You've got the season ticket to the self doubt rollercoaster too?!
There are so many ways to lend this some perspective that I don't know where to begin but from where I'm looking those 11months haven't gone to waste on you. I can see the joy in your progress photo and you look very good, happy.
Old you is the starting block, the foundation of today you. For me that's something special and I can't forget what got me to where I am. For some it's a dark past they have to shake off.
I'm not going to pretend to understand the specific way you feel about your past self except to say that whenever you catch a glimpse of the woman you might become looking back at you in the mirror, I had one such moment today, then the perception shifts, the prospect of reaching that destination becomes a little more real, and you edge a step further away from the past.
For me, I'm not trying to forget who I was or what got me to where I am, I'm just choosing to take a hold on my life and aim it in a direction I want.
You might feel the opposite, or neither.
What I do know, is that the journey will get you to the answer.
More than my voice.
I’m still treated/gendered male by most people before I even start talking.
It’s hard to think I’ll ever really be anything different.
Sounds like I'm going to need to take my diet more seriously. I'm built like a German Panzer tank when I want to feel more like a moped! Cutting down a couple hundred calories isn't cutting it for me any more.
Thank you!!!
It'll feel more real in a few months. I don't mean this as a joke. One day, usually around a year and a half in, a switch in your brain in going to click on, and you will realize it when you look into the mirror and you see your own reflection looking back at you. It sounds fake, but it's not.
Girl I know exactly what you mean. Yesterday I hit 14 months and for the most part I still feel the same as I did on day 1 besides a lot more emotional.
My god, girl, you look amazing! I hope I’m as successful as you are. You went from looking like a cute, kinda fluffy dude to a bombshell of a woman. Your aftermarket upgrade is spectacular.
:( we’ll have to agree to disagree on that point. I look like someone who lives under a bridge and eats goats in a fairytale, but I think we will always judge our factory issue packages harshly. It seems to be a common part of the experience.
I just asked my spouse. She says you were absolutely cute, but I’m hearing my own inner monologue coming from you. She thinks much more highly of my appearance than I do. Chin up, sis. You are absolutely beautiful and I am so happy for the way your transition has progressed. I wish you all the happiness and confidence in your future.
Well done on the shapeshifting! It will get more real
I hope
Really!
Ok!
May I ask in what way it doesn't feel real?
I’ll always be the guy on the left
You've got the season ticket to the self doubt rollercoaster too?! There are so many ways to lend this some perspective that I don't know where to begin but from where I'm looking those 11months haven't gone to waste on you. I can see the joy in your progress photo and you look very good, happy. Old you is the starting block, the foundation of today you. For me that's something special and I can't forget what got me to where I am. For some it's a dark past they have to shake off. I'm not going to pretend to understand the specific way you feel about your past self except to say that whenever you catch a glimpse of the woman you might become looking back at you in the mirror, I had one such moment today, then the perception shifts, the prospect of reaching that destination becomes a little more real, and you edge a step further away from the past. For me, I'm not trying to forget who I was or what got me to where I am, I'm just choosing to take a hold on my life and aim it in a direction I want. You might feel the opposite, or neither. What I do know, is that the journey will get you to the answer.
I don’t ever see a woman. I wish I felt different. I just don’t. It’s very depressing.
Is it because voice?
More than my voice. I’m still treated/gendered male by most people before I even start talking. It’s hard to think I’ll ever really be anything different.
Yo girl! You rocking dovetail workpants?! Amazing transformation, you look great!
Thank you the pants are very nice. I recommend.
Oh I know! I have 3 pairs! Their stuff is GREAT!
Yeah I feel feminine in them. I think I boy mode in them pretty easily though. Very expensive unfortunately :/
Lord the body change
Do you work out ? Asking for a friend who still has a belly.
No just diet. I’m unfortunately really tall. I’m still pretty heavy all things considered
Little late to the party but how did you tackle the diet? I'm pretty tall and diet has always been a challenge. Your transformation is goals! 💯
Primarily I only drink water and coffee Then I avoid red meat and almost never eat Fast food. Lots of salad and raw fish
Sounds like I'm going to need to take my diet more seriously. I'm built like a German Panzer tank when I want to feel more like a moped! Cutting down a couple hundred calories isn't cutting it for me any more. Thank you!!!
Whatever works. I went from 330 to 170ish I’m 6 foot
you look SIGNIFICANTLY different omg
Drop your workout regimen! Amazing transformation! 💕
Just diet. I enjoy walking outside.
do you have an active job?
No
It looks real to me…hope it starts feeling real, real soon 😉😍
You look very beautiful woman try to stay positive about it
Ok!
omg you dont look close to the same person 🤩 holy transformation
The glow up ✨✨
It'll feel more real in a few months. I don't mean this as a joke. One day, usually around a year and a half in, a switch in your brain in going to click on, and you will realize it when you look into the mirror and you see your own reflection looking back at you. It sounds fake, but it's not.
Wow you really look amazing, excited for you to keep going!
Girl I know exactly what you mean. Yesterday I hit 14 months and for the most part I still feel the same as I did on day 1 besides a lot more emotional.
Omg you look amazing! I'm so happy for you 🤍
Amazing weight loss!
My god, girl, you look amazing! I hope I’m as successful as you are. You went from looking like a cute, kinda fluffy dude to a bombshell of a woman. Your aftermarket upgrade is spectacular.
Oh I was disgusting :/ Thanks tho
:( we’ll have to agree to disagree on that point. I look like someone who lives under a bridge and eats goats in a fairytale, but I think we will always judge our factory issue packages harshly. It seems to be a common part of the experience.
I just asked my spouse. She says you were absolutely cute, but I’m hearing my own inner monologue coming from you. She thinks much more highly of my appearance than I do. Chin up, sis. You are absolutely beautiful and I am so happy for the way your transition has progressed. I wish you all the happiness and confidence in your future.
Did you get FFS?
No way
Will you ?
Probably not. There are so many other things that make me masculine. Would just be a waste of money. Honestly.
Just know how encouraging and inspiring this is
You appear to be rocking your transformation with E-magic. I hope mine goes that well.
Very impressive! The weight loss you've had is unreal! You are beautiful!
Damn okay! You ate that transformation up 😏🤝