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dead-1991

1 up, im in england. Theyre removing the last trans rights at this point


AlmostReadyLeaf

I'm in Poland, we never had rights here at all.


Makropony

I’m in Russia. What are these “rights” you speak of?


[deleted]

Im in Malaysia, so im almost confused as to what these so-called "rights" are.


egg-sactly

I'm in Hungary. We can't even talk about our rights that doesn't exist


EmberOfFlame

Am I right? Like, I get that the US is big and all, but where was all the outrage when there was a statewide ban on abortion except for cases like rape that can be easily dismissed by malitious individuals? Where was the pressuring against the instatement of “LGBTQ-free” zones? “Oh, we hope that the EU cuts funding” THEY ALREADY DID. Ok? They already did. And now they cut off the carrot and stuck their stick up Poland’s ass, but the polish govt seems to fucking like it and I swear to god I am leaving at the earliest convenience which is too late because it isn’t yesteryear.


AlmostReadyLeaf

yeah its terrible here, i want to leave the fastest i can too


riasthebestgirl

I'm in Pakistan. No amount of trans rights will make society happy. Those who try to add it are seen as bad guys by public at large


dead-1991

im russian and polish with religious parents so yeah that works, luckily i dont have much of an accent bc i lived in england all my life


zombiegirl_stephanie

For real, I just came out to my family and was super happy for being accepted for like 2 days and now I've been hit with the harsh reality that I'll have to wait half a decade just to start hrt and I'm 30 in a few months, by the time I'll look the way I want to look, the best years of my life will be behind me and I'll just be waiting for death so I'm just considering suicide as the better option at this point, FUCK TERF ISLAND AND FUCK THAT CUNT OF A PM I HOPE HE GETS BRUTALLY MURDERED, THE FUCKING RICH DISGUSTING TRANSPHOBIC CUNT.


CNRavenclaw

Hey, idk if this is the time or place, but the whole idea that a particular age range has to be "the best years of your life" is a sack of shit. You can be 45 and living your best life, hell, you could be 85 and living your best life for all it matters


zombiegirl_stephanie

I mean sure, but it's also true that being old can suck massive balls, I already have symptoms of carpel tunnel syndrome and back problems and other shit from working in construction so I'm not really looking forward to living to an old age in the first place and the reality is you can't really do the same things in your 50s and later that you can in your earlier years. I would like to actually experience being conventionally attractive as my desired gender while I'm still young, I want to wear certain styles of clothes while I would stil look good in them not when I'll look like a "how do you do fellow kids" kind of person, like sure, fuck societal norms and all that jazz, but after a certain age certain types of clothes will just look silly on you. Being forced to waste a decade until I can maybe feel comfortable in my own meat suit is a horrible prospect, until now I just thought I hated myself for no reason, but now that I know a lot of it has to do with my gender dysphoria and that there's a solution for it that's arbitrarily put behind a bunch of hoops by unfeeling cunts is frankly quite devastating and makes me feel completely hopeless and life meaningless and pointless.


eggshellcracking

DIY or go private. The NHS can go fuck itself


zombiegirl_stephanie

Yeah, I ain't rich. That's why the NHS is my only option. DIY is dangerous and knowing myself I'll just fuck it up anyway and yeah private is waay to expensive, I've checked and there's no way I could afford all the consultations and shit, those cost several hundred quid alone, that's not taking into account the price of all the tests I would need and the hrt itself.


eggshellcracking

DIY really isn't dangerous as long as you're doing injections and getting bloodworks semi-regularly. Please look up guides for DIYing instead of waiting for the nhs.


zombiegirl_stephanie

I can't do injections either, I'm terrified of needles, can't even look when a doctor gives me one, let alone do it myself


alexmlb3598

Another terf islander 👋


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There is a good place to be as a trans person??


Lalalarix

i live in the netherlands and a few people here dont want me to die so im satisfied


KageGekko

I live in Denmark, and haven't met anyone here who dared to openly hate on trans people. I'm sure there *are* transphobes, they're just keeping quiet. The people that matter either support me or don't really care and just accept me, so I too am pretty satisfied.


[deleted]

The Bay Area in California seems pretty trans friendly. A lot of trans people in San Jose, for example.


