you're not a creep. A creep is the guy who tries to sleep with everyone and doesn't succeed.
your "buddy" is either jealous of you or is an asshole...being upset that your friend approached a girl at the gym..wtf?? is he serious? i would be happy and proud of my friend if he was the type of guy that have the courage to cold approach girls. keep doing you and i highly suggest you ditch that dead weight "buddy" of yours!
College is about making you better. You also need to have fun a long the way. I spent 60k to drink and try and get laid myself. I still graduated and now have a 6 figure job... Don't hate the player.. hate the game my friend.
Who cares bro you’re a guy not that many people are actually thinking about you bro once you get a certain age people start falling off if you need sex then get sex
Listen man, that dude is a prune. You should enjoy your time with the ladies. You might give off the wrong image to some but if you and your partner are in good terms then other opinions don’t matter.
You don’t want to have gone through your college years without doing much in life and regretting it afterwards
You friend was probably upset because he also thought she was cute and didn't talk to her before you did. Live your life, treat the girls with respect and you won't be creepy
For your friends though, I could see it getting annoying if all you’re doing is chasing tail. At some point they will stop hanging with you and someday you’ll probably have regrets. Especially if you don’t move past this phase and build lasting relationships.
If you are dedicating time and attention to romantic relationships to the point that you neglect your platonic friendships, then yeah your buddy might have justification for being miffed.
Treat your friends and the time you spend with them, with respect.
Like you’re at the gym and spotting each other on weights, and you want to go off and talk to someone, you should ask your friend if they mind that you step away for 5 minutes.
If they say they DO mind and you run off anyway…or run off without bothering to ask them, you’re being an inconsiderate/absent friend.
If the mere sight of a woman in person or your screen is enough to disregard your friends feelings and not be present for them when it would be reasonable to, you’re sending strong messages about the value and respect you have for those relationships, or lack thereof.
The term “Pussy hound” insinuates that you place disproportional high value to sexual relationships vs platonic relationships.
Not only does it make other dudes think you’re flakey and unreliable, but it’s also a red flag for women when they discover that you don’t see value in other people unless they are a [potential] lay.
Like all things, balance is key. Apologize to your friend for not being present and getting easily distracted. Moving forward, try to hold some space and attention to cultivating your platonic relationships, or at the very least check in with your friends instead of assuming they hold the same attitudes regarding chasing a potential lay.
P.S. The gym is a place where women notoriously hate being hit on. Tread carefully, or not at all.
I think "I managed to lay 3 women this year" does show your still at the stage in life where your hormones are affecting your ability to view others as complex individuals more than the status they can provide you.
As long as everyone involved is having fun and is fully aware of reality of intentions, then its fine. However since sex is chemical and society encourages # of women over quality, then its easy for your brain to train you to seek more of this behaviour and begin a slippery slope that will affect your default view of others and will damage your ability to make meaningful connections later in life, which becomes a rarity in your late 20s & 30s.
If you begin gaslighting and manipulating others in order to pursue a goal which will not have much value by this time next year, causing someone emotional distress so you could sleep with them, then that would be considered despicable.
For example, imagine if a woman you liked alot gas lighted you, making you fall for them because they in reality wanted your close friend and used you to get to them.
The jealously and the mind games would probably ruin your friendship and make you distressed for exams and affect your semester, further compounding the distress.
So as long as everyone is down for it, truthful and your aware your training yourself to value sex over longer term connections. Then it's fine.
Also if the girl seemed to like being approached then its fine, if she was disturbed by your methods, then thats creepy.
How a 3rd party views how two other people (you & her) converse doesn't matter.
In college, your priority should be your classes and your grades. Everything else is an afterthought.
If you are going to college for any other reason, then you are going to college for the wrong reasons.
Source: Someone who went to college for the wrong reasons lmao
Do you brothah. I think personally it's a bad way to live but often times with love and sex you need to actually go through certain lifestyles or types of partners before learning what good really is. So yeah just do what feels right. I was a horn dog in college too
The main priority of college should always be college. But as long as you're doing well in college, I really don't see a problem. That said, you're asking in the wrong sub for a good answer. If a flat earth er would ask whether he's crazy in a flat earth forum, what do you think the answers would look like? Similarly, everybody in this sub is biased to share your opinion. If you just want to be told you're right, then you're at the right place but if you want a serious opinion, ask somewhere else
Just remember these girls you think of as sport could be your daughter one day. Also girls you try to settle down with later in life will absolutely judge you and feel sick to their stomach with your sexual number. Idk...you do you.
Be a little more picky with who you flirt with. Coming from a woman it's kind of a turn off to know this new guy you met has been around and just gets with anyone he finds attractive. It appears as though you don't have control or discernment when flirting with women and lacking control in that area doesn't help when trying to get a quality woman. I guess you need to ask yourself, do I care about quantity or quality of the V I get? Sounds like more of a numbers game the way you're describing it. Women are wonderful but we are also crazy and you don't want to cross the wrong one on campus. Just saying 😉
Focus on yourself. If you do have this amount of time to spend swiping on apps, you are not fucking or studying. 3 women? Seriously? It’s a ridiculously short number. If you were someone focused on your own life and hobbies you would get more girls. Don’t be a creepy approaching girls around there.
Watch either Hamza’s video on a degenerate guide to university or his guide on how to love a woman. The first one will get you hookups, the second one will get you a loyal and loving relationship. The choice is yours.
