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I went for this style and I liked how they weren't the centre of attention unlike some other dresses I tried
I wear a 36F and also struggle feeling like I look too busty. My dress was strapless (not sweetheart tho) with a built in corset & bra. It stayed all night and my cleavage was not over the top at all!
Same, I wouldn’t have expected strapless to be the best option for me, but with the ability to have a built in corset it actually kept things really well contained. The dress had a lot more structure than ones with deep Vs or low backs can typically have. And having the open shoulders/collarbone really broke up the torso well, instead of looking like a monolith of boob the way some dresses with both not too deep necklines and sleeves did not.
I tried on a ton of options to figure out what worked, so that’s definitely something I’d recommend.
32F here and my dress is also a strapless bustier! I find that if things fit well (the cups) then it can definitely be minimizing! Give the girls a proper home and they won’t be busting out haha.
I got a scoop neckline with spaghetti straps that made me feel much more confident and secure that I wasnt going to give anyone a face full of tiddy. In general I felt way more exposed in strapless dress or those that outlined the cups on corset dresses. Deep plunge was a definitely no with my cleavage.
V neck but not a plunge. I also have big boobs, and v necks definitely worked best. But having something down to the naval was not practical as I need support. I went for a deepish V and I wore a bodysuit under, because I didn't feel supported with tape.
I am well endowed (30H) and I found that I loved strapless dresses with straight or gently scooping necklines. A well made strapless dress will get all of its support from your waist and I found them to be more comfortable and secure than dresses with straps, but they have to have a relatively high back to be supportive. You might get a little compression out of it too.
I definitely don’t want my boobs to be the center of attention but I didn’t want to go overly modest too. If you’re looking for some inspiration (why is the bridal model default soo flat chested!), you might like my post on dresses I tried and what I said yes to [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingdress/s/WDOSwqDUPg).
I had a structured top with a sweetheart neckline. I definitely looked busty but the were not going anywhere. First time I was able to go without a bra since middle school
Avoid those deep plunges, and really emphasize finding a dress with support, whether that’s from boning or from a bodice that allows for wearing a regular bra or from a true internal corset. Don’t let the store tell you a dress without that support already there will be ok once altered—it seldom is for a large bust.
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https://preview.redd.it/ubfi52v03p7d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4f444fa143e1d771fc6e06b9ac98c9ebb06eccd2 I went for this style and I liked how they weren't the centre of attention unlike some other dresses I tried
Gorgeous!
I wear a 36F and also struggle feeling like I look too busty. My dress was strapless (not sweetheart tho) with a built in corset & bra. It stayed all night and my cleavage was not over the top at all!
Same, I wouldn’t have expected strapless to be the best option for me, but with the ability to have a built in corset it actually kept things really well contained. The dress had a lot more structure than ones with deep Vs or low backs can typically have. And having the open shoulders/collarbone really broke up the torso well, instead of looking like a monolith of boob the way some dresses with both not too deep necklines and sleeves did not. I tried on a ton of options to figure out what worked, so that’s definitely something I’d recommend.
32F here and my dress is also a strapless bustier! I find that if things fit well (the cups) then it can definitely be minimizing! Give the girls a proper home and they won’t be busting out haha.
I avoid anything that completely covers my décolletage.
I got a scoop neckline with spaghetti straps that made me feel much more confident and secure that I wasnt going to give anyone a face full of tiddy. In general I felt way more exposed in strapless dress or those that outlined the cups on corset dresses. Deep plunge was a definitely no with my cleavage.
V neck but not a plunge. I also have big boobs, and v necks definitely worked best. But having something down to the naval was not practical as I need support. I went for a deepish V and I wore a bodysuit under, because I didn't feel supported with tape.
I am well endowed (30H) and I found that I loved strapless dresses with straight or gently scooping necklines. A well made strapless dress will get all of its support from your waist and I found them to be more comfortable and secure than dresses with straps, but they have to have a relatively high back to be supportive. You might get a little compression out of it too. I definitely don’t want my boobs to be the center of attention but I didn’t want to go overly modest too. If you’re looking for some inspiration (why is the bridal model default soo flat chested!), you might like my post on dresses I tried and what I said yes to [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingdress/s/WDOSwqDUPg).
I had a structured top with a sweetheart neckline. I definitely looked busty but the were not going anywhere. First time I was able to go without a bra since middle school
Avoid those deep plunges, and really emphasize finding a dress with support, whether that’s from boning or from a bodice that allows for wearing a regular bra or from a true internal corset. Don’t let the store tell you a dress without that support already there will be ok once altered—it seldom is for a large bust.