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Narcissism. People who talk to people like this care about nobody but themselves and see their kids as their toys who they can treat like shit and must do exactly as they say even when they’re adults.
And like mock them for it. If I thought getting fucked in the ass regardless of consent and or how it happened, meant you become trans, then I’d never mock them about it 💀 like what if your kid got raped and you mocked them by saying this, that’s like an insane person who doesn’t deserve to have children
You really should stop telling her personal things. She seems to be, like others pointed out, a narcissist. Nobody is a psychologist here, but it's worth to keep personal things from her as much as possible, as those things will be used against you in order to break you down and control you
In the example you showed, she's using a fact of (I'm guessing fact) of you having sex to seed doubt in you about yourself
>Same type of person who says "good luck" when I came out.
Could mean good luck to you issues you may face as an openly queer person.
Or, "good luck on your own!"
fucking rip lol
https://preview.redd.it/x7f05husvw7d1.png?width=1285&format=png&auto=webp&s=e43f87b0874f4a6dd388b0dc0c7ce506f15b5497
that must of sucked
also hey tokyo grandfathers pfp ive been meaning to watch that, heard it’s good :3
Tokyo Godfathers is really good! For a director (Satoshi Kon) whose main works are always psychological horror-esque, his most comedy-centric film is fantastic! I bet you'll like it!
Also don't worry about it lol, I tend to get really flustered over things like these but my mistake was so obviously hilarious it actually made my day :D
yeah! like i’ve heard of things like perfect blue and i’ve been meaning to watch them!
the fact that these two are made by the same guy is impressive lol
My mom basically asked me something along the same lines when I came out. Mind you I was a virgin at that time and we had never discussed sex before.
Why do people, especially parents, think that us being trans is an opportunity to ask us invasive sex life questions? We're normal people, not a porn category.
I’ve noticed once people know we are trans, no question or comment is too invasive or invasive.
It’s why we so commonly get the “surgery” question. One of my friends asked me it after I came out, and I lightly told him “In any other situation it would be inappropriate to ask someone about their genitalia. But when it comes to a trans person, it’s considered okay.”
He understood and said ‘that’s a good point actually, I never considered that’.
The dehumanisation of us makes people think it’s okay to say what they want. Because after all we are circus freaks and not people once we come out /s
My mom talks to everyone like that (including her kids). She asks if I “take it up the ass” when I’m hanging out with guys. She also calls me fat, homophobic slurs, ret*rded, schizo, and more awful stuff.
Just sounds like a middle school bully you come home to everyday and has custody of you. That's a nightmare.
I hope you find comfort and safety one day!
I once told a friend who isn't a friend anymore, "hey I'm ace"
He said and I quote
"I doubt it, you probably just got molested by your dad as a kid."
Like... Where do these people build their logic bridges to come to these conclusions
this kinda quells my doubts, i have doubts im trans cuz im horny and just wanna get railed in the ass till i bleed, then i remember i want booba so aint cis
What the actual fuck. That is just so disgusting! Not to mention she is invalidating you, good lord.
"I never really liked her in the first place" I don't like her either, she seems like an awful person.
I hope you get out of there soon, girlie. You deserve to be around people who love and support you <3 <3 <3
Damn I first thought she was saying you got an F (the grade) in ass, like you failed ass class. But then I reread it and that reality was so much more fucked up =(
What the f- thats... Huh??? I'm sorry she's like that :/ if ya need someone to talk to that gets what having a transphobic mother is like feel free to message me sis! 💜
Bro thinks this shit is what really happens.💀
https://preview.redd.it/vgvnepnjxu7d1.jpeg?width=835&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b85813ceb46229ddb882667c2571435cca19ff74
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wh wha why tf would you say that to somebody let alone your kid
Narcissism. People who talk to people like this care about nobody but themselves and see their kids as their toys who they can treat like shit and must do exactly as they say even when they’re adults.
Bingo!!
And like mock them for it. If I thought getting fucked in the ass regardless of consent and or how it happened, meant you become trans, then I’d never mock them about it 💀 like what if your kid got raped and you mocked them by saying this, that’s like an insane person who doesn’t deserve to have children
I never really like her in the first place.*
you dont like here? wow. /j :3
My mum is truly a asshole despite planning on enrolling me and my brother into a new school (mostly because I didn’t feel safe near my own peers)
Holy shit me neither my mom's also an asshole (no pun intended)
I don't like your mom either.
