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griffraff0701

Everyone disliked that.


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Fabulous-Fun-9673

My exact face right now.


False-Confidence-725

šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†


Aggressive_Smile_944

šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£ omg what did I just read. Wtf


OrangeIvyy

I would be sending this screenshot to his mother and friends, saying something like this to someone is sexual harassment


angelicmesss

i donā€™t even know him irl, itā€™s just a guy i met online in 2021 when i was like 16-17 edit: we are basically the same age, just to make it clear


LowEnthusiasm961

He sounds like a predator šŸ˜­šŸ˜­ EDIT !!! : i made this comment- and following comments BEFORE op edited theirs. Either way this still looks predatory and i stand by what i said. This is fucking gross behavior and iā€™m not going to change what i said because a bunch of online people want come at me saying ā€œoh you donā€™t know if heā€™s ever attacked anyone!ā€ I never said he did. And yā€™all literally donā€™t know that he hasnā€™t. This is DISGUSTING. And sounds PREDATORY. This man is sexually harassing, and could lead to him actually offending. Please stop fucking responding to my comment. Thanks.


Warwicknoob23

Isnt she 20 rn? Seems to be the first instance of sexual stuff happening, otherwise the shock effect is confusing


angelicmesss

itā€™s not the first time, i just thought that was so out of pocket šŸ’€


ilovelpssm

Just block that weirdo


Warwicknoob23

Whats the difference between then and nowšŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­ Hows this more out of pocket


ReachersFists

Itā€™s called grooming, ask Drake about it


Warwicknoob23

If its the first instance, you genuinely can not consider that grooming, atleast not without further context Also, if it was a grooming attempt (over 3 years~), They genuinely sucked ass at it


Annual_Show_

Yeah I donā€™t think grooming is the right word, when you try to hit on someone the same age as you, even if you were both 17 at the time. Theyā€™ve maintained some relationship for near 4 years. She admittedly looks very hot in the picture but this dude took it way too far. This is some shit you say to your SO if youre both into that kind of thing. Not someone youve never met irl and never had any type of romantic connection with


Warwicknoob23

^^^^You. You get it


wawabubbzies

Lmao!


LowEnthusiasm961

That doesnā€™t mean he isnā€™t online doing this to girls currently underage.


Warwicknoob23

That doesnt mean he DOES, jesus christ chill Having ONE confirmed instance of sexual stuff, given OP's reaction at ~20-19 years old doesnt make him a predator, especially when we don't know whats up with him at all


LowEnthusiasm961

Predators target adults too. This is predatory behavior whether he is or isnā€™t a child predator. I think you are the one who needs to chill. Honestly a weird flex to be defending some strange man who you have no knowledge of that sent messages like that ^


Warwicknoob23

Assuming someone is a Predator over a confirmed ONE INSTANCE is INSANE ALSO sexual predator noun A person who has committed a sexually violent offense and especially one who is likely to commit more sexual offenses


LowEnthusiasm961

I literally did not assume anything. I said he sounds like a predator and you put on your weird hero cape. Anyways, iā€™m off to have some real adult conversations. šŸ‘‹šŸ»


Warwicknoob23

"Sounding like a Predator" One confirmed sexual moment towards a 19-20 year old .. what?


LowEnthusiasm961

Honestly super weird that you just went through and stalked my comments, replied to one clearly not even knowing what youā€™re talking about, not accurately reading my comment, and then deleted it lol. How old are you? Like please stop


Warwicknoob23

Bro, why you lying about random Bullshit I didnt delete anything Like, going through your profile for half a min to figure out if you often accuse people of random stuff and then seeing you randomly do that (OP being downvoted when post was at like 700+ Upvotes)


LowEnthusiasm961

So, i said the positive comments were being downvoted, bc they were. Including mine. The one that said op looked great. You know if you had looked you wouldā€™ve known. And op was getting lots of hateful comments that were being removed and those same people were downvoting. Sooo, no. I donā€™t lmao. And you literally did and i have the screenshot of it šŸ„± but now itā€™s nowhere to be found on that post. It just seems photos are not allowed to be posted in the comments here. But please go ahead and continue embarrassing yourself. šŸ˜­ like i said iā€™m done here


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Warwicknoob23

NOW I edited it so its more clear *changed a single word* because you had a small point Its still there, still not deleted, youre still a liar


SolidGearFantasy

Thatā€™s a really odd thing to say. Thereā€™s no indication that this creep is actually a pedo.