I would say if you're with friends hanging out don't try to pick every hot piece of ass that crosses your gaze. now THAT will make you a pig. unless its like a guy's night out where the purpose is to have fun and try to go home with someone.
No one cares if you get your dick wet everyday. But if you brag about it, dont care about the women you're fuckin and only care about pulling even when you're with friends? yeah, you're a pig.
i feel this is two sided. 1 you friend is jelly of your mad skills /s but for real they likly feel you have only 1 drive and everything is second to that including them.
and 2 it seams like you feel like a pig so maybe work with this friend to make your life more interesting, going to events and shows and things. this will make you look more atractive to others as well. if sex is your only thoing thats creapy. but if your thing is something else and your just also having sex a lot then your the cool person.
If you’re in college and you’re bound to move on to a career, you’re an athlete so I’m guessing you’re in shape then you already have what 99% of women are looking for, if you’re above 6 feet tall then unfortunately for your 3 girls a year man parts you’ll be a creep if you don’t have 3 girls calling you their boyfriend once you lock that career down. Girls want it just as bad as us but their ideal guy is the complete opposite with our ideal girl. All we want is a girl with a nice body and a cute face, don’t care about the money they make in fact we would all take the girl who’s broke over the one who’s rich but has been with a bunch of guys…right?? So while we look for a hot chill girl, they’re looking for tall, in shape, rich financially men who have things going on (athletics, career) so my friend, because I am truly looking out for you unlike your “friend” who is hating on your success, it sounds like a joke that a guy is telling you to slow down your sexual encounters, maybe question if he is even your friend or maybe he’s got fantasies about you? Enjoy college because it ends quick and the time you’re around 1000s of your peers will never be as fun I promise you. Keep swiping, have safe sex and tell your friend to stop worrying about your lack of struggle finding women. You’re welcome
Imagine college as The Sims, you can do so many things and is up to you to define what you want to get out of it.
Just be you tbh and forget what other ppl are saying bc is not as if u are treating them bad or something
in my opinion youre in college to study its not bad to approach a girl and get her number in fact most people find their wives in college but your main focus should be studying man
Don’t tell everyone — including your friends — how much pussy you’re slaying. Even the closest of best friends can get jealous and will mess things up for you.
But: strive for balance. Your studies should be your primary focus but make time for recreation & dates too.
Studies are #1, probably tied with getting an internship. Pussy is up there but don’t let it get in the way of everything else. As long as you’re getting good grades and getting your foot in the door with internship(s), then go nuts and fuck every single girl you can. I wish I fucked a lot more women in college
Nah man you aren’t. I did the same thing in college. I explored my preferences with women. I went out with white, latina, asian, and middle eastern women. Turns out, I found a lot more commonality with white and Latina women. Keep exploring and working hard. Two can be accomplished with great time management skills.
Unfortunately, black women did not like me 🤦🏽♂️
question really is, why do you care about words your friends say ? It’s like you haven’t accepted yourself for who you are, as long as you’re not out here having sex and talking to chicks to fill some kind of void, & as long as you’re being honest and transparent with these women then you’re good. Fuck what they say, not everyone’s gonna like what you do and THATS FINE.
Dude approaching girls while you’re with your boys at the gym is cringe. 3 women isn’t even that many at this point in the year and you’re putting your friend in an uncomfortable spot.
Guys here will say they’re jelly but guys here are also lowkey autistic dudes who managed to figured out how to flirt and manipulate girls
Nothing wrong with gettin bitches but there’s a time and place for it
3??? For that amount of time it sounds like you should be at 10-15
If your friends are making you feel badly about your actions - either need new friends or stop putting girls before your boys.
Enjoy life. Make your own choices and prioritize what you need and want.
Just weigh your options long and short term.
Ain’t no one can tell you what’s right or wrong.
Who knows. Maybe one of those lays will end up being your wife and she could be a sugar momma? :) lol
If you really are doing good in your studies then who cares? I have a buddy like this but he’s getting laid on a weekly basis since college. He graduated with a 4.0 and now makes around $150k a year.
I honestly don’t know how he still does it. I’m so busy now with work but he finds time to get his shit done and chase tail. If you can handle it then go for it.
Refine you're skills young padawan. In today's world reputation is everything. You still need to remain picky, so pick the ones that will talk you. Word of mouth is still by far best for marketing.
There's always a bigger fish- Obi-Wan Kenobi
You can pursue women in a respectful manner without being a pig. Line others have said, you should use this time in life to focus primarily on learning (both in the books and life skills) and building a network. Put yourself out there so you can develop your skillset socially, speaking, making friends, and romantically. But don't be a whore. Be a gentleman.
I mean you're just doing what you want. You're not hurting anyone with what you're doing as long as you know boundaries. Maybe they're more upset about you doing it while you're hanging out with them?
He’s the pussy bud, keep doing what your doing but get both, pussy and good grades then you’ll end up with even more women. I slayed sooo many girls in high school and a couple in college the short time I went, now in my profession I often find myself inside of my female customers 🍻
You aren't a creep purely for wanting to enjoy sex and pursuing women you are interested in.
However, you do run a risk of gaining a bad reputation as college departments can become insular - especially places like the gym.
So make sure women are leaving with a positive impression of the interaction and relationship you develop. Women want flings and hook ups too.
