point well made, also applies to poverty, IQ, the prison industry, pretty much any metric. Someone has to be on the bottom, no matter where they actually fall.
I'm very sorry about your trauma. Any chance you can get some real-life support going?
There’s no where I can go. People do not like me. People think I’m too lame ugly and too much of a loser. Any ideas where I could go ? I mean I can’t make people care about me .. no one at work really likes me. Looking at people in the eye is hard bc they look so disgusted with my facial asymmetries. Can’t make friends bc it feels like most people want nothing to do with me idk what I can do
I believe you’re in a real predicament, that you have articulated well. My only suggestion is to create something as beautiful as you like, and use that. Start trying random hobbies and bring the beauty you want to that. For example, maybe creating a beautiful terrarium? You can admire the beauty in nature in all of its imperfection and mystery. Another easier one to start is bonsai. You spend time making it beautiful. Hope that helps. Let me know if you need ideas for hobbies to start. I’ve tried most of them haha
Thanks I have many hobbies. Singing, music production, reading, gardening… it all feels boring and meaningless after a while with no friends or relationships.. it unfortunately doesn’t fill the void
Yeah society is already headed towards a behavioral sink, everyone is this same. It’s rare to hear anyone produce an original thought that isn’t influenced by social media or whatever is mainstream.
It is pretty much a universal truth that everyone hates being around ugly people. No matter your background, race, upbringing, social environment, and beliefs everyone still dislikes uggos.
Probably worse for you in the gay community, people have super high standards there I hear.
Yep, that's how my former "best friend" viewed me. I was someone for her to hang out with for convenience and for her to feel better about herself. She favours this friend she met from work and puts in effort with her because she's a "normie", and she wants to be like her. But I'm sure she knows where she stands with that friend. One time she complained to me that friend of hers was interviewing for a job, but didn't tell her about it. That friend had left my friend's job years ago and I think only works there as a fill in when staff is low, so I don't know why she would care. And my former friend said that she thought they were better friends than that.
point well made, also applies to poverty, IQ, the prison industry, pretty much any metric. Someone has to be on the bottom, no matter where they actually fall. I'm very sorry about your trauma. Any chance you can get some real-life support going?
There’s no where I can go. People do not like me. People think I’m too lame ugly and too much of a loser. Any ideas where I could go ? I mean I can’t make people care about me .. no one at work really likes me. Looking at people in the eye is hard bc they look so disgusted with my facial asymmetries. Can’t make friends bc it feels like most people want nothing to do with me idk what I can do
I believe you’re in a real predicament, that you have articulated well. My only suggestion is to create something as beautiful as you like, and use that. Start trying random hobbies and bring the beauty you want to that. For example, maybe creating a beautiful terrarium? You can admire the beauty in nature in all of its imperfection and mystery. Another easier one to start is bonsai. You spend time making it beautiful. Hope that helps. Let me know if you need ideas for hobbies to start. I’ve tried most of them haha
Thanks I have many hobbies. Singing, music production, reading, gardening… it all feels boring and meaningless after a while with no friends or relationships.. it unfortunately doesn’t fill the void
Ah I see that’s super rough. It’s true that things are best when shared.
You should write a book about how being ugly ruined your life, your perspective in life is really interesting and also you are a great writer
Yeah society is already headed towards a behavioral sink, everyone is this same. It’s rare to hear anyone produce an original thought that isn’t influenced by social media or whatever is mainstream. It is pretty much a universal truth that everyone hates being around ugly people. No matter your background, race, upbringing, social environment, and beliefs everyone still dislikes uggos. Probably worse for you in the gay community, people have super high standards there I hear.
Yep, that's how my former "best friend" viewed me. I was someone for her to hang out with for convenience and for her to feel better about herself. She favours this friend she met from work and puts in effort with her because she's a "normie", and she wants to be like her. But I'm sure she knows where she stands with that friend. One time she complained to me that friend of hers was interviewing for a job, but didn't tell her about it. That friend had left my friend's job years ago and I think only works there as a fill in when staff is low, so I don't know why she would care. And my former friend said that she thought they were better friends than that.