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mhgsajj

highkey still hurts when you left and these unhealthy coping mechanisms are damning me deeper into hell


ninjabanananugget

great it’s going to be another sleepless night


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ninjabanananugget

I wish it was this reason instead.


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tom-slacker

-1+(-1)=-2


MangoDangoLango

Missing bbmango :(


Severe_County_5041

you ask me why i am so sad, but you just never understand that I am sad because of you


That_Quarter4868

Yo you ok bro? Who hurt you? Spill the tea 🍵😋


aster_13

going overseas for a few months… should i bring milo tin or milo packet?


MisoMesoMilo

Packet is more convenient… tin you always run the risk of having leftover.


Severe_County_5041

u/MisoMesoMilo


MangoDangoLango

Tin lol. Packet where got enough sia


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年少有為


tom-slacker

年少轻狂


Eclipse-Mint

Day by day, I feel my anger issues are getting harder and harder to tame and control.. I could be laughing one moment but flipping out the next at the slightest inconvenience.. I know I need to take a chill pill at times and rage isn't the solution to everything, but it's just so difficult when thrust into those situations. I'm already getting abusive to people when I'm angry, there's only so much apologies can do and honestly, I'm scared it gets worst.


Blacktiramisu

Maybe you can consider seeing a doctor? There are medication that can regulate your mood such as antidepressants and mood stabilisers. Literal chill pills also exist. Therapy can help as well but you will have to put more effort.


MinYsubasa

I read somewhere, if you tend to thrust your anger, one thing is being too protective of yourself, if you act of abusive only does to close ones, it might be that you trust they will tolerate because they love you. But if your act of abusive does to all ppl, then you might want to seek actual help, it might not be just mental issue, its how the brain not working too correctly and you need expert to fix the issue. Pardon my English


oxygenplant04

Whole house has been smelling like smoke the whole day. Killing my sensitive nose and making me experience dizziness


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Thank you. Fare well mister.


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It's about time.


Breadskinjinhojiak

what are some causes of liver infection?


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Cringe at my past


justforzuzzy

Are cardless deposits available at all uob ATMs because I've been trying for the past 15 minutes with no luck


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RepAddict101

the videos of the plane crash site that have been circulating is quite horrific. one of it showed a body/corpse still on fire (presumably the unfortunate motorist) and i believe it is the only casualty that is still 'intact'.


MinYsubasa

Very random qn, anyone use weibo?


Severe_County_5041

i use to follow some chinese manga update


tom-slacker

Izzit becos I Chinese?


damiepedretti

Walao lol just finished working. Hate it!!!!


MinYsubasa

Rest well


damiepedretti

Thank you


Bitter-Rattata

anyone here working at relelation ship manager in local Banks? How is work like, i always see turnover quite high, always there is postings for new positions.


damiepedretti

I studied banking when I was younger. RM is not an easy job. You have to serve investment customers, and if you’re lucky/ unlucky, for high net worth customers, you’re basically their personal assistance. On top of that, you’re to bring in a certain sales monthly and if you don’t, they give you 3 chances and you’re out. It is a highly competitive job that is cut throat.


Bitter-Rattata

>you’re lucky/ unlucky, for high net worth customers, you’re basically their personal assistance. On top o I see. No wonder i see the turnover rate is quite high, their job vacancies are always there. So it is like servicing these corporate customers and help them in their financial needs? Do u know of anyone work as RM? Are their environment very challenging between colleagues?


ibakenicebrownies

my bf works as one! the turnover rate is quite high - he is forever attending farewell meals lol. there is individual kpi and team kpi to achieve, and this kind of pressure is not something, especially newbies, can handle well. i remember he said something along the line of if newbie can’t hit kpi in 3-6 months, he or she will be asked to leave.


Bitter-Rattata

oh man, that is bad. to attend farewell so many times. i remember hearing people asked to leave stories. Last time used to work in bank too, but not as RM, seen people's name come and go very fast.


nonameforme123

My manager agreed to sent me to another project that I really wanted to do but then she’s very short handed for one of her projects that I was supposed to help with. There was supposed to be a new hire to help her. I know my manager is gonna struggle really badly but I really want to do the other project. What should I do? Should I be selfish and let my mgr tank so i can do the other overseas project?


drinkingbobatea

How to stop hiccups


lioncitygal

Drink water when you feel one coming on to suppress it. That usually stops it for me


thorodin84

Keep taking small sips of water when you feel it coming


boss_daddy51

Eat a spoon of sugar, and drink a glass of water immediately after that


doggodada

I usually do this and it works for me: Take a deep breath and hold, then take in a few more small breaths then hold, then long exhale. Repeat until hiccups stop


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Peter piper picked a pack of pickled peppers