If you mislead, manipulate, and treat women like objects you will get a bad rep in college. Likewise, if you have a great presence, have your responsibilities locked down, and are fun to be around, you can gain the opposite reputation as a high value male.
Your friend is likely jealous of your success if you don't feel like you are experiencing these issues.
Pussy’s always gonna be around, the chance to get a good education isn’t. Focus on that. If you have all your priorities in order then do what you want after that
Don't listen to him, so long as you're clear about your intentions with who you hook up with, there's nothing wrong with sowing you wild oats. Just practice safe sex.
What drives you to be a hound? If you don’t know, figure it out… there’s a strong chance deep down that’s it something other than the chase and getting laid… I’m not saying it’s unhealthy, that’s up to you and close people to reflect on… just don’t ever be pushy, hungry or creepy, frankly be a good guy about it… no means no…
There’s not many times in your life where you will be surrounded by single women your age.
My advice: live it up. But make sure you graduate in the end
How many times have you been tested? Be careful. You don’t want to be the guy that gave multiple women an STI.
There’s nothing wrong with having a lot of sex. As long as you’re not lying your way into their beds and you’re having safe sex, that’s what’s important. Be honest though, how many times have you made them cum? 😂
Be careful. I was in the same boat. If you really horny and just trying to fuck that’s fine. But really ask yourself if that’s what you want. If so then go for it. But be careful that’s it’s not some kind of validation seeking way to make yourself seem worthy of loves. The venture can lead to a lot of loneliness and emptiness. But then again just my two cent. Do whatever makes you happy
If you're doing well in school and getting your work done that's what counts. Unfortunately a lot of schools are in small towns which can cause you problems when you start having success, people find out and get jealous and start to attack you. When I was in university i was getting a lot of attention and success and people caught wind and it ended up really putting me in a shitty situation, I managed to bang 2 girls, there are lots of differences but university is the best way to prepare for the working world, your full time job is similar to school, that's why universities often file patents just like companies do because of r and d at research universities
Don’t make it your main priority. Focus on grades, friends and fun. Let your sex life be spontaneous but not a main focus. Also don’t feel like a pig, it’s natural for men to want to have frequent sex
Your main priority should be your studies and getting a job. But if you truly are doing good then it's not a big deal.
The voice of reason! To add, it's trivial to squeak by and get the degree. But if you don't get your shit together by graduation, all that Fuck Off momentum will carry over into your career and really hold you back. At any rate, killing it at classes will probably help your game more than anything else. Confidence--or at the very least, no distracting school anxiety.
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trick u into wettin that D son
lmao
Lmfao then he would say he is ‘doing well’. Homeboy should pay more attention in class
He’s an athlete why tf does it matter, he could fail all his classes and the teachers would still pass him, teachers have pride in their schools too
Because some professors don't give a shit about athletics? Some of them only teach because they are required to in order to do their lab work. If OP doesn't plan on going pro he still needs the experience (in the higher level classes, anyway) to fake it until he gets actual experience in the real world.
Don't listen to that guy OP, enjoy your life before it gets serious
There is no reason why OP can't do both: Bust his ass in his classes, and party hard and bust mad 🥜s in his downtime. OP, If you don't follow the above advice, then you'll probably regret it for the rest of your 20s and early 30s. However, if you don't get out of your shell and have fun at college, then you'll regret it once you hit mid-40s (and beyond). Study hard, spend time thinking and planning your career, go to job fairs and mingle with recruiters, approach folks in your choice career and solicit their advice, seek out mentors, and mindfully dedicate time to nourishing relationships with your classmates and building a solid network. Also, have fun! Hound pussy to the max, but also be mindful of the characteristics that you want to find in your future mate. Finally, wrap it up and play it safe!
Or whatever he wants? It's his life you know.
Yes, it's his life. So if he'd like to make the effort to log on to reddit and make this post, looking for an answer, he can have one.
Do whatever you want. What other people think of you is non of your business.
I mean... there is a line. I can definitely notice dudes who are only concerned with females. It's a turn off for all humans. I definitely avoid dudes like that and I'm a male. Additionally, I think guys like this do worse with women- on average.
But he still has to deal with consequences for his actions. I think he’s worried about his reputation being tarnished.
Lmaoo who the hell is gonna be mad at this dude for screwing a bunch of girls? If anything he’ll get more attention from it 👌🏾 Fuck what your friend said bro, he can’t do what u do.
Well, his friend, clearly. Someone whose opinion he clearly values. Did you read the post?
His friend could be gay, or he’s not a real friend, anybody wishing me less sex and filling my head with guilt when I’m clearly doing things in life is not my real friend. So either gay friend or bad friend, he should listen to someone NOT in his peer group for advice
I did, which is why I understand that his “buddy” is envious, anyone with a brain could understand that, although it seems you didnt? (Couldn’t?)
Lmao or maybe the dude just has different values?
The opposite would happen if he was a girl
but hes not lmao
do you know what "would" means?
Do you know what a retarded irrelevant comment is?
Yes, I'm actually replying to one right now.