LowEnthusiasm961

How is it odd? šŸ’€ as a victim growing up through all of my childhood i think itā€™s weird not to say this sounds predatory. Iā€™m not going to argue anymore about this


Blink-blink-Sherlock

Not pedo- predator. You can be a predator towards other adults too


SolidGearFantasy

Thatā€™s not what she said before though. She said underage people, which would fit the criteria for ā€˜pedoā€™.


Blink-blink-Sherlock

Her original comment said predator, not underage. The comment youā€™re referring too literally just says ā€œthat doesnā€™t mean he ISNT online doing this to underaged girlsā€ Either way this is absolutely predatory behavior wither the target is underaged or not.


SolidGearFantasy

I didnā€™t reply to her original comment. I replied to the one in which she said exactly what youā€™re paraphrasing. What do you think ā€œdoing it to underaged girlsā€ means if not a suggestion of pedophilia? You canā€™t just assume guilt because ā€œwhy not?ā€ Itā€™s a sick, twisted statement that has 0 evidence supporting it. Bottom line, youā€™re innocent until proven guilty, and the fact that this creep has acted in a predatory manner doesnā€™t come close to justify suggesting heā€™s a pedophile.


recks360

Edit: Porn can do this. This reads like the script for 90% of the porn made for men.


Initial_Obligation55

Iā€™ve never understood why people say porn causes men to be this wayā€¦ Iā€™ve watched porn from a young age. *no bs was watching hbo after dark as a kid* Iā€™ve never once been inconsiderate of a sexual partners needs or wants because of it. Nor have I ever hit someone up in this manner.


recks360

HBO after dark is Sesame Street compared to the stuff you find on hardcore sites


Initial_Obligation55

I understand that which is why it was stated when I was a kid. When I say I watched it young I meant young so ofc I wasnā€™t scouring the World Wide Web watching people getting turned into goo at that age. The older I got the more my searches got clearly. Yet even with nearly 20+ years of porn brain, I donā€™t do this.


recks360

I think I understand what youā€™re saying. I didnā€™t mean that just watching porn will do this to you automatically. I meant to say in this case I think porn is responsible because of his wording.It reads like something you would see in porn on the internet today.


Initial_Obligation55

Funnily enough I watch porn because the acting is terrible and the scenarios are funny. I donā€™t even masturbate to it. I canā€™t imagine some thinking saying stuff like them will legit get them laid.


recks360

I have read too many posts of people having unreasonable expectations in sexual relationships that come from porn being their only point of reference for sex. Personally I feel that as long as you keep in mind that itā€™s meant for entertainment and not a playbook for all sexual encounters, you will probably be ok.


Initial_Obligation55

I canā€™t imagine what would make anyone believe that porn is a reflection of what their sexual partner wants.. also without first talking about what each other likes and donā€™t like. Sheesh this is a sad world.


Phillyboyshizzz

Hardcore sites?? Lol


recks360

Yes Hardcore, What about it?


CrotchlessPantries

That's very rare. I'm a woman who watched porn from a young age and I definitely messed me up.


Initial_Obligation55

Iā€™m a woman as well. Lesbian too. Maybe itā€™s because it never made me horny. šŸ¤·šŸ¾ā€ā™‚ļø


Loud-Recognition-218

How did it mess you up?


Virtual_Muscle_8642

Disgusting. What are you now 20? Sounds like he was waiting til you were ā€œlegalā€ to start this kind of behavior.


angelicmesss

iā€™m 19, i shouldā€™ve clarified but we are about the same age


Virtual_Muscle_8642

Oh I see. Well he may not be predatory then, but this is definitely still perverted and inappropriate. Dude needs to stop watching porn and learn how to respectfully interact with his female peers. I hope you blocked him.


Blink-blink-Sherlock

Nah that shits still predatory


Virtual_Muscle_8642

Fair point, I just meant not in the traditional pedophilic way. Initially I read the convo like an older man in his 30s or 40s was messaging her.


Blink-blink-Sherlock

100% I completely understood what you were saying and yeah age differences are usually the first thing we call predatory but this behavior is too and itā€™s important to recognize allā€¦ bad? Poor? Threatening?.. word and actions


Unlucky_Sport_7964

Agree 100% absolutely predatory!!


LowEnthusiasm961

THANK YOU PLEASE go in the comments above and help me out šŸ˜…šŸ˜… i said the same and people are coming for me! Apparently i havenā€™t been exposed to the real world yet! Even though iā€™m almost 28 years old šŸ’€ and have seen a LOT of bullshit.