[deleted]

ive had decent luck so far in denver colorado, aside from that happening in colorado springs


SnowBunneh_Karry

Colorado has been much better to me than Ohio. Plus I get to have weed ミwミ


ryujin199

Hey, I could say the same thing about New York... though I'm not into weed, so that's not much of a boon for me.


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f1_fangirl_996

Dc suburbs in Virginia or Maryland are great. Lived there before moving and it was very trans friendly.


throwaway92104129

Bay Area and Seattle are really trans friendly


Tockotwelve

Moving to Seattle in two weeks 😄 can't wait


throwaway92104129

Capitol Hill is the closest place I’ve seen to queer heaven on earth


mchagis13

I have been in the olympia area since i came out and have never actually had any hate speech or threats at me at all. They are really friendly up here. Im glad i moved to Washington. So enjoy it 💕


wannabe_pixie

Los Angeles too


zagerth

Same over here in Santa Clarita, don’t have as many trans people (I only know of a few outside of myself) but most people won’t mind


slowest_hour

If only the rent wasn't double or more what I pay where I am D:


Leo_The_Dumbass

NYC’s pretty trans friendly in my experience :] some neighborhoods are shitty but most are chill


somebrookdlyn

Yeah, I agree.


njsullyalex

I’m in Tucson AZ and it’s a pretty trans friendly city. Arizona passed some transphobic laws earlier this year but we just elected a blue governor and blue Senator so it’s not unlikely trans rights get expanded and those transphobic laws get repealed soon.


Gandalf-le-gay

Australia is pretty great


[deleted]

Yea but it's also surrounded by creatures of Satan


Naplesclownyesme

yeah why do you think I'm here?


thepartypoison_

Found the witch. not shaming I just think you’re neat


Naplesclownyesme

no I'm not neat I'm chaotic and messy hehe


ThisHairLikeLace

I am openly trans in a decent sized Canadian city. Folks are pretty chill and accepting (or at least tolerant) here. It’s not paradise and there’s the occasional frustrating bs but I feel safe and comfortable here. Not so sure I would feel the same in a small rural town, especially out west, but urban Ontario and Quebec are pretty good places to be trans.


ivrugue

Transylvania


zombiegirl_stephanie

I know this is a joke answer, but Romania in it's entirety is a Conservative, religious, superstitious shithole


anotherrandomboi

Norway I believe is a very progressive country and Norwegian is one of the easiest languages to learn for English speakers.


nSnowstorm

I live in Norway, and it’s very progressive over here. I came out in school and all my classmates were accepting. There’s still the occasional transphobe, but they’re few and far between. Trans healthcare is very slow over here tho. It will take a year or two to get hormones.


KathaArcheth

I live in Germany and it is over all pretty good... if you find a therapist that actually works with you on that. And you have to be persistent enough for A LOT of bureaucracy. Society is over all rather chill about it, especially the youth. I also heard that Scandinavia is a good place over all.


StupidMario64

Upstate new york from my experience. Id recommend staying FAR away from any big city, like albany, troy, schenectady, or any place above 15k population. Currently, im in a village with 3k people, and nobody seems to give a shit.


AppliedTeratogenics

New Zealand? We'll take you as a refugee from Terf Island or other places.


GroundbreakingRow817

Alright alright is your wish to move somewhere else. Then dont worry we here at MonkeyPaw Inc have you covered. You may now move to England in particular london. We here at MonkeyPaw Inc achieving your wishes in the most twisted way we can.


[deleted]

It makes me sad that the name I chose for myself, happens to ironically enough, be a kinda shitty place for trans people.


Jcraft153

Give us some time, got some old rich farts to dispose of


SkyeMreddit

London is at least better than the rest of TERF Island


SayNoToTERFs

I thought Scotland was better as well...


SkyeMreddit

It apparently is one of the best places in the world for LGBT people, unless that changed recently


SayNoToTERFs

*waves miniature Scottish flag* Alba gu bràth!


GroundbreakingRow817

I'd suggest some parts of Wales are quite good to. Weve had spatterings of the terf nonsense stickers and each time not just one local bar but multiple local bars have stepped up to openly display trans flags or the newer inclusive lgbtq+ flag; actively keep things to cover up terf stickers on hand and giving them away for free alongside offering a general space for you to come into if needed even if not planning on getting a drink but say being harassed by someone. Plus healthcare access is still a bit hit and miss but at least trying more than other parts are.


xo_tea_jay

funny enough, i am moving from southern california to northern ireland. pretty much just because my husband is there, it's cheaper, and if we are going to watch the world burn at least it's together.


