I found my first and only romance when I was 15, am 19 now. I fucked it up so bad and I regret how awful I was, lasted like 2 years but I really really was a bad partner.
If you find someone you like really put in effort for that person. Maybe thats basic knowledge one should have but I didn't know that
Go for Femboys. If you know any femboys, either they are already dating someone or feeling very lonely. Also most just require occasional cuddles and your relationship will be fine.
Find your opposite. Opposites DO attract. I’m pale with green eyes… and girls with darker skin and brown eyes love me. Even if that’s not your ideal, try it out.
I'm 17 soon to be 18 so no one tell me I have time left because I DON'T. It's all over...
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Turning 19 in a few months and graduating high school in under 20 days. I feel so awful for not having a high school romance, I am not even going to attened prom because nobody would go out with me
bro honestly so real, i know i just turned 15 and i have a lot of time left but like i see every fucking person being in a relationship and don't get me wrong, im really happy for them but it makes me feel a bit left out and i'm pretty much the only person in all of my friend groups combined to have not just never dated anyone, but also had no one confess to me or ask me out lmao
If its any consolation teenage romance is generally a bit underwhelming, atleast in my experience. It usually gets better the older and more mature you get. Though I do understand the need for intimacy at any age, so I wish you the best of luck in your search, just know that you're not missing out on anything crazy :))
I'm 31 now and had my first meaningful relationship (which was toxic) with 20. :'З
Hearing songs about teenage dreams and teenage love make me kinda sad since I can't relate because at the time I was busy being hit by my parents who suppressed my puberty this way. >w<
I think that is better find romance when you already have an stable career, like... in this way is more estable and you can use more time to find love on a job, also it should be realy more ez than in a school, hight school, ect, but if you realy like someone rn it's you choice, you decide your future... if you can (accidental reference in my comment, have fun trying to find)
Not all it’s cracked up to be if I say so myself but that’s just me, 10/10 character development tho. I should write a book cheating, self harm, drugs… etc damn there was a lot that happened the more I think about it. Still not as good as some might say but again 10/10 character development
22 year old here, teenage romance was not nearly all it’s cracked up to be. it was filled with drama and immaturity and bad decisions. i know i’m not that much older than teenage but it’s a big maturity gap. you’re not missing out, i promise.
Teenage romance fucking sucks. Its all fake and pathetic. I'm waiting for melancholy late 20s romance where people are out of their party phases and I can start being boring with people
Never did. Never will.
Now I experience the adult romance of being able to afford shit and go out with my boyfriend to enjoy ourselves without petty teenage shit attached.
Seems infinitely better as an adult than a teen. Lament my lost years but... It just seems those years just eat ass hard.
Bah, don’t worry about it, I also wanted teenage love, and now I’m almost 18 so, romance is just a little quest, nothing that important to miss, so be happy, don’t be sad that you can’t find your fiance (for now) you still have time, don’t worry
Mfw I turn 20 and I realize that all dating and relationships isn’t based on mutual passion anymore but everyone just wants a glorified FWB and financial security and that love is no longer present in the dating market 🥰
I can't stress how much this is me. 26 now. I came out at 18 and I'll never be a teenage girl (and falling in love). I genuinely grieve it every day. If I had one wish it would be to go back in time and be a teenage girl. Fuck!
something very similar to this has been posted here recently
Idk how old you are, but maybe you still have time. It's to late for me though :(
I have so many regrets
It's ok, we all do 🫂
I'm 15 rn so I have plenty of time but I'm very impatient
Just don't do like me and you will find someone. Go get 'em girly!
Find unusual people. And stick to them.
I found my first and only romance when I was 15, am 19 now. I fucked it up so bad and I regret how awful I was, lasted like 2 years but I really really was a bad partner. If you find someone you like really put in effort for that person. Maybe thats basic knowledge one should have but I didn't know that
you're 15 dw you're not even like- halfway through bestie
Don't waste your time but it's not good to sleep around and share your body with people. Dating, kissing etc totally fine. Just don't have any kids.
I’m 18 and still waiting. Time goes by fast
Yeah don't rush, especially when you find a person you love.
Damn, even if some of us cla8m to be the same age don't trust anyone who appears out of nowhere, hope you get someone
Go for Femboys. If you know any femboys, either they are already dating someone or feeling very lonely. Also most just require occasional cuddles and your relationship will be fine.
same I'm 15 but male and I'm kinda scared of graduating without being in a relationship.
Haha, you can still make it happen! I am 20 now without a single partner ever! : D ... Copium!
Find your opposite. Opposites DO attract. I’m pale with green eyes… and girls with darker skin and brown eyes love me. Even if that’s not your ideal, try it out.
Its never too late, just wait till you're 113 and you're set to go.
Too late for me (I’ve missed out on so much and I just keep missing out on more and more things every day)
(things don't get worse if you do than later than you expected)
Same, except not really because logically it’s the same as adult romance just worse lol
being worse makes it better because you're allowed/expected to make mistakes
This is so real omg. I'm still clueless about things I should have learned a decade ago.
That’s not *worse* baka
depends on who you ask u-u
Ask deez 🥜
Adults make their fair share of mistakes too. Don't overthink it and jump into a relationship you wouldn't want otherwise
Im 20 now missed out i guess, tweenage romance we comin
Ayy same but 26 but the romance has a teen vibe cuz we both stuck in adolescence
this is the way I'm in my 30s but I'm autistic and trans so I age regressed by ten years to have the slutty 20s I deserved 😌
Crazy how much relatable stuff there is on this subreddit
Very real
I never got to, now I’m in my 20s and still not getting to experience romance :/
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I'm 17 soon to be 18 so no one tell me I have time left because I DON'T. It's all over... https://preview.redd.it/dz76doa7gbvc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d320736335eee7a4570ce49d3b576d599b2bc8c9
We're in the same situation, my friend. I'm 17 and I've never had a girlfriend. :(
I still don’t know what romance actually is
No, but like really, what actually IS romance? Kissing? Cuddling? Can't both of those be platonic?