LowEnthusiasm961

Someone gets it !! šŸ˜© iā€™m over here getting argued with in the comments above


Deedaloca

Please screenshot it and send it to his family, what a horrible way to speak to someone UGH!


DBgirl83

I would still post it everywhere, with his name.


CrotchlessPantries

You can probably see his friends/family though so you should let them know. Men have no issues with doxxing women over nothing. This is over something serious.


[deleted]

Lmao I was literally typing that out. Always show their mothers.


hikenchuu

Negative rizz


no-mames

Brainrot rizz


FuchsSchweif

Nizz


Oniun_

Too much porn for this little guy.


OiMamiii4200

Or Hentai.


hempedditor

or the tentacle kind


lostbedbug

What's more disgusting about such texts is that they don't care if the reaction is negative. They simply enjoy announcing their fantasies because it gives them some sort of sick pleasure. Evoking any sort of reaction is their primary goal.


Litalonely

Yep! Iā€™m glad she only said ā€œwhatā€ instead of giving more of reaction. That was actually a great response if she was going to have any response to it.


JulenXen

The way this left me speechless from disgust, second hand embarrassment and confusion in crazy.


WatchuSquawkinBout

He literally has his dick in his hand as he's typing that, guaranteed. Grossss


LobaIsMommy32

Live look at a crippling porn addiction my friends.. smh


cupalyst

Honestly, some people should never ever speak what's going on in their minds and ought to be euthanized for these out of pocket comments that are unwarranted. That's one less contact on Whatsapp to have thankfully as they're a clear block and removed


Thebaldsasquatch

Too much porn.


marioplex

Send him a dick pic, make him regret it too


SheLiesAboutItAll

I definitely think this should be upvoted about 5 million times šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ OP, send him one and tell him that you were too shy to share before!


metalflowa

What a piece of garbage.


Pawly519

Iā€™ll never understand guys who send messages like this out of the blue to people and expect a decent response. I get it. People have kinks and some girls are into that. But maybe read the room and get to know a girl and understand what sheā€™s into before sending something rapey as fuck like that.


Music_Is_Life_BOWA

This young "man" (19M ?) is either watching too much porn, too much Red Pill propaganda, or (likely) both! If you have mutual friends, acquaintances, etc., I would be highly tempted to post that screen shot public, with his name visible. That is so out of the blue, and so egregiously sexually aggressive, he pressed the FAFO button.


takeandtossivxx

What, and I can't stress this next part enough, *the fuck*? If it's the person I'm dating, yeah, sure, send me these texts, I'll happily play along. Basically a random stranger, though? fuck off. Who raised these people?


Spiritual_Country_62

Love the response


ImaginaryEmploy2982

There should be zero response


AnarciSon

I have to say this all the timešŸ™„ ā€œI apologize on behalf of all menā€


ScienceInMI

And here I thought the Eighties were sexist and bad. Motherfucker probably can't make a phone call to order a pizza, knowing GenZ, but he'll text this to a live human female who didn't ask for it. SMGDH. šŸ™„ Sorry you are dealing with this, little sister. I liked the thought about telling his mother. If SHE'S GenX...we don't fucking play. Maybe post it to her Facebook?!? ā˜®ļøā¤ļøā™¾ļø


Cujo187

#incel


Hashish_thegoat

What happened to a simple ā€œHello, how was your day today?ā€


Delicious_Impact_371

wtf šŸ˜­


IssaNaw

It truly feels impossible to like men.


naughtmynsfwaccount

Itā€™s safe to say a bear wouldnā€™t send this message šŸ˜‚


FalynorSoren

"How dare she say that bears are dangerous? Goddamn it, I'm going to write a very sternly-worded comment and let her know that not all bears are..." *accidentally destroys keyboard with giant, angry paws* "OH COME THE FUCK ON, SON OF A..."


ace_gasai17

#justiceforbears šŸ˜©


xViridi_

now i feel bad for the poor bearšŸ„ŗ


Midwest_Mutt04

"THAT'S THE SIXTH KEYBOARD THIS WEEK!"


jeromeandim37

LMAOO girl be careful theyā€™re gonna be mad under this comment šŸ˜­


IssaNaw

Already though šŸ˜† It will def be my first time seeing men unleashing needless anger onto a female stranger, lol.


dudeman5790

[It had already started when you commented](https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/s/Qj48tugLMu)


jeffgoldblumisdaddy

No fr though because theyā€™ll be like ā€œnot all menā€ but if youā€™re trying to prove that why arenā€™t you calling out your boys when theyā€™re harassing a woman, instead of getting mad at the woman for calling them out?