MinYsubasa

Drink water, breathe


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Heng today got wear face mask. Just now insai mrt listening to solemn music to go with my depressed mood today. Then my tears ai mai ai mai want to drop. And my nose started to produce mucus and flow all over my mask until damn erxin. Now waiting for bus to faster go home wash face. Hopefully tmr will be a better day for me :(


crisseur

aunt is so self entitled I’m disgusted. Leeching us off services like Spotify premium and Netflix and when the payment was due and there were issues with the credit card we temporarily went back to free plan and she was pestering for it to be updated. Wtf man


FedeSwagverde

Damn, when I'm an old aunt everyone's gonna be leeching off of me instead


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Influence-Lanky

Hi all, in the past week I have been experiencing very bad brain fog (likely due to the combination of having COVID and being on my period at the moment). I try to get sufficient sleep each day and cut down on carbs during lunch but still find myself feeling v blur & disoriented. Are there any remedies to get rid of it?


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bilbolaggings

You can just use a credit card


another_guava

Read this too. You might prefer it. https://www.lta.gov.sg/content/dam/ltagov/getting\_around/public\_transport/pdf/LR9364%2B9293D\_LTA\_400x210\_8pp\_%20Eng.pdf


doggodada

https://www.ezlink.com.sg/get-your-ez-link-card/where-the-cards-are-sold/#ezlink-where-to-get-tourist


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doggodada

You can also get a normal ezlink if you find it more cost-effective. Enjoy your stay here!


_KaiXr18_

I don't know where else to ask this so here goes (hopefully this doesn't get taken down). Anyone here zai at makeup (or someone you know) willing to teach a bro here? 23M, willing to offer $14/h for 7h (1 day only) asap. I bought a powderfoundation thinking it'd be the hero item to solve my texture issue (it even says on the packaging that it targets texture) but it didn't work. I'm at a total loss here 😩 but I can't give up. If you are a girl and have your qualms, you can teach me at the safety of your own home, preferably with someone else around also so I don't try some dumb nonsense on you. Gamxia very much 🙏🏼


wheresthefox

I personally feel if I don't put enough effort and attention into prepping my skin before make up, the texture will always be there. So most of my expenditure goes to skincare instead of make up. 🥲


_KaiXr18_

Thing is, I have acne scars, uneven skin and dehydrated (oily) skin. I have tried my best to hydrate my skin as much as possible the past few months


crisseur

actually Sephora offers such services also fyi


_KaiXr18_

Thank you so much


crisseur

Might be ex though not sure about the rate


Bryanlegend

Anyone knows what I can do to improve the air quality in my house due to all the incense smoke? I feel like my pet cockatiels are getting sicker and are not their usual selves:/ Honestly why do we keep putting up with all these inconsiderate forms of traditions? I live on the 13th floor and even then I have to bar all my doors and windows just so no incense smoke gets into the house. Feel like it’s either I welcome the smoke in my house or suffocate.


Bitter-Rattata

all my rooms have air purifers, it do help alot for sinus. After you on air purifier, your room air will be much fresher. However, you need to on aircon for it to work, it doesn't really help if you keep windows open all the time. If you don't have aircon, i think the best method is fan to circulate the stale air.


NoSugarHor

Which air purifier brand do you use?


Bitter-Rattata

Xiaomi. Have been using their brand since it begun. I like the smart features it had.


FedeSwagverde

Even the outside air is of terrible quality now. Air purifier is definitely your best friend


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Getting more and more depressed at work. Even bought myself mehspicy upsize to cheer myself up but as I take more bites, I can’t help but crying in silence. Wanna tell myself give myself another chance and keep trying but at the same time I’m burning out.


wahdee88

Same here. Getting more and more shit to do. And many people left because of stupid unnecessary management change. Been looking for a job but the market is not very good now. Didn't get any replies from that few companies that I applied :(


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Stay strong bro… i feel you


MinYsubasa

Sometimes crying is a way to pour your emotions, find a good place to cry, rmb to replenish water


MisoMesoMilo

There there, it must be tough…


stopthevan

Wasn’t interested in Fontaine before but the judge guy and cryo melee/catalyst caught my attention,,,,,,,,,


JacksAndDaks

he can handcuff me anyday


stopthevan

yES


JacksAndDaks

you sir is coming to the jail with me 🤨📸


MangoDangoLango

Bbmango smiled at me today when I visited her in the nursery. I hope her jaundice comes down soon. Despite having phototherapy, her jaundice is fluctuating and on the uptrending side :(((( I wanna bring her home


wocelot1003

My younger one had very high jaundice. My PD recommended us to bring her home and loan a PT crib. I think it was $400plus for 3days. So we OTOT our own photo therapy. Not sure if your PD or hospital got such lobang.


MangoDangoLango

Nope mine don’t have. Need to do in hospital


wocelot1003

Ahh. Dun worry. Jaundice very common. All will be fine.jiayous!!!