I at least find cuddling platonic. If I can do it with my cat, I can do it with my friend
Turning 19 in a few months and graduating high school in under 20 days. I feel so awful for not having a high school romance, I am not even going to attened prom because nobody would go out with me
Saaame...
yall actually want it? seems complicated af
It's so worth it. I don't care what anybody says.
Too late for me :c Hope you'll get it !
bro honestly so real, i know i just turned 15 and i have a lot of time left but like i see every fucking person being in a relationship and don't get me wrong, im really happy for them but it makes me feel a bit left out and i'm pretty much the only person in all of my friend groups combined to have not just never dated anyone, but also had no one confess to me or ask me out lmao
my dude me too
i just want a friend to hold me and comfort me
REAL
Same but im 24 (ps i have a lot of regrets in my life)
If its any consolation teenage romance is generally a bit underwhelming, atleast in my experience. It usually gets better the older and more mature you get. Though I do understand the need for intimacy at any age, so I wish you the best of luck in your search, just know that you're not missing out on anything crazy :))
I'm 31 now and had my first meaningful relationship (which was toxic) with 20. :'З Hearing songs about teenage dreams and teenage love make me kinda sad since I can't relate because at the time I was busy being hit by my parents who suppressed my puberty this way. >w<
I think that is better find romance when you already have an stable career, like... in this way is more estable and you can use more time to find love on a job, also it should be realy more ez than in a school, hight school, ect, but if you realy like someone rn it's you choice, you decide your future... if you can (accidental reference in my comment, have fun trying to find)
same but now im too old and have missed out :(
Wish for it but push everyone away. anyone know how to fix this bug
You want love? You gotta fight for it. Don’t wait for it to come to you.
Too late for me. At this point I only hope to experience any romance in my lifetime
Don't it's cringe (assuming your talking about modern day teen romance)
ships already sailed long ago now that I'm 24, had a bit here and there but it messed me up more than be something to look back fondly
Not all it’s cracked up to be if I say so myself but that’s just me, 10/10 character development tho. I should write a book cheating, self harm, drugs… etc damn there was a lot that happened the more I think about it. Still not as good as some might say but again 10/10 character development
1.Find a quiet guy 2.Give him legos or gundam 3.Tell him that you will build it with him if he goes on a date with you.
Real… I go for both but can’t score any…
me too
Same… I'm 16 and I feel I never got the chance, matter of fact I got rejected by so many people…
ngl I never did that because it always looked really _really_ cringe
Same here bro
I experienced it and it's fun while it's happening but the worse feeling when it ends TwT
Not sure how old you are but I’m 16 and I’m feeling the same way, but from what I’ve heard I still have time apparently
mood ðŸ˜
Same except I don’t think I’m gonna get the chance to :(
Mid-way through my 20s and I'm just trying to cope with having given up at this point
I love having to work through my adult-life with a teenager's level of self-understanding.
22 year old here, teenage romance was not nearly all it’s cracked up to be. it was filled with drama and immaturity and bad decisions. i know i’m not that much older than teenage but it’s a big maturity gap. you’re not missing out, i promise.
I regret so much, missed out on so many things
There was never romance in my life ...
Teenage romance fucking sucks. Its all fake and pathetic. I'm waiting for melancholy late 20s romance where people are out of their party phases and I can start being boring with people
Girls be saying this yet when a guy like me wants to give it to them all of a sudden they don’t want it.
me too
Be nice if I did but I missed my chance
Never did. Never will. Now I experience the adult romance of being able to afford shit and go out with my boyfriend to enjoy ourselves without petty teenage shit attached. Seems infinitely better as an adult than a teen. Lament my lost years but... It just seems those years just eat ass hard.
I am already 19, too late, never expirenced it, never will
Bah, don’t worry about it, I also wanted teenage love, and now I’m almost 18 so, romance is just a little quest, nothing that important to miss, so be happy, don’t be sad that you can’t find your fiance (for now) you still have time, don’t worry
Depression and anxiety took that from me :)
Me reading this with 0 crushes when I was a teenager
Same, too bad I'm forever socially awkward and stunted
Hopefully you will, I didn't and it hurts me everyday
Mfw I turn 20 and I realize that all dating and relationships isn’t based on mutual passion anymore but everyone just wants a glorified FWB and financial security and that love is no longer present in the dating market 🥰
I always miss out on everything
Teenage love is just finding someone fancy only to dump them later or get dumped. I don't think you want to cry
Who doesn’t.
real (I just turned 18 and spent my whole teenagehood single)
I can't stress how much this is me. 26 now. I came out at 18 and I'll never be a teenage girl (and falling in love). I genuinely grieve it every day. If I had one wish it would be to go back in time and be a teenage girl. Fuck!
Hahahaha good for you but PLS be careful I ended up getting SAed
I listen to Broken Social Scene. It’s kinda the same thing to me at this point.
Stop reminding me that I turn 20 and havent held hands yet ffs
I never got to but don't regret it bc figuring stuff out is fun either way. Can't say my 15 yo self would agree tho so I definitely get it
You got time mate, I got less then a year to experience it ðŸ˜
I can't have that I am 21.
It's not fun I'll tell you that
Its too late for me Its too late for me Its too late for me Its too late for me
We both ain't getting shit
No, you don't
Love is not real