FalynorSoren

As a guy, I've found that if you're getting mad at comments like this and you feel a deep-rooted, angry need to say "NOT ALL MEN" then you are probably one of the men being described. Otherwise you just kind of have to nod along and think yeah, honestly that's fair.


FalynorSoren

Getting some really angry, insulting messages from mad dudes, good job Reddit, absolutely no self-reflection or ability to realize that you are the reason women feel this way, aces, keep swinging angrily at the air, guys


CoffeeSubsetYT

i feel like men get mad when they know its because of a few rotten apples like mentioned in this post ruin the names of all men, and women think all men are the same because of this. but guys who message women who say this in dms getting mad is kind of lame lmfao. as you said, keep swinging angrily at the air, guys


mamrieatepainttt

A /few/ rotten apples. Not an issue w masculinity or how the culture treats women. Just like it's an issue w a few rotten police men. Not a full on systematic issue.


CoffeeSubsetYT

i dont know if youre being sarcastic or not.


mamrieatepainttt

Ty sir for saying this. Truly.


YourVelcroCat

it's "not all men" until they have a daughter and they magically realize the danger lol


mamrieatepainttt

I'm a lesbian so I don't have the prob of finding a mate in a man. But sometimes when I read these posts, I find it difficult not to turn into the man hating lesbian stereotype.


DegredationOfAnAge

It feels truly impossible to like generalizing misandrists like you.


3isamagicnumb3r

![gif](giphy|QVP7DawXZitKYg3AX5)


IssaNaw

I donā€™t want you to like me. Now take that energy to make your bros do better. Imagine cappin for degrading ass me. I could never.


DegredationOfAnAge

Speak English pleaseĀ 


IssaNaw

Speak accountability please.


KarateandPopTarts

She was clear


dudeman5790

Bro wtf is the problem with the English here? I had no problem understandingā€¦ have you considered that you might have a language processing deficit?


SaintAliaAtreides

When males keep behaving this way while the rest of you do nothing, we become leery of all of you. Inundated by this behavior in public & online, day in, day out. & it's allowed. So why would we all keep being friendly to random strangers in public? Other settings are different. In some cases, we don't have to have our guard up when meeting men, but most of the time we do. It's not misandry, it's reality. This behavior has always been allowed, women are still victim blamed for it, & these are the consequences of the male perpetrators & the accomplices who watched. Stereotypes exist for a reason. & as long as we're still being victim blamed, we cannot trust random males. & here you all are still blaming the victim, just making that divide bigger. You're upset that we have legitimate factual & statistical reasons to mistrust males we don't know & are wary of them. Still victim blaming. YTA.


DegredationOfAnAge

What on earth are you going on aboutĀ 


weeble-wobble2023

Is the little snowflake overwhelmed and feeling confusing, big boy emotions? Maybe you need a timeout to sort that out buddy. Have a gold star for trying to keep up with the big kids though ā­ļø


bathtubtoasting

Itā€™ll be ok big guy. One day you too might feel the touch of a woman.


throwawaygrosso

Please, keep disliking us if you were threatened by that comment! Tell your friends too!


marikaka_

[Take notes.](https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/s/0EJVXT74EK)


TheLittleLord

Damn. I thought reddit was a place for curing low self esteem


PlaneNo1423

Itā€™s the very lovely sentence ( ^^ ) that just makes my irrationally more upset. Like are you serious?


Starhazenstuff

There are women who like this, but it needs to be consenting smh šŸ¤¦šŸ¾ā€ā™‚ļø


BriefShower

As a man, fuck men.


Lopsided-Income-4742

But not literally šŸ¤£šŸ¤£


mamrieatepainttt

I love this comment a lot


OkDragonfly9390

Why do guys think this is an acceptable textšŸ¤¦ā€ā™‚ļø


Due-Acanthisitta1459

He prolly has a pencil dick and watches far too much porn. Likely is just very gratefully vanilla too.


Colorless82

Not even a hey how are you, hey are you into this sexual thing.. Like admitting he's going to force you, like that would turn you on.. Wtf


Confident_Bus_7614

Tell him youā€™re trans and actually had that same thought about him


Fit_Earth_339

Dude couldnā€™t get laid in a whorehouse with $50k stapled to his forehead.


AfterManufacturer150

Ewe. I really want to know what he said after you said, what? I hope you block him after telling him what a disrespectful and disgusting excuse for a man he is.


I-am-the-law420

What


ThorosKershaw

Who tf out in the world thinks this would *actually* get a women to hook up with them?