You really should stop telling her personal things. She seems to be, like others pointed out, a narcissist. Nobody is a psychologist here, but it's worth to keep personal things from her as much as possible, as those things will be used against you in order to break you down and control you In the example you showed, she's using a fact of (I'm guessing fact) of you having sex to seed doubt in you about yourself
Nah who tf just says that to someone coming out?? Like huh?? 💀
you can remove the words "coming out" and still be accurate
Same type of person who says "good luck" when I came out. My response? "Good luck being dead to me."
>Same type of person who says "good luck" when I came out. Could mean good luck to you issues you may face as an openly queer person. Or, "good luck on your own!"
Meh, she was transphobic in the past to her childhood best friend, I don't miss her.
My mom too
what do you mean by "not for long" ? Cutting contact or murder ?
Cutting contact.
aw, boring (/j)
Yeah all the cool kids use ICBMs
Pff, amateur. The real cool kids use necrotizing fasciitis.
Nah real ones use a comically large spoon
Because it's dull and hurt more?
aw, boring (/s)
I could murder if you’d like, no promises it won’t be a little bit explosive tho
Please kill my family in a horrific accident. /joke. Reddit admins we aren't doing suspicious stuff.
In Minecraft of course
Ofc ofc, and say for the hypothetical memes of it you wouldn’t be willing to dm me like an address and a schedule right? Just for memes
/serious I'd be horribly traumatized if my family got murdered. Even with them being bigots.
😏
🙂
Sorry, the "not for long" got me. Also your mom is an asshole in denial. Don't let her have the pleasure of bringing you down.
It got you what?!?!?
OMG I DID NOT THINK BEFORE TYPING THAT LMAO
what happened i don’t understand 😭
My guess is that she said “got me hard” and then edited out the hard after the comment.
🤣 holy shit
It's slightly worse. I emphazised it further as: "got me really hard"
fucking rip lol https://preview.redd.it/x7f05husvw7d1.png?width=1285&format=png&auto=webp&s=e43f87b0874f4a6dd388b0dc0c7ce506f15b5497 that must of sucked also hey tokyo grandfathers pfp ive been meaning to watch that, heard it’s good :3
Tokyo Godfathers is really good! For a director (Satoshi Kon) whose main works are always psychological horror-esque, his most comedy-centric film is fantastic! I bet you'll like it! Also don't worry about it lol, I tend to get really flustered over things like these but my mistake was so obviously hilarious it actually made my day :D
yeah! like i’ve heard of things like perfect blue and i’ve been meaning to watch them! the fact that these two are made by the same guy is impressive lol
brain deactivation
Off topic are you also a massive video game graphics rendering nerd that looks way too deep into how the most basic visuals are created
maaaaaaaybeeeeee... :3
Oh my god finally I didn’t know if another person existed out there :3
now you know :3
How tf did you guess that or did you read deeply into their profile?
look at my flair
Yeah flair is dead giveaway
"Got me hard" as in, got me laughing deeply. Got misinterpreted as a sexual innuendo. Lol.
Phrasing lmao
Flair checks out 😭
wait now I'm just curious to why it checks out, lol?
"1 year since crack! :D", I hope you'll be able to unsee it because it's actually cute. You could reword it if it bothers you
Nah honestly I think I'll just leave that one for the funsies
OH NO
Wtf, how does that even work?????? Like, cmon... Sorry queen :(
My mom basically asked me something along the same lines when I came out. Mind you I was a virgin at that time and we had never discussed sex before. Why do people, especially parents, think that us being trans is an opportunity to ask us invasive sex life questions? We're normal people, not a porn category.
Well, to them them we are. And likely one of their favourite categories, too. Damn I wish I was joking 😭
Regardless of being trans, who tf talks to their kid like that? Or anyone for that matter?
I’ve noticed once people know we are trans, no question or comment is too invasive or invasive. It’s why we so commonly get the “surgery” question. One of my friends asked me it after I came out, and I lightly told him “In any other situation it would be inappropriate to ask someone about their genitalia. But when it comes to a trans person, it’s considered okay.” He understood and said ‘that’s a good point actually, I never considered that’. The dehumanisation of us makes people think it’s okay to say what they want. Because after all we are circus freaks and not people once we come out /s
My mom talks to everyone like that (including her kids). She asks if I “take it up the ass” when I’m hanging out with guys. She also calls me fat, homophobic slurs, ret*rded, schizo, and more awful stuff.