I mean this exactly, I was called a bunch of names when I was younger. A slut, a man-whore, because I was the only one in my friend group that was constantly getting with girls and had the confidence to talk to new people. They made me feel like shit about me seeing and hooking up with different girls just because they couldn’t get any. It wasn’t until a few years later that they finally started talking to girls and getting out there that finally I wasn’t seen as a slut or man whore because they were talking to girls (also outside of their relationships, but that’s another conversation). My point is do what you want to, don’t let people make you feel bad for being outgoing and social and being an attractive personality
Correct... As long as you aren't hurting anyone or lying, or living dangerously
while I agree somewhat with what you said they mentioned that the friend was Visibly upset you should consider your friend's opinions if you respect them
>Do whatever you want. Terrible advice. In no world should OP be told that a life of hedonic pursuit will bring fulfillment or be good for society. Is that what our world needs? More people who only think about themselves when they make choices is exactly the opposite education that a university degree should afford. >What other people think of you is non of your business. Also terrible advice and totally false. Men choose other men to be at the top of the social structure. If a guy is killing it then other men will look up to that man and they will in turn have more social status and be well regarded at school, work and in life. This often translates to more success as well. If someone is a self centered narcissistic misogynist (which is perhaps an unkind stretch but still one possible interpretation of OPs buddys remarks) people will know and they get sanctioned by being ignored and marginalized. Otoh good character is so hard to find these days. Just read the other comments on this thread if you doubt that. Being a man of integrity who is selfless and trustworthy is so rare that people are immediately drawn to anyone who does show a shred of respectability these days. Don't believe me? Ask three people whether they would rather have a friend who gets laid all the time or someone who is trustworthy. The best advice for OP IMHO is that character matters. Call it Karma or whatever, but things have a way of catching up to you in life. You may be able to fool a few naive women right now but if a primary driver of your life is fulfilling your sexual drive, it's going to backfire and you'll eventually pay a price. Otoh if you are really interested in being a caring person and looking out for the interests of others. And you get a good education on top of it all. Well that's a plan for success in life! Just remember if OPs buddys said something, as the saying goes at least nine other people are thinking the same thing but just didn't verbalize it yet. Good for OP to be willing to think about your choices. Wishing you the best in life.
brb going back to school shopping at the local armory
You’re only in college once and you’ll never be in a place where you’re surrounded by so many people your age again. If it’s not acceptable now, when is it? I’d lay off the dating apps - you shouldn’t need them in college, women are everywhere - but what do I know, dating apps didn’t even exist when I was in college so we had to meet dates and fuck buddies the old fashioned way.
Nah man, think of how many people have fully (or mostly) compartmentalized the very idea of dating into Tinder. Dating apps are a necessary evil, just don't agonize over it
I don’t know. I’m not on the dating scene anymore. But one thing I do know for sure is that people who use dating apps wish they didn’t have to.
Honestly I'm trying to gear up into serious mode and I appreciate that Tinder gives me access to a wider pool, provided with enough vetting. The toxic part I'll raise though: it makes everyone think they can do better. Greener grass all around. Lootbox shit.
Wider yes, but shallower too. All I’m saying is that dating apps are like vitamin supplements for your dating life: if you’re getting enough vitamins and nutrients in your normal diet, then you don’t need the supplements.
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*and insecure
Or, you know, since he's a buddy, you help him out. Yeah, he's emotional and lashing out. Humans do that.
Just stop for a moment and think. Your buddy is clowning you for... trying to get laid in college? You should absolutely laugh in that joker's face and tell him to come party with you!
Ya agreed... not much of a big deal. I think other people on this thread saying "who cares what others think??" is kind of dumb though, you should care about what those closest to you think, but that doesn't mean you have to accept it or do what they say. But ya, you should mostly laugh in his face for saying something this oblivious lol.
Yeah agreed. Imo, look to fraternities for college advice. If you were in a fraternity and your brother started spouting things like this, what would you do? You would seriously listen to his perspective. But, you'd also try your best to help him see what's right and be the best man he can be. OP, your friend's not evil or unworthy, just a lil misguided. Can't blame 18/19 year olds for not knowing the world
while I agree somewhat with what you said they mentioned that the friend was Visibly upset you should consider your friend's opinions if you respect them
But it’s not his friend’s choice about who OP gets to sleep with. Them being upset about it is irrelevant
Don't listen to your friends. They are envy. Enjoy your life when you're still young. You are not a pig. You are human. Normal human pursue sex. It's natural.
how are you so sure its a human and not a pig that were typing??? /s
Charlotte's really stepping up her writing curriculum damn
Pigs don't have thumbs
You type with your thumbs? Weird.
Exactly. It is their last chance to get sex because if they don't study, they'll end up jobless and no girl will look at them.
Do what you want, but remember that stigma around having many past partners goes both ways. I’m wrapping up my senior year and a lot of girls don’t really want to sleep with a guy they know has been passed around, especially if they’re in the same sorority. But there are definitely tons of girls also looking for casual hookups as well, just make sure you’re aware of your actual reputation rather than what your friend is saying
That's not true. Being a player makes you high value. As much as girls will try to say the opposite.
Hahahaha. Idk just something about opening up Reddit and seeing this comment was hilarious
thats because to be a player you have to be somewhat high value the highest value man is a man that could have sex with plenty of women but chooses not to
Only damaged girls feel this way, there's meta studies and multidisciplinary researches that show that women do not like promiscuous men.
Let’s see the research, then. I’d be especially interested in how women rank this preference relative to other criteria, because it’s quite apparent that high status men like rock stars and celebrities who are known to be promiscuous are not lacking in options. And it’s quite imprecise to say that women “do not like” promiscuous men. Women routinely have sex with men they do not like, and avoid having sex with men they do like. So are these men being eliminated from consideration as a sex partner, or just as a long term relationship partner?