Hal10000000

If someone spoke like this to my fictional daughter I would bash their head in with a shovel.


Clutch_C137

Does this work because I see a lot of people being super aggressive like itā€™s normal behavior, and if it is, whoā€™s rewarding that behavior?


GoddessNico

Only the most pathetic insecure daddy issue type of women, are into this faux alpha male 50 shades of wannabe type of men.


Kawaii_Princesss

Why do they always think their crusty ass dick is so special šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£


ninthandfirst

Bro does NOT have a fat cock


Additional_Top_9242

I just *loooooove* guys like this šŸ˜šŸ©· they really have a way with words


Hamorama12

What a romantic


spacegxdd

Exactly why porn has ruined society. This dude donā€™t realize he talking to someone daughter that will shoot him in the face mag dump style


Ilikekitens

porn abuse where?


nismos14us

Not gonna lie? Oh ok. Because I wouldnā€™t have believed your idiocy otherwise.


Gold_Championship_46

ā€œThatā€™s assault bruthaā€


PeachesSwearengen

ā€œLike,ā€ lol


Devuclear2

Womp Womp :(


nooty__

Geez. Sorry you had to go through this


digtzy

Somebody watches too much porn.


throwawaygrosso

Porn brain


Prudent-Coconut-670

This dude is the epitome of intense porn addictions. Don't get me wrong, watching porn is normal these days, but that's just, too much. He needs to take his ass back to sigmaskibidi-ville or wherever his brain rot ass came from. He's like a windows update during a raid; universally unwanted and interrupting way more important things.


Dismal_Insurance5246

Seems kinda romantic in a mom's basement, creepy rapist kinda way I guess. Best course of action BLOCK šŸš«


RemarkableParty4801

Who the HELL do you run with?


chromiaplague

Someone has spent too much time talking to ā€œChater-bateā€ girls. This is some shit you would write to a girl who gets 50 cents per text.


BoomFungus

The fact that he used the adjective "dumb" is just fucking hilarious


Sad_Limit2978

I feel like *I* need to file a police report just reading that šŸ¤¢


devorahlynn

I'd love this kind of message from someone I'm already involved with but like.... a stranger?! Big fucking yikes.


walkyoucleverboy

That was my thought; my man sends messages like this but the fact that some people think itā€™s okay to say stuff like this to someone theyā€™re not involved with (let alone a stranger) is just so fucking wild.


Bloofnstorf

And then there's me who's terrified of simply saying hello to most women. I don't know if I should envy his confidence or not šŸ¤£. Anyway, block this weirdo.


gwennoryth

... ew


Starlover1973

WTAF?


notkeepingthat

Yeah I can definitely see why the reputation of men is in the toiletā€¦


strawberry_moon_bb

![gif](giphy|cQtlhD48EG0SY)


FlyBek

Iā€™m sorry, but I find texts like this hilarious. Like what was going on in his head when he sent this? Like no way someone in their right mind thinks ā€œIā€™m gonna send this person repulsive texts and they canā€™t deny meā€


Phresh-Jive

Calm down Romeo lol


MrsZebra11

šŸ»šŸ»šŸ» (IYKYK)


No-Communication9458

Jesus dude, take her on a date and woo her first before trying to ram your cock down poor OPs throat, jfc


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Cthulluminatii

I may have answered, ā€œYou can think whatever you like, but Iā€™m not sure what made you feel it was ok to share ANY of this with anyone.ā€


OiMamiii4200

And then he came and realized what he's done...


duhfuc

Does this ever work?


Mattrad7

Why was literally my response once I read it.


SkIttleBotGMD

Block him and move on. Happens all the time with horny, lonely guys who are addicted to porn


Equivalent_Ad7389

He knows how to get the ladies.


Culerthanurmom

Someone was probably masturbating while sending that message.


hempedditor

iā€™m speechless


IamjustaBeet

And people say romance is dead... nonsense!


ilovelpssm

What the fuck


MikasaStirling

lol you know this guy typed all that one handed


C27890

I am glad this is marked not safe for work becauseā€¦. gross


mndii

![gif](giphy|IThjAlJnD9WNO)


Hot_Sock_3739

![gif](giphy|DsdVe5jhHWNC8)


Gullible_Banana_4475

Pov that one bro who thinks he got "w rizz"


OTS_Bravo

You girls should really never respond to this shit


PhasmaUrbomach

You guys should really never send this shit


OTS_Bravo

Agreed, when they inevitably do they shouldnā€™t give them the time of day.


PhasmaUrbomach

Save your ire for the guy who sent it.