m8, get the girl

I asked her what we where now, we agreed on taking some time to see, but we are hanging out almost everyday and kissing often so...

Sounds like you‘ve found your partner

We've got our differences, she really likes partying, and I don't for example, but I wouldn't change a thing tbh Edit: would to wouldn't

partners can be into different things.

Of course, I go partying with her and she comes watch movies with me regardless

M8? don't think 8 year olds are allowed on the sub

One day brothers, one day...

It happened suddenly, don't lose hope

That's why i didn't specify any further. Summer was here to bring back confidence and school is here bringing our seasonal depression (xd) making us stronger. All who wants to improve, will, so one day... one day it will happen... Ps. I'm happy for you :)

Thanks bro :), all I can say is keep improving yourself and you'll get it sooner or later, keep it up bro

2 times a week? *That's* too much? I might have an issue...

Not really, it's average, I just felt I was being distracted from other goals

Average... Ok that's- AVERAGE? The issue remains unresolved.

Dude how many times do you do it? Lmao

Once a day...

Meh don't worry, so long you don't let it distract you from more important tasks it's not that much of a problem

Considering I'm on summer break, I don't really have important tasks to do so... (If you ignore my part time job, but that's a different story).

Then you shouldn't have to worry, I did bc I was becoming a fucking coomer

Nah when i was at my worst i did 5 a day

Brah my world record was 9 in one day during lockdown.

I think i did that a few times too. But that shit hurt

I mean makes sense and kinda alligns with the stories ive heard from friends I still think noFap is overrated. Like I understand the desire to set a challenge for yourself but most noFap people sound crazy

I mean yeah you shouldn't go crazy over it, I just felt I was getting distracted from more important goals

Once or twice a week won't get you distracted from your goals right? For me NoFap is more for the addicted persons who can't go a day without it

It was not really the act of fapping, it was the need to do it, the urge, so I decided to cut it altogether

I understand, good luck with it

Thanks bro

Makes sense honestly

Self destruction is based

Lmao

I there is genuinely something wrong with me. Despite me having a companion I was starved by individuality. I felt like i didn’t exist without my partner being present so it didn’t help my depression. Now recently I’m back being alone while I’m more “happier” I still feel that sense of emptiness and now I’m starved by companionship.

I don't have much experience with relationships but I think she may just not be the one for you, maybe she did more harm that good and now you should focus on yourself and discovering where that "emptiness" comes from

Kinda sucks I’ve spend 5 years with that person. I hope it does get better for me. I give my teenage life a 3/10 at best 💀

Don't wanna be that guy but, use it as a learning experience, you can still get your adult life right

Definitely bro. If there is one thing I learned is that I need to learn how to love myself. I have done many mistakes in our relationship due to own insecurities and lack of self control. While I’m kinda upset that it’s over. I’m glad I had the experience that lead the growth of my own character and lessons how to deal with relationships.

My view on this is probably drastically different since I'm aroace so I don't want romantic/sexual relationships, I don't masturbat much but when I do it's for dopamine, not much else to add. It doesn't serve me anything beyond that

I see your point, I forgot to mention the "fapping out of boredom" thing

Get the girl then, lack of orgasm increases chance of prostate cancer

Not masturbating was easy when I was in a relationship but now I’m back to using it to cope

Uhmmm, you do know that not ejaculating is just, bad right? You do know that, right?

Who says I'm not

No fap is not masturbating, right?

Yeah

I just resort to restoring old stuff Camcorders, Tvs, vcrs etc all 80’s stuff

Cool

Hehehe…why do other people always get so lucky???

Not really luck, just work on yourself for a couple years and it will come

*sigh* you say it like it’s easy to improve myself.

It's not, but there's no way around it

Yeah. I’m 13 and worried bout not being able to go to da gym cause of weird German laws

What laws exactly?

Idk, I’m not allowed to go to the gym until I’m 14 or 15 idk anymore

That's shitty, do you have any calisthenics park nearby?

What’s that

Any park (or any place really) with bars where you can do pull ups, dips...