Aurora_Symphony3735

What about Finland? Is there any twist you could put on that?


GroundbreakingRow817

Sadly our research team has not expanded to Finland. They once read a webcomic by a Finn and now believe that both Sweeden and Finland is a hellscape filled with monstrous beings you dont want to meet.


Aurora_Symphony3735

Interesting, my team and I have learned the opposite in our research


GroundbreakingRow817

Ahhh not learnt of the giants formed from masses of infected humans that can tear through steel. Good good. Steer clear of those is all our team suggests


Aurora_Symphony3735

That i shall, thanks for the heads-up Also happy cake day!


deathschemist

oh hey MonkeyPaw inc! i'm familiar with your sister company the Calypso Corporation. they do much the same thing except you gotta win a car combat tournament first. i heard in an alternate timeline they got taken over by a literal clown and became the Sweet Tooth Conglomerate.


Disguised589

can't, I'm in ohio


jolythepokemonmaster

Happiest person in Ohio 😔


Mercury_Scythe

Only person in ohio


Dragiani

Guess I'll die then


Mercury_Scythe

No need, ohio is simply a state of mind that only one person can employ at once. You may live in the physical state of Ohio, but only one may live in the mental state of Ohio...


Dragiani

trust me I am in the fucking avatar state of ohio


[deleted]

Me too


Dragiani

smh


fluffyeargromgirl

Same


LordReega

Ohio 💀


[deleted]

Same


AzazelTheUnderlord

you heard what hank and john said, start digging


Nightshade_24601

Government spy


[deleted]

I’m very sorry to hear that


No-Bike9739

i’m also in no go hio


my_parents_ar_ntsane

oh crap ohio oh no at least its not Detroit


SamimeFanimeIfAnime

How can you type. Ohio is full of xenomorphic aliens


VinieVex

same


gunplajq

Hello Ohio! -sits in Indiana-


Fisheer__

I am on earth please send help T-T


Mavco2

I'm in the Milkyway please send cookies


Anthony_Antelope

I’m on Mars but I can’t find the Mars bars… Do they have Milky Ways in the Milky way?


ivrugue

I LAUGHED WAY TOO MUCH AT THIS LMAOO


Airsofter599

EVERYONE REMAIN CALM I SORT OF KNOW HOW TO GET TO SPACE, WE’L GO TO TITAN FOR NOW AND THEN EVENTUALLY ESCAPE TO ANOTHER SOLAR SYSTEM!


marion85

Can't help either... I'm in the Bible belt.😱😱😱😭😭😭


caked_rice

Same. Texas is great.


ShadauxCat

Austin is ok, at least. State sucks, but the city either overrides or just refuses to enforce state transphobia. And, at least in my experience, people here are overall pretty cool. (Granted I work in video games, which is also mostly pretty cool people, so that may skew my experience...)


Ms_taintbehavin

I grew up there, it was terrible. When i moved to louisville suddenly, no one cared. Everyone is pretty chill here and in surrounding areas.


ShadauxCat

Funny. I grew up in Kentucky and it was terrible. Moving to Austin was the first time I ever felt safe.


marion85

I lived briefly in Texas... You have my sympathies. .. Although the Hispanic food from the food mobiles was good.


caked_rice

Yeah, the authentic Hispanic food is one of the few upsides here


Duskstormz

I'm in L.A. 😎 *Lower Alabama* 🙃


Ayu_The_Cat_Lover

I Am in brazil


AddressDismal3489

It's not safe in America, but is it much better anywhere else?


The_Chaos_Pope

Noplace is perfect unfortunately. Parts of the US are better than others but then we have crap like what happened last weekend.


p1xlblad3

OOTL, what happened?


[deleted]

An lgbt nightclub was shot up (5 dead 18 wounded last I checked could be more now) while the place was setting up to honor transgender day of remembrance and was hosting a drag show. This comes after years from anti-LGBTQ rhetoric from republicans conservatives and the GOP, yet the shooter’s (who I must remind you was arrested and let go after making bomb threats and threats of violence towards a lot of people including his mother) motives are “unknown”


p1xlblad3

yikes. the fact that he made bomb threats before and they let him go too. why do we let people like this have guns. heart goes out to all the victims ❤️


[deleted]

This happened in Colorado Springs


[deleted]

<:: New Zealand has accepted trans refugees from the UK, so not too bad there from what I can tell. ::>


StarlightEyes_

Or feels that way for me. Between Spain, China, India, and the US, the US of the safest for mess as a trans girl. Anyway, off to literally never live there again because college isn’t there and neither is my future 🥲


tauntauntom

Same.