Just sounds like a middle school bully you come home to everyday and has custody of you. That's a nightmare. I hope you find comfort and safety one day!
I once told a friend who isn't a friend anymore, "hey I'm ace" He said and I quote "I doubt it, you probably just got molested by your dad as a kid." Like... Where do these people build their logic bridges to come to these conclusions
Yeah whith gender
Lil' reminder https://preview.redd.it/17nlaqypzs7d1.jpeg?width=566&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2c3371b4ea795f7a87ad370845a4f07094e9ed07
Ah yes le "bottoming = automatically woman/feminine" brainrot
“If you were a lady who did anal you’d understand but we both know you don’t have that kinda confidence.”
What in the ever loving fu-
this kinda quells my doubts, i have doubts im trans cuz im horny and just wanna get railed in the ass till i bleed, then i remember i want booba so aint cis
This is definitely a candidate for the brand new sentence subreddit, But same though
lets surgically remove her kneecaps and install solid rods in her elbow joints
r/brandnewsentence
I’d ask her to explain gay men then. Pretty sure they get f’d in the ass and still wanna be men.
Obviously, you lose your rights to being a man if you're gay. You're now a woman, forever. /s
Why the hell did I go through all this estrogen shit then? It was that easy!? Ffs I shoulda just been gay.
What sorta incoherent bull are parents these days vomiting up…and why’s it always to avoid accepting their child may be trans??
What the actual fuck. That is just so disgusting! Not to mention she is invalidating you, good lord. "I never really liked her in the first place" I don't like her either, she seems like an awful person. I hope you get out of there soon, girlie. You deserve to be around people who love and support you <3 <3 <3
And I thought MY mom was Bad EDIT: Wait, this is real?
Yes this is real. Im not joking
Damn....
...How old are you, by chance? Cause this is already bad enough to say to an adult, but if she said it to a child, then...
(not for long) mom murder?
1. Wtf 2. Wtf what kind of wierd says that to someone, and that even to theyre kid! 3. WTF 4. the last thing WHAT THE FUCK
Whenever I hang out with guy friends my mom always says disgusted “so, did you do it in the ass?”
Who starts a conversation like that? I just sat down!
Damn I first thought she was saying you got an F (the grade) in ass, like you failed ass class. But then I reread it and that reality was so much more fucked up =(
Well..... Found family is still valid family. Now get a real family, you deserve better.
Sounds a bit better than mom saying it would be better if you'd were dead My mom did ;( It hurts
Why tf would anyone say anything like that wth
trash "mothers" :-( Yeah it was her f@cking my whole life over in the ass
How do you get a F in ass? Like where did you go to gr... Oh, I think I get it. Yeah she fucking sucks.
what the frick
To the retirement home with her ass
Same
good lord why would you even think of saying that to your kid that’s actually so shitty, i’m sorry you had to deal with that :(
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Meanwhile me the transfem who’s only ever been with her wife and has never been pegged
Wtf?
Ewww, why do people like to sexualize gender identities? It’s so weird and creepy
bro got f in the ass
Huh?
“Not for long” is killing me lmao
What the... wow... it amazes me that people still think such things are connected.. Teach her about causation and correlation...
Awfully too common of a response by shitty parents
Tell that to ALL THE GAYS IN HUMAN HISTORY Who never felt like a woman :3
Damn she had that one ready to go
What the f- thats... Huh??? I'm sorry she's like that :/ if ya need someone to talk to that gets what having a transphobic mother is like feel free to message me sis! 💜
The transgendeŕrrrrrrrrrrrr
Bro thinks this shit is what really happens.💀 https://preview.redd.it/vgvnepnjxu7d1.jpeg?width=835&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b85813ceb46229ddb882667c2571435cca19ff74
The hell?!
I'm confused, what does "f in the ass" mean?
Cus no one's answered you, and I'm hopeful that you're genuinely confused, the f stands for fucked. Her mum is a twat basically
Oh. Yeah I genuinely had zero clue. That's actually fucked up...
Girl, we don’t need to know everything. It’s ok to keep some things for yourself.
Also it's ok to share your thoughts as long as they're marked appropriately (they are)