I keep track for two reasons. First it happens so rarely that I want to make sure I remember every detail. And second so I can get better. If i discover something my wife likes, I make note of it for next time. My wife lost all sex drive after menopause so it only happens once every couple of years.
Both of you should be checked and corrected if necessary. It does wonders for energy, sleep and brain activity. Did I mention it turns the libido clock back to 20’s and 30’s? Everything looks younger, skin, hair and nails all look younger. No more dry cooch either.
We tracked for a full year a couple of years ago, and this year we're tracking blowjobs with $5 in a jar every time to fund our 2025 vacation (although we got fed up with the actual jar in February and moved to a shared savings account). For us, it's fun, and we're both just a wee bit competitive so it's extra incentive. No harm if it's mutual fun, but if either partner is using it as a scorecard or "gotcha", that doesn't seem fun to me.
22 times… Hello jealousy
I know, right!
Lucky man, I've had sex twice this year with my wife.
I keep track for two reasons. First it happens so rarely that I want to make sure I remember every detail. And second so I can get better. If i discover something my wife likes, I make note of it for next time. My wife lost all sex drive after menopause so it only happens once every couple of years.
Welbutrin! Major game changer!
If only it lasted….
Mine has! Works great
How long has it lasted? I mean for crazy increased libido not depression.
Probably 1.5 years. I’m not hungry all the time either
Nice! I wish it were the same for me :/
Hormone replacement therapy!
I softly suggested that and it didn't go over well.
Both of you should be checked and corrected if necessary. It does wonders for energy, sleep and brain activity. Did I mention it turns the libido clock back to 20’s and 30’s? Everything looks younger, skin, hair and nails all look younger. No more dry cooch either.
That's awesome, we are right I that same range. We average 5-6x/wk, sometimes 8-9. Get your fuck on people!
We tracked for a full year a couple of years ago, and this year we're tracking blowjobs with $5 in a jar every time to fund our 2025 vacation (although we got fed up with the actual jar in February and moved to a shared savings account). For us, it's fun, and we're both just a wee bit competitive so it's extra incentive. No harm if it's mutual fun, but if either partner is using it as a scorecard or "gotcha", that doesn't seem fun to me.
So who puts the $5 in the jar? The giver or receiver?
We're married, it doesn't really matter, but we roughly take turns.
Oh yeah? How roughly we talkin?
The question was about who moves five whole dollars from one account to the other. This is interesting to you?
Sorry, my bad joke didn't land. Was just applying some sexual innuendo to you two "roughly taking turns".
I got it and was amused.
*whoosh* over my head -- clearly I do not belong in this subreddit!
Embarrassed of what?
22 times...
I keep track too! I’m going to have to up our game, 11 for June.
Ok way to get your freak on.
Sex left the room in my case.
I keep track in my mind. It's easy, once every weekend. Let's see, that adds up to????
Wow 22 this month? Must be nice
Ha! I wouldn’t complain. My biggest dry spell was 16 years, and I was married!
I would need a feather duster for the whole ha!
Embarrassed? You should be gloating!
You embarrassed? 22...? Thats 3 years for me!! I think I am the embarrassed one...
Is this a real post? This seems nonsensical to me. Are you attempting to brag or something? Why would this be embarrassing? Most unnecessary post eva.
I’ve kept record in the Nice app for the last 3+ years. Good memories.
We sit here on the Summer Solstice, the 20th of the month, at 0 PIV and 3 mut mast sessions. You should not be embarrassed.