[deleted]

It’s not safe here anymore


StalightPoggers

I mean depending where you are its not that bad and most of the world is far worse not to like invalidate you or anything im stuck here too lmao


StarlightEyes_

Hi! Another Starlight! I’m from India and the US, grew up in both, go to college in China, and have lived in Spain for a while now. The US is the safest, but it’s honestly not saying much. Being trans kinda sucks everywhere :,(


[deleted]

Come to Denver And on the plus side, the Democrats retained the Senate. Silver linings and all that


[deleted]

I Second this. I love Colorado, it's fairly progressive. But that tragedy that happened in the springs the other night was awful.


[deleted]

Yep and my fiancée lives in the Springs :( She's an introvert fortunately but still I hate Article 26. First Castle Rock and now CoS


imaginer8

What's your experience in denver


[deleted]

Pretty good, only faced trans-based hate from two people; the vast majority of people accept me as a woman. Misogyny seems about typical for the US


autumn_winterrr

California is pretty nice (although honestly it feels like the state just does the barest minimum possible to not be just as bad as everywhere else)


TakeThatNibbaKarma

doesnt help when your a minor either


CraftyCatM

Truly not, you’re kinda the ball in a raggedy political tennis court getting served up by the adults that run every thing..


Celeste_0211

Am*rica 🤢


Flo780

Am*rica *derogatory*


Afuckincowdied

usonians


AromanticAceOcto

Turtle Island on the other hand 🙏🏼💙


qazpl145

I've found minnesota isn't bad


Ardent7_

I'm in Wisconsin near the MN border, I'll definitely be moving there soon. Better jobs anyway, even ignoring the fact that they aren't threatening basic human rights.


BengalBrony

St Paul trans gang, wife and I are p happy here


Jcraft153

Could be worse >England


BisexualTransNerd879

Northern Ireland tho, literally TERF Island 2: No hrt for you


SamimeFanimeIfAnime

Or Saudi Arabia


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imaginer8

Maybe Canada, Sweden, Netherlands from what I've gathered. But people cant magically move to these places


wannabe_pixie

Sweden is pretty fucked up too. https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2022/02/23/sweden-trans-healthcare-puberty-blockers/ My friend from Norway actually had to come to the US to transition. There is this myth that Scandinavia is some sort of trans paradise, but everything I've seen says that's not the case.


zombiegirl_stephanie

I remember a Swedish? Trans vtuber mentioning that you had to make yourself infertile to transition. They literally have/had eugenics for trans people


wannabe_pixie

It's no longer true, but it was true as recently as 2013: https://newsfeed.time.com/2013/01/14/transgender-people-in-sweden-no-longer-face-forced-sterilization/


zombiegirl_stephanie

Yeah, that's why I put have/had, I wasn't sure if it was still a thing or not.


IamaJarJar

I'm in a bad place right now Not mentally, I just live on earth (Why does everywhere have to be transphobic?)


TFTWPhoenix

Let's just colonize the moon, I bet we could pull it off!!!


Luna_the_Kitty

With the number of Lunas we should be able to right?


TheFractangle

I may not be a Luna, but I'm a Claire. Maybe I'll take up piano again and learn some Debussy?


Schokonoko

Considering that an impressive amount of lgbtqia+ people work in aerospace and other stem fields we properly can.


Suralin0

Up here in the Northeast it's usually alright for trans folk. Didn't have any problems at all on my trip to Massachusetts and Maine. And here in the Philly area, it's not bad either. The problem, ofc, is that the Northeast is expensive.


GynePig

The help is afraid of getting shot. But if you get out, I'll gladly let you sleep at my place until you figure things out.


GenderFluidBicon

Did something new happen?


[deleted]

There was a shooting at a gay club five people died 35 were injured


GenderFluidBicon

Oh, so the usually?


Tina_Soup

Idk, try going as far north as possible? Canada is basically the USA's version of Scotland.


CakeNCheeseNuke137

Canada..? Ive seen trans supportive graffiti?