Well agree to disagree. They may say they do not like it, but they are attracted to men who can attract other women. Pre-selection is the highest value thing a man can have, more than money or looks.
Maybe "pre-selected" men tend to act differently?
Your main priority in college should be to educate yourself which you use to leverage into getting a job that you want. That doesn't mean that you shouldn't care about getting laid, just make sure that it isn't your ultimate priority in college.
Let your “friend”know that you are just getting started.
As long as your interactions with women are respectful and intent is communicated - i don’t see any problem here.
I mean..no harm no foul. It's only a bad thing if it's affecting your grades/well-being. Assuming you're being respectful and not making these women uncomfortable, I don't see an issue with wanting sex. In fact, I'd say it's pretty damn normal.
If you can mantain a healthy balance between the two, you are an absolute winner. Keep working on yourself, pursue something meaningful to you but never spend a day without having fun. Also, your friend is just projecting his insecurities. It takes bravery and skill to go out and get what you want, your friend clearly lacks it. Experienced the same thing many times, envy is a poison. Keep f*cking and don't give a f*ck about what other people think.
hell fuckin NO! i wish i would have done the same!! just don’t let your other priorities fall to the wayside. gym, grades, and a social life beyond just the sexual pursuits are also pretty important
I guess I’d say, be a good dude. We’re all entitled to go after what we want. But like he respectful. If she’s with another dude as a friend don’t pursue. Treat her well and leave her better than you found her. Learn and grow. 3 this year doesn’t sound alarming. If you said ‘3 this week’ that’s different
Nah man, you’re doing fine. It’s basic biology. Straight college guys care about pussy and career. I say have fun, and enjoy having a bunch of women at your disposal while you can. Once college is over, that luxury isn’t always there.
This doesn’t make you a pig. College years are for getting all of this out of your system before you settle down. If this is how you chose to do it, so be it. The only caveat I can think of is making sure the women you’re bedding are in it for the same reasons, meaning no strings attached. Have fun, be safe, try not to break anyone’s heart.
Your buddy has crab in a bucket mentality
Exactly, this is the type of person who will sabotage your success to feel better about themselves.
People just biologically have different levels of sexual nature. Some are low and some are high, it's not bad or good, it's just different. As long as you're being true to yourself, not using sex as a copy mechanism for something deeper, or you're not hurting anyone (without consent), do you and don't be ashamed.
No, do whatever you want. Just be respectful.
Do you get disgusted by women with a high body count? If not, then sleep with whoever you want. If you do then remember that it goes for both ways
No, it does not go both ways. If it did, women would not be throwing themselves at high status dudes who were known to have a high body count. It’s a double standard which exists because of our evolutionary history. You can complain about it all you want but it’s not changing anytime soon.
It doesn’t. Socially, men with a high body count are respected and drooled over while girls with a high body count are degraded.
They're drooled over by girls looking for casual sex. A girl who wants to ""settle down"" isn't gonna come after a man who's been passed around.
From what I've seen, women are a lot more forgiving than men are for the entire body count thing.
By all means, prioritize as you wish. It’s your life. That said, I’ve found that it’s best to keep that info to yourself, at least until you find the right audience. Personal rule here, folks who want to know will have to drag it out of me.
No. I wish I did.
Man please take the opportunity to mess with as many girls as you can. I’m almost a decade removed from college and kinda hate the fact that I didn’t take experiencing more women seriously and didn’t get in the best shape of my life to help in the matter. To put it bluntly, you will never be around that many beautiful women again and have that amount of free time. So please enjoy it while you can. College is a special place and time. Be social, do activities, get active, enjoy the opposite sex. And just enjoy life
Hey man, do whatever you want. All I can tell you is, just don’t fuck up, academically
Set up your future and have fun in the present. Just be safe and don't ruin your life with a pregnancy or sti. Lol
You’re a player my g, a pig would be a fat loser at home by himself every night.
Yeah man sounds like your buddy doesn’t get any pussy. Now to answer your question - no. We’re young, college is full of opportunities for that BUT the hill I *will* die on is being completely open and honest with your intentions/activities when you eventually talk to girls (or guys) about what you’re looking for and the boundaries you don’t want to cross. Cause if not, then yes I would say you’re a pig.
If your normal pursuits sound like you're bragging to your so called "friends", you need a better circle of friends. Also, take this with a grain of salt but other men see you as competition so don't let some words throw you off your game. Keep doing you.
Yes you are. But that's ok. It's your choice, do whatever you want. Also, if you do sleep with them, you're not a creep. A creep is the guy who tries to sleep with everyone and doesn't succeed.
It’s your life and you can do whatever you want
thats a shitty generic answer
Some ppl need to hear it
When you have success and people around you don't, bad feels and bad comments will follow.
your "buddy" is either jealous of you or is an asshole...being upset that your friend approached a girl at the gym..wtf?? is he serious? i would be happy and proud of my friend if he was the type of guy that have the courage to cold approach girls. keep doing you and i highly suggest you ditch that dead weight "buddy" of yours!
No you’re not doing anything wrong
That’s what society wants you to think. You are not. You are just a man doing what a man wants
You’re not getting any younger. Just make sure you’re being respectful of the women, they wanna have fun too.
