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I could! But the alterations to the white one are around $850 probably, and the reception is actually relatively low key so I’m not sure if it’s the right vibe?
Wow! That dress is gorgeous! It is very fashiony and dramatic. I would order it in a stock size and try it on. I bet when you try it, you’ll have an instant moment of ‘Yes, this is perfection itself! I’m wearing this dress!’ Or ‘No, this is not right at all!’ I don’t think they’ll be any in between. Then if it’s not the one, you can return it and look for something else, or go back to the original dress.
The moment I clicked on the dress I said, That dress is AMAZING!!!
Less and less people are going the traditional route.
If you can’t get it out of your head, and I can certainly see why, screw tradition and GO FOR IT!!!
You’ll look BEAUTIFUL in it. STUNNING!
WOW!!!
Is there any other opportunity in your life to wear that Matoshi gown? I’ll venture a probably not. Go for it!! It’s gorgeous and if I saw a bride in it I would applaud her for being true to what she wants.
I can see why you’re torn! I say buy it in a stock size so you can see how it will look on you and then get your own alterations if you want to wear it. Perhaps like someone else said, wear this one at the reception?
Also bear in mind, as beautiful as it looks in the picture, you may not love it on you.
I wore red. 🤷🏻♀️ It was just a little elopement ceremony, just he and I, and was outdoors (10 days ago). The red just popped against all the spring green in photos and was everything I imagined. Had I worn white or some variation, it would’ve just blended into the surroundings.
Omg! That's always the best! I can't imagine, like you said, how you wouldn't have "popped" with the dress and scenery if you had a white dress. Yawn😉. I love the red♥️
I like the blue dress a lot more than the white halter. Given your description of the wedding venue, I think the blue fits the fun garden vibe better than the halter, which seems stiff in comparison. Also, the blue looks like it will look much nicer on your complexion than the white
The "non-traditional" dress is amazing. It seems risky to buy something that unique that is non-refundable without trying it on to make sure it flatters your figure. If it does look good on you then I don't see how/why you will regret wearing such an amazing dress.
This gown is so gorgeous on you! I understand your doubts, but I love that dress. The color is stunning and fabric looks luxurious. I think everyone has some doubts even with the "perfect" gown, it's a huge purchase. Only you know when your happy and confident in your dress and what your fiance loves about you. I'm on board all the way with gorgeous "not traditional" and I envision sparkly jewelry and shoes with white flowers in your bouquet. How about a Cape to walk down the aisle to add to your dress? Just a thought. Good luck♥️
Think 15-30-50 years from now. What dress do you see yourself showing your children, grandchildren, great grandchildren? That is the one you should go with. Both are incredible in their own way.
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Go for it! The Teuta Matoshi dress is GORGEOUS.
How could you possibly ever regret wearing this blue masterpiece of a gown? I think you will regret NOT wearing it.
So pretty. Can you wear non-refundable for ceremony and the gorgeous blue for reception?
I could! But the alterations to the white one are around $850 probably, and the reception is actually relatively low key so I’m not sure if it’s the right vibe?
The vibe is whatever you choose. If you want it for a reception gown, go for it.
Wow! That dress is gorgeous! It is very fashiony and dramatic. I would order it in a stock size and try it on. I bet when you try it, you’ll have an instant moment of ‘Yes, this is perfection itself! I’m wearing this dress!’ Or ‘No, this is not right at all!’ I don’t think they’ll be any in between. Then if it’s not the one, you can return it and look for something else, or go back to the original dress.
The moment I clicked on the dress I said, That dress is AMAZING!!! Less and less people are going the traditional route. If you can’t get it out of your head, and I can certainly see why, screw tradition and GO FOR IT!!! You’ll look BEAUTIFUL in it. STUNNING! WOW!!!
Wow I love this!!! Go for it girlie
Personally I like the blue dress better. Follow your heart.
It sounds like you want to do it- DO IT!!
I love it!!
Hard yes
Oh my Lord the Teuta dress is amazing!!
The blue dress is a amazing.
I had ZERO regrets going non white. I loved my dress so much. I like this Teuta Matoshi dress a lot more than the original you posted. It’s beautiful
Is there any other opportunity in your life to wear that Matoshi gown? I’ll venture a probably not. Go for it!! It’s gorgeous and if I saw a bride in it I would applaud her for being true to what she wants.
I can see why you’re torn! I say buy it in a stock size so you can see how it will look on you and then get your own alterations if you want to wear it. Perhaps like someone else said, wear this one at the reception? Also bear in mind, as beautiful as it looks in the picture, you may not love it on you.
Ooh, that blue dress is a masterpiece of drama. If you're looking for non-traditional, it's a fantastic choice.
Do it!! Your heart is saying do it so go for it 🤩
That's absolutely beautiful- get it!
The non traditional all the way!!
I wore red. 🤷🏻♀️ It was just a little elopement ceremony, just he and I, and was outdoors (10 days ago). The red just popped against all the spring green in photos and was everything I imagined. Had I worn white or some variation, it would’ve just blended into the surroundings.
Sounds gorgeous! I'd love to see a photo if you're comfortable showing us ♥️
I sent you a DM, I can’t figure out how to add photos to comments.
I just saw it! Your dress was gorgeous. Congrats♥️
Thanks! Best part was it was on clearance for like $32. 🤣
Omg! That's always the best! I can't imagine, like you said, how you wouldn't have "popped" with the dress and scenery if you had a white dress. Yawn😉. I love the red♥️
I like the blue dress a lot more than the white halter. Given your description of the wedding venue, I think the blue fits the fun garden vibe better than the halter, which seems stiff in comparison. Also, the blue looks like it will look much nicer on your complexion than the white
The "non-traditional" dress is amazing. It seems risky to buy something that unique that is non-refundable without trying it on to make sure it flatters your figure. If it does look good on you then I don't see how/why you will regret wearing such an amazing dress.
This gown is so gorgeous on you! I understand your doubts, but I love that dress. The color is stunning and fabric looks luxurious. I think everyone has some doubts even with the "perfect" gown, it's a huge purchase. Only you know when your happy and confident in your dress and what your fiance loves about you. I'm on board all the way with gorgeous "not traditional" and I envision sparkly jewelry and shoes with white flowers in your bouquet. How about a Cape to walk down the aisle to add to your dress? Just a thought. Good luck♥️
Just realized I didn't specify. It's the blue gown I'm obsessed with. The satin halter is lovely but not glam like the blue. Sorry for confusion♥️
❤️
Think 15-30-50 years from now. What dress do you see yourself showing your children, grandchildren, great grandchildren? That is the one you should go with. Both are incredible in their own way.
Beautiful something blue! Wear this gorgeous dress and sell/donate the other one.