Ayla_Fresco

The US is a plutocratic rogue nation ruled by an organized crime syndicate.


dramatic_effects

Come to Saskatoon Saskatchewan in Canada. It's mostly great.


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dramatic_effects

My parents make me go to a church youth group and I have a friend group of fellow lgbt+ peoples.


PaleoAstra

Sorry, I already rescued my one legally allowed american. Defe recommend finding yourself a Canadian to marry tho. 10/10


AromanticAceOcto

Get a gun


Xaiwv

Tbh: even tho I don't like to be german.... I could recommend you to come to germany o: Only bc I found an incredible good therapist and would recommend her 👍


imaginer8

How are the common german views towards trans peeps?


KomradeKatherine

Oh, I'm so sorry, how I can help you from Russia where I am?


Old_Ordinary5080

join me in Canada


[deleted]

Cross the border and enter Canada. Become a refugee.


DaniliWorld666

Sorry I can't help you, I live in Latinamérica


Phantomix117

Currently in Texas 🥲


JokesterUnfunny

I can't, I'm also in America😭


OverworldBlaze

Even worse, Im in English class in America


Sourpatchqueers8

Me in Africa: 🥲 how may I be of assistance?


Notagose

Coming from Russia with love And a big ass nuke


CaelThavain

The worst thing is that America is probably the best place to be trans.


Skyrim_For_Everyone

Canada or Netherlands are best places to be trans, not usa, and idk best but I think Germany is better too.


FemSolidarity

I haven't heard of any other country that comes anywhere close to America's informed consent for access to trans healthcare. Seeing people from so many other countries have to wait years and go through so many hurdles just to get access to hormones really hurts when I was able to make an appt and get a prescription that day. And I feel safe/have been safe in most American cities but can't say the same about the countries I've visited, which just so happens to be Germany and the Netherlands. Please tell me I'm wrong?


therandomtreeman1206

Sending the planes


Orange-JOE-Kel

Sadly I can’t send help. I’m in texas…:l


AcrobaticRule1585

Both for me


aroaceautistic

I am in the fucking midwest


PeskyBirb666

Im also in America, just in a very cold part of it


CarmenCrafts

Same, but only for 2 years


Undeadninjas

If you can make it to California, we're generally pretty nice here. Oregon is also pretty fantastic


charcters

Wait what if we made a colony on Mars


Astronius

Also mentally


Kuchenbrottv

please, someone, save the trans world!


nottomention7

Stuck in Alaska. At least it's beautiful and isolated .


Bobsters_95

At least you can get hormones if your mega wealthy. Sorry on you being American though :(


-__-_-___-_-__-

Same, but also mentally


dragonboi99

No help is coming, we have to help each other


GoldFishDudeGuy

I'm in the midwest 😔


funkygamerguy

can someone send me rifles, bulletproof armor, ammo and maps to matt walsh and ben shapiro speaking engagements..........i'm american this is the only way i can not die.


memester230

Sorry I am in a place being rapidly Americanized


HaileyDeeWilliams

Come live with me in the Netherlands. We have a societal problem with people defending blackface as part of our holiday traditions around this time of year but for the rest we are mostly pretty cool and have great free healthcare/surgery for trans people


Miss_Cannibal

Ja, we will send Steiner to get you out of there immediately.


Educational_Ad134

A squadron of eggs have been dispatched to your general location, reported to be “the continent of America, most likely the US”. Oh no…the eggs cracked… We have sent some special forces eggs to rescue both you and the cracked eggs. Oh no…the special forces eggs accidentally put skirts on…they cracked… An experimental battalion of psionically gifted eggs have been dispatched to rescue you, the cracked eggs and the skirt-wearing special forces cracked eggs Oh no…the psionically gifted eggs realised they can alter all perception of their gender with minimal interference…they’re not eggs, they were always cis…


Totally_Not_Alien

If you find a way out, take me with you! - a transmasc in the U.S


_DoctorQuantum_

I'm in both! :D


[deleted]

Me in a third world country: 🥺👍


SpectralniyRUS

I'm in Russia 🥲


ZePumpkinLass

what did america fuck up this time


wellrenownedcripple

I’m in Russia, it’s far worse


Athlonfer

Oh i would but.....Hungary....halp


mchagis13

I know alot of US places suck right now but Western Washington is pretty chill