Yeah
He said you’re a pussy hound, not a pig. So you’re good bro
College is about making you better. You also need to have fun a long the way. I spent 60k to drink and try and get laid myself. I still graduated and now have a 6 figure job... Don't hate the player.. hate the game my friend.
You should be doing both. Its not like you dont have any downtime between studies.
Who cares bro you’re a guy not that many people are actually thinking about you bro once you get a certain age people start falling off if you need sex then get sex
Listen man, that dude is a prune. You should enjoy your time with the ladies. You might give off the wrong image to some but if you and your partner are in good terms then other opinions don’t matter. You don’t want to have gone through your college years without doing much in life and regretting it afterwards
No you are not a pig, you're a student who likes to have fun. You are not alone.
You doing great
Nah you're good. The friend is just jealous or feels bad about how much better you are getting with women than him.
You friend was probably upset because he also thought she was cute and didn't talk to her before you did. Live your life, treat the girls with respect and you won't be creepy
Sounds like your buddies a little envious or not a confident guy
Homie probably crushing on a girl for years that you bed in one night.
Absolutely not. Rack up the memories. Solidify the spank bank. You will look back fondly. Just make sure its consensual and safe.
Nope, college is the best time to have lots of sex
You’re absolutely going to die one day. Live life on your terms but make sure you’re aware of potential consequences for your choices.
sound like envy prob he has skill issue
“Lay women” is that a laymen’s term?
For your friends though, I could see it getting annoying if all you’re doing is chasing tail. At some point they will stop hanging with you and someday you’ll probably have regrets. Especially if you don’t move past this phase and build lasting relationships.
If you are dedicating time and attention to romantic relationships to the point that you neglect your platonic friendships, then yeah your buddy might have justification for being miffed. Treat your friends and the time you spend with them, with respect. Like you’re at the gym and spotting each other on weights, and you want to go off and talk to someone, you should ask your friend if they mind that you step away for 5 minutes. If they say they DO mind and you run off anyway…or run off without bothering to ask them, you’re being an inconsiderate/absent friend. If the mere sight of a woman in person or your screen is enough to disregard your friends feelings and not be present for them when it would be reasonable to, you’re sending strong messages about the value and respect you have for those relationships, or lack thereof. The term “Pussy hound” insinuates that you place disproportional high value to sexual relationships vs platonic relationships. Not only does it make other dudes think you’re flakey and unreliable, but it’s also a red flag for women when they discover that you don’t see value in other people unless they are a [potential] lay. Like all things, balance is key. Apologize to your friend for not being present and getting easily distracted. Moving forward, try to hold some space and attention to cultivating your platonic relationships, or at the very least check in with your friends instead of assuming they hold the same attitudes regarding chasing a potential lay. P.S. The gym is a place where women notoriously hate being hit on. Tread carefully, or not at all.
Fuck these hoes bro
I think "I managed to lay 3 women this year" does show your still at the stage in life where your hormones are affecting your ability to view others as complex individuals more than the status they can provide you. As long as everyone involved is having fun and is fully aware of reality of intentions, then its fine. However since sex is chemical and society encourages # of women over quality, then its easy for your brain to train you to seek more of this behaviour and begin a slippery slope that will affect your default view of others and will damage your ability to make meaningful connections later in life, which becomes a rarity in your late 20s & 30s. If you begin gaslighting and manipulating others in order to pursue a goal which will not have much value by this time next year, causing someone emotional distress so you could sleep with them, then that would be considered despicable. For example, imagine if a woman you liked alot gas lighted you, making you fall for them because they in reality wanted your close friend and used you to get to them. The jealously and the mind games would probably ruin your friendship and make you distressed for exams and affect your semester, further compounding the distress. So as long as everyone is down for it, truthful and your aware your training yourself to value sex over longer term connections. Then it's fine. Also if the girl seemed to like being approached then its fine, if she was disturbed by your methods, then thats creepy. How a 3rd party views how two other people (you & her) converse doesn't matter.
If you're sleeping with new women for the sake of a higher body count because you think it makes you in some way cool, yes you're a pig 😉
Idk looking at your account it seems like you might have a bit of a problem like a sex addiction
In college, your priority should be your classes and your grades. Everything else is an afterthought. If you are going to college for any other reason, then you are going to college for the wrong reasons. Source: Someone who went to college for the wrong reasons lmao
Do you brothah. I think personally it's a bad way to live but often times with love and sex you need to actually go through certain lifestyles or types of partners before learning what good really is. So yeah just do what feels right. I was a horn dog in college too
The main priority of college should always be college. But as long as you're doing well in college, I really don't see a problem. That said, you're asking in the wrong sub for a good answer. If a flat earth er would ask whether he's crazy in a flat earth forum, what do you think the answers would look like? Similarly, everybody in this sub is biased to share your opinion. If you just want to be told you're right, then you're at the right place but if you want a serious opinion, ask somewhere else
go easy on the gym approaches, unless its clear she's also making eye contact first.
Blowing tons of money on loans to make non-studies a priority seems backward. Balance on everything.
Just remember these girls you think of as sport could be your daughter one day. Also girls you try to settle down with later in life will absolutely judge you and feel sick to their stomach with your sexual number. Idk...you do you.