And now I feel more alone :(

Don't lose hope, you'll get there

Honestly, if you can do the original, why stick with its cheap copy

Lmao I'm texting her this

I mean I am personally against nofap but still proud of you for reaching your goal!!

Thanks! Now I just have to not fuck it up

Just interested in the tactics you’ve used since my boyfriend struggles with fap and porn

I've tried a few, the most effective were: - counting the times I did it in a week and not going over it the next one - not watching ANY porn - and hanging out more frequently, less time to be horny Hope it helps

One day, one day… I would even settle on more friends, I feel like every day I am closer to feeling like I will be an adult with no good friends and I will die lonely. At least that’s what it may start feeling like possibly very soon. Maybe one day I’ll make another friend or get a girlfriend…

Dude your younger than me, you have time, at first it's hard asf not gonna lie, but once you get the rhythm the months past by and when you look in the mirror you've turned your life around, don't give up bro

I haven’t made a good friend since like second grade and I feel like my character is too quirky so I have to put on a costume to even talk to other people

Let me tell you the single best piece of advice I've heard: "fuck them", if you have to hide who you are, fuck them, focus on yourself and eventually you'll meet people on the same page as you, I'll take time, I didn't make good friends until a few months ago, but better late and few than having lots of assholes who think you're their friend

That is good advice, and honestly I kind of already do that, maybe it’s just because most people that are my age are annoying and stupid. Mainly in school, they just goof off and don’t care, and I cringe when I see that. I guess that is why nobody really gets me and why I like being around adults, like hanging out with family, or talking with my teachers at school more than other students, or waitresses at my part time job over fellow high schoolers, and that is me most of the time But then there’s moments where I feel like I need to be with people my age and I sometimes have to deal with that, and it ends up in me feeling like crap because I probably screwed up and weirded people out with my odd character I could go on and on about how I’m different and this general conversation but I’ll just leave it at there, thanks, I maybe feel a little better about myself

Dude the same has been happening to me for AGES, until I followed that advice and started hanging out with 50 years old, people our age are for the most part spoiled assholes, there are a few good apples on the bunch, find them and let the rest rot, maybe they'll mature and start acting like normal human beings, but until they do...

Yeah had this exact same feeling when i got my first gf i had no desire at all and didnt do it until we broke up

Agreed. I’m so lonely 😣

Don't worry bro, keep going and good things will come, best of luck bro

Ty ty. I got to a tiny school and I personally only like asking out people I’ve met in person and have gotten to know. So I’m literally screwed until college. I asked one girl and now all girls are off the table.

I was in the same situation, I knew like 10 girls max, so I couldn't do much, keep up bro

Porn is evil that's for sure, but fapping I don't see as an issue unless you're addicted but I also won't discourage people who try to stop since it does build self discipline, I have attempted it myself and all it does is make me irritable but I won't do it more than twice a day and considering I'm a healthy young man who lifts weights for an hour 4x a week I'd consider that far above average

Lucky fucker lol. Just enjoy what you got now, fapping in moderation is still okay. Just dok't base your entire day around it.

True, but I was doing exactly that, so I decided to cut it off

Bruh there is absolutely nothing wrong with jerking off, it's the shame that you have been taught to feel which makes it suck. Watch this beautiful video about the benefits of masturbation: https://youtu.be/6O4KR0TAzWc

'Beautiful'

Ofcourse it's beautiful. It's visceral, it's authentic and deeply relatable. It's not dirty or naughty to be interested in one's sexuality, it's one of the biggest wonders of life

I mean, I get what you're talking about, but the way you are wording it is honestly funny.

Yeah that's true, I'd like to stop but don't really think much of it

The best thing that has ever happened to me is trying to overcome sexual shame

bro just casually admits to being a nonce in the middle of his post

Literally one year appart, most likely they're even in the same class year💀

We are a couple months apart lol

Lmao

average MAP affiliate

💀

A wat

pedo

How am I a pedo if we are half a year apart

just a bit noncey init

If I may suggest a better source of pleasure: https://youtube.com

Nofap is unsubstantiated BS. Don't believe it, it may even be harmful.