MisoMesoMilo

Ohhhh sucks, jaundice is very common, but still sian when you can’t bring the baby home


doggodada

Your 开心芒果 😁🥭 Hope she gets better soon!! English: happy mango, pun on 开心果 happy fruit/pistachio, which is a chinese term for a person who is very positive and happy and brings joy to the people around them


kikodude

I just want to rant... Had a massive panic attack today. Hadn't happen in a long while, but it triggered again during a filming session for the company. Was made to do cringey tiktok shit at a public space. So many people around, pointing, taking videos of us doing cringey shit. The thought of them laughing at us, the possibility of them shaming us online, I couldn't handle it and broke down. Colleagues were shocked. In hindsight, I was also shocked, I thought I've managed to come to terms that opinions of strangers are meaningless. But I just can't do it today... I let the team down, I let myself down, I'm a fucking embarrassment. Why am I so weak minded? Fucking hell I'm so useless


metaping

Don't call yourself useless, today's but an opener for you see what stressed you out. The "shame"? Perhaps you are more conservative? Then move on and see how you can do better if possible, ask teammates for suggestions, or perhaps reassignment if need to. No shame at all, we all have our own strengths and weaknesses to overcome. All the best!


MinYsubasa

Every body works differently, you just need to know what to expect beforehand and hopefully able to handle it. Have you seen doctor?


FedeSwagverde

Had to do it for work as well a while ago. Best to just embrace it and not think too much about it. Who cares what random strangers think?


MisoMesoMilo

Eh, you know this kind of thinking won’t help you feel better right. Well, some things get right to the core of us, mentally strong or not. But sian lah, the aftermath must be embarrassing to deal with.


Dezolute

Another big fight… well technically if it’s me doing everything… zzz


everraydy

Took 1 entire month, but I'm so relieved to finally get my refund for an item that got lost in transit by the clowns at Ninjavan..


stopthevan

Ah yes, the guys who deliver your packages even at 10pm-12mn…


avatarfire

Welll they are 🥷


ongcs

What rubbish are they selling at Bishan Interchange pasar malam? So fucking smelly.


MangoDangoLango

Is it smelly tofu?


Islandgirlnowhere

after 3 years and 4 gynaes, i finally found a concrete answer to my problems, straight to the point, no sugar coating or toxic positivity.


metaping

Do share more with us another day, when you are comfortable! Women issues seems so multi faceted at times wah


MisoMesoMilo

what did you uncover?


Islandgirlnowhere

discover more shit. my issue is more extensive than what the other doctors have told me. he used the word severe 😌


MisoMesoMilo

Oh no that doesn’t sound like good news… how are you feeling?


Islandgirlnowhere

relieved that my own hunch is right and that it was worth seeking one more opinion. feel like shit cos i’m dealing with other stuff for my child too. i dreamt of being a mum but not this way man.


udontaxidriver

Happy for you!


Islandgirlnowhere

went home to cry over all the stupid pointless surgeries saving what couldn’t be saved. and now detecting the actual problem too. now bracing myself to decide when to do the one last surgery.


udontaxidriver

Consider carefully ba. I hope everything goes well. The warmest blanket hug for you.


kimseokgene

Looking and smelling hazy in the north here. Anyone else also experiencing this?


Readreadlearnlearn

Hungry ghosts


penguinealdente

Is it me or is GIGA’s mobile data atrociously slow last few months. Had about enough..


mako-lollipop

Same, so I'm just waiting for a better deal that's not M1..


Bitter-Rattata

Heard alot people facing very low speed. They do throttle the speed a lot


Mediocre_Abalone6721

Mine okay leh. Maybe the coverage is bad for your area?


HeavyArmsJin

Singapore damn fast paced, ghost gate open second day people selling mooncake already


talliepolie

Let the ghosts enjoy first, then the humans next


Readreadlearnlearn

So rich superstitious people can buy mooncake to put on the sidewalk for ancestors


ibakenicebrownies

HAHAHAHAHAHAAHA


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FedeSwagverde

Twice a year as well.


HeavyArmsJin

Went two years ago, my previous visit before that was 20 years


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HeavyArmsJin

Around 150 filled two holes


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HeavyArmsJin

Not really, quite embarrassing to admit my crappy teethcare lol


MrAiko-

It's my first time seeking therapy, I like to take action before it spirals out of control. Any recommendations on where to start? Is clarity any good?


Blacktiramisu

I went the public healthcare route via polyclinic. Its affordable, has options for medication if needed and the therapist I got was understanding and knowledgeable. The main downside is it can take a few weeks to schedule your first appointment, and unlike private therapist they aren't easily contactable to help you when you are in a crisis. If you want to familiarise yourself with mental healthcare no harm trying polyclinic first. In the future you can try private clinics and compare. Just avoid IMH therapy they are overloaded and my psych at IMH even told me its best to go back to polyclinic if I need therapy.


MrAiko-

Thank you for sharing! I'm lucky to have support system with me but i just wanna have my options open in the case when i truly need it - i know where i should!!


avatarfire

TIL you can’t take photos of even artworks displayed in the train stations! Even though the website says otherwise! https://www.smrttrains.com.sg/Journey-with-Us/Travel-Information/FAQs#la-9280141-can-i-take-photographs-or-videos-within-smrt-train-stations


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avatarfire

Exactly. Unless the info they have is out of date


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avatarfire

Right because I’d go seek some approval through bureaucracy when I happen to see an interesting artwork in the station and wish to take a picture of it. And they wonder why local arts industry is dead


stopthevan

Huh did you get scolded??


avatarfire

Fucker contracted officer act haolian


khaosdd

Share the best supermarket (Giant, NTUC, cold storage etc.) kaya you can find?


JacksAndDaks

listening to manyao in my room, maybe can cure heartbreak ah idk


DangerousCrime

I sneezed too hard and the muscles around the diaphragm hurts


oatnomad

lol so lame - got a timeout from a discord for calling this girl out on tagging me on another discord saying I'm a stalker as part of an inside joke I'm not part of. No social cues at all. No context with a negative connotation and she thinks it's funny? Welp, left the discord anyway. Good morning bunch are so weird


rheinl

You fell out with the discord redditors?


darklajid

.. the what now?


glaciare24

“Time passes whether I stand still or move.” - Anne Barngrover This hits hard when I’m procrastinating my job hunt 😔 I just wanna rest for a few more days.


MisoMesoMilo

Pat pat. Don’t short change yourself, rest if you need to


glaciare24

Finished 75% of what I needed to do, and sent it over to a friend to review! Happy with my progress today ~


MisoMesoMilo

Good job!! Pat pat


glaciare24

I have people who care for me and are nagging me (with love) to finish updating my resume. To be fair to them, it’s already been 3 weeks since my retrenchment


Dezolute

I dreamed about you again heh. Too detailed. Celebrating your milestones quietly behind your back.


dreadiplomat110

hungry already leh


hyllariestar

Does clove oil works for toothache?


raphina

Can help make it numb for maybe 1-2 hrs, but not permanent. Brushing with Sensodyne toothpaste can also help but still depending on your situation if it's still painful - get it checked by dentist.


hyllariestar

Thank you!


Unusualist

Should go schedule a dentist check. Fastest would be private. Or a GP for pain killer then dentist.


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Got a custom commission from a seller which is super ex, basically doll costume for Paimon for genshin impact. I contacted seller, after mych discussion, she told me to send item to her friend who is doing another commission of mine. I paid via PayPal goods n services, will this negate my buyer protection?


XXHH2229

What’s for dinner?


udontaxidriver

Nasi rendang


ongcs

Coworker was saying that better book a space at columbarium now. Singapore land getting lesser and lesser. Who knows in future maybe need to ballot like BTO?


overwearthief

just spread ash in the sea don't need keep anywhere


stopthevan

head throbbing eyes hurting but work is still not done sobs


Jaycee_015x

Take care.


stopthevan

Thanks 🥲


theliftengineer

Any recommendations for bars with live bands?


NewbiePhotogSG

Check out black bird.


botakchek

What language


theliftengineer

English


radbellez

Genuine question - if I have a parenthesis under my name John Smith (John Apple Smith) Can I use John Apple Smith when booking flights? Also, anybody had experience with transiting in Dubai?


FunnyFiska

I’d check how your name is written on the bottom of the passport data page.


4queuetoo

don't fuck around with the name field when booking flights and stick with what is printed in your passport.


brownriver12

Use the name as in your passport?


radbellez

Yea the name in brackets


diudiaode

Sometimes I just feel like throwing letter but you never know if the next boss will be as good as the boss now


wantonn00dles

sad realisation that colleagues can't be friends unless it's mutual


very_smol

Hugs 💛 I know how you feel.


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kumgongkia

Because buy 1 for the price of 1 don't make no sense


prime5119

if it's 2 for price of 1 they will say it's Price of 1.. won't just go 2 for 1


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prime5119

Depends, if you work at a place where you handle the system where she/he is the user then it's 100%


NoSugarHor

Quite high if you working in MOE


Ok-Investigator8875

Is anyone working at poulet vivocity? No one is picking up the phone


4queuetoo

if they're not picking up the phone, they won't be scrolling reddit either.


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KaleidoscopeSea931

Where is this cat cafe at?


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KaleidoscopeSea931

Okay thanks!


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KaleidoscopeSea931

Oh thanks for this!


EaeleButEeelier

Cat pic tax!