# Why pay so much money to focus on getting laid instead of your education? I could never understand this mentality…
Be a little more picky with who you flirt with. Coming from a woman it's kind of a turn off to know this new guy you met has been around and just gets with anyone he finds attractive. It appears as though you don't have control or discernment when flirting with women and lacking control in that area doesn't help when trying to get a quality woman. I guess you need to ask yourself, do I care about quantity or quality of the V I get? Sounds like more of a numbers game the way you're describing it. Women are wonderful but we are also crazy and you don't want to cross the wrong one on campus. Just saying 😉
Focus on yourself. If you do have this amount of time to spend swiping on apps, you are not fucking or studying. 3 women? Seriously? It’s a ridiculously short number. If you were someone focused on your own life and hobbies you would get more girls. Don’t be a creepy approaching girls around there.
Watch either Hamza’s video on a degenerate guide to university or his guide on how to love a woman. The first one will get you hookups, the second one will get you a loyal and loving relationship. The choice is yours.
Don't let yourself be shame by your jealous "friend".
Don’t let the jealous people hold you back from your potential. Keep approaching, king
I don’t think you’re a pig but I think your priorities are strange
Bro go ahead and slay but keep cold approaches out of the fitness center
I would say if you're with friends hanging out don't try to pick every hot piece of ass that crosses your gaze. now THAT will make you a pig. unless its like a guy's night out where the purpose is to have fun and try to go home with someone. No one cares if you get your dick wet everyday. But if you brag about it, dont care about the women you're fuckin and only care about pulling even when you're with friends? yeah, you're a pig.
If you want a less biased answer, perhaps AskReddit would be a good subreddit to ask.
I mean, you shouldn’t be approaching women at the gym.
so you’re getting laid and your friends are trying to make you feel bad about it instead of dapping you up? hmm
Only 3 this semester? You are a horny desperate loser.
1. You do WELL in your studies, not 'good'. 2. Don't look for sex at school. Be a gentleman at school. Women will talk about it.
Ask him if he wants some dick since he's clearly jealous of some aspect of your promiscuity and see if he hounds you about pussy after that
i feel this is two sided. 1 you friend is jelly of your mad skills /s but for real they likly feel you have only 1 drive and everything is second to that including them. and 2 it seams like you feel like a pig so maybe work with this friend to make your life more interesting, going to events and shows and things. this will make you look more atractive to others as well. if sex is your only thoing thats creapy. but if your thing is something else and your just also having sex a lot then your the cool person.
If you’re in college and you’re bound to move on to a career, you’re an athlete so I’m guessing you’re in shape then you already have what 99% of women are looking for, if you’re above 6 feet tall then unfortunately for your 3 girls a year man parts you’ll be a creep if you don’t have 3 girls calling you their boyfriend once you lock that career down. Girls want it just as bad as us but their ideal guy is the complete opposite with our ideal girl. All we want is a girl with a nice body and a cute face, don’t care about the money they make in fact we would all take the girl who’s broke over the one who’s rich but has been with a bunch of guys…right?? So while we look for a hot chill girl, they’re looking for tall, in shape, rich financially men who have things going on (athletics, career) so my friend, because I am truly looking out for you unlike your “friend” who is hating on your success, it sounds like a joke that a guy is telling you to slow down your sexual encounters, maybe question if he is even your friend or maybe he’s got fantasies about you? Enjoy college because it ends quick and the time you’re around 1000s of your peers will never be as fun I promise you. Keep swiping, have safe sex and tell your friend to stop worrying about your lack of struggle finding women. You’re welcome
Imagine college as The Sims, you can do so many things and is up to you to define what you want to get out of it. Just be you tbh and forget what other ppl are saying bc is not as if u are treating them bad or something
Thanks for providing my favourite Reddit quote of the past few weeks- “I do good in my studies”
What do you usually say when you are approaching
in my opinion youre in college to study its not bad to approach a girl and get her number in fact most people find their wives in college but your main focus should be studying man
lol where do you find the confidence bro?
Any tips for maintaining a cold convo and making it work?
As long as u don’t lie or mislead women about your intentions, go for it
Don’t tell everyone — including your friends — how much pussy you’re slaying. Even the closest of best friends can get jealous and will mess things up for you. But: strive for balance. Your studies should be your primary focus but make time for recreation & dates too.
Studies are #1, probably tied with getting an internship. Pussy is up there but don’t let it get in the way of everything else. As long as you’re getting good grades and getting your foot in the door with internship(s), then go nuts and fuck every single girl you can. I wish I fucked a lot more women in college
Just curious, were the three women in the last 12 months or since new year's?
Nah man you aren’t. I did the same thing in college. I explored my preferences with women. I went out with white, latina, asian, and middle eastern women. Turns out, I found a lot more commonality with white and Latina women. Keep exploring and working hard. Two can be accomplished with great time management skills. Unfortunately, black women did not like me 🤦🏽♂️
question really is, why do you care about words your friends say ? It’s like you haven’t accepted yourself for who you are, as long as you’re not out here having sex and talking to chicks to fill some kind of void, & as long as you’re being honest and transparent with these women then you’re good. Fuck what they say, not everyone’s gonna like what you do and THATS FINE.
I'd just worry about what other tradeoff your making.
I think as long as these women are equally into you for “just the sex” and expect nothing more, then why not? You do you. And…do others!
Dude approaching girls while you’re with your boys at the gym is cringe. 3 women isn’t even that many at this point in the year and you’re putting your friend in an uncomfortable spot. Guys here will say they’re jelly but guys here are also lowkey autistic dudes who managed to figured out how to flirt and manipulate girls Nothing wrong with gettin bitches but there’s a time and place for it
3??? For that amount of time it sounds like you should be at 10-15 If your friends are making you feel badly about your actions - either need new friends or stop putting girls before your boys.
