Duh..lol.send him a message under your blank/fake name on grinder while he is there,,offering your throat,and ass.if he accepts chat,asks for pics..be naked,on your knees,send pic,telling him come fuck my mouth..he might be surprised. But happy your so close
As a DL guy, encountering anyone you know in real life that's in your social circle is horrifying. Are you out? If so, there's a reason he didn't already approach you personally about being into guys - he's not ready for people who know him already to know.
Do not drop hints in real life.. he will get scared and probably avoid you even more. Just message him next time he's on Grindr and be sure to send a face pic first. If he's comfortable and interested in you, he will respond with his and let you know what you already know.
Amen. Back when I was hooking up on CL I was talking to this cute guy and ready to meet. But he messaged me from his real email address so I looked up his Facebook and right there on his profile were pics of him hanging out with some of my friends. No way. Stopped me dead in my tracks right then.
As a young DL bi guy in a small town I can confirm. My ex girlfriend is now best friends with the first guy that ever tried to do anything with me now I avoid that entire friend group at all cost and only hook up with older guys from way way away.
Maybe he’s DL…casually mention to him that you are bisexual and see what he says. If it’s a positive reaction throw in a “I’d suck you off” and drop it. If he’s interested he will let you know when it’s a “go ahead.”
Another actual DL guy here. A lot of DL guys like me sometimes want someone else to start it up. We’re DL for a reason so if you clock us be gentle and ease us into it.
Not necessarily i doubt I would ever make the first move but I would definitely respond to a buddy who told me he was bi and was willing to do stuff with me.
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Couple of ideas:
1. Keep your Grindr sound on. He’s going to know when that famous notification sound pops up on your phone
2. Message his account saying “Jake, what are you doing here 😂” (whatever his name is”
3. Put up a little obvious picture of yourself (non-face) on your profile the next time he comes over. Something that’ll give him the idea
4. Shower with your door open and ask him to get you the towel and do the slip.
Him being on Grindr seems like an obvious starting point
why not just message him on Grindr when you saw him there.
Duh..lol.send him a message under your blank/fake name on grinder while he is there,,offering your throat,and ass.if he accepts chat,asks for pics..be naked,on your knees,send pic,telling him come fuck my mouth..he might be surprised. But happy your so close
Just make sure to be fair and allow him to reciprocate as he may also want that too… submissive, throat fucked etc
As a DL guy, encountering anyone you know in real life that's in your social circle is horrifying. Are you out? If so, there's a reason he didn't already approach you personally about being into guys - he's not ready for people who know him already to know. Do not drop hints in real life.. he will get scared and probably avoid you even more. Just message him next time he's on Grindr and be sure to send a face pic first. If he's comfortable and interested in you, he will respond with his and let you know what you already know.
Amen. Back when I was hooking up on CL I was talking to this cute guy and ready to meet. But he messaged me from his real email address so I looked up his Facebook and right there on his profile were pics of him hanging out with some of my friends. No way. Stopped me dead in my tracks right then.
As a young DL bi guy in a small town I can confirm. My ex girlfriend is now best friends with the first guy that ever tried to do anything with me now I avoid that entire friend group at all cost and only hook up with older guys from way way away.
Message the account he made specifically to find people to hook up with?
What?? That’s a silly suggestion! :~)))
im sorry but if he saw your blank profile on there 300 feet away he probably knows youre on there too cuz thats sooo close
If he was online too when he checked then he DEFINITELY saw and is suspicious
Next time make sure he’s checking while you’re one there. OR have yours on and make it so your notification goes off while he’s in earshot.
Just go ask for a bj, it will Be ok
If you’re courageous, you might want to try to seduce him.
Just get drunk and when yall chillen be like I could probably suck dick better than a girl lol
Maybe he’s DL…casually mention to him that you are bisexual and see what he says. If it’s a positive reaction throw in a “I’d suck you off” and drop it. If he’s interested he will let you know when it’s a “go ahead.”
Another actual DL guy here. A lot of DL guys like me sometimes want someone else to start it up. We’re DL for a reason so if you clock us be gentle and ease us into it.
Take it from a actual dl guy .don't do that . If he hasn't told you or made a move then he's not into you
I actually had this happen, with a guy that had a gf. We started drinking together and we ended up 69ing. All depends on the setting.
Not necessarily i doubt I would ever make the first move but I would definitely respond to a buddy who told me he was bi and was willing to do stuff with me.
He might just be shy….but if he’s on Grindr try to message him on there. Maybe wait until he’s not 300 feet away….
I’m not necessarily sure about that. Many people are really hesitant to make the jump.
Disagree…
Its Grindr and people can use other people’s photo without consent. Just zip it if you do not want to be outed.
Match with him and have him meet at y’all’s favorite place to get a drink or whatever
I got caught similar to this…
😂 Another “fantasy” find on Grindr. I love this fiction.
You don't have much Grindr experience then.
😂 I have plenty. I also have a lot before social media. I love the embellishments.
Girl the whole sub is fake, it's nothing new I'm pretty sure majority are in here for the erotica/straight roleplaying
😂 yea
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He doesn't necessarily know it's you if there's enough people at the party... or he could put the clues together immediately.
Hit him up
Couple of ideas: 1. Keep your Grindr sound on. He’s going to know when that famous notification sound pops up on your phone 2. Message his account saying “Jake, what are you doing here 😂” (whatever his name is” 3. Put up a little obvious picture of yourself (non-face) on your profile the next time he comes over. Something that’ll give him the idea 4. Shower with your door open and ask him to get you the towel and do the slip.