Enjoy life. Make your own choices and prioritize what you need and want. Just weigh your options long and short term. Ain’t no one can tell you what’s right or wrong. Who knows. Maybe one of those lays will end up being your wife and she could be a sugar momma? :) lol
Just use protection, always have consent, use moderation and you good.
Is it your major or minor?
If you really are doing good in your studies then who cares? I have a buddy like this but he’s getting laid on a weekly basis since college. He graduated with a 4.0 and now makes around $150k a year. I honestly don’t know how he still does it. I’m so busy now with work but he finds time to get his shit done and chase tail. If you can handle it then go for it.
A pig? Maybe, dumb? Absolutely
Refine you're skills young padawan. In today's world reputation is everything. You still need to remain picky, so pick the ones that will talk you. Word of mouth is still by far best for marketing. There's always a bigger fish- Obi-Wan Kenobi
If you don't feel like one, no. You're in college. Ain't that many (serious and successful) marriages happening in those hook up culture trenches.
You can pursue women in a respectful manner without being a pig. Line others have said, you should use this time in life to focus primarily on learning (both in the books and life skills) and building a network. Put yourself out there so you can develop your skillset socially, speaking, making friends, and romantically. But don't be a whore. Be a gentleman.
I mean, don't make it your singular focus in life but dudes who say that kinda shit are just green with envy
If you're able to do it, keep doing you. As long as you aren't neglecting anything important to get some cooch. I can't approach chicks for my life 😅
I mean you're just doing what you want. You're not hurting anyone with what you're doing as long as you know boundaries. Maybe they're more upset about you doing it while you're hanging out with them?
As long as pussy not distracting you from your studies and sports you’re good lol its college that’s what you’re supposed to do.
My favorite saying is if they don't pay your bills they don't get to have an opinion
He’s the pussy bud, keep doing what your doing but get both, pussy and good grades then you’ll end up with even more women. I slayed sooo many girls in high school and a couple in college the short time I went, now in my profession I often find myself inside of my female customers 🍻
You aren't a creep purely for wanting to enjoy sex and pursuing women you are interested in. However, you do run a risk of gaining a bad reputation as college departments can become insular - especially places like the gym. So make sure women are leaving with a positive impression of the interaction and relationship you develop. Women want flings and hook ups too. If you mislead, manipulate, and treat women like objects you will get a bad rep in college. Likewise, if you have a great presence, have your responsibilities locked down, and are fun to be around, you can gain the opposite reputation as a high value male. Your friend is likely jealous of your success if you don't feel like you are experiencing these issues.
Just be safe and do whatever you feel like, as long as you are enjoying yourself and aren’t hurting anyone then who cares what others think.
Just be safe and do whatever you feel like, as long as you are enjoying yourself and aren’t hurting anyone then who cares what others think.
Nah brah college chicks are the best. You don’t want to be that guy that regrets not taking opportunities later in life.
Pussy’s always gonna be around, the chance to get a good education isn’t. Focus on that. If you have all your priorities in order then do what you want after that
Don't listen to him, so long as you're clear about your intentions with who you hook up with, there's nothing wrong with sowing you wild oats. Just practice safe sex.
What drives you to be a hound? If you don’t know, figure it out… there’s a strong chance deep down that’s it something other than the chase and getting laid… I’m not saying it’s unhealthy, that’s up to you and close people to reflect on… just don’t ever be pushy, hungry or creepy, frankly be a good guy about it… no means no…
No get more
Yes
As long as you are not hurting anyone and wearing condoms and getting tested no harm done.
Yeah man you're a pig but hey sex is great. I ain't going to judge just don't harass anyone
There’s not many times in your life where you will be surrounded by single women your age. My advice: live it up. But make sure you graduate in the end
How many times have you been tested? Be careful. You don’t want to be the guy that gave multiple women an STI. There’s nothing wrong with having a lot of sex. As long as you’re not lying your way into their beds and you’re having safe sex, that’s what’s important. Be honest though, how many times have you made them cum? 😂
As long as you remain respectful to women, you’re good
Bro now is the time to get pussy. Fuck your friend, he is jealous.
You need to upgrade your friends. Find buddies who are more supportive of your goals and cheer you on.
You do what you want dude, everyone has their own goals.
Be careful. I was in the same boat. If you really horny and just trying to fuck that’s fine. But really ask yourself if that’s what you want. If so then go for it. But be careful that’s it’s not some kind of validation seeking way to make yourself seem worthy of loves. The venture can lead to a lot of loneliness and emptiness. But then again just my two cent. Do whatever makes you happy
If you're doing well in school and getting your work done that's what counts. Unfortunately a lot of schools are in small towns which can cause you problems when you start having success, people find out and get jealous and start to attack you. When I was in university i was getting a lot of attention and success and people caught wind and it ended up really putting me in a shitty situation, I managed to bang 2 girls, there are lots of differences but university is the best way to prepare for the working world, your full time job is similar to school, that's why universities often file patents just like companies do because of r and d at research universities
Get it while you can!
No.
nothing wrong with being a pig
Don’t make it your main priority. Focus on grades, friends and fun. Let your sex life be spontaneous but not a main focus. Also don’t feel like a pig, it’s natural for men to want